Wanted: Energy-Sparking Collaborator
Have you ever worked with someone, one person, who seems to amplify your ideas, engage you in deep and creative thinking and challenge you to stretch yourself?
I am so fortunate to have a very small handful of these people in my life... People who I feel comfortable sharing an idea with- knowing that they may enhance it, change the direction I thought I was going with it, or trash it entirely. But I have those people.
I don't know if there is a set of characteristics that make someone an "Energy-Sparking Collaborator" or if what this means is dependent upon the people themselves; but I do know the difference they make in understanding, depth, self-awareness, creativity and growth is immense. I also don't believe you can force this to occur in any given relationship. Let's face it... You will not like working with everyone. In fact, some people will be down right awful to work with. But today I wonder, what characteristics increase the likelihood of forming one of these transformative relationships?
If I had to create a "Wanted" Ad for what I would be looking for in an "Energy-Sparking Collaborator" I think mine would read as follows:
Wanted: Open-minded, divergent thinker who is not afraid to challenge the status-quo. Who loves questions, and excels at asking the big-juicy variety. Someone who values continuious inquiry and personal curiousities. And most of all, someone who challenges, motivates and inspires me to do more, better, different.
As I write this, I wonder if I would be able to answer my own "Wanted" Ad... What would yours say? And would you be qualified?













