dear woman, lets find them ;))
find them who would come to your dad, ask for his permission for having you in a marriage; not for taking you in a saturdaynight-dating
find them who prefer fighting for things they wish by themselves ; rather than asking anyone help
find them who say thanks to a parking man; not the one who even dont open the window while having a gas station service
find them whom children loves; not those who children afraid of
find them who can say no when you do wrong; not those whom you can easily insist
find them who feel fine in confessing their weakness; not those who is drown in his pride
find them who would rather go to the mosque as soon as possible; than being your imam in your future house
find them who come to the mosque for solat jumat before adzan comes; not those who come when the iqamah is over
find them who have much friends with various background; not those who is even antisocial
find them who could light up a conversation; not those who love to be silent
find them who would wake up in the middle of the night just to help you to make your baby a bottle of milk; not those who even get angry when they are woken up to a solat subuh time
find them who dont mind helping you do the laundry; not those who even ask you to do much things when you get tired of washing much stuffs
find them who ask you to get involved; not those who ask you these and those
find them who could listen; not those who just want to be listened
find them whom your granny could be comfort with; not only your parents
find them who know how to be friend of your besties; not those who are insecure with you and your male friend
find them who work hard for life; not those who cant stand being in need
find them who could teach your children how to read quran; not those who send your children to anykind of courses
find them whom your neighbours would respect; not those who get busy of look cool
find them who are broadminded; not those who are easily provoke
find them who know when to speak loud and when to speak slow; not those who get busy of speak sweet
find them who dont mind waking up early in the weekend just to pick up your far away siblings; not those who curse over a trafficjam
find them who loves your whole family and friends; not only you
find them who know how to treat the older and the younger; not only you
find them whose life is God-centered; not you-centered
find them whom you could be survived with; not only by using love
dear woman, be realistic. Man isnt about face, isnt about riches, isnt about romantic, isnt about cool, isnt about care for you anytime anywhere, isnt about love only. When it comes to future, you need more than an in love teenager needs. You would wish more. You would want more. Your life would be spent with only a partner. Then for having such a perfect life like your Mommy has with your Daddy, can you make it with your present-bf?
then again, be realistic.
be who you want to get.
stop bitching!