Who is the one person they never want to disappoint?
What gift would utterly destroy them (in a good / bad way)?
How do they react when someone they love is hurt?
one. who is the one person they never want to disappoint?
oh my god, mr. miyagi. after everything that happened in the fall of 1985 with cobra kai, and more specifically with silver, daniel made it one of his missions in life to be the kind of man mr. miyagi is, to pass on the lessons he’s taught him, etc. and this isn’t a bad thing in and of itself. mr. miyagi was a great man, the mentor and father daniel needed, the teacher and grandfather sam will always remember fondly. but daniel has a tendency to become so single - minded in his resolve to preserve mr. miyagi’s legacy he loses sight of himself and what he needs. and that ultimately does harm to daniel and others around him, especially johnny and sam, who are desperate to make daniel understand it’s okay to not be so strictly miyagi in how he functions, in life and karate, since he’ll often reject things he thinks mr. miyagi wouldn’t approve of. but mr. miyagi told daniel he would find his own way someday, and only through accepting that is daniel able to become the man he’s always been meant to be, and build a life that feels like his, through and through. growth and healing aren’t linear, though, so there are still days when daniel finds himself having the knee - jerk reaction of mr. miyagi wouldn’t want me doing this. he’s working on it.
two. what gift would utterly destroy them (in a good / bad way)?
naturally, anything to do with mr. miyagi wrecks him. some of the few times we see daniel get choked up are when he’s given or shown things relating to mr. miyagi, such as his love letters to yukie and the sekai taikai records. he told mr. miyagi, when he was seventeen and frightened, that he didn’t care to have mr. miyagi material belongings. all he wanted was mr. miyagi. now, all daniel has are mr. miyagi’s things, and he’s still trying to make his peace with that.
in a similar vein, being given things that belonged to his dad never fails to wreck daniel. he’s had antonio’s rosary since he was eight years old, when he helped dad hold it while doing their prayers at night. before he found his own signature scent, ma let him use dad’s cologne, teaching him how to put it on properly. there are shirts in his closet that used to be antonio’s, ones ma or his aunts + uncles see him wear and get struck by déjà vu. when he turned thirty, ma gave him dad’s wedding ring to keep. when he’s having a hard time recalling what dad sounded like, or how his hands felt when he lifted daniel onto his shoulders, daniel will sit with one of dad’s things and let himself get lost in the memories for a little while.
three. how do they react when someone they love is hurt?
to be blunt about it : intensely. daniel can be hotheaded, and is known for being deeply loyal and fiercely protective of his people. this includes family, friends, and students. and it cannot be stressed enough that, in spite of his kind nature and distaste for aggression without reason, daniel is a dangerous man. you’re lucky my dad didn’t kill you, anthony once said. unbeknownst to him, and everyone else in the karate war, just seven months later, daniel would find himself about to do that very thing. kill someone for harming his loved ones. sam. johnny. his very worst moment, and yet he can’t say he would’ve regretted it if miguel and sam had gotten to the cobra kai dojo just a little later, after he’d done the deed. of course, he isn’t always driven to such extremes when his people get hurt. but know that an angry daniel is not one to mess with, if you intend to leave with your body and ego fully intact.