J2 Bearding Stories & Other Inconsistencies Project

Decoding J2 & company's inconsistent statements. Also archiving significant & insignificant things in J2 & co's world. ------- If you want to know where I stand on the wives then read this post http://decodingj2andco.tumblr.com/post/140865397469/hi-i-have-a-question-if-you-dont-mind-i-heard -- I'm Anna; a liberal christian woman without hate in her heart. “Being nice merely to be liked in return nullifies the point.”

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Jared and an amazing family on his FB (x) 

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Jensen & Jared change their twitter icons to the rainbow flag in support of the LGBT community (after the Orlando massacre) - June 12th

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Vancouver Con - 26th August 2012 - (x)

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Jensen Ackles   |JibCon’16 ©

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jaredhiatuslove | week one →  favorite quote

“You saved your life. I was just here to let you know you could do it. So never forget you have that strength.” 

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Jensen | PhxCon 2016

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Jensen Hiatus Love | week one 

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Jensen @JIBcon7 [credits]

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Jensen Ackles | JIBCon 2016 [credits: mostly10  | x | x ]

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JaredHiatusLove | Week One » Favorite Quote

“My favorite thing about the AKF campaign is that, it’s taught me in order for me to fight I needed to figure out to love myself and thank you guys for helping me with that.”

[nothingidputbeforeyou]

When the band starts playing stripper music, Jared unbuttons his shirt while Jensen pretends to throw money at him. (X)

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Do you know any male friends as extremely close as J2? Jensen moved to Austin to live near Jared, they pick up each other's children from school, they choose not to live near their wives & do so many cons they hardly get to see them, even after working 16hrs days a week they still don't tire of each other & spend most holidays, vacations & much of their free time together in Austin. It's like every aspect of their lives they've combined like partners. Don't know how it doesn't raise some doubts.

No, I do not. J2 are on a different level. I’ve never seen 2 people want to spend as much time together as J2 do. The only people that come close are the happily married couples I know.

The guys I know, actually live with their families. They try their hardest to spend as much time with their spouses & kids. They even sacrifice time with their close guy friends for it.

Family vacations & holidays are usually just for family, not close friends. The only holidays I’ve seen close guy friends hang out, is memorial day, 4th of July, St. Patrick’s Day, & NYE. I’ve seen close guy friends hang out on father’s day too but it was organized by their spouses or it was a community get together. I’ve never seen any go on family vacations together. I’ve only seen women do that with their girl friends.

I’ve seen close guy friends go on group guy vacations, no spouses & no kids.

I don’t know how it doesn’t raise some doubts either. I figure it does but the denial is strong.

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I don’t know how people think the marriages are real. Because if they are, then the Js do not treat their wives - the women they supposedly love - very well at all. They choose to spend the majority of their time apart. Not exactly #relationshipgoals.

[decodingj2andco-blog]

I’m perplexed about that as well. Even if by some chance the marriages were real, they’re both dysfunctional & imperfect. The idolization of them is peculiar.

Article on dysfunctional marriages X

An anon on spn_gossip recently made an excellent comment about this.

“What type of man do you know who constantly scream they’re madly in love with the love of their life, acts extremely possessive of their wife like she’s about to be taken from him, threatens to kick his fans asses over their wife, and acts like he can’t live without her yet willingly live in a separate country throughout the entire marriage despite children being in the picture? Both of these men rushed to get engaged supposedly without knowing the other was proposing and married within months of each other. You would think these men wouldn’t want to live apart from their wives for one day.”

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It basically boils down to their actions contradicting what they say.

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Relationship goals? You’ve gotta be kidding me.

Even if the marriages were real, i’d never call it “relationship goals” because it’s rather the opposite and the coldness of the marriages is rather apparent. And what kinda women would wnat to be treated by their husbands like G&D? Being looked at by your husband with miserable/teary eyes before he says his vow at your wedding; being said by him that he bought you and he’s gonna keep you; being objectified by your husband whenever he opens his mouth to talk about you; having your marriage laughed by your own brother; spending 9 months of a year being staying at home alone while your husband stays in another contury semi-living with his BFF – and neither of you even tries to think of a way to get together even though you don’t have any job to do at home; no sweet dates like wandering around the city/going out for ice cream or yogurt runs/drafting from museum to musem for you two when he finally got a short time off (because apparently he’d rather do these with his BFF); moving to a place where you’re a totally stranger to just because he wants to live a stone's throw away from his BFF; and barely having any exclusive family holiday for mere the two of you because he always invites his BFF to crash (and sometimes he goes off to spend holidies with his BFF without you). And the list is still going.

No, thank you. Blahhhhh. This is definitely not my definition of “relationship goals” and i’d rather single than being treated like that by a man whom i’m supposed to love and who’s supposed to love me back. I don’t know from what perspective some people think it is – unless they’re talking about the big buttload of money that earned by the husband and the wife’s gonna spend  then i probably would agree, if money is all a woman wants from a marriage.