Cult of Lovers

Exploring and indulging our hungers. A dd/lg love story. We're the highly sensitive type. Please be kind.

[ohdearolive]

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*repeats over and over*

[bombshellssonly]

@w.tch

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Can I get an amen?

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You guys, I showered in the rain today! 💦 Well, I was in a bikini, but I felt clean enough to skip a real shower. 😂 It was cool and refreshing after my workout and Daddy filmed it while goading me to “wash” all my bits. 😏 If the footage is pretty, I’ll post some.

[naughtykittykittykat]

Neediness

As someone who identifies as a little, I feel like my personality brings a lot of “neediness” to a relationship. I need attention, lots of it, I need to be coddled and calmed down, I need someone I can depend on.

I see a lot on tumblr that Daddies encourage their littles to be needy and even like it. I’ve had a couple daddies and have never felt that my neediness was wanted or encouraged. Do other littles have this problem? Daddies out there, do you encourage your littles to be themselves and embrace their neediness?

[cultoflovers]

I’m also a “needy” Little and I’m going to make a wild theory here. One that I don’t think will be very popular. Based on my experience with Daddy, and from watching other people’s lives like a little creepy snoop, it seems like neediness and priorities go hand in hand. Like, the more your neediness is accepted and encouraged by your partner, the higher a priority you are to them. They don’t mind that you take a lot of time and energy and other resources. 

They want to be your whole world. 

If your partner is like “you should be more self-sufficient so you don’t need me as much”, what are they making a higher priority than you? What other thing do they want to pursue that your neediness is “getting in the way of”?

I’m not making any prescriptive statements here. Do whatever you want to do, Little ones. Love who and how you want to love!

Just sayin’ it’s ok to be “needy” in a relationship. If your Caregiver doesn’t encourage that, ask them why. It’s very possible that your Daddy believes that you will be happier and have more options in life if he helps you develop self-reliance. Or maybe he has higher priorities than your relationship. 

One way to find out. Talk about it!

P.S. I just talked to Daddy about all this and he added “I hope all Littles find Caregivers who don’t consider it ‘neediness’, and instead see it as their Little one just adoring their Big.”  

[sweetsthernslut]

[daddybearspicnic]

A nerdy Daddy can always use the force.

[cultoflovers]

Fantasy Confession: I used to be deeply obsessed with Star Wars for years until one day I just didn’t care about it at all. And yet... Darth Vader costumes still make me wet. Sweet baby Jesus, the thought of being bent over Vader’s lap for spanks! ʘ‿ʘ

[sexedplus]

(My girlfriend wanted a post with bunnies.) To be clear: it’s also fine not to have sex, and compulsory sexuality is a problem too, but this post is a response to slut-shaming. For more like this, follow sexedplus or visit sexedplus.com.

[cultoflovers]

Yas, yas, a thousand times YAS!

[nikaalexandra]

another victim to appease the tummy gods

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I wish this happened every single time a person felt the need to “educate” via fat shaming.

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I want everything on this “humane restraint” website. There’s something thrilling/scary/wonderful about institutional restraints. I think the therapeutic aspect gets to me. Like, it’s not just getting tied up cuz that’s fun. Ideally, it’s being restrained to help calm someone down and help them eventually feel better and learn to make better choices. I need that right now.

[listeningtofreddiemercury]

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Plz n thx

[chaaaaaaaaaaaam]

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Princess Cute Supreme, Flowery Jumper Edition

[daddys-babyy-girl]

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Pretty desperately, at this point. *lip tremble*

[cultoflovers]

WHERE DID YOU GET YOUR UNDIES IM IN LOVE

Oh guuuurl them’s custom made! I searched high and low and couldn’t find one cute pair of slut undies so I made em with a stencil and fabric paint. If there’s enough interest, I’ll do a tutorial. And thank you for the kind words! *hugs*

[cultoflovers]

Watching Nickelodeon with Daddy

*commercial plays*

Me: I WANT THAT!!!

*different commercial plays*

Me: Wait, NO! I want THAT!!

*another commercial plays*

Me: DADDY! THAT'S THE ONE I WANT AND NEED!!!!!

*more commercials*

Me: DADDDDYYYYYYYYY

LOLOLOL yes but replace Nickelodeon with Nreboot.com. 90s Nick foreverrrr.

[translucentbitrate]

[cultoflovers]

Yes! Love ALL the genders! P.S. Peter Pan was also one of my first opposite-sex crushes, tho. Coincidence?!

[pottycakes-deactivated20230224]

Diapers just make me so happy!

xoxo Stina

[cultoflovers]

OK so I just discovered this cutie pie’s blog maybe a week ago. And this was the picture/smile that melted my heart and made me follow her. I mean, you know that feel when you find something that lights you up inside? I hope everybody gets to feel that kinda joy someday (~￣▽￣)~

[hugclub]

In a society that profits from your self doubt, liking yourself is a rebellious act

[cultoflovers]

When I put these homemade panties on, I get Daddy’s full attention. Mission accomplished (◠‿◠✿) (((please leave caption when reblogging)))