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Willow, 32, white, trans girl (she pronouns preferred), lesbian, autistic and mentally ill as fuck| MINORS PLEASE DO NOT INTERACT, I WILL BLOCK NO AGE BIOS| please do not come into dms asking for a reblog| Avatar done at https://picrew.me/image_maker/626602

[what-even-is-thiss]

Talking to allo people who haven’t really interrogated how society has told them to view sex feels like that bit in SpongeBob where Patrick keeps failing to put his hand on the lid

[what-even-is-thiss]

Sex is just a thing. No it’s just an activity. It doesn’t have to be… no listen it’s just an activity. An activity. It’s just a thing. A thing. No it’s not the same for everyone it’s just an activity. No it’s a value neutral activity. An activity. An activity.

[what-even-is-thiss]

I’ve been experiencing this lately with people trying to argue with me about my views on sex work.

“You can’t compare sex work to other types of work because having sex you’re not enthusiastic about is really traumatizing”

I’m sure for a lot of people that’s true but for me sex and masturbation occupy a similar emotional space to brushing my teeth or doing the dishes and I certainly don’t feel traumatized about it and I know for a fact that I’m not the only person who feels this way.

Also I think that someone physically and violently forcing me to brush my teeth might end up being traumatizing.

Sex is so taboo and mythologized that people have forgotten the mechanics of it.

Yeah sex might be sacred and important to you. To me it’s a chore I’ve gotta do sometimes. Like cooking. I love cooking and put great importance on it and who I do it with. A lot of people just cook to live though.

Yeah if to you sex has a lot of emotions caught up in it I’m not gonna tell you that you’re wrong for feeling that way. That’s normal. It’s not a universal experience though. And if you can’t accept that, then too bad. Other people’s personal realities don’t exist to confirm your personal worldview.

[wolfertinger666]

going to a psych ward three different times made me find kinship in other mentally ill people and recovering addicts. the people society likes to dump at the edge of the world. an older lady was super kind and told me I inspired her, one other patient staying because their situation was awful was probably a closeted transfem, drew them a fox girl fursona and they were SO HAPPY. the girls I met that were gay and were kind to me. the stay was bad but the patients made it worth it. felt weirdly like found family.

[wolfertinger666]

I say all this because mentally ill, addicts, and disabled folks or those who overlap are given such less sympathy especially if they are struggling with mental health. the way how many advocates I met online were just awful people to me, but the real mentally ill people I met face to face, the ones discarded by their family, were the most realist and kindest people. they deserve the best and a bouquet of flowers.

[azulcrescent]

Hey, waittt a minute

Am i spicy because the source is spicy ? 🤔

[rositavania]

Important frame

[girl-detector]

[breya-etherium-shaper]

You ever think about how the only reason Samuel l Jackson got into acting is because he was a radical activist and his mom got threatened that he’d end up dead so she sent him away to school to save him

[postmarxed]

Literally the FBI told her to get him out of Atlanta or they were going to murder him

[pretentiouslimericks]

[yourkpopidolsucks]

UMMM???? CAN WE GET SOME ELABORATION PLEASE?????

[breya-etherium-shaper]

[scallioncreamcheesebagel]

the fbi literally threatens people fighting for racial equality with death without a trial and people still think theyre the good guys

[clubdreamm-deactivated20210114]

[the-spoopy-ghost-of-raejin99]

[mousidy]

Sexual violence against trans women needs to end

I'd like to start a small project raising awareness of sexual assault, coercion, harassment, and other similar behaviors toward trans women and others TMA (transmisogyny affected) by people TME (transmisogyny exempt)

I find that our experiences are far too often ignored, belittled, or even used against us, and I'd like to see a future where we can speak up about what we've been through and actually be met with the support and resources we need to heal from or escape sexually coercive situations

I want to invite trans women and others TMA who feel comfortable doing so to discuss their experiences in my askbox, anonymously or not, and I will post them (unless asked not to in the body of the ask) under the tag "#transfem voices project"

I will leave these posts rebloggable unless asked not to by the asker, so anyone who wants to spread awareness should feel free to reblog. Those who may find these posts triggering should feel free to block the tag. I will mark all posts mature to adhere to Tumblr's guidelines, and I will sometimes add additional content warning tags to some posts where they become relevant

Thank you 💖

[fulltacs]

[almightychiru]

Lunar Princess Ranni ❄️

[saiykik]

Link compilation

[darkin]

i need help for an HRT appointment + psych meds + extra transportation fees

i am constantly applying to jobs (i have more than 20+ applications out), currently in a job program, i have rescheduled my HRT appointment 6 times now, i rely on my HRT to provide me mental well being, probably more so than my actual psych meds.

i can provide proof and receipts for everything listed here upon request. my ko-fi has art examples if you want to have me draw something in return. i am really struggling. anything helps.

copay - $40 lab work - $90 transportation - $30 psych meds - $20

39/180

[covid-safer-hotties]

[wolfertinger666]

redesigning one of my boys

[wolfertinger666]

his name Sabbath, gave him top scars cuz he got gender affirming surgery

[wolfertinger666]

you're the only one I love

[wolfertinger666]

Hitch's earliest memories with his mom

[wolfertinger666]

all he remembers is her warmth

[silvermoon424]

I watched some videos by that guy who set up a fake ICE hotline to get people to snitch on members of their community. Not only is this very real and useful praxis- he's preventing these ghouls from reaching the real ICE- he also handles the calls in a really amazing way.

For the most part, he doesn't make accusations or insults people, he just repeats back the appalling shit they're telling him. And they get fucking furious. The example that went viral was him fielding a call from a kindergarten teacher who wanted to report one of her student's parents.

This absolutely disgusting piece of shit thought that the parents were "illegals" who were "taking up resources" because they weren't born in the US. The child was a US citizen because he was born here, but she wanted the "ICE" agent to "look into it."

So this dude just starts repeating stuff back like "so you want me to load the parents of the 5-year-old child you teach into a van and deport them, right?" and this bitch has the gall to say "you make it sound terrible 😅" in a self-conscious way. And then when he finally makes a more direct insult by nonchalantly saying that the 5-year-old "must be a major threat to national security," she demands to speak to his supervisor (which he agrees to and then makes no effort to change his voice for lmao).

This is far from the only call where the whole "repeat their rhetoric back to them" tactic pisses the caller off, too. As rotten, immoral, and disgusting as these ghouls are, I believe there's a tiny part of them that is aware of how fucked up their beliefs and behavior are. Being forced to confront that leads to painful cognitive dissonance and they'd rather lash out at the person who criticized them than look inward and do some self-reflection. Forcing people to confront their own cognitive dissonance of "I'm a good person" clashing with "I have objectively gross and harmful beliefs" is useful, even if it will never go anywhere.

[silvermoon424]

Something that also got me was how the teacher kept looking for OP to soothe and assuage her ego/conscience and got progressively more agitated when he wouldn’t. This is someone who desperately needs to think she’s a good person who is doing good things when what she’s doing is objectively heinous.

She thought she was in the right because she was trying to tear apart this family in a “polite” and indirect way. She’s not the one holding a gun and herding people into an unmarked van, after all. The fact that her call would have directly led to that outcome doesn’t register as culpability to her until OP makes her connect the dots. THAT’S why she got upset, because she was forced to acknowledge the blood on her hands.

[lime-ricky]

|| Stop looking at me like that.

[sunayoruu]