DefiantDreaming TexasStyle

55 yrs of being a hot mess! Learning how to live life again. If you find yourself attracted to the thought of incest or children- DO NOT FOLLOW ME! If I see anything about incest on your blog you will be blocked and reported If you have no bio, no age in your bio you will be blocked. you see something that belongs to you, and want it removed ; please let me know and I’ll remove it. This is my safe space to explore, learn, grow, and just plain have a little fun. I will not tolerate disrespect, hate, or degrading of others here. Do NOT send / submit nude photos of yourself or others. You will be blocked.

[poetrybyonur]

Be gentle with my heart but a beast with my body.

[masterxdanx]

[beccawise7]

This. 💜🖤

[thesirone]

That's what I've been doing

[defiantslv]

Solid focus on being better

[defiantslv]

2026

Taking care of body, mind, & soul. Gym, checking in on my own emotions and not letting them rule my day to day, learning discipline, trying new things. It took a long time to get my mind ready for the work involved for this year. So far so good. Just one more : one more minute, one more rep, just one more kind word, just one more. Then there is one less unhealthy habit by implementing the just one more habit. I can’t do this to I am doing this. This year I will win!

[henriquejorgegentleman]

[defiantslv]

#somethingaboutpearls

[defiantslv]

[the-dominant-script]

How to treat a woman, a quick guide for the generation that thinks “bare minimum” is effort.

You buy her flowers once, I remember her favorite ones.

You double-tap her selfies, I notice the small change in her tone.

You play PlayStation, I play her body until she forgets what day it is.

You text “wyd”, I make sure she never has to question where she stands.

You say “goodnight”, I make sure she actually sleeps peacefully.

You send memes, I learn her silences.

You want her attention, I want her peace.

You call her hot, I make her feel safe enough to be soft.

You ask for nudes, I undress her soul first.

You try to impress her, I try to understand her.

That’s the difference between wanting a woman, and knowing how to handle one.

[defiantslv]

💯

[idontseawineknot]

[defiantslv]

💯

[yourfav0ritedaddy-deactivated20]

she’s shy but will do ungodly disgusting things just to hear “good girl”

[defiantslv]

🙈

[hopencyde-deactivated20250901]

[defiantslv]

Both of us … Same stance

[a-storytotell]

the feminine urge to melt into the arms of a man

who is safe, sweet and supportive

[cnalife2]

not just a man......him..

[defiantslv]

Exactly… his

[angel-fallen-not-broken]

Find Someone Who Loves You Well

[cnalife2]

all of this!!!

[subgirlygirl]

[thefearofnotliving]

I don't understand #16, but the rest of these are spot on.

[subgirlygirl]

I agree. I'm not showy, I don't go to munches or 'play' parties, etc. Every single partner I've had (save maybe one or two way back in the day?) would be a complete stranger to anyone in the local BDSM 'community.' And I like it that way. That said, I have mad investigative skills (and professional resources), and I always check people out before getting close to them. But hearing that he dated or 'played with' RavenBunny78 a year ago and everything was great? I don't want to know that.

[silverbeardmtnman]

#Mutuals - ongoing #PSA about Fake Doms These seems to be emerging as a subtheme for me to share.

I feel like the vampire hunter (Ravenloff) with the tool set of

bait (that's you.... the niave lamb who does not know how to discern the real Dom from abuser,

a mirror, a bag of holy symbols, Garlic...oh , plenty of garlic,

Aromatics (mirth,sage,curry, bloodroot, and others),

fire,

holy water,

Van Richten's Guide to Vampires (or, extensive Tumber resources)

[defiantslv]

Bc there is absolutely no reason to ever not reblog this!

[defiantslv]

703K views · 43K reactions | Part 2: What Women Want — Security. 🛡️🤍🔒⁣⁣ #explorepage #jayjaydouglas #motivation #inspiration #facebookreels

Part 2: What Women Want — Security. 🛡️🤍🔒⁣⁣ #explorepage #jayjaydouglas #motivation #inspiration #facebookreels.

[defiantslv]

1.7M views · 78K reactions | If I have to argue to be understood, I’ll choose silence to be free 🔕🖤⁣⁣⁣⁣#explorepage #reels #life #jayjaydoug

If I have to argue to be understood, I’ll choose silence to be free 🔕🖤⁣⁣⁣⁣#explorepage #reels #life #jayjaydouglas #love #instagram #faceboo

[triskeleaficionado]

When you tear out a man's tongue, you are not proving him a liar, you're only telling the world that you fear what he might say.

George R. R. Martin

[quotefeeling]

“The ones who hurt us cannot heal us. That’s not the way it works. That’s not the way it ever works.”

— Ashleigh Catibog-Abraham, There’s Nothing Left to Save

[masterxdanx]