How are things now?
Well…
I hadn’t seen or spoken to my husband for over a year and then we recently crossed paths twice…once amicably, once less so.
I can tell from the credit card statements that Snow has moved jobs to another school district and that my husband was still seeing her as of a few months ago…I honestly don’t even pay attention anymore.
I have been happy, happy, happy and peaceful like never before in my life. I have been traveling the world, attending spiritual retreats, going to plays and concerts, focusing on my children, my sisters and a very few close friends.
My ex BF and I are still friendly but have been officially separated for over seven months now. I still love him as much as I ever did and will continue to send him unconditional love for the rest of my days.
I am remorseful for how upset I was at Snow and my husband. It is what it is and had he not insisted that it wasn’t what I saw, I would have stayed gone and would have been long ago divorced and saved myself two years of heartache trying to fix myself to deal with the disconnect between what I saw and felt vs what I was being told. It took me a while, but I finally chose myself and I have never looked back.
Maya Angelou says, when you know better, do better. I feel I’ll never tolerate such behavior again nor be with someone who doesn’t choose me and value me. It was a great lesson, I was just a little slow on the uptake.
There’s no real villains in these stories. Just hurt people hurting people (and themselves). We all played our roles. Very well. And now I get to live my best life and be a shining light to others on this journey….namaste, bitches…
Namaste 🙏

















