* THANK U / NEXT .

calling out AND fixing the dbh fanbase one issue at a time. inbox is open for submissions and questions !

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anyways drop a dbh character in my inbo for my honest opinion of em. i know people lurk but don’t follow and honestly, i bet y’all just wanna hear me trash ur faves so you can argue with me about it.

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DISCUSSING CONVIN OR GAV-ANYONE.

time to piss off the people who DON’T ship hankcon! i despise convin, that’s just my tea. this pairing is literally the equivalent of people who date a race they hate to play up on the raceplay aspect of it. guess who’s a victim of that, too? yeah. gavin, in canon, hates androids. if you have your own rewritten canon as i do, then fuck it do what you want, but i go off of canon when i say gavin reed left an entirely bitter taste in my mouth with his role in the game. the only thing that’s ever revived my hopes for that man are literally only two people in this fanbase who know who they are! i appreciate the lengths they go to in order to save this man but no matter what, he’s always going to be a racist piece of shit. and the way alot of y’all write him being awful to android characters but still wanna ship him with the same people he treats like shit? no, that’s not how things go. when someone is that awful to you, you don’t ever really forgive them. so say gavin DID, metaphorically, clean up his act. he’s not entitled to romance! or forgiveness, honestly. you can ship gavin with a human, sure, but with that attitude in canon i just ... no. i especially despise convin / gavcon / whatever you nasties wanna call it. he treats con the WORST by far, followed by hank because holy FUCK he probably knows this man has so much fucking going on in his life and he just comes for his throat, i can’t even fucking describe how low that is. it’s just. oh yeah, reed900 is also scummy as shit you fucking loonies. tl ; dr: gavin reed is, arguably, one of the worst people in dbh and i have no sympathy for anyone who writes him as redeemable unless they’ve entirely rewritten dbh, as some brave and talented writers here have done.

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Guess this blog is dead. ding dong, the witch is dead!

very incorrect

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There's also a difference between calling out the problematic things you disagree with and @ing at people, blatantly harassing them because you disagree with the content they're posting. This is why, as soon as people started reporting anti-dbh, they disappeared. They weren't 'run off'. Tumblr took them down because they breached Tumblr's terms of service and why your still around able to vent about the things you don't like seeing. Which you're fully within your right to.

well that explain’s why tumblr still lets people write shit like incest on tumblr and the nazis are still roaming around freely . like, bro i’m sorry if you didn’t agree with what antidbh did - even i didnt personally agree with how they went about things, but giving out warnings to other users of people to avoid if they want a GOOD experience in the fanbase is fair . me and anti were like, good cop bad cop, and right now i’ve really gotta play both parties and it kind of sucks . i wish i could validate you guys as much as i highly dislike the lot of you and how you deal with things .

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it's funny that you cried about that antidbh blog being 'run off' but then your and that other blog are the reason one of my friends was bullied out of the fandom

i don’t know, there’s a difference between running a blog that’s problematic in content and being run off by people who don’t want nasty shit around, and being hateful to someone who was trying to call out the shitty things they probably did to get run off anyways . anyways, next !

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changing the theme bc ariana has literally lost my respect with her stupid ass tattoo ! blue diamond seems to be the petty mom friend type so like, there’s our theme coming into february !

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Happy black history month! Today is the day of celebrating blackness in all its forms and entirety! More specifically, in the rpc, today is about appreciating the black muns and characters in your community. Let us rave and celebrate being black, let us talk about our common struggles and lift each other up. Let us enjoy being niggas in this nigga month, let us post all the selfies we wish whenever blackout occurs. Just let us be, and do not bring any toxicity or anti-blackness into our spaces. Be kind, show appreciation, interact with us and our characters, embrace black characters, listen to us! And enjoy this black excellence ! Support black muns, writers, artist and content creators.

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alright, since i really don’t care about protecting my identity anymore, here we go folks . my name is yuri, i’m a 19 year old afro-rican girl, and i run the blog @/angelidroid . i’m wlw, poc, a sex worker, and if you go onto my blog i dont give off nearly the kind of vibe i do here . what i do here is a front i have to put on to make sure that meaningless but cruel shit doesn’t get to me . i’m a soft girl, my muse is a soft girl, but we aren’t gonna get pushed around by the fanbase any longer . i bet alot of you who hate this blog sure didn’t see me coming or care, considering i’m pretty irrelevant but like, yeah . come at my weave if you want, i’m just gonna keep chugging along and doing as i do because this blog sure as fuck isn’t going anywhere .

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Can you talk about how gross the Hank/Con ship is?

alright angel, i’ve got you covered !hankcon is problematic, and here’s why .1) this goes back to my “platonic relationships” post . platonic relationships are good to have - your muse deserves friends above all else, and if anything hankcon deserves to remain FAMILIAL .2) in the game in numerous instances does hank compare connor to his son cole, and it definitely adds to the aspect of hank seeing connor as cole, in a sense: he wants to make sure connor lives so that he can feel like he at least saved SOMEONE in his life from leaving . it’s nice seeing hank soften up no matter what, even if you take the bad connor route . hank’s a dynamic character and like, ship him if you want, just not with connor .3) implying these two are romantic just enforces this silent expectation that familial friendships HAVE to get sexual and romantic over time . i know this personally - i’ve cut bad men out of my life for taking advantage of me . when i come out and say i dont have a good father figure, boys jump on the opportunity to use that to try and fuck me because i’m just some cute girl with daddy issues that needs a man to fuck her right and love her - that’s not what i need . that’s DEFINITELY not what connor needs, and that isn’t what hank is after i would think, judging from his character . hank just wants his son back, and you guys out there who make a hard effort to sexualize what is entirely supposed to be a familial bond are just fucking sick . anyways, there you go nonnie ! i hope this helped you ! <3

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Thanks for the reply. Some numbers from UK'S NHS state that since 2000, 853 trans women had bottom surgery in the country, while only 12 trans men did. It really is that rare. That said I'm with you on the trans fetish problem, esp portraying trans men as feminine, sexualized and exaggerated as possible for shock value. We're not your porn.

‘course, nonny ! i really wasn’t that woke on trans surgery but i don’t doubt your word for a second: though, that’s in the uk and, as it may seem, i’m stuck in shitty little america ! anyways, yeah, i do admit i ... ew, sounded like a transmed or whatever those people are called . but i’m glad we can equally agree that fetishization of transmen, even WHEN they act masculine, is just nasty and is unfortunately something i catch alot of in this fandom, especially with ONE specific user who i dropped as a friend like a hot plate because they do that AND involve their muse with incest . nasty, not allowed .

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okay, to trans!nonny: you’re valid in the way you think and i’m glad you reached out and gave me your viewpoint, and i see that it may have come off as transphobic in itself and i apologize and admit, that was a mistake on my part. but the main point of my post was that when NONTRANS people use trans men who don’t get bottom surgery for the sake of a fetish: thats where my issue lies, same with white people who roleplay characters of color for the sake of a fetish: i didn’t mean to make it sound like i was invalidating transmen who can’t / don’t want to get bottom surgery done, i’m just angry that people who clearly aren’t trans are inherently sexualizing trans men under the guise of trying to gain brownie points for having a transman muse . it’s the same people who play transgirl muses and call them “futas” when they’re just trans girls and play them for a fetish . it’s just gross . but, i digress: thank you for actually offering a solid argument and some insight on my post. anyways, i’ll be making this less of a daily thing - instead, i’ll be answering any and all inbox messages i receive that are actually valid things worth wasting my time answering while i menstruate and pomder why you people don’t accept actual, legitimate criticism on your actions. i’ll make this like, weekly at best because honestly, alot of these topics tie in together so like ... yeah .

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DAY #9 (BC I MISSED IT): RK900 IS CANCELLED.

yeah, someone had to say it, and if no one else it’s gonna be me . it pissed me off how a character that was on screen for like, maybe 2 minutes MAXIMUM in game suddenly is one of the most popular characters in the fandom ? it’s ridiculous - why can’t you put that much effort, time, creativity, literally ANY of the passion you’ve given to this literal black slate character to the ones the really deserved it ? i have a TON of personal headcanons i have for the poc characters in dbh and yet, if i tried to share them NO ONE would give a shit, and then you have people fucking attacking perfectly fine writers for writing black characters ? because theyre BLACK ? it’s ridiculous . y’all need to fucking rethink your priorities . like, really .

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well, you’ve all done it ! you’ve driven off a good person - aggressive as they may have been, they have every right to be furious with you people and they are gone ! i can’t find any trace of them and, frankly, now I’M furious with you all ! you’ve driven off a perfectly valid individual with your toxicity and inability to accept that you are HURTING people and need to CHANGE  i cannot figure out where they are, but fuck you guys - i’m gonna keep doing what i do for their sake because, fuck, they’re GONE and they were my FRIEND and i felt so relieved to have someone who understood my feelings and even if we didn’t entirely see eye to eye on things but i respected them and their feelings, which i think the lot of you really need to learn . from now on i think i’d like to work alongside @problematic-tm​ in order to help better this community until my fallen poc sibling turns up again, but best believe that while i was considering taking a softer approach to how i was doing things, i CERTAINLY change my mind  you don’t deserve my benefit of the doubt anymore . you should all be ashamed for driving off a member of your community who’s opinion MATTERED .

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where's antidbh?

i actually hadn’t even realized they may have deactivated their account - i’ll try to track them down elsewhere, but in the meantime i’ll continue to do what i do to the best of my ability .

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DAY #8: PLATONIC RELATIONS SHOULD BE MORE VALID.

let’s cover a more softhearted topic since y’all think i’m just some heartless bitch . i think we focus way too much on romantic and sexual relationships and its sad, especially as a fandom where we rely soooo much on our fucking friends to enable our bad habits, why not let our muses have the same ? it’s sad to see that our muses depend so much on sexual and romantic gratification in order to feel valid and we should make shit like queerplatonic relations more evident and represented in our community, as well as familial and just platonic relations . anyways, that’s my soft ted talk for today, 

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imagine trying to use my words out of context in order to make me look bad ? anyways, aave shouldn’t be used by the NONBLACK MEMBERS OF ANY COMMUNITY and people who DO regardless of this are crusty . smh, i swear the people who try to send me hate here literally have never like, ever gone outside and spoken to a person, ever . anyways, if you have anythign CONSTRUCTIVE to say to me, the inbox and my messages are always open .

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If I talk appropriately, use perfect grammar and spelling, toss out my roots, would you listen more? If I use that pretty pink appearance with soft pastels and washed out appearance, would you like my look more? If I ditch my fucking foul form of expression, would you take what I had to heart? If I use that sweet A E S T H E T I C, would it  a p p e a l  to you more? If I threw out everything that made me me, would you give a damn?

No, because you use these same words and styles to make us the villains. You don’t care when someone is hurt by your actions, you don’t give a damn when someone speaks UP. So i’m not gonna change, not gonna fuckin change me when you don’t give a fuck about the ones you abuse and victimize.

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ur so fucking valid ily kween, neither one of us is gonna chaneg what we do for anyone’s sake but our own, and when we do we will be even MORE aggressive than before