My Way Out

Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without.

[damnheyhey]

Chtěla jsem jen, abys jednou za život o mě trošku bojovala.. ale vždy to jen vzdáš.. Jen bych chtěla vidět, že mě opravdu miluješ, víš? Chtěla bych abys aspoň jednou přiběhla ty, a ne já.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Recover from a Broken Heart

There are few things worse than a broken heart. You desperately want to be free of the pain, and to pick up the pieces and get on with life again. The following suggestions can help you with this.

1) Remember that healing is a long slow process - Breaking up is painful and unleashes strong emotions - anger, hurt, confusion, sadness, loss and emptiness … You may also find you suffer from insomnia, have dreams about your ex and lose all interest in life. If you can hang on in this tough time, and accept the pain it brings, you will find that it will speed up your recovery. So allow yourself to grieve – and don’t expect too much at first – but know that these emotions will pass in time.

2) Accept some relationships are not meant to last – It’s a fact of life that we all want different things, and we’re not always suited to the person we’re dating. It’s not that you’re a failure or an awful person. It’s actually quite normal – even though it feels so sad.

3) Reflect on what you’ve learnt from the relationship – We learn about ourselves and our personality … what we like and don’t like … what we won’t tolerate … and what really matters in relationships. Take the time to process this important information so you grow through your experience … and become more self-aware.

4) Rediscover who you are as a person in your own right – Too often we lose sight of who we are deep down insight - when we’re part of a couple, or a close relationship. But once we’re on our own again, we rediscover who we are – and remember all the dreams and the wishes we once had.

5) Use this time to invest in your interests and passions - Once you start to remember all the things you once enjoyed, and what makes you happy and makes you feel fulfilled, you can start to formulate and work towards new goals. For though it’s good to be in relationships, there’s so much more to us, and so much more to life, than being with one person, and doing things with them

After walking through these steps you will find that you are stronger, and you’ll start to rediscover your true value and worth … and you’ll know that you’ll survive this … and you’ll enjoy life again.

[thegoodvybe]

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[hplyrikz]

Clear your mind here

[blossomfully]

“I learnt that goodbye sometimes means ‘I love you, but I need to leave before we tear each other’s fucking throats out’.”

— S.Z. (via blossomfully)

[thegoodvybe]

“The past has no power over the present moment.”

— ECKHART TOLLE (via thegoodvybe)

[dizplayname]

Have you ever tried to be strong when you literally have no strength?

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[thegoodvybe]

[hplyrikz]

Clear your mind here

[thegoodvybe]

[quotemadness]

“Just because two people don’t wind up spending their entire lives together doesn’t mean their relationship was a failure.”

— Ted Michael

[quotemadness]

“Sometimes I wanted to believe something so badly, I deliberately manufactured excuses and ignored painful reality.”

— Sylvia Day

[quotemadness]

“It’s strange, isn’t it, how the idea of belonging to someone can sound so great? It can be comforting, the way it makes things decided. We like the thought of being held, until it’s too tight. We like that certainty, until it means there’s no way out. And we like being his, until we realize we’re not ours anymore.”

— Deb Caletti

[remanence-of-love]

“I know that you deleted my number. I know that all our late night conversations are gone and out of your life. I know that you blocked me on everything you could find, but I still read our last words that we spoke, every single night.”

— @the-gift-of-death