˚₊‧꒰ა my relationship status is: taken and not looking!!
˚₊‧꒰ა BYI: i am edu-radqueer!! i am also edu-contact! i am a darkshipper, paraphile, transID user, etc. if you are uncomfortable with any of these, feel free to not interact!!
˚₊‧꒰ა DNI pls: antis, pro noncon, pro harassment, queerphobes, ableists, racists, etc.
˚₊‧꒰ა boundaries: no flirting in any context please! i'm okay with chrono minors interacting with my blog, but due to past events, i am not comfortable with talking one on one to chrono minors!! please use tone tags and minimize acronyms!
˚₊‧꒰ა kin boundaries:
(disclaimer, this is for my own sake because i am heavily uncomfortable and distressed by certain kins being shared with me!)
🔴: no doubles please and thank you!!
🟢: don't mind doubles!!
🟡: close friend doubles only please!
˚₊‧꒰ა labels ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
˚₊‧꒰ა blankqueer ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
• eduradqueer
• aquaqueer
• citrusqueer
• dollqueer
• friendshipismagicqueer
• elementqueer
• dialqueer
• cosmiqueer
• crystalqueer
• honeyqueer
• worthqueer
• sagequeer
˚₊‧꒰ა orientation ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
• demisexual
• demiromantic
• demigreyaesthetic
• objectum
• fictorose
• ambiamorous
• gaybian
• lesboy
• turigirl
˚₊‧꒰ა gender ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
• genderfluid
• girlboy
• mittengirl
• xenogirl
• honeybee transfem
• neogirl
• transneutral
• pupgender
• cakegender
• pinkgender
and many more!!
˚₊‧꒰ა fiction kintypes ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
• clearsight (wof) 🔴
• cricket (wof) 🔴
• twilight sparkle (mlp) 🟢
• stu macher (scream 1996) 🟡
• mangle (fnaf) 🟢
• alfred alfer (alfred's playhouse) 🟢
• cocoa (dandy's world) 🟡
• squirm (dandy's world) 🔴
˚₊‧꒰ა other kintypes ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
• wing kin
• angel kin
• deity kin
• hyena kin
• rough collie mix kin
• baby harp seal kin
• pomchi kin
and probably more!!
˚₊‧꒰ა transIDs ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
• trans deity
• tris intersex
• trans cult leader
• tris sweet scent
• tris worshipped
• tris adored
• tris loved
• trans winged
• trans christian
• trans angel
• trans married
• trans comfort person
• tris adult
• trans sunshine and rainbows
• trans pomchi
• trans plush
• trans cute fanged
• trans dictator
• trans shapeshifter
• trans future seer
• trans zombie
• tris admired
• trans neapolitan flavour
• trans mother figure
• trans kynanthrope
• trans scientist
and more!!
˚₊‧꒰ა that's all folks!! tysm for reading!! have a nice day!! ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
names ,, dirk or bro ( + among other kin names , see kin list )
prns + terms ,, he / him , it / its + masc and non-human terms
age ,, i am a chrono adult , however i am transolder aswell , around 30-40 yrs ( please keep my chrono age in mind when interacting with me . )
byi ,, i am a did system , so take that into account when interacting . dont flirt with me , joking or otherwise . i am happily taken by my wife . i am not radqueer , though i am adjacent . follow your own dni .
boundaries ,, use tone tags for me sparingly / only when needed .
dni list ,, no big dni tbh , aslong as youre not an asshole you can interact with me . respectful antis can interact with me / my blog if they so choose .
cis women can identify as lesbians
trans women can identify as lesbians
non-binary people can identify as lesbians
trans men can identify as lesbians
cis men can identify as lesbians
people who are attracted to men can identify as lesbians
literally anyone can identify as a lesbian if that is the label that feels right to them. you can't police others' identities.
-sincerely, a lesbian man.
Hey deity, I just wanted to ask if you'd be willing to do transnazi comms. By that I mean, art of a transnazi persona? I understand if no, you did say no hateful content. Just checking! No hard feelings if not!
sure! but i'd ask for it not to be posted with my name! if someone asks, you can give them my name in private! and i might not be comfortable drawing swastikas but i can draw the uniform
you can dm me if you're wishing for a comm, i'm open rn ofc!
can't tell if i'm a 496 or a 426.. 9s are apparently more withdrawn and non confrontational when there's an issue to keep the peace, but i'd rather bring it up asap..
changed it again btw, SO/SX but i thought i was SP, because its pretty balanced and trauma has made it so i unnaturally prioritize SP when im actually SO/SX in my healthiest state
are you saying that everyone's experience with having eating disorders is always due to fatphobia?
i know someone who has eating disorders due to paranoia and delusions of poison in their food, and it has nothing to do with fatphobia in the slightest and never has for them/lh
okay so... rant and almost kinda sorta vent? this is about anti transrace people and how i can't figure out any good faith reasons to be against transrace.
aside from legal challenges, are there any valid arguments against transrace? cause all people seem to say is "race is biological, you can't change it"......
first of all, science has proven that it's actually not a biological difference and is just a collection of traits. the importance of it comes from social perception and identity and struggles of the person of said race. it's a social construct. yes, the traits are physical, but there's no solid categories. it's a spectrum, there are no borders between races.
second of all, in that view, sex is biological too??? it is a collection of traits that determine if you're male or female, or on the spectrum between that. but because of people being transgender, they often transition their sex to be another. biological factors don't play a part in transgenderism, it's not a big deal that you are biologically one sex and changed to be another... so why is that different?
another argument i see is that it's invalidating the trauma of being born that race...... which.... also doesn't make sense when they're pro transgender........ women have extreme trauma from being born female.... why is that different for race? i'm genuinely confused. plus, those people aren't claiming to have said trauma nor are they saying they want to be said race, with the perks of not experiencing trauma. most trans people want the identity as a whole, not just the good. they're willing to undergo trauma in order to be their transID.
it's not a shallow, quirky, cute thing. it's genuine joy and pain and a deeper connection than most people feel in their entire lives. with my transIDs, i've genuinely cried for days and fallen into depression because i thought i wasn't cis of them (turns out i was). it's not often a happy thing when you have transIDs. you do sometimes get joy from being affirmed or from the identity itself, but it's painful. denying the ability to express oneself is the greatest pain, at least for me. by being anti transrace (or any transid), you are telling someone that you'd prefer they live in constant crushing pain, than be uncomfortable for a little in order to change your views.
also, it's not just an inherent connection sometimes, it can also be a coping mechanism or a healing process. by reclaiming an identity or moving away from one that causes pain, you are helping yourself feel better and/or heal. by denying this, you are putting your own comfort over their ability to heal from trauma that could be threatening their life.
also, if they see all this and still choose to be anti transrace... why???? why are you putting your *comfort* over someone's *health*?? it's okay to be uncomfortable, but it's not okay to be unhealthy. the pure arrogance of saying "change/supress your identity for me, because i find it uncomfortable to change my views"... WHAT. imagine saying that to a transgender person??? that wouldn't be okay?? it being more normalized to hate on transrace people, does NOT make it any different???? i don't see how someone could be a good person if they actively ignore all the evidence, and put others at risk of social or self harm, just to feel better about their social fantasies. if you believe that being transrace is not okay, after everything, that's technically fine. but don't claim to be a good person after that.
can't tell if i'm a 496 or a 426.. 9s are apparently more withdrawn and non confrontational when there's an issue to keep the peace, but i'd rather bring it up asap..
˚₊‧꒰ა my relationship status is: taken and not looking!!
˚₊‧꒰ა BYI: i am edu-radqueer!! i am also edu-contact! i am a darkshipper, paraphile, transID user, etc. if you are uncomfortable with any of these, feel free to not interact!!
˚₊‧꒰ა DNI pls: antis, pro noncon, pro harassment, queerphobes, ableists, racists, etc.
˚₊‧꒰ა boundaries: no flirting in any context please! i'm okay with chrono minors interacting with my blog, but due to past events, i am not comfortable with talking one on one to chrono minors!! please use tone tags and minimize acronyms!
˚₊‧꒰ა kin boundaries:
(disclaimer, this is for my own sake because i am heavily uncomfortable and distressed by certain kins being shared with me!)
🔴: no doubles please and thank you!!
🟢: don't mind doubles!!
🟡: close friend doubles only please!
˚₊‧꒰ა labels ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
˚₊‧꒰ა blankqueer ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
• eduradqueer
• aquaqueer
• citrusqueer
• dollqueer
• friendshipismagicqueer
• elementqueer
• dialqueer
• cosmiqueer
• crystalqueer
• honeyqueer
• worthqueer
• sagequeer
˚₊‧꒰ა orientation ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
• demisexual
• demiromantic
• demigreyaesthetic
• objectum
• fictorose
• ambiamorous
• gaybian
• lesboy
• turigirl
˚₊‧꒰ა gender ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
• genderfluid
• girlboy
• mittengirl
• xenogirl
• honeybee transfem
• neogirl
• transneutral
• pupgender
• cakegender
• pinkgender
and many more!!
˚₊‧꒰ა fiction kintypes ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
• clearsight (wof) 🔴
• cricket (wof) 🔴
• twilight sparkle (mlp) 🟢
• stu macher (scream 1996) 🟡
• mangle (fnaf) 🟢
• alfred alfer (alfred's playhouse) 🟢
• cocoa (dandy's world) 🟡
• squirm (dandy's world) 🔴
˚₊‧꒰ა other kintypes ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
• wing kin
• angel kin
• deity kin
• hyena kin
• rough collie mix kin
• baby harp seal kin
• pomchi kin
and probably more!!
˚₊‧꒰ა transIDs ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
• trans deity
• tris intersex
• trans cult leader
• tris sweet scent
• tris worshipped
• tris adored
• tris loved
• trans winged
• trans christian
• trans angel
• trans married
• trans comfort person
• tris adult
• trans sunshine and rainbows
• trans pomchi
• trans plush
• trans cute fanged
• trans dictator
• trans shapeshifter
• trans future seer
• trans zombie
• tris admired
• trans neapolitan flavour
• trans mother figure
• trans kynanthrope
• trans scientist
and more!!
˚₊‧꒰ა that's all folks!! tysm for reading!! have a nice day!! ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
it’s very adorable ~ !! i was drawn to your blog because i’m also trans-deity/deity-kin, by the way ~ are you planning on running your own fult ? what domain(s) do you reside over ? oh, i’m just so curious about you !! tell me everything ~ !!
- 👗☁️
i attempted to run a fult but i have a hard time with energy, so i didn't keep up with it lol
i'm the deity of acceptance, growth and self love!! these these are extremely important to me and my every day life, and i live by them and try and help others with them too!
(i love questions btw!!!!!)
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