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Welcome to Cuddles and Control 🧸✨

Hi pals! It's Bugster & Bugster's baby boy! We’re a 30-something couple sharing a life filled with love, laughter, discipline, and lots'a cuddles. This space is our little corner of the internet where we will explore and document our journey together—part romantic, part kinky, always authentic.

We’re switches, but our dynamic leans primarily MD/LB. You’ll see lots'a nurturing, structure, gentle authority, and playful rebellion… plus stuffies, bedtime routines, rules, rituals, and a whole lotta affection. Power exchange is a big part of what makes us feel close n' connected and we believe there’s power in softness too 🥰

You’ll find posts here about our everyday dynamic, reflections, struggles, giggles, punishments, praise, outfits, routines, favorite baby gear, and the beautifully complex emotional stuff that comes with living a 24/7-ish lifestyle.

Whether you’re new to this world or have been living the lifestyle for years, we hope our blog feels like a cozy, welcoming place 💖

This blog is 18+ only. Minors will be blocked immediately. We will not tolerate racism, homophobia, transphobia, sexism or anything hateful & horrible.

Thanks for stoppin' by! Stay curious. Stay kind. And pls don't forget your paci 🍼

— @bugsterr & @bugstersbabyboy

In true dumb baby fashion, @bugstersbabyboy got all fussy when I tried to change his diaper bcos it was full. About 20 minutes later he leaked all the way UP his onesie while he was sitting down playing his game 🤦🏻‍♀️ Silly lil’ thing lol

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Something that I love n' look forward to every morning is picking out my lil' guy's undies for the day. We'll get up, drink our coffee together n' then he will head off to the gym. During that time, I'll get ready for the day and decide what I'm going to put him in. Depending on what he's got going on, I'll pick either trainers or, if he's been really good, I'll let him wear panties as a lil' treat.

No matter what I pick, he'll always come n' show me after he's showered and put them on. He'll walk into the living room all shy n' cutie and just stand there with a big grin on his sweet lil' face until I notice.

I'll have him come closer and I'll pull the band of his panties back n' check his lil' thingy n' bottom to make sure he did a good job washing up. He always does, but wowieeee it's fun pretending he doesn't :)

When he gets home from work today, I'm going to have a diaper n' a onesie waiting for him...'cos as much as I loooove when he's in panties, he's not quite learned how to keep them dry all day...

...and I'm not sure I'm ever going to teach him :)

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bugsterr

Gonna go torture my lil’ man since he did such a good job filling his diapy 🤭 Look’it the bulk! My goodness!

Wish him luck!

#Meant to post this here!!! Again! 🤦🏻‍♀️

bugsterr

not sorry for mauling you @bugstersbabyboy 🙂‍↕️♥️

#reblogging this here too bcos he’s hot srry I don’t make the rules

Rubbing against mommy’s butt in the kitchen 😈

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I put @bugstersbabyboy in an overnight diaper as soon as he got home from work n’ told him he had to fill it alllll the way before I played with him. He came waddling into the kitchen for dinner n’ look at his progress! He’s such an obedient little thing 🥰

We sat down to eat n’ in between conversation he’d reach down, feel the front of his diaper, give me the most mischievous lil’ grin n’ exclaim “I’m so squishy!”

He is so squishy. And I am so lucky.

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cuddlesandcontrol

meant to post that here oops lol

bugstersbabyboy

Someone woke up super squishy this morning!!!! @bugsterr

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Friday night chilling with mommy!

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This little angel had quite the weekend! I finally let him have big boy sex! Eeeeep! We didn’t take many pictures, but I took this about 20 minutes ago while I was getting him ready for bed 🥰 I love our little quiet moments. Happy Sunday, pals :)

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Watching while mommy cooks! 🧸 🍼

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Can you guess who had an accident n’ woke up with soaked sheets bcos he insisted on sleeping in a full diaper? I’ll give you a hint…it was @bugstersbabyboy 🤭

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Hey! I noticed you mentioned kids in one blog post. How did you navigate this relationship and keep it a secret from them while still maintaining time for play? I’m single and 28 but looking for a long term relationship now and it’s just one of the questions I have

I’ll (🧸🍼) answer this! It’s not really hard! Inconvenient but not difficult. ABDL is a part of our lives, a part of us. We are both parents, friends, daughter/son , aunts/uncles, employees, and a bunch of other things. Being ABDL and a parent just means less play time. We don’t wear or engage in ABDL (except a few small ways like mommy picking my undies everyday) when the kids are around. I couldn’t imagine wanting to with my kids in the house.

It’s all about balance, certain hats for different situations, as is the human experience.

Thanks for the ask!

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Hi it's so nice to see 2 people finding their together for ever partner. Have you ever tried chastity in your power dynamic? It really brought me and my wife that bit closer. And boy is it rewarding when that special time comes 🤤

Hey! Thanks so much for the sweet compliment.

Yes, we have tried/weave chastity throughout our dynamic. My lil' guy has quite a few cages actually. I do not keep him denied long term as that's not something either of us are into (for him - me on the other hand...I'm on month 5 of denial lol). I agree though, the clinginess that comes with chastity & denial is my most favorite part. It is incredibly rewarding as a domme as well. 🐛 ✨

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Daddy did a diapy check n' I sent him this n' he said I had to post it...but I don't think it's thaaaat obvious...right? Bcos I gotta go run errands in a lil' bit n' he said m'not allowed to take it off 🥺 🐛 ✨

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Relaxing after work! 🧸 🍼

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Gave my lil’ man a nice hot bath and stickies. Now he’s diapered & proud of it! 🥰♥️ I’m gonna get diapered in a lil’ bit as well n’ then we’ll snuggle up all nice n’ cozy! Happy Friyay, pals!

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