@cybermagusnex - Tumblr Blog

Some niche tags of some stuff:

#city nights - Depictions of cityscapes at night.

#glass bricks - interior design and architecture that features the heavily underrated Glass Brick.

#interior design and #vintage interior design (I have a fondness for 70s-90s interiors)

#old web - Depictions and archives of old websites and references circa 90s-2000s.

#city nights #glass bricks #interior design #vintage interior design #old web

hozierswift

clicking 'stay signed in'-buttons used to mean that u would stay signed in

#“don't show me this” used to stop showing you that

heterorealism

Truck comes first and if there is any money left over the kids may eat. - Modern Consumer Patriarchy

varginhamonologues

she got her degree and started removing the parasite 🙏

earths-roots-grow-up

Tinfoil hat moment but I don't think he was dumb, I think he was strategic. He put her in a situation in which she had to either: sell her car (so the only means of transportation is now in his name), or maybe even to drop out (to have time for the second job) if she wants to feed the kids. He did it right when she was aaaaaalmost done with her degree. Either way, it's sabotage.

Sometimes when an action makes NO sense to us ("he's like a stupid alien"), it's bc we are not understanding its true motivation/purpouse. If his goal was control, financial pressure and limiting her options due to lack of funds, it makes perfect sensie to buy the truck.

Tinfoil hat moment over!

ralfmaximus

No, this is not tinfoil stuff.

This is classic abuser behavior: maneuver the partner into a situation where they feel trapped and cannot escape. The timing on this is too perfect; he saw her gaining agency & power in the relationship and moved to short circuit that.

I am SO GLAD she got out.

If this happens to you, try reaching out to friends & family first. Chances are they've been watching your situation and are aching to help, but have felt powerless. I can't tell you how many times I've watched this scenario unfold. Ask. For. Help. Nobody will judge you, and they're probably waiting for you to make a move. People notice abuse and want to help.

if you feel truly alone, start out with some free online resources.

There's also online legal help for filing no-fault divorce papers or how to find a lawyer you can afford.

mmocc123

#pokemon #pokemon fanart #mudsdale

manicbones

not feeling safe at home is just such a visceral violent thing and if you’ve ever experienced that I’m really sorry, you’re brave and strong and it’s gonna be okay

#happened too many times #have only ever been safe at home when I live alone