Lonely Desires

Traumatized & Touched-Starved

[hauntedfalcon]

I love you Pacific Rim, I love you Ramin Djawadi's soundtrack, I love you Mako Mori, I love you found footage prologue, I love you entire concept of Drift compatibility, I love you only actual golden retriever man Raleigh Becket, I love you Kwoon scene, I love you "it's not obedience. it's respect," I love you Mana Ashida's powerhouse performance, I love you Stacker Pentecost's sun motif, I love you Chuck's jacket, I love you hallway fistfight, I love you Crimson Typhoon, I love you Otachi, I love you del Toro's "guy in a suit" approach to creature design, I love you Hansens with flare guns, I love you "for my family," I love you numerous artful nods to Jurassic Park, I love you "we can clear a path. for the lady," I love you forehead touch, I lo

[aidashakur]

[pnglove]

[plaidstiel-wormstache]

Smut Synonym’s

With Smut Appreciation day cumming up fast (see what I did there, I’m hilarious) I thought maybe a few of us could benefit from this:

Penis

arousal, cock, shaft, dick, length, arousal, hard-on, hardness, erection, phallus, manhood, male part, prick, member

still has his pants on: ridge/hard ridge, bulge

Semen

seed, cum, vitality

Vagina

pussy, core, sheath, cleft, slit, quim (historical), cunny (historical), cunt, sex, well, between her legs, between her thighs, heat, wetness (also usually preceded by an adjective), into her/into her body

Labia

folds, petals, female flesh, private flesh, secret flesh, lips/nether lips

Clitoris

clit, bud, bundle of nerves, knot / knot of pleasure, center of pleasure, berry, pearl, jewel, button, most sensitive place

Vaginal Lubrication

juices, cream, honey, dew, nectar, elixir, arousal. (Please don’t write moisture)

Breasts

mounds, globes, tits (the space between: cleavage, valley, slope)

Nipple

peak, tip, bud, point, bead, nub

Butt

ass, backside, derriere, rear, bum, buttocks, cheeks, globes, butt

Please add more if the website or myself has missed anything!

Sourced from: http://www.bryndonovan.com/2015/04/22/synonyms-for-parts-of-the-body/

Tagging to spread the word (and not the legs):

@wi-deangirl77 @manawhaat @kittenofdoomage @rockhoochie @butiaintgonnaloveem @notnaturalanahi

[plaidstiel-wormstache]

Smut Synonym’s

With Smut Appreciation day cumming up fast (see what I did there, I’m hilarious) I thought maybe a few of us could benefit from this:

Penis

arousal, cock, shaft, dick, length, arousal, hard-on, hardness, erection, phallus, manhood, male part, prick, member

still has his pants on: ridge/hard ridge, bulge

Semen

seed, cum, vitality

Vagina

pussy, core, sheath, cleft, slit, quim (historical), cunny (historical), cunt, sex, well, between her legs, between her thighs, heat, wetness (also usually preceded by an adjective), into her/into her body

Labia

folds, petals, female flesh, private flesh, secret flesh, lips/nether lips

Clitoris

clit, bud, bundle of nerves, knot / knot of pleasure, center of pleasure, berry, pearl, jewel, button, most sensitive place

Vaginal Lubrication

juices, cream, honey, dew, nectar, elixir, arousal. (Please don’t write moisture)

Breasts

mounds, globes, tits (the space between: cleavage, valley, slope)

Nipple

peak, tip, bud, point, bead, nub

Butt

ass, backside, derriere, rear, bum, buttocks, cheeks, globes, butt

Please add more if the website or myself has missed anything!

Sourced from: http://www.bryndonovan.com/2015/04/22/synonyms-for-parts-of-the-body/

Tagging to spread the word (and not the legs):

@wi-deangirl77 @manawhaat @kittenofdoomage @rockhoochie @butiaintgonnaloveem @notnaturalanahi

[maybeeatspaghetti]

Can I have a smutty dictionary? Or a list of smutty words?

Sure! Now, this is definitely incomplete; these are the ones I use most often. If you have any to add, please do!

“The Smut Writer’s Dictionary”

Arousal/Anticipation

hot

warm

burn

ache

heat

swell

red/pink flush

roil

dizzy

foggy

rush of [heat, for example]

heavy

heady

intoxicating

thick [air/atmosphere]

thrum

ignite

desire

pulse quickened

tempt

tantalizing

throb

excite

prickle

tingle

turn on

What People Look Like

disheveled

blissed out

eyes glazed over

eyes rolled back in head

flushed

sweaty

glistening

mouth open

eyes closed

General Movement

clutch

crawl

slap

swat

smack

nuzzle

fidget

squirm

fast

slow

lift

fold

embrace

melt into/against

bend

shove

wiggle

wriggle

tuck

glide

clenching/unclenching

General Touching

caress

graze

brush

stimulate

flick

massage

skim

drag

shiver

goosebumps

flutter

grope

fondle

pet

pleasure [as in: pleasured himself]

nudge

stroke

feather-light

tease

probe

wander

knead

capture

grip

Kissing/Rimming

suck

bite 

nibble

lick

slide

wet

flick tongue at/against

bite

bury [his face] in

ravish

dip [tongue into]

weave lips together

capture [his] lips

press a kiss against

drop a kiss to [body part]

Noises

grunt

growl

moan

groan

sigh

breath hitching

gasp

sharp intake of breath

exhale

cry

keen

whimper

whine

hoarse

ragged

garbled

strangled

croak

shout

Verbs for Speaking

breathe

whisper

sigh

gasp

groan

moan

grunt

growl

order

snap

spat

cry

murmur

mumble

beg

whimper

whine

croak

Preparation

finger

open [himself] up

work [himself] open

pump [fingers/toy] in and out

spread

shove

slick/slicken

lubed [himself] up

Blow Job

lick

suck

envelop

wet

mouth at [something]

slobber

dripping

flick tongue at/against

blow

drool

Hand Job/Masturbation

pump

twist

squeeze

rub

fondle

cup

stroke

palm

tap

grip

Dry Humping

grind

rub

rock

hump

roll hips together/against

Fucking

push in

press in/against

slide in

breach

pop in

bury [himself] in/into/inside

in to the hilt

penetrate

sink down on

split open

tight

fill

roll

thrust

drive

pound

rock

bounce

buck

slam

meld

frantic

fuse

pace [fast or slow, for example]

clench

grind

Orgasm/Words for Feeling Pleasure

come/cum

climax

peak

topple over

fall over

tumble over

let go

spill

contract

convulse

writhe

quiver

shiver

shudder

shoot

tremble

ejaculate

pulse

pulsate

twitch

arch [his back]

blissed out

spasm

burst

reeling

throb

tremor

ecstasy

swallow

shockwaves

release

spurt

jerk

Taste

tangy

sweet

bitter

salty

Smell

musky

heady

intoxicating

tangy

sweet

Cooldown/Cleanup

sticky

sweaty

glistening

chest heaving

wipe

dab

wash

spent

soften

flagged [as in: his cock flagged]

fulfilled

satisfied

left reeling

cuddle

snuggle

plaster [as in: plastered themselves together OR plastered to each other’s side]

flop around

boneless

limp

Words to Describe Cock

cock

dick

shaft

tip

ridge

hard

firm

glisten

thick

length

red

flushed

engorged

throbbing

quivering

twitching

Words to Describe Feelings/Touches/Movements/Sensations

gentle

soft

rough

hard

fervid 

feverish

fervor

passionate

vulnerable

exposed

sensual

silky

fleeting

prickle

tingle

tender

warm

electric

spark

Misc. Smutty Words and Phrases

with abandon

need

want

overcome

erupt in [goosebumps, for example]

pliant

viscous

erotic

long for

yearn

yield

urge

bloom [as in: color bloomed across his cheeks]

intimate

relax

vigorous

thrill

[prurientpuddlejumper]

Smut Thesaurus [18+/NSFW]

By request of the discord! Here’s the smut thesaurus I’ve been building to help me write. It’s even longer now because I included some extra words from The Ultimate Guide to Writing Smut Fic by  QuinnAnderson on AO3. 

How many words are there for “penis” and “thrust” (that aren’t completely cringey)? Here are all the ones I’ve gathered so far 😂

It’s going under the read-more cut because it’s over 1,000 words in bullet-point form so it is loooong. 

EDIT: Here are some additional pointers!

Keep reading

[onlinegf]

gonna die bc no one is flirting with me rn

[cataleiya]

Things I want in my future home You

[cherryremedy]

i … kiss your face forever ?

[bruisesonmyknees]

stalking but more like an angel watching over you

[ultrvmonogamy]

“i could fix her” i could love her as she is

[sweetsouthernthing94-deactivate]

Hey so if someone could dr*g me so I wake up to them balls deep inside me taking what they need (maybe two creampies in), wrists tied to the bed, legs spread, overstimulated….

That’d be great

[oh--lapetitemort]

I need "I can't believe I get to fuck you" type of sex

[bananajeph-deactivated20180116]

person: why are you so kinky

me: im traumatized

[clumsykami]

How to: Aftercare your Sub

Ideas and Tips

These tips may vary depending on what your sub likes/enjoys or doesnt like/enjoy.

Try taking these into consideration before anything else:

Always ask how they feel, does anything hurt?

Make sure they know they are safe and you care about them

Simply ask if they need anything, Reassurance? A glass of water? Cuddles?

Respect if your sub needs some space, doesn’t feel like talking, or just wants to sleep

After Care Ideas

• Holding/ Cuddling your sub

• Praising them: ex. ‘You were such a good girl’, ‘You did so well’

• Treating any wounds: ex. from spanking, rope burn, etc.

• Putting a cold/warm wet compress on any welts, cuts, or bruises

• Kissing any welts, cuts or bruises

• Running them a warm bubble bath

• Wrapping them into a warm fluffy blanket

• Massaging them

(w essential oils, sensitive skin lotions)

• Watching their favorite movies, shows

• Listening to their favorite music*

*preferably soft, calm music

• Giving them a treat they enjoy

• Carrying them where ever they might need to go

The Importance of Aftercare

Aftercare is not only very important but essential, for both vanilla and kinky sex.

Sub drop is how a sub might feel depression/anxiety or even considering their self worth after sex, especially BDSM/Hardcore Sex.

It is very important to be there for your sub as well as reassure them that they are safe, and you care for them.

This is also when you tend to any wounds that may have occurred during sex, like welts, bruises, cuts or rope burns.

DO NOT:

Immediately leave your sub alone or unattended to for an extended amount of time after sex! especially after hardcore/rough/bdsm sex scenes.

Leave any wounds received by the sub unattended to

Try to jump into some unrelated activities THAT CAN WAIT, without proper after care; ex. asking them to do chores, get ready to go grocery shopping.

Failure to comply with essential aftercare risks the trust you and your sub share and your subs mental security after sex,

especially after Hardcore/BDSM/Rough Scenes; ex. Rape Play, Bondage, Spanking, Anal Play and many more.

[cherryflavoredgirlll]

i just want you and i hate that i can’t have you