El Gorado

Deacon in the church of big bellies. Feedism reblogs and occasionally things about feedism that leak out of my ears. 37, Bi, any pronouns. 21+ ONLY. Check pinned.

[daiojikong]

Hi there! I love fat bodies and big bellies so much it feels like I'm losing my mind sometimes.

- Old, genderfluid, but fairly new to kink spaces (and Tumblr, for the most part) and am trying to get my bearings so I can properly explore this thing that's been a huge part of me for as long as I can remember.

- Feeder, down to roleplay a feedee, esp for a good concept.

- I love to talk about feedism in every context, and I love hearing all the ways that it hits people at just the right angle. Don't hesitate to send me DMs/asks if you're comfortable, tell me about your kink, send me that one poorly written fic that just hit every button all at once for no logical reason (I have many).

- Also, DM me if you'd like me to unfollow or delete a reblog, I'll do it immediately, no questions asked.

- If you are under 21 or do not have your age listed, PLEASE DNI, I don't like blocking strangers but that's on site. DMs are completely open to anyone over 25 (unless of course you need me to unfollow/delete a reblog).

💞 Be well, keep eating

[sapphling]

sitting anti-kink posters down in front of a wrestling match and explaining kayfabe to them with the patience of a preschool teacher

[sapphling]

You see that one? He's called the "heel." He looks mean and says a lot of scary things, but it's not real and he's actually very nice. When he says "I'm going to break you in half" you don't have to be scared because it's pretend. These two talked about this beforehand, and now they're playing pretend together. Can you think of any other situations that might be like this?

[sapphling]

no that part was real

[transmechanicus]

‘You should only send hearts to ppl you’re romantically involved with’

WRONG! BOUNDLESS PLATONIC LOVE, WARMTH, AND ENTHUSIASM BE UPON YE!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[fattndup]

when a girl turns a feeder boy into a chubby feedee <333

[fuelforbody]

REBLOG IF YOU GET WET OR HARD BY THE THOUGHT OF GETTING FATTER

[piggygirly1-blog]

Uhm hmm! 😈

[lovechubs3000]

I'd lose the game because I'd be obsessed by that flabby bulging paunch in tight pants

[superbon]

Does leopard print make me look fat?? 🥴

Bigger and better things are coming…✨

(Sssh… Super secret sale 🤫)

[kellijellibellii]

bellylicious babe

[kellijellibelli.com]

[nonbinarythorin]

[daiojikong]

Daily.

[nonbinarythorin]

[daiojikong]

Mandatory, for the pin

[bitchcunthaver]

monsters r better fat. btw. werewolves with abs look so wrong and weird 2 me. whys it dehydrated. where is the cushion of a well-fed predator. wheres the softness that lulls u into a false sense of security before it destroys you.

[heavy--feels]

I sometimes think about all the feedist online spaces and it reminds me of what I've read about gay/queer spaces from 50-70-100 years ago. The semi-secrecy, the internalized shame. The need to justify their desires ("gaining weight can be healthy, too!" almost reads like "gay people don't have to be promiscuous!"). It feels like this kink is on the forefront of underground and shame.

And the fact is, I'm so tired of shame. As long as everything is consensual irl, I shouldn't be ashamed of my own choices. I feel like having fought a battle over my queerness, I am now fighting a battle over my kink - which is tied to my queerness, anyway.

Are there unhealthy ways to engage in this kink? Sure, just as you can be gay and in a toxic relationship. But is this kink inherently unhealthy?

NO. A THOUSAND TIMES NO.

I will die on that hill.

[daiojikong]

As someone that has identified as queer their whole life, but only recently begun exploring this side of their sexuality, the parallels here are so distinct and heartbreaking.

In 2025 we are eradicating the shame, we are loving the fat bodies we love and we're being fucking loud about it.

[hufhsh]

the idea of fattening someone up by just taking really good care of them is so cute. buying lots of their favourite snacks and making sure they always have some around. bringing them takeaway every night, and they can order as much of whatever they want because they dont need to watch their calories. making them milkshakes that aren't just meant to be super fattening but are also sooo delicious. taking care of chores and bringing them the things they need so they dont need to keep getting up. buying them cute clothes that are also comfy and stretchy so they arent uncomfortable. just looking after someone so well they become the happy, lazy fatty they were meant to be.

[daiojikong]

Soft feedism needs so much more spotlight, I need to see more big round bellies in cozy fabric and pastels being hand fed by someone who just can't stop gushing about how that double chin makes your smile brighter

[jesterafterdark]

A feedee with a soft, round belly like a little ball of dough could make me so happy. I'm so desperate to get my hands on it, knead it, bury my face in their squishy, chubby body. And I'd make it so worth their while, keep them stuffed and food-drunk, make sure they were too full to think straight.

Doesn't that sound like a nice way to live, my fat, cuddly little stress toy. Wouldn't you like to be my toy? Help me... Unwind💕

[extra-stout-stories-deactivated]

Reblog if you're into soft XWG. Wholesome-but-extreme, extreme-but-wholesome. Scalebreaking weights celebrated with praise and caresses. Playful flirtation during gigantic all-day binges. Extreme sizes as an opportunity for tender caretaking. The warmth and intimacy of getting really fucking fat.

Often it seems like the line of division is between option 1, wholesome soft feedism with plump round tummies, and option 2, extreme weight gain and supersizes accompanied by degradation and shaming kinks. Neither of these are "wrong" ways to fantasize (as long as option 2 doesn't involve real life fatphobia), but I'm a fan of option 3.