Curiious Cat

|NSFW | F | | BiCuriious | Here for the sexual exploration ; 21+ ONLY

[ceren2]

[michaelblick-deactivated-deacti]

[kinkysista6969]

Need you guys to burn this in your brains!!!

[thecurseofjane]

Yeees!! Preach!!

[tas88]

After a complete clitoral orgasm I then need penetration

this is non-negotiable

[toya2228]

🤔🤔🤔🤔

[curiiouscat]

I’m not sure let’s make a list and try them.

[memenotmimi]

Take care of me please?

[curiiouscat]

To be held like this once in my life.

[siraettt]

catered.

[yungmelaninking]

Type shit❤️

[gardenxkisses]

When he makes you fuck yourself on his dick in doggy and then suddenly starts railing you super hard cause you're going too slow 🫠

[goldchaingoldrang-deactivated20]

Im tired of masturbating, i wanna fuck 😩

[thefrdmshift]

Feeding time 🐶💦

[blackberriesandchocolatejuice-d]

Can all the black men who love black women and vice versa reblog this so we can find each other?

[mrs-p-if-ur-nasty]

🙋

[evilgoblinbff]

i just want someone moaning in my ear about how good i feel, is that so much to ask

[aboil3dpeanut]

Get you a woman that likes to watch you cum

[curiiouscat]

On one hand I want to be pressed out while getting deep stroked. . .

On the other I want to be in the middle with her between my thighs while he fucks my face.

🤷🏽‍♀️

[curiiouscat]

I want and need to be fucked with passion. #pleaseme #blowmybackout #makemeTrimble

[lavitaloca36]

I consider myself to be vanilla. It’s actually a running gag amongst my friends because they swear up and down it isn’t true. My husband and I have never been into kink or explored it outside of a few rare instances of mild restraint or an occasional spanking or two. I just thought it was something neither of us were particularly interested in.

One evening, he told me that he was going to a kink class at a local adult shop the following week. Some of his partners and connections at the time were big into kink and he wanted to see if there was something there for him. I mentally panicked. In my mind, he was going to go to that class, become super kinky, connect with his other loves deeper because of that which would make our connection pale in comparison, and decide that he no longer wanted any vanilla relationships. My mind went from 0 to divorce in .25 seconds. Kinda ironic now that we are actually divorcing. I think a large issue for him with me was not feeling as free to develop himself without having to deal with my emotions about it.

Our partners are allowed to change, to discover new versions of themselves, to meet people that open them up to new personal possibilities. Sometimes those changes are scary for us. Sometimes, they even take them away from us or make it so we can no longer be together. They still get to do it, though. We’re also allowed to change, too.

“.... shift into an understanding that change is constant, and you get the gift of witnessing and supporting each other in transformation.”

-Adrienne Maree Brown, “Pleasure Activism”

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Text Reads: Today’s Polyamory Reminder:

Our partners are allowed to change. To explore themselves and discover newness. To meet people who introduce them to different ideas and identities. Yes, it can feel scary or threatening when that happens but we can’t let fear cause us to desire to limit or control another’s becoming.

[lavitaloca36]

What to do When Your Partner is on a Date?

This is a pretty standard beginner question you see come up in polyam and non-monogamy groups.

First, I have personally been working on reframing my thoughts around my partners being with others. Think about it. You rarely hear people ask “What do you do when your partner is at work?”, “What do you do when your partner is at the gym?”, etc. The reality is that we don’t spend EVERY WAKING MOMENT with our partners. They are off doing things all the time that don’t include us. This is no different. If you stop elevating date time/romantic interaction time that your partner has with others above any other time that they spend doing something apart from you, it takes some of the edge off. So now my answer to that question is the same thing I do any other time that I’m not with him. Whatever I want.

Here are some actual tips that have helped me in the past (and in the present) when my partner was out with someone else, especially as I am someone who is prone to jealousy and envy:

1. Feel your feelings. It’s ok to feel jealous or envious. It’s not the end of the world. And the quicker you just allow yourself to feel what you’re feeling, the faster it moves on. I say to myself things like “My partner is on a date and I’m feeling jealous. What’s for dinner?” It’s not a big deal and it doesn’t make you “bad” at polyamory. It just makes you human.

2. I read this thing once called a “date sandwich” where you and your partner are intentional about spending quality time together loving and affirming each other before and after your partner goes on the date. It really helps.

3. Do things you LIKE to do. If you use your partners date time to balance the checkbook or do the laundry or some other adulty thing, you’re going to associate the time your partner spends with other people with drudgery (unless you enjoy doing all of those things in which case rock on!). I like to do things I like to do that my partner doesn’t particularly enjoy that way my brain begins to associate my partner being away with others as pleasure for me, too. Watch that show your partner can’t stand, eat that stinky cheese they gag over when they see you eating it, go see that weird movie your partner would be miserable sitting through. Reconnect with your ability to bring pleasure to yourself all by yourself.

4. Set up a support system if you need it. Schedule time with your own partners if that’s available. Set up a phone call with a polyam friend who’ll understand. Video chat with a person who’s important to you that may be far away. Use that time to reconnect with the other important people in your life.

5. Don’t blow up your partner’s phone while they are on a date. That’s inconsiderate to the person they are on a date with and them. If there’s an emergency, of course reach out but if it can wait, wait. If you are struggling through some feelings and need to share that, write it down and share it with them when they return. Try to give them the space to enjoy themselves.

[thetattedstoner]

I want that type of fuck session when we cuddle after we fuck and get horny and fuck again

[yeaaaitscoco-deactivated2024010]

A must .

[fuckmeinpublicccccc]

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