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@desiblr-tales
hey everyone,
this blog has been dead since a couple of months due to some issues but we're back and our ask box is always open for all. you can send in confessions, secrets or you can just vent in our ask box. we would love to hear from you and give you some advice if you ask for it.
hate is not tolerated and you'll get blocked but we appreciate constructive criticism.
do you think romance books written by women are just wishful thinking about what could have been?
-🍋🟩
maybe, who knows. maybe they're more than just that.
THAT ASSHOLE ISTFG—
basically we were talking about asian food and he happens to be a huge fan and the outta nowhere he's like "look up vegan or udon options for it" and i'm like why????? and he's like cuz i recently went vegan so i was like yk you can just look it up yourself. he was like i take you to eat out and initially i was like i can go by myself, thanks but bro's very insistant like company matters and shit and i'm like 🤡🤡🤡🤡 but then because he was so insistant, i was like "thik hai itna bol ho raha hai to" BRO GHOSTED ME—
agar nahi leke jana tha bola kyu? and rejection milne ke baad itna pichhe kyu hi pada? and wo sab to thik hi hai, PUCHHA HI KYU??????????? BAAT HI KYU KARTA HAI AGAIN AISA KARNA HOTA HAI TO???? AND WTF DO I FALL FOR THIS SHIT EVERY SINGLE TIME?????? 😭😭😭😭
and no, before you say anything, i am not in love with that 8th generation descendant of a sheep and horse hybrid. that ship sailed ages ago. however, even as friends, i don't deserve to be treated like this. fuck, you don't even treat customer service like that 😭😭😭 i feel so disrespected and this is all my fault. for thinking he's grown even a tiny little bit 😭😭😭
- 🍋🟩
men istfg. he can't be doing all this after he begged you to come. you should feel disrespected BUT it's not your fault. you are a good person who gave that shitty guy a chance. it shows your heart.
he's a manchild. they'll never grow. they're cursed.
also, "dating apps do suck, we need to meet people organically. that is through instagram dms" is dibolical 💀💀💀
- 🍋🟩
it is the way of life, how it was supposed to be. people on hinge and bumble are there to be emotionally unavailable but instagram people will always be superior in having tons of trauma.
boy JUST CAN'T stop with his push and pull man. idek how i fell for this the second time 😭😭 honestly you're so right man, he's just not worth it.
- 🍋🟩
p.s. i'm so sorry i've turned your ask box into my personal rant/vent box 😭😭
it's not a problem honestly, you're always welcome here. that guy is not worth a second of your life
um but... he's being so cute and understanding... 🦋🦋🦋🦋
- 🍋🟩
girl, wake up. cuteness won't help you if he's an asshole.
update: i was way too early to say he's mature now. 17 or 12 bro's still an asshole.
- 🍋🟩
guys are mostly assholes. no one suddenly has a change of heart but he might be a little more understanding now. but you still have to wait and see.
hey... guess who's back? uh well, i mean you probably can't tell because of obvious reasons but um let's just say i used to come to this blog to talk about this boy i liked almost about two years ago. don't think that's gonna make it any easier to recognise but that's okay, I'll give you a lil refresher on the entire story and then we talk about why i'm here today.
and also, to avoid confusion, in case i come back here with an update to this story, i shall use 🍋🟩 as my identity.
anyway, so this started back in 2021. i was in 11th grade and prep-ing for my dream college and had joint a coaching institute like any other desi kid in this nation. and one fine day, 6 months into the foundation course, there was this boy, a new admission in my batch. and he was hot. well not exactly, at least not at first. he was this entitled asshole who thought that the world revolved around him.
and well, in a way... it kinda did. cuz like, almost every other girl had a crush on him. heck, i did too. and i, for the love of god and the life in me, COULD NOT TELL WHY. like yeah, he was an entitled asshole WHO WAS HOMOPHOBIC (i am bisexual), he was still yk charming. like not in a flirty way. but yk, in that playful cheary boyish way. and he was also considerate. i was an absolute introvert, hated talking. well, initially... and he made and effort to talk to me. to include me. like he didn't have to, yk cuz who even was i? i wasn't even nearly as popular as him, but he still did. and just like that, we were friends. but that's all we ever were. cuz he had a girlfriend. or, more like, a girl he had an on-and-off thing going on and i obviously had no place in it.
and then came the time I like to refer to as "The War". yk entrance exams? it was 2023, and now since entrance exams and boards were all finally over, we didn't really have a reason to go to coaching anymore, did we? the only thing we could do, was wait... and wait... and wait... and wait we did. until the results came out. i got in, he didn't. so he chose to go to a private college while i went to our my dream college. and then we grew apart... we only talked like twice a year when we went back home and our friend group met up for a reunion after every semester. we still followed (and still do) eachother on our instagrams but we hardly ever talked. but every time i met him, i could tell he had changed as a person. he was cool now. like not in the popular hot guy kinda way. i mean obviously, but also yk, like he'd grown as a person. yk, homophobia who? like he was wearing black nailpolish the last time we met and trust me when i say, pre college me would have laughed in your face if you had told her he wore nailpolish and pre college him would have called police on you. and me, i... well i won't say i'm not an introvert, but i do talk now, amongst other things.
what i'm trying to say is, we had both had grown into different, more accepting people (he's also developed an alcohol and weed addiction but that's pretty much everyone ik these days).
and we reconnected recently... which brings me back to my current situation... which is... that i may be developing a crush on him again, except he's a mature 21 year old man now, who's hotter. and i like talking to him. like yaar samajho na, wo saamne se baat karta hai every time 😭😭 like we live states apart, but he still makes concious effort to talk to me... not every day cuz it's barely been a few weeks since we started properly talking again... but he's always got something to talk to me about. and ik that's bare minimum but i really enjoy talking to him. and i don't feel judged. and the best part? HE DOESN'T HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES— okay idk maybe he might? but i highly doubt that. (this is the traumatized-by-dating-apps part of me speaking, you can ignore this)
anyway so yeah, i don't think if i wanna fall down that rabbit hole again but... 🦋🦋🦋🦋 this is a cry for help
- 🍋🟩
hiiiii, i do remember you but very vaguely. also if he has shown growth, that's good. okay, i have so much advice for you. first would be, do not get attached. please do not get attached. then you'll be stuck in a cycle. take this time for what it is, you're friends. do not think about stuff over and over again and please do not make up scenarios. trust me, ive been there too.
also, the addiction part isnt nothing. alcohol and weed should not be addictions. i know people who balance everything out. if he's addicted then he might not be in control of his life. and that means he won't be that emotionally available to you.
im really happy that you guys have reconnected but take this as slow as you can. also the dating apps do suck, we need to meet people organically. that is through instagram dms.
i hope you stay safe okay. do not overthink anything.
petition for this blog to come back asappppp
hiii, we heard you
come back come back come back soonnn i need tea, i need tea to live!
there is no tea unfortunately for now, i hope someone provides us with tea real soon though.
heyyy guess who's back? well i mean i do keep checking this blog all the time in hopes of coming across juicy gossip but it hasn't been updated in 7 months 🥲🥲
but today i'm here to... ask for advice? or just rant/vent. to don't have to give any advice tbh, listening would be just fine.
(for reference, i'm this anon: https://www.tumblr.com/desiblr-tales/744630344114978816/hello-there-hyd-this-blog-has-been-inactive-for-so?source=share)
anyway so um sometime after i sent you that anon and you replied to it... he (my bestfriend) went completely MIA. like deactivated all his socials and stuff. wouldn't answer my texts, i wouldn't dare to call him. and then one fine day in december... i recieved a follow request on my Instagram from an anonymous account which only had like 20 followers out of which, 4 we're mutuals. i assumed it must be some friend's spam account and accepted it. and then i found out it was HIS spam account and it has been existing since he deactivated his mother socials. his main. idk why but I wasn't thrilled about it but i didn't think much of it, maybe he wanted space and he took it. but then i did want a bit of an explanation for being so rudely ghosted. i tried asking him. MULTIPLE times. in different ways. he'd just always evade it. like he would talk to me about unserious, unimportant things but not the thing I asked. so then i talked to my other bestfriends about it and they both told me to block him. they told me that if my first reaction to seeing him after so long isn't good, then he shouldn't be in my life. they told me once i blocked him, i shouldn't unblock him. both my roommates agreed too. i'm not sure why, but it made sense at the moment. i tried asking him one last time, to the point this time, not space left for evasion, but somehow he still managed to do it. so i blocked him. this was a month ago.
but now i kinda miss him. i wanna know why he went MIA and why did he choose to come back after a year and a half? and why's he still acting so strange even after coming back?
i don't constantly think about it but it does kinda bug me at the back of my head...
you should move on from him. completely move on, this is so bad actually. he is acting very shady. if he wants to tell you, he'll text you babe
i don't know I think I'm not ready for a relationship and I can never be ready for a relationship again but here I'm trapped and idk what to do, he often isolate himself when stuffs get bad, he is really nice person he loves me so much and he respects me, everything is good but some of his habits fuck everything idk I'm guilty of what I feel, I can never tell this to him he's 19 and very sad most of the time but I try to keep him happy and then fail terribly idk man what should I do, life was good when I wasn't in a relationship and somedays I feel good being with him but other days I feel why I am here?? i don't like this?? im so tired and done??
you need to talk it out with him, he's 19 na. maybe he won't try something serious. you aren't happy with him and it's effecting you mentally. tell him that you're tired and done. tell him how he makes you feel but dont blame him. tell him that you need time abhi, is he avoidant?
is he going through something??? is that a problem? like why is he sad? maybe try to get him some help if it's serious. but dont overdo it, you are an individual and you need to be well too
i think I don't love my boyfriend anymore but he really needs me, cuz he's very sensitive but I can't tell him this or he'll kill himself
he'll khs?? how old is your bf if you don't mind me asking?
it's okay if you don't love him anymore, people grow apart. it's not okay for him to behave irrationally when you tell him the truth. we're here for you.
hey everyone,
this blog has been dead since a couple of months due to some issues but we're back and our ask box is always open for all. you can send in confessions, secrets or you can just vent in our ask box. we would love to hear from you and give you some advice if you ask for it.
hate is not tolerated and you'll get blocked but we appreciate constructive criticism.
mysterious-desi-blog -> desiblr-tales
hii mods hyd? long time no see, everything good?
hii, mod love here. this blog has been dead for quite some time due to reasons such as endsems and basically life. but we'll be back and you can still send us confessions.
hi i hope the mods are doing great, this blog has been dead for quite a while so i thought i should check in here 👀
hiii milli, the mods have been doing great. just caught up with their lives and what not. how are you?