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Jewelry Designer Temple St. Clair
On moonstones, her southern roots and her most prized possession: love notes from F. Scott Fitzgerald to her grandma (see one here for the first time ever!) Twenty-five years after being discovered by a Barneys buyer in Florence, designer Temple St. Clair's namesake jewelry line has earned legions of admirers among the glamorous bohemians who fetishize her signature rock crystal amulets and showpiece cocktail rings.
Born in Virginia, Ms. St. Clair grew up traveling and adventuring around the world—going on deep-sea expeditions with explorer Jean-Michel Cousteau, trekking through Mayan ruins in the Yucatán and studying literature in northern Italy, where she also discovered her professional calling.
Today, Ms. St. Clair continues to globe trot, collecting inspiration and talismanic charms in places like Nepal and Patmos, Greece, commemorating her travels with her covetable gems. When she's not stealing away to the Berkshires with her husband and two sons, the avid yogini and marine life advocate spends time at her SoHo studio conceiving her next collection.
This season, it's East-meets-West with Buddha as her muse. We caught up with the author of "Alchemy: A Passion for Jewels" (a memoir-cum-scrapbook about her travels and designs), who stresses the importance of keeping your aura clean and believes diamonds are definitely not a girl's best friend.
A bracelet from her current collectionTKTKTKT
I never take off my pair of steel and gold bangles. I'm ritualistic that way. You're supposed to keep steel in your aura. The Sikhs call it a Kara. Women wear steel on the left.
If nothing else, I put on a pair of earrings. They light up the face. My mother would always say, "put on your lipstick." But as I mature I think that with makeup, less is more.
Three investment pieces every woman should own are a signature jewel (mine's my amulet), a great coat from Loro Piana and a watch from Hermès, Bulgari or Patek Philippe.
I would never wear coral. The Buddhists look at it as a sacred object. The coral reefs are like the rain forests of the sea. It's actually an animal, which many people don't realize. Now the United States is the largest importer of coral for home décor and jewelry.
My favorite gem is a blue moonstone. It's magical and has this great quality called adularescence, which makes a blue flash that is beautiful on the skin. They're just like pearls in the way that they flatter everyone.
The place that inspires me most is Brunelleschi's Pazzi Chapel in Florence. Even though it looks simple, the way the dome is created is so sophisticated with its rich colors. In my jewelry, I like to take away rather than put too much in.
The best stores are Il Torchio, a fantastic paper shop in Florence where I buy journals for drawing and writing and Nuno, a contemporary textiles shop in Roppongi Hills in Tokyo that has beautiful scarves and shawls.
The most overrated jewels are diamonds. Apart from a few rare collectibles they are plentiful particularly in the smaller commercial sizes. On the other hand, very fine colored gems are painstakingly difficult to source, thus much more precious in my mind.
I never wear my rings in the ocean. My husband's wedding band is in a coral reef somewhere. Sunrise over estate homes in Charleston, S.C.
The best markets are Campo dei Fiori near the Piazza Navona in Rome and Santo Spirito in Florence. There is a trend in Italy called zero-kilometer markets with local, organic and artisanal goods. They're fantastic spots to find great woven wools and obscure lotions and potions. To me, luxury is finding the perfect local honey or simple arrangement of flowers.
My wedding ring is a blue sapphire that my husband bought while traveling with his friend years ago. We went to an antiquary dealer and set it in a band based on a Roman children's ring.
I never forget to pack Sakura Pigma Micron 05 pens, my Holbein sketchbook (I like that it ties with a string), my crystal amulet and my Nikon SLR. I also have a little Canon G11, which my professional photographer friends use as their pocket camera.
When I entertain, I like to make a big Portuguese fish stew. It's really satisfying in the winter. It takes three different kinds of fish, andouille sausage, potatoes, lots of bay leaves and allspice. It's perfect with great crispy bread and good red wine.
I love to visit Charleston, S.C. It has big cosmopolitan flavor for a little town. One of my favorite eating places down there is Gaulart & Maliclet. It's this little chic sit-at-the-counter café place. It's nickname is "Fast and French."
If I had to design using only three materials, they would be 24-karat gold, aquamarine and tourmaline in their crystal state. I love the basic qualities of pure gold and the sensual range of colors literally makes me feel content.
I like having a uniform. I have about seven Prada boots. I add new ones each season.
It depends where I am, but the best chocolate is from Paris (Angelina is a classic); Florence (Café Rivoire in Piazza della Signoria); and New York, where I keep a stock of MarieBelle Aztec hot chocolate.
I come from a matriarchal Southern family so I love unlimited refills of sweet iced tea or shrimp and grits. We make them simply as a side dish with salt and pepper. Yes, I make my sons eat grits.
My favorite restaurants are Cave di Maiano in the hills above Florence where "Room with a View" was filmed (they make a black cabbage risotto that I dream of), and a hole in the wall in New York called Minca on East 5th street that has the best ramen outside of Japan.
I treasure my copies of love notes from F. Scott Fitzgerald to my grandmother. They met on a transatlantic cruise in the '20s while she was visiting Egypt for King Tut's tomb opening. He became her admirer and visited her in Virginia Beach. She would never fess up to what went on in the dunes.
—Edited from an interview by Nicole Berrie
An inscription to Ms. St. Clair's grandmother from F. Scott Fitzgerald: "For Mary Lou Archer, memories of the Conte Biancamano and of Virginia Beach. From her admirer, F. Scott Fitzgerald. "HULTON ARCHIVE/GETTY IMAGES.
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你会越来越懂得遗憾之美——
那些没有去过的地方成为了你的愿景和动力,
没有在一起的人让你拥有了回忆和秘密,
没能过上的生活使你学会了接受和珍惜,
没能解开的心结终将令你放下并知晓。
原来所有人和事都会过去,最深刻的关系一直是你和你自己。
不要再为遗憾流泪、神伤,拥抱它,就是拥抱更好的你。
虽然目前还是在遗憾使我心碎的阶段。
25岁华人小哥年薪7万,毕业3年买房20套
多伦多25岁的华人小哥,从多伦多大学毕业后进入RBC银行工作,年薪7万,工作3年买了20套房产,怎么做到的?
根据Toronto Life的报道,多伦多华人小哥Austin Yeh出生于1995年,在士嘉堡长大,父母都是在印度长大的华人,在1970年移民加拿大,家庭条件并不富裕。
小哥的爸爸6年级就辍学了,在餐馆后厨找了一份工作以补贴他的父母和四个兄弟姐妹。初到加拿大时,曾在咖啡店打工和送Pizza外卖。
小哥的妈妈比小哥的爸爸晚几年来到加拿大,在工厂里打工。1980年,俩人经熟人介绍组成了家庭,生下了小哥和他的妹妹Angel,并在几年后以9万加元的价格在士嘉堡买了一栋四房一卫的房子。
小哥回忆,小时候最开心的事就是一家人休假时结伴出游,但是财务状况对他的家庭来说一直是个问题,所以他们总是要提前考虑路途中哪个加油站价格最便宜,搜索各种优惠券。当时,小哥梦想着长大后成为一名医生或牙医,可观的收入让他可以随心所欲地拥有任何自己想要的东西而不必考虑价格。
因为父母的叮嘱,小哥深知教育是成功的关键,他非常努力学习,在多伦多大学(UTSC)读书期间,四年获得2.5万加元的奖学金,还曾到普华永道,德勤等顶尖公司实习。学习之余,小哥每年暑假都和他妈妈一起去DVD包装工厂做全职工人,赚取最低时薪。
2017年,小哥从多大毕业后,第一份工作就是在RBC银行做commercial banker,年薪7万加元,比他以往时候赚的都多。但是小哥并不快乐,他不满足于找一份年薪不错的稳定工作,然后一直工作30年或40年,之后退休。他渴望声望和金钱。最终,他转入金融课程,因为他知道这将给他带来可观的收入。
2018年,他在朋友的推荐下阅读了一本书《富爸爸,穷爸爸》,彻底改变了他的命运。他从书中得知,创造被动收入才可以让你无需全职工作就可以赚钱。
一开始,小哥盲目投资股票,因为对市场一无所知最终损失了4000加元。后来,他受到YouTube视频的启发,开始涉猎投资房产的知识。小哥对此很感兴趣,但无奈他多年工作+省吃俭用的存款只有4万加元,根本没办法在多伦多市场买房,甚至都不够买市中心的一个停车位。
后来,小哥将目光投向一些小镇。2018年秋天,他在温莎(Windsor)以13万加元的价格购买了第一套3房1卫的独立屋。交房后,小哥通过投入2.5万加元进行装修,使房子的估值在短时间升值了5万。
当然,一切并不是那么顺风顺水,毫无经验的小哥在装修的过程中被装修团队拖延时间加价,起初说好的一个月变成三个月,1.25万装修费最终变成2.5万,他不得不向父母及女友借款1.3万才完成了装修。
拥有第一套房产后,存款归零还欠债1.3万的小哥如何继续购买19套房产?
他的关键选择是,不急于卖房,而是将房产重新贷款(refinance)。
通过银行贷款的钱,小哥又买了一套房产。后来,他一直不断重复同样的事情:买房,装修,重新贷款,出租。有时,他还会与别人合作购买。
通过这个方法,小哥在2年多的时间里购买了温莎18处房产和多伦多2处房产,价格从13万-65万加元不等,以月租1400-4000加元出租,并用房租支付贷款。目前这些房产的贷款总额约500万加元,小哥每月用房租还款后还能余下4000加元的收入。
直到今年的新冠病毒大流行,情况开始有了变化。幸运的是,小哥的租客们都还按时支付房租,无一欠租。不过,小哥从中学到了重要的一刻,资产不断扩张的同时,面临的风险也更多,所以未来他将更加谨慎地评估自己所能承受的范围。
虽然小哥现在每个月有固定的全职工作收入+4000加元的被动收入,但是他仍然十分节俭,还与父母同住在士嘉堡的家中,用投资赚到的钱帮他赚更多的钱,早日实现财富自由,帮助57岁和64岁的母亲和父亲在未来2年内退休。
1.你背不下来的书,总有人能背下来,你做不出来的题,总有人能做出来,你愿意拖到明天的事总有人今天努力做完,那么不好意思,你想去的学校也只能別人去了,你想过的人生也只能别人过了。
2.总不能一生碌碌无为,还安慰自己平凡可贵。
3.懒惰是很奇怪的东西,它使你以为那是安逸,是休息,是福气;但实际上它所给你的是无聊,是倦怠,是消沉;它剥夺你对前途的希望,割断你和别人之间的友情,使你心胸日渐狭窄,对人生也越来越怀疑 。
--罗兰《忙碌与进取》
4.如果每个人都理解你,那你得普通成什么样子?
——周星驰
5.头等舱可以优先登机 银行VIP可以不用排队 演唱会最贵的票位置也最好 世界从不平等 你有多努力 就有多特殊
6.且挨过三冬四夏,暂受些此痛苦,雪尽后再看梅花。
7.有时候一些深刻的思绪,总是会失去语言。走在大街上的时候。观望着行人的时候。心里忍不住就会想起,它曾经有的繁华。它无处可逃的时光深处的荒凉。在生命的轮回中,永远都是物是人非。
8.不管在哪里,我们都要记住,过去都是假的,回忆是一条没有尽头的路,一切过往的春天都不复存在,就连那最坚韧而又狂乱的爱情,归根结底也不过是一种转瞬即逝的现实。
其实他在意的不是死亡而是生命,因此听到死刑判决时,他心中没有恐惧只有留恋
——马尔克斯《百年孤独》
9.悄无声息的崩溃又悄无声息的自愈。 但要相信,结果配得上付出。
10.每次一想到“都得死”,我就愉悦了,就能短暂的原谅这个世间的各种狗屎。
11.不努力的话 天赋是会被收走的
12.一路陪我走过来的从来都不是什么善良正直正能量,而是虚荣嫉妒不甘心。
13.每一个优秀的人都有一段沉默的时光,那段时光,是付出了很多努力,却得不到结果的日子,我们把它叫做扎根。
14.发光不是太阳的权利,每个人都可以。
15.生活里真正的强者,是那些看透了生活的无奈之后,还能选择不敷衍、不抱怨、不自卑的人。
16.你可以阴郁,可以懒散,可以不适时地计较,过分敏感,可以有些不知足、暴躁、嫉妒、小气,但要记得拷问自我,必须追求善良,尽力坦荡,永远正直。
17.我们的眼睛里除了平视和仰视,更应该经常俯视,俯视疾病和痛苦,俯视角落和夹缝。我们眼中看到的,除了繁花盛景,还应该有世间冷暖。
18.看似不起波澜的日复一日,会突然在某一天让人看到坚持的意义。——王源
19.做的好不好是别人的判断 但努力不努力是自己的选择。
20.没有谁会为你踏雪而来,喜欢的风景要自己去看
21.你要克服的是你的虚荣心,是你的炫耀欲,你要对付的是你时刻想要出风头的小聪明。
22.不要太乖,不想做的事情可以拒绝,做不到的事不用勉强,不喜欢的话假装没听见,你的人生不是用来讨好别人而是善待自己。
23.我的目标是考上高中 而不是纠结一个和我未来毫无关系的人到底喜不喜欢我。
24.爱情不讲先来后到 但要知道礼义廉耻
25.在一个坑里摔倒不要停留 不值得 也没必要
26.长大并不意味着一定要去探究每件事情的结果和真相,长大也必然伴随着焦虑与敏感,唯一的解决之道就是,就是站起来、走出去,去做自己该做的、喜欢的、能做的事。 行动,就是最好的消化法。
28.放弃不难但坚持一定很酷
29.别为模糊不清的未来担忧,只为清清楚楚的现在努力
30.你不应该是谁的女儿、谁的妹妹、谁的妻子、谁的妈妈,你应该是你自己。
31.忠于内心忠于自己
32.我的快乐不是因为我拥有什么,而是我再也不怕失去什么。希望你也能一样。
33.任何值得到达的地方,都没有捷径。
34.人脉有一天会断,优秀永远不会贬值。
35.不要奢望别人给你经济上的任何帮助,钱对任何人都是不够用的。
36.明智的放弃胜过盲目的执着
37.早上起床你有两个选择,盖上被子做完你没做完的梦,掀开被子完成你没完成的梦。
38.创造美好的代价是努力,失望以及毅力,首先是疼痛,然后是快乐。
39.选一种姿态,让自己活得无可替代。
40.你永远不会失去你的家人,你的学识,以及你对人的忠诚。
41.人类的悲喜并不相通。
42.18岁的你漂亮 不是你漂亮 是18漂亮
28岁的你漂亮 不是28岁漂亮 是你漂亮
43.科比:总有人要赢的 为什么不能是我呢
44.如果天空是黑暗的,那就抹黑生存 如果发出声音是危险的,那就保持沉默; 如果自觉无力发光,那就别去照亮别人。 但是,不要习惯了黑暗就为黑暗辩护; 不要为自己的苟且而得意洋洋; 不要嘲讽那些比自己更勇敢、更有热量的人们。 可以卑微如尘土,不可扭曲如蛆虫。
——季业
44.许多人在说自己孤独,说自己孤独的人其实并不孤独,孤独不是冷落和遗弃,而是无知己和不被理解。孤独者不言孤独,偶尔作声长啸,如我们看到的兽。
住楼就住顶楼,居高而望远,看戏就坐后排,看不清戏却看得清看戏的人。——《自在独行》贾平凹
44.“你现在正处于向往感动的状态之中。你的纯洁无垢的心时时渴望感动,这是一种单纯的疾病。你就像一个长大了的少年为爱而爱一样,只不过是为感动而感动罢了。固定观念治好了,你的感动自然也就烟消云散了。你也很清楚,这世界除了肉感没有其他的感动。任何思想和观念,没有肉感就无法感动人。人明明为思想的耻部所感动,却偏要像一个装腔作势的绅士,硬是说为思想的帽子所感动。”
——三岛由纪夫《禁色》
45.对于人际关系,我逐渐总结出了一个最合乎我的性情的原则,就是互相尊重,亲疏随缘。我相信,一切好的友谊都是自然而然形成的,不是刻意求得的。我还认为,再好的朋友也应该有距离,太热闹的友谊往往是空洞无物的。——周国平
46.后来我才知道,很多事情上都可以努力,但人与人之间不行,能走到最后的,其实一开始,就是同路人。
47.最后还是选择错过了那个人,十几岁的人总是喜欢奋不顾身的保护一个不喜欢你的人,到最后还是不会觉得不值,只会认为当初在坚持一下他应该就是我的了,可是这永远都是不可能的。
48.没有背景的的人,用心,是让领导看到自己的唯一办法。普通人拼不了资源,拼不了背景,只能拼认真和用心,用心做好每一件事情的你,差的只是每个人都会遇上的那么点运气。
49.任何事情上都可以浑浑噩噩,唯独在工作上不可以。在上学的时代你可能都是浑浑噩噩的面对学习,平时生活上也是无精打采的毫无斗志,你已经丢掉太多机会了,在工作上打起精神,是你人生当中仅有的机会了。
50.我们常说的要加油啊,并不是觉得你不够努力,也不是要你跟别人比成就,而是由衷地觉得,你不止于此,你值得更好的,希望你可以被善待被偏爱,所以你不要放弃,再努努力呀
你已经万事如意了,什么事情都如你的意,我就不祝你这个了,这四个字是我外婆告诉我的,我一直觉得这是最好的祝福,我只送给你。” “哪里好?” “万事胜意的意思就是,一切结果,都比你当初想象的,还要好一点点。”——八月长安《你好,旧时光》
CARLES SORIA, THE "SPANISH CLAW" OF ESTORIL
https://holanews.com/carles-soria-la-garra-espanola-del-estoril/
Paula Fernande
zhttps://www.sport.es/es/videos/espanyol/20201005/carles-soria-la-garra-espanola-del-estoril/4873216.shtml
Estoril (Portugal), Oct 5 (EFE) .- Although he was close to climbing to the Espanyol first team, Carles Soria has ended up landing with his "Spanish claw" at Estoril Praia, a leap into the professional world that was "complicated not accept, "he says in an interview with EFE.
Soria (Calaf, 1996) is a right back and has left behind eleven years at Espanyol, where he was already a veteran and a "father" in the subsidiary, to be the new in the Estoril dressing room and face a Portuguese second division where the competitiveness that exists has surprised him.
At just 20 years old, he already had a brief international experience in the Cypriot AEK Larnaca coached by the Basque Imanol Idiakez. Now, in Portugal, he is leaving home again to find his place in a team with history that is struggling to return to the first division.
Question: What made you leave Espanyol to head for Estoril?
Answer: Many times we focus on the fact that there is only life in Spanish football, we only want to play in Spain and we don't see beyond, we don't want to leave our comfort zone.
I am a football lover and when you get a proposal from a club like Estoril, which was in Europe years ago, which has been in first class for many years, it is difficult not to accept it.
Q: Did you feel that your time in the Espanyol subsidiary had run out?
A: It is no longer that it was exhausted but that in the end you also have the goal of wanting to be professional. I had been at the club for eleven years, I even felt like a father in the team, of very young people who were rising. In the end, maybe the stage did fall short and you needed a change of scene. I had the option of going up to the first team very close, due to certain circumstances it did not happen.
Q: There he was one of the veterans and here he is one of the new ones.
A: We need to be in the professional world and life in a subsidiary is totally different from the elite.
In a subsidiary, many times, being a young player and with little maturity, the thought is a little more selfish. When you arrive at a professional locker room the mentality is totally collective, for the good of the team. That competition is what makes you grow.
Q: How do you define yourself as a player?
A: As they call it here: the Spanish claw, the drive, the heart, the work and the sacrifice. Many times they are general concepts that people talk about and do not really feel. But I feel them inside, working every day, enjoying myself, giving my best, not understanding relaxing and working like someone else and running.
Q: Have you been surprised by the level of the Portuguese second division?
A: Spaniards think that Spain has the best football, that we are the best. Here I was very surprised by the competitiveness that there is, the teams are very strong.
There are high-quality players, especially in attack. And the defenders here are defenders. In other places we make mistakes by wanting defenders to be seen in attack and in the end we forget that we are defenders.
Q: What is it like working with coach Bruno Pinheiro?
A: From the first to the last he feels important in this team. The ideas that Bruno has both on and off the field are super clear, easy to understand. That helps a lot so that the player can quickly perceive the objectives.
Q: How was the experience in Cyprus?
A: I differentiate the experience in two areas, personal and football. At the football level it was not as expected, I played very little, I did not join the team much. But on a personal level I think it changed me, it was a brutal degree of maturity to go out to a totally different country at the age of 20. It helped a lot that our club was almost totally Spanish: we were 15 or 16 Spanish players, Spanish coach, Spanish management. That helped a lot to make adaptation easier.
Q: And the adaptation to Portugal?
A: As Portugal is so close, it seems that I am not outside of Spain. It's all much closer, people, both inside the club and outside, have helped me a lot.
Many times it is about us that we only come to play football, but apart from footballers we are people. And if you are not happy or do not feel comfortable you are wasting your time.
Q: Which teammates have surprised you the most?
A: I am very surprised by the demands of each one in training, the competition in the group, the experience of the players ... In my position is Jo o Diogo, who has played in the first division and is a player of the I have to learn
Q: Would you like to play in another league?
A: On a football level I would love to play in England, because football is lived to the fullest, or in Germany. They are big leagues where you really watch football. Poland, Belgium and the Netherlands are countries that have extreme visibility at a football level and where football is also experienced.
I would like to go to a place where there really is a football culture, not that they pay you more or less. Money is a secondary thing. But long live football, because in the end it is what I love.
Q: How do you see Espanyol this season?
A: They cannot relax but they have all the conditions to be able to be up and up.
They have an extremely good roster and capable of climbing. I have great friends in the first team, like Melendo, Lluís (López), Alex (López), Roca ...
But they cannot discredit the category. It is very complicated, there are very historical teams in second class that cannot get out of there, Malaga and Zaragoza are having a hard time returning. They have a great opportunity to take advantage of, a step back to be able to take two forward.
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不久前项氏后人向学界公开《汝南项氏宗谱》,其中称项羽“夫人虞氏”,他们不仅有后,还世代相传。
其说跟朱熹“《项氏重修宗谱》序”吻合。