Demented Delights

Welcome to my Remus Sanders blog, you can call me DD. I'm over three decades old and I use they/them pronouns. I ship all Remus ships, platonic and romantic! Yes, that includes Remrom (because fuck you, that's why). :P I currently tag with "#remrom", "#remrom mention", and "#remrom discourse". My header image is made by @royal-bros. My ask box is open to everyone: Lovers. Haters. Pro-shippers. Antis. NOTPs. Neutrals. Send me questions. Send me hate. Send me love. Send me rants. Send me vents. Anon is turned on. You're safe to voice your opinion. I'm here. I'm listening. (I can be slow to reply sometimes, so please be patient. 💚) If you are trying to talk to me, please use an Ask or PM. I do not guarantee a response to comments or reblogs. If you tag me and I don't reply to it, I probably missed it. DD is a Distractible Dumbass. Please poke me again. 💚 Please note: If you come on my blog, you take responsibility for managing your own online experience. I tag to the best of my ability, and I accept tagging suggestions. I sometimes reblog posts of an adult nature - they will be tagged as #nsfw and #nc17 (I respectfully request that any minors who stumble over my blog filter those tags). Controversial, triggering, and taboo subjects are welcome on my blog, and will be tagged appropriately. Pro RemRom Tag List // NOTP RemRom-averse Awareness Post Masterlists: DD's Fanwork Masterlist Pro-RemRom Fic & Fanart Masterlist "Reasons Why I Ship RemRom" Masterlist "Reasons Why I Shouldn’t Ship RemRom" Masterlist RemRom-centric Music/Soundtrack Playlist Remus-centric Music/Soundtrack Playlist Now also on Discord: DD's RemRom Safespace. Find DD on other Social Media Platforms Other links: Sanders Sides Ship Names List Original Fanders Taglists Spreadsheet "How do you filter tags on Tumblr?" Walkthrough What is Discord/How do you join?" Walkthrough

[demented-dukey]

Welcome to RemRom 101!

So, you've decided that you kinda ship Remus/Roman and set up a secret sideblog so you can keep Remrom content away from your main blog, and/or you started posting Remrom content and I found your blog! Either way, welcome! I’m DD, the self-appointed hub of All Things RemRom, and here’s a few tips and tricks to minimize the drama and make sure everybody plays nice and has fun!

- Please take a few minutes to go through the Anti/NOTP list and block everyone who has a DNI - while this won’t stop you from accidentally reblogging from them, it will stop any hostile antis from reblogging from you. (Update re:Blocking - please unfollow anyone who requests an unfollow, and try to keep your distance from anyone marked with a DNI.)

- Feel free to go through the Pro-Remrom Taglist and make friends with the other pro-shippers (and request to have your name added to it if you want). You are welcome to tag these people when you post new fic or art!

- If you want to, send a private message to DD for an invite to the Pro-RemRom Safespace Discord server (optional).

- Do Not send hatemail to any of the antis, no matter what. No. Matter. What. If an anti is causing problems, let DD know about it so they can handle it.

- Respect DNIs (Do Not Interact). Do not reply or reblog any post with the tags "#anti remrom", “#remrom dni”, or "#remrom shippers dni". Filter those tags if you have to so you don't see them and aren't tempted to reply to them. (You may also want to filter “#tw remrom”)

- Do Not Tag anything with the "#remrom" tag unless you are 100% positive it was intended as Remrom. If it's doesn't explicitly say that it's shippy in the body of the post, then go back to the original post and check the tags OP used to be sure.

- Do not bring up Remrom headcanons on non-Remrom posts or prompts unless you are sure it's okay with OP to talk about it.

- If someone asks you to remove a reblog, please remove it. Yes, it hella sucks to feel like you’re contagious and not allowed to enjoy a post, but take it down anyways. It’s common courtesy, and we can’t demand that they respect us if we don’t respect them.

- Always tag your shit. If you are making a new shippy post with fic or art, please use the "#remrom" tag! If you're creating or reblogging a post with remrom discourse or negative opinions, please use "#remrom discourse" or "#remrom mention" tags so it keeps the discourse and negativity out of the main tag. If your work contains incest (they call each other brothers, etc), then please tag "#tw incest". Do not use the #creativitwins tag unless you're writing/drawing platonic Remus&Roman - the only time you wanna use #creativitwins and #remrom on the same post is if your work is intended to be vague and interpreted either way.

Got any questions, or any tips to add? Shoot a message to DD!

Welcome to the RemRom Brotherhood!

(post last updated 5/29/2020)

[toxicincestenjoyer-fig]

I'm noticing as I go through the tag that remrom is very sweet which is not at all what I was expecting.

Like Remus is the embodiment of Intrusive Thoughts, he has no qualms about saying what's on his mind, and he can easily figure out what exactly you hate whether about yourself, others or both. He's pretty damn good at getting a reaction out of the other sides too, he's almost childish in the way he enjoys testing the others.

Then there's Roman, the man is insecure. He's easy to lead on if you feed into his ego but as the ego he's also easily bruised. He's desperate to feel valuable, when Janus buttered him up he had such a hard time not giving in because the others rarely play to his pride so much. Yet he despises Janus, more so he despises the concept of the dark sides(A concept that he made up), likely because he knows he's egocentric and selfish as hell, things that C!Thomas's morals say are bad. As the dashing prince he's supposed to be a beacon of good in the world, the fact that he's so often so close to those he deems to be the 'Dark Sides' in behavior disturbs him. It hurts his black and white view of the world and as the ego he can't let that world view get shattered because that world view literally informs his identity, C!Thomas's identity.

Then you bring in Remus, Remus who already knows all of that. Who knows exactly what makes Roman tick and unlike Roman doesn't have the insecurities(As far as I can tell). And unlike the other sides who merely play the roles of a family(Patton as the dad is the most obvious but also that thing with like the cousin aunt mom friend group assigned family roles type deal) he and Roman are ATCUAL siblings, twins no less! Reflections of eachother and he knows that Roman hates what he sees. Remus doesn't though, Remus doesn't care about his image. He just enjoys the reactions he can get out of others.

Each side has unique reactions to his 'contributions' but no one else reacts quite like Roman. Even Virgil tends to simply regard him with disgust. Roman reacts to him like an insult. To Roman Remus's very existence is an act of violence against his character and he HATES it. He takes things so personally and he's so reactive.

I dunno, I kinda expected there would be more Remus manipulating and fucking with Roman. They're siblings, Roman doesn't like Remus and Remus is literally Intrusive Thoughts. There's a lot there, like how one of the most common types of Intrusive Thoughts are those of incest.

Remus would have no problem making a few sexual jokes about him and Roman and it'd get to Roman every time. I can imagine Roman chasing Remus around the mind place with his sword after one of his jokes. One of the sides tries to calm him down after they lose eachother, reminding him that 'Its okay, what Remus says has no real impact. Its just nonsense.' and Roman gets that, like he understands that but it doesn't stop the humiliation he experiences every time it happens, the way it damages his image to even have the thought of doing something like that with his brother?!

Roman almost certainly has taboo desires as well, almost certainly not about his brother but that doesn't change the fact that Remus loves to bring them up all the time. None of the other sides know that Remus is airing out Roman's dirty laundry, only them two. And Remus knows that whenever Roman thinks about those taboo desires of his that he deems to be so wretched he knows he'll be imagining Remus as the subject of them, after all, that's exactly how Intrusive Thoughts works. The more Roman tries to expel Remus out of his life the easier it is for him to stick around. Logically he knows that its not helping, that his disdain for Remus is only gonna make the thoughts worse but that's the issue isn't it? When the thoughts in your head are attacking your morals, your integrity, your ego, there's only so much logic can help before one's emotions get the better of them.

And Roman is very emotional.

[remrom-week]

Here are the prompts for RemRom week 2024!!

There are two sides, pick and choose on which you want to do! You can do all of the four prompts for the day or only a few or one! Have fun with it!

Start your works whenever you want but posting starts August 12th and ends on the 18th!! Have fun and remember if anyone wants to participate anonymously you can either send your work in through the ask box or come to either me (@shut-up-its-funny or Ele @znowubolimnienoga ) to post it for you!

Prompts written out under the cut!

Side A is one word vague prompts.

Day One: Light / Darkness

Day Two: Stage / Cosmos

Day Three: Painting / Poetry

Day Four: Hunt / Mirror

Day Five: Soulmates / Genderbend

Day Six: Lost / Found

Day Seven: Medieval / Fantasy

And side B has more context to them.

Day One: The Sun and the Moon / The Devil and the Angel on Thomas' Shoulder

Day Two: Flightless Wings / Wounded Butterfly

Day Three: Like Cain and Abel / Swings, Childhood Home

Day Four: Lost in the Mountains, Huddling for Warmth / Art Block on Creativity

Day Five: Fire and the Unknown / Waking up With...

Day Six: Summer vs Winter / Sunscreen and Familiar Hands

Day Seven: Pallette, Tastes / Messed Up Relationships Born From Tragedies

[purplehazestims-archive]

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[tstwitterupdates]

TS tweet 28/4/24

You all hit one of the goals of our charity stream, so… for the first time, here’s Remus sporting the cape that was originally created with his costume but never ended up being used! 💚

[bosquedediana-deactivated202403]

Hi. My name is Anti. I’ve been on Tumblr for almost 8 months, although I had to deactivate my other accounts due to discourse, drama, breakups, etc. I’m in a QPR with someone I love very much. I’m Abrosexual, Abroromantic, and aspec. I use they/them pronouns. I’m the host of an OSDD-1b system of 16 and counting. I’m part of the JSE, Markiplier, CrankGameplays, and Sanders Sides fandoms. Although, I am seriously considering leaving the Sanders Sides fandom almost entirely, or at least on Tumblr, as I no longer feel welcome there and there’s too much discourse. I write sometimes and I RP, so feel free to message me for an RP, although I’m better at RPing with OCs.

MAPS/NOMAPS/SOMAPS, creeps, racists, homophobes, transphobes, SWERFS, TERFS, RemRom blogs, pedophilia shippers/supporters/defenders, fuck off and let the door hit you on the way out.

[spiritmoodboards]

Ship moodboard for RemRom! (Sanders Sides)

Send a request, we’re open! :)

[amazon-me-bitches]

PSA:

There isn’t a side that would outright turn down a threesome with Roman and Remus.  This also includes non side characters and Thomas.

[ao3feed-remrom]

by firanki_i_tym_podobne

urywki z niedokończonego ficu. roman miał tam narzeczoną, a remus zwalczał swoje kazirockie tendencje

Words: 1871, Chapters: 4/?, Language: Polski

Series: Part 2 of about symbiosis

Fandoms: Sanders Sides (Web Series)

Rating: Mature

Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply

Categories: M/M

Characters: Creativity | Roman “Princey” Sanders, Dark Creativity | Remus “The Duke” Sanders

Relationships: Creativity | Roman “Princey” Sanders/Dark Creativity | Remus “The Duke” Sanders

Additional Tags: Pining, Unrequited Love, Sibling Incest, kaziroctwo bliźniaczego typu, brutalnie biję remusa sandersa patykiem, Religious Guilt, Suicidal Thoughts, roman ma moment derealizacji

[anjimimimoo]

🤪 @remrom-exchange || Information Post

Let's go!

[pleasedonthurtcjstar]

If some one could

Write Remus comforting Roman that would be great

[pleasedonthurtcjstar]

You’re gonna draw it?! 🥹🥹

[bolimnienoga-deactivated2023102]

we’re on a budget so have these ms paint drawings

[swordsnslime]

Baby You're a Haunted Motel | Supernatural!Remrom

So, long story short, I took a break from the internet and ended up watching the first two seasons of Supernatural. And oh boy do I have an idea! Why the hell haven't we thought of a supernatural!Remrom au? I mean, even if the main plot of the fic wouldn't have to do with the overarching plot of Supernatural, just having the twins driving around solving supernatural conundrums together.

P.s I was planning to post this a long time, but then I... didn't :|

Beta-Read by the wonderful @getyallsshippingjuice , and inspired by and written for @stemroses !

Title inspired by Baby you're a haunted house by Gerard Way

TW: Incest, Remrom, Swearing, Wincest (kind of), Casual time-period typical homophobia (Not violently, but still very offensive), Talks of sex/sleeping with a Supernatural creature, Dirty jokes, Making fun of the death of a romantic partner(One line, In reference to the death of Roman’s ‘boyfriend’ (this universes version of Jessica (Sam’s Girlfriend who died))

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(loosely) Inspired by a scene from Supernatural | Season 2 Episode 11, Playthings (By loosely I mean very loosely, so yeah, it's nothing like most of the scene I'm talking about)

"Hurry up Roman! I'm sure whatever is causing these deaths can't wait to get their hands on all this!" Remus shouted suggestively.

"Stop Remus, we finally get to spend a job somewhere that isn't basically a cockroach-infested hell-hole, and you just have to talk about fucking supernatural creatures, again! We're trying to rid the world of them for god's sake!" Roman exclaimed.

The hotel was made of a red-stained oak, it was such a deep red that Remus had joked that it was stained in the victims’ blood. You could see moss and rot around the cracks and crevices at the base of the building. The roof was an odd color, and you could see gaps where the shingles had worn out or fallen off over the years. 

"Ha-ha, cock-roach," Remus chuckled, "like you wouldn't want to get it on with me after we finally kill that demon that offed your pretty little boyfriend!"

"Shut up, let's just get going."

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"Oh hello! Welcome to the Pierpoint Inn!" The cheerful lady greeted. Seated at a desk 

“Thank you kindly, I can say I rather love the decor!” Roman praised, while Remus could be seen rolling his eyes in the background.

“Thanks!” The woman shined a slippery smile, “I used to decorate this place myself all the time, shame you guys won’t be seeing it for long.”

"Ohooh, that's a pretty ominous thing to say!" Remus interjects.

"I guess that was pretty ominous," The lady admitted, "what I meant is that this place is going to close in about a month or so."

"That's such a shame,” Roman frowned, “I’m also sorry for his ill-natured comment.”

“It’s fine, heaven knows I don’t expect you to be the polite sort when you are… what you are." She said, looking away uncomfortably, before moving on. "Anyways, I’m guessing you’d like a room!”

“Um… yes, we would like that,” Roman said, trying to awkwardly respond to the obviously homophobic sentiment. Remus just raised an eyebrow, ready to pounce if need be. 

“What in the whale penis does ‘our sort’ mean?” Remus interjected. 

“Well, men who like women certainly don’t go around complimenting furniture or traveling with their… partner,” She said snidely, “I mean you can do whatever you want, but I’m not one to want to see that… no offense of course.”

“Excuse me!?” Roman said, offense rolling off him like the ocean at the new moon, “In no world is that not offensive. I just-,” Roman cut himself off, realizing that if he kept this up they’d end up missing out on this job, “Please give us a room, and well get out of your hair.”

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The room was ancient-looking and in need of a good dusting. It smelled like a well-loved passion and seemed well taken care of with a new-ish coat of maroon paint covering the walls of the room. The only thing off about the room was the copious amounts of dolls dotted around the room's many shelves. With all the arrangements for the room taken care of, there was really only one problem left…

“She only gave us one bed?”

[doyapromise]

Prompt: End of the world thematic RemRom focused on a really calm place in the woods. Ya know with a premise along the lines of “with you it isnt so bad”. And them drinking tea/eating grapes in a tiny cabin far away from everyone. And with teal/orange color palette cause theyre basically red and green but moved slightly on the color wheel lol

I loved this prompt, and I got kinda inspired the other night, so!

Tag: @pleasedonthurtcjstar :)

[princeofmisfortune]

When you're just trying to fix your makeup but your reflection won't stop moving 😪

This is for a dtiys on insta- -No reposting-Click for higher quality-

[demented-dukey]

(offers you a shiny pebble) Good vibes? have a pebble and good vibes? yes?

Good vibes. 💚💚💚💚💚

[demented-dukey]

Hi, so, what does NOTP mean?

So, OTP is One True Pairing, right? It's a ship you love, the one you go gaga over.

NOTP is the opposite of OTP. It's a ship you would prefer not to read. No judgement - just like some people like carrots and others hate them, some people like ships and others don't. You avoid this ship when you can, and don't seek it out.

[brainlicking]

Nothing like a bit of dismemberment to get the creative juices flowing!

warning: creative juices may or may not be blood