to anyone,
following jonghyun’s incident, i wanna just comfort those who are involved, be it as shawols or a kpop fan. life’s really precious and it could really just be taken away from us in just an instant! but think about it, we were all given life in the beginning and really, i think its a privilege we are able to be in this world and surviving! even if our dearest loved ones have passed on, we should keep our mourning to a minimum, and be more grateful that the person has showed up in our lives:)) this may be a big shock to everyone out there but i think its also a wake up call to everyone that we shouldn’t bottle everything up and not share our problems with the people we trust most! also, we should take a step back and realise that we shouldn’t shame other idols/people. everyone has feelings and its thise negative emotions that cause such depressing things to happen:(( rather than saying “you are strong, press on” , we should more often tell them “we will be here with you no matter what circumstance” ! i really feel we should accept everyone’s imperfections and embrace it:)) if we ever know of someone who is undergoing emptional stress, do show them some care and concern! at the end of the day, our few words of support and care could really save a life :))
