I don’t really have many followers on this blog since I had to delete my old one (which had more engagement on it) but I need a place to write my thoughts anyway so enjoy lol.
I’ve been with my fiancé for 3 years. I hadn’t seen him in almost two of those years due to Covid unfortunately. finally this year we were able to see each other for a few months, and we ended up spending our first big holidays together in person. naturally, in this time he proposed and of course I said yes! there’s never been a doubt in my mind that he was the one.
So we’ve been trying to plan what kind of wedding we want. he wants something small and simple, I want something small but still special. as any woman does, I’ve been planning this day in my head for years!
We came to a compromise where we’re going to do the small, simple ceremony so we’re legally married and can start the visa process, and then in a years time have an informal ceremony, but more of the wedding I wanted. And then hopefully by then the visa will have gone through and he’ll move here.
Also! The most mindblowing part! we were looking at the visa process, and it sounds like he can live here while the application is in progress! so when we get legally married, that’s probably when we’ll close the distance.
he just went back home and this goodbye is killing me more than usual so it’s nice to have some kind of comfort like that! I really expected we’d have one more goodbye between getting married and when the visa went through so it’s honestly a little hard to wrap my head around at the moment.
That means there’s so much to do, but I’m also planning a 40 person wedding at the farm I grew up on, so there’s not so much pressure there thankfully. And it means I’m, so far, having so much fun narrowing down and organizing the things I know I want. I’m really excited!!
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