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Okay, so there's something I see often online that I've never been able to really understand.
People often say "People are smart and able to think well. They just consistently make bad decisions that end in suffering and destruction and death while being smart and able to think well for some reason." And "People are good and they don't want to hurt other living beings. They just vote for evil and they beat and torture and kill people and they engage in genocide while being good and not wanting to hurt others."
How does that make sense? How can I understand that? How do you get the conclusion of "Oh, this person is smart and good and they don't want to hurt others and they're good at thinking!" from the starting point of "This person abuses others and causes pain to the living beings around them and they regularly vote for people and policies that cause mass suffering and death?"
Is it some neurotypical type thing that my autistic brain isn't able to easily grasp?
Usually when I see this argument people are saying that oh, people are smart and rational and good, they just make horrible decisions that cause pain to others because they see themselves as smart and rational and good and they do what's easiest and most accepted in their violent social hierarchy to maintain their position in that hierarchy. They're not setting out to cause suffering and destruction and to ruin their community, they're just doing what makes sense.
Okay, but, like, the end result of their actions is suffering and destruction. I do not think that simply just not thinking "I want to cause suffering and destruction today" to themselves is an excuse or an explanation for how they're actually good and smart people despite the easily predictable negative consequences of their choices and actions.
Reading some more tags on the particular post that inspired this and thinking of other similar posts I've seen. I don't know if it's a neurotypical/autism thing or a grew up around religion/did not grow up around religion or middle class/working class or...okay, well, whatever the difference in perception was caused by, it's clear that I perceive reality very differently than the people who make these arguments do.
I do not think of living beings as "Good" or "Bad" in fixed categories with the categorization taking place before the beings engage in actions with easily predictable consequences.
But I don't know, I guess I do hold humans to higher standards than I do other species.
Like I know that cats do not have the ability to comprehend and understand the consequences of their actions on billions of other living beings on this planet, so I do not hold them morally responsible for things that they have no ability to understand.
I do not judge cats for biting or scratching, because they are doing what they can to defend and protect themselves and to try and enforce their boundaries. Or sometimes they're just running around and jumping and grabbing on with their claws.
I also don't judge them for decimating local bird populations, because they're just doing what they do. It's humans who can understand the consequences of cats decimating bird populations, it's humans who should know to keep their cats inside and to do what they can for feral cats, it's humans who are morally responsible. I never judge cats for anything, because I know they're doing the best they can with what tools and abilities they have.
But, as in that example, I tend to assume that humans have more ability to understand systems and to communicate in non-claw and non-biting ways and to be able to predict the consequences of their actions over a much longer range of time and on far bigger groups of other living beings than cats do. So I do judge humans, because I assume that they are often not doing the best they can with what tools and abilities they have.
Maybe I'm wrong though. Maybe they have far less tools and abilities than I thought they did.
I mean, to continue that example, it's true that in my own family I don't think my mother or brother are really capable of understanding the dangers and consequences to cats being outside. Also it's true that once Misfit really needed help and care with fleas and my mother wasn't able to understand that, and it's true that my brother says Misfit looks happier and healthier now that she lives with us and regularly gets flea treatment and has better quality food and other things. Even though my mother loves Misfit and wouldn't have wanted to hurt her.
I don't know. I don't think I understand humans other than the spousal person very well. But hey, at least I got this one dude who gets me and who makes sense! :)
America 3000 (Cannon, 1985)
“In the five years of war, too many people were directly involved in the ethnic cleansing to be able to claim seriously that they did not know. They *did* know, and they went along with it, or at least they did not care about it. This is the main reason they don’t like to talk about war crimes or about the war in general, except for the notion of the heroic defensive war. It is not pleasant to learn that you were a collaborator. But it is necessary to learn that you had a choice - and that you made the wrong one. In some way, not only the war criminals but also the people who made them possible should be held responsible for their wrong choices. The trials of war criminals are important not only because of those killed. They are important also because of the living. In the end, what matters in regard to war criminals and why we should bother to take a closer look at them is one single important question: what would *I* do in their situation? The unpleasant truth is that there is no clear answer.”
— The conclusion to the last essay, “Why We Need Monsters” from They Would Never Hurt a Fly: War Criminals on Trial in The Hague by Slavenka Drakulić
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then photoshop them on the CLIIIIIIIFFS OF DOVER
I still reference this post today. And yes, when I say I reference it I mean I sing it.
It’s Fourth of July Eve so make sure to leave some milk and cookies out for Captain America
Oh man, it's nice to be clean. Just got done with my first solo shower after the surgery.
People online: Men will ignore and abuse and leave their female partners as soon as they get sick or need help.
My spousal person, when I asked for help making sure I patted my hair dry with a fresh towel the right way after the shower: "So are you like you guess it's okay for me to help with patting your hair but I'm bad at shower?"
I had to reassure him that no, he is the best at shower, I just wanted to try doing it on my own and see if I could. And I did, so there! Also a disclaimer - he did not mean that in a weird whiny way, he was just being silly.
Still using just baby shampoo, being very gentle on the left side of my head and face around the incision, and being careful with the water there too. I was maybe somewhat less careful with the water than he is though. Still, I had him check it and he says it looks okay and that I didn't ruin it horribly with too much hardcore water or anything.
ancient greek word of the day: κακοθερής (kakotherēs), unfitted to endure summer heat
this literally means “bad at summer” pass it on
Reblog if you, too, are bad at summer
a squirrel or perhaps a cardinal posted this
How about you mind your own damn business
Warpy still hasn't chosen to move inside permanently, but I thought with the horrible heat she might want to be in the air conditioning today. So I opened the back door earlier this afternoon and she came in and she's hanging out with the spousal person in the kitchen now. :)
Please kitties are really really important and we have to love them and take care of them and make sure they're happy and okay forever, okay?
today's gregor samsa is: bringing eurydice out of the underworld
requested by: i don't know the ask disappeared
Edward Hopper, City Roofs, 1926
I can't stop thinking about this movie
this picture of a chip pan oil fire from the wikimedia cookbook is so strikingly sublime