Hi, thanks for the detailed post about the 12th house! I have a question about my Venus in the 12th house. I was a tomboy as a teen and didn't connect with my femininity. Now I love fashion, makeup, and dressing nicely. But an astrologer told me to hide my beauty because the 12th house dislikes open displays. This conflicts with my desire to express myself. I'm worried planets in the 12th house aren't meant to be shown. To complicate things, my Venus is in Aries, so I'm drawn to bold, open expression but now I'm very doubtful because of the astrologer's words. In addition, I'm afraid that other people won't see me as beautiful anyway 😭
Hey!👋
Thank you for sharing your experience 🙌
Tbh it makes a lot of sense that you’re feeling conflicted at this point. Here’s the thing about Venus in the 12th house: it’s true that this house is more private, internal, and sometimes shy about self-expression. That doesn’t mean you are forbidden from expressing yourself or showing your beauty. The 12th house often works quietly, behind the scenes, or in ways that aren’t immediately visible to everyone, but it still wants to be experienced and explored.
Now, with Venus in Aries, your natural style is bold, direct, and energetic. You’re drawn to taking risks in self-expression and fashion, and that part of you wants to shine. The tension here is not that you shouldn’t express yourself — it’s that your self-expression may sometimes feel vulnerable, or you might be overly self-conscious about how others perceive it. That’s why you may have been advised to “hide” it — the 12th house can make personal beauty feel like a private treasure. ✨
The key is balance. You can enjoy makeup, fashion, and dressing beautifully, but approach it as a form of personal empowerment and self-love, rather than performing for others. Let it be a joyful expression of yourself first — when you enjoy it fully, others naturally notice. The 12th house energy actually becomes your secret strength: your Venus shines quietly, yet powerfully, when it’s authentic.
Also, don’t worry too much about other people’s opinions. Venus in Aries is courageous — the more you practice showing yourself without fear, the more your confidence grows, and the 12th house helps you tap into an almost magnetic subtlety.
So in short: yes, your Venus in the 12th can be expressed openly, especially in Aries style, as long as it feels true to you. The house just reminds you to connect with it internally and emotionally, not to suppress it entirely. Your beauty and style are yours to explore, and it’s okay to shine. 🌟
I want to give women advice that I wish I had gotten or listened to when I was younger.
Stop giving yourself a deadline for things you feel like you need to accomplish. When you do this you are stressing yourself out for no reason. We have our whole lives to do everything. Life is literally just a journey. It is not a competition and it is certainly not a race. You don't need to have sex, be in a serious relationship, finish school, get married, or have kids by a certain age. We do everything at our own pace because if we rush certain things or don't give ourselves chances to change our mind then sometimes we feel even more stuck.
If you are having casual sex with people please always check your synastry with them. Only have sex with people who have their Mars**, Venus, Lilith and Jupiter in your 8h and also who you have mars-lilith**, venus-lilith, ASC-lilith synastry with. These are the people you are most sexually compatible with and who you are most likely to cum with.
Do not ever let ugly, broke, and unsuccessful men pressure you into having sex with them. I don't care if they are making you feel guilty and begging "please just go on one date with me" NO. You always need to remember one thing about men and that is that they will brag for the rest of their lives to everybody "yeah bro I had her". Do you really want the ugly brokey saying that about you? Be very selective with who you have sex with. We only deserve the best.
If you are an attractive woman of color you will always deal with haters. That is absolutely not a reflection of you. That is a reflection of a world who was designed to make us feel like we need to be humble, tone down our personalities, and become more palatable to be accepted. Never do any of that. You probably had haters in school, work, online and everywhere you go and it's because you are powerful and people want to humble you. Don't ever take it personally. Just feel sorry for those weak people and keep being powerful.
Be cocky af. Stop with the self deprecating humor. Stop feeling like you need to downplay your accomplishments. Stop worrying that your insecure friend will get upset if you hype yourself up. Look in the mirror and admire the fuck out of yourself every chance you get. Be your own best friend. Would you call your best friend ugly? Would you tell her she couldn't do something? No you wouldn't. So, why would you say some shit like that to a bad bitch like yourself? You come onto this planet alone and you die alone. So the only person that truly has your back is yourself. You chose your body and appearance before you even came into this life. Which means your soul looked at you and said "she's hot. I choose her" so act like it.
Dance. Never ever let some basic bitch tell you that you're not good at dancing or you look weird. Fuck that. Dance keeps you in touch with your body. Which is so important for women specifically because we deal with so much bs that we end up feeling disassociated most of the time. Put on some Meg and twerk in the mirror and rap her lyrics because they are all affirmations. Watch tutorials of different type of dance and practice just to have fun with yourself. I've been listening to Mesytara and bellydancing and it is so much fun. When you dance with your hips like that it connects you to your sacral chakra which makes you feel sensual and feminine.
Speak up for yourself. If you don't like how someone is speaking to you then say "I do not appreciate being spoken to like that. Try again." If someone hurts you tell them "That hurt me and I deserve an apology." No one in this world is going to speak up for you so you need to develop your voice. Stop thinking people won't like you. People will not like you regardless. At least if you speak up for yourself then they will at the very least respect you.
Stop being so male-centred. Men generally only care about sex. They do not sit around daydreaming and thinking about your future together the way that women do. That's just the reality. If you are sitting around obsessing over a man then you are wasting your time. Instead, you should focus on your career, business, aesthetic, hobbies, friends, family, pets, etc. A man should simply be an addition to your life. He should never be your whole life.
Women have been conditioned to believe we need to work in the same way men do like over-working and not taking breaks. No, absolutely not. Men are able to work like ants, but women need and deserve better than that. The reason is because we have more changes in our hormones due to our cycles. So, during certain phases we have the capacity to work very hard and then we have phases where we need to rest and recalibrate. This is why I always recommend women to start businesses, hire people to do things for you, and utilize social media to make money. I want all of you to sit down and think of five things or more that you are good at. Think of situations you were able to transmute or glow-ups you had. Is this something you can teach people? Is this something you can monetize? Then create a business plan to do that. Create digital products that are unique to make passive income. If you have creative hobbies then monetize them.
Master the art of leaving. If a job is treating you bad then leave. If a relationship is toxic for you then leave. If a friend or family member isn't good to you then leave. As women we have been conditioned to believe that we must endure the worst to prove our loyalty and compassion for others. Why? Why stay in situations that are toxic to your nervous system? Those people, jobs, situations want you to believe that you don't deserve better, but you absolutely do. That is why you should always be saving money and having second options for everything in your life. That is the only way you will be able to leave toxicity on a whim.
Read a lot of self-improvement books and watch content related to that as well. The ones I recommend are every Robert Greene book especially the Art of Seduction, Why Men Love Bitches, The Secret, The Alchemist, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Becoming Supernatural, Atomic Habits, The Body Keeps Score, The Nice Girl Syndrome and How to Win Friends and Influence People. I recommend SheraSeven and her spiritual channel AsheraGoddess for learning how to win in life, having class, and getting what you want out of men. I recommend Margarita Nazarenko for how to have confidence, detachment, and going from an anxious attachment style to secure attachment. I recommend TheWizardLiz for having confidence, not giving a fuck what others think about you, and having boundaries.
Get into spirituality to really get what you want in life. Go to your local botanica or spiritual store and buy whatever you need for your goals. Get easy life powder, fask luck bath washes or candles, Cleopatra and Aphrodite bath wash, oil, and candle, Do As I Say bath wash, Tamed Lamb bath wash, leche de la mujer amada oil, jezebel oil, and 7x7 contra todo incense
Do things that keep you in your feminine energy. Let people do nice things for you. Let men do things for you if it's too difficult for you. It does not make you weak. We all deserve to relax too. We don't need to carry everything ourselves. Take bubble baths regularly (esp with the bath washes I mentioned). Just listen to music and sit in the water and relax. Get regular massages. Women are constantly doing everything for everybody else and that causes us to have so much tension in our bodies. We store all of our trauma in our bodies and fascia which results in back pain, shoulder pain, migraines, emotional issues, and even chronic pain syndrome. So regularly get massages to release that tension and allow yourself freedom to receive and feel good.
Protect your womb space. Constantly do hip opening movements and stretches. You can find the exact movements on youtube and tiktok. They are so necessary especially if you have trauma. Your womb space stores emotional, physical, and sexual trauma. It is so important to do hip openers to release all of that so it does not turn into back pain and tight hip flexors. Also, for womb trauma I highly recommend doing yoni steams because it will help your cycle become more regular, less clots during your period, and less cramps. Use yoni eggs. I use rose quartz and black obsidian yoni eggs. I like doing shadow work while using the black obsidian one. I like writing self love affirmations while using the rose quartz yoni egg.
Get your hormone levels checked out. If your testosterone or estrogen is too high or too low it can mess with your mood, cycle, and appearance. Your doctor will then give you medication to sort it out or have you follow a certain diet to help you. Get your vitamin and minerals checked out and if anything is low take supplements diligently. That will immediately help with your emotional and physical health. Stop being afraid to see a doctor. The more you neglect seeing them the less you know about what is going on with you. Ignorance is not bliss when it comes to your health. If you are a woman of color and your doctor is not listening to you then get a second and third opinion. Do not let anyone gaslight you about what you are experiencing.
Get professional color analysis and also Kibbe body type analysis done on yourself. It is very important to know what clothes, colors, and cuts look the best on your specific body type and skin tone. These things also help you figure out what hairstyles, hair colors, makeup and accessories look the best on you. This will help you look professional and put together which will always serve you in life.
Do shadow work. This is the most important thing you can do for yourself. Do shadow work on your insecurities, comparison, envy, jealousy, pain, trauma, anxious attachment, childhood wounds. Ask yourself how does this "negative" emotion or thought protect me? How does it keep me comfortable? What do I enjoy about feeling this way? Also, how does it keep me stagnant? Where did this feeling or thought originate from? What would my life be like if I stopped letting it rule me? There are so many prompts on Pinterest and online for a lot of these emotions and thoughts. Sit and journal on all of them regularly.
✅ luxurious pet names that reflect her worth: princess, goddess, baby girl, treasure.
✅ worshiped & displayed like a living art piece - with care, with weight, with intent.
✅ being groomed like a pampered pet - brushes her hair, lotions her feet, (un)dresses her.
✅ to feel adored & relaxed enough to let go of adult responsibility & emotionally collapse into the arms of someone stronger (babied, fed, cuddled, rocked) - its not age play, it’s maternal eroticism.
✅ either spoiling or being spoiled.
✅ fully nude for extended periods - the luxury of being unclothed, unashamed, unbothered.
✅ she’s comforted & grounded by natural body scents (may wear his used clothes bc it smells like him).
✅ slow build up bc delayed gratification = heightened reward.
✅ erotic rituals that are predictable & repetitive - same time, same setting, same body.
✅ natural & primal setting (field of grass, under the stars, soaked by rain).
✅ kissed for hours especially on the neck, feet, shoulders, inner thighs.
✅ him wine-tasting from her body or her eating out of his mouth (stimulates both possessiveness & intimacy).
✅ edible lube (ice cubes, whipped cream)
✅ ear worship (kissing/whispering)
✅ proof of his arousal (moans, touch, breath, praise).
✅ pillow princess - to be desired & devoured just by existing (no performance, no sacrifice).
✅ unhurried & intentional penetration (it’s abt the pressure & mass, rather than the speed).
✅ anchored by his weight - pressed down & held tightly
✅ silence between moans – the tension in stillness arouses her more than constant talking.
✅ visible proof that she’s claimed (biting, bruising, hickeys).
8 – The Powerhouse
(8, 17, 26, 35) 2024 was their turning point
So, you’re a Life Path Number 8? Oh, you didn’t come to play. You came to build, to lead, to leave a legacy. People might call you intense, but they’re not wrong. You feel the weight of your purpose in your bones. And whether or not you admit it, you like to be in control, not out of ego, but because you know what needs to be done, and you’re not afraid to do it.
This path is about power, purpose, and material mastery. You’re here to understand how to work with authority, your own and others’. This doesn’t mean you're automatically rich or in charge (though that’s certainly on the table). It means your soul chose a path where you’d be tested by responsibility, success, and what it really means to be in your power. The path is to command matter ethically and awaken soul power through responsibility
Element: Fire + Earth
Planet: Saturn
Color: Black, dark green, maroon
Lucky Days: Saturday, Tuesday
Spiritual Archetype: The Executive, The Manifestor
Careers: CEO, financier, manager, executive, real estate, law, politi
💪 Strengths of Life Path 8
Strong Leadership Instincts: People naturally look to you to take the lead. You have the guts to make hard choices, the stamina to stay the course, and the vision to think long-term.
Strategic Mind: You don’t waste time on fluff. You see through chaos and find the path to structure, order, and results. You’re a planner, an executor, a mover.
Resilience Under Pressure: You can take hits most people wouldn’t survive. Your lessons are often tough, but they forge you into someone unshakable.
Goal-Oriented: You thrive when you’re building toward something real. Success isn’t just a dream for you—it’s a process you’re ready to work for.
🌧️ Challenges of Life Path 8
Fear of Vulnerability: You like being strong. But you’re not made of steel. Opening up emotionally can feel like weakness, but it’s where your deeper power lives.
Workaholic Tendencies: Because you’re so capable, you often overextend. If you’re not careful, you might burn out or chase achievement to avoid deeper truths.
Control Issues: There’s a fine line between leadership and domination. The challenge is learning to guide, not grip and to trust others even when it’s hard.
Karmic Lessons With Money & Power: 8 is the number of karma, especially in how we handle material things. You might rise and fall a few times until you learn to treat wealth and power as tools, not identities.
You were built for this. You’re here to rise, fall, and rise again until you understand that true success isn’t just about what you build—it’s about who you become while building it.
Let your ambition serve something greater.
Let your strength make space for softness.
Let your power flow from soul, not survival.
You are the CEO of your destiny. Just don’t forget, you’re also human.
You're in a very "predestined" moment, so to speak, for yourself. The things that happen to you this month aren't meant to discourage you or hold you back, but rather to give you a chance to take a breath and think things through before acting. You're already carrying a heavy energy; you feel like everyone is out to get you, that you have to be on high alert, and that's no way to live. November brings lessons in how you see and treat yourself. You have to let things happen, flow with the situations that come your way. Yes, some will be very difficult; you might even feel like you're being opposed, but it's important for growth to break free from the mental cage you create for yourself. You might think things aren't going your way this month, but it's the opposite. You have this mentality that someone else is locking you up, but that's not true, the only person who has the key is you.
⸻ ⟢ aquarius: A difficult truth: you don't have all the answers, and that doesn't make you stupid, just inexperienced. Don't hate yourself for what you don't know because no one taught you.
⸻ ⟢ taurus: Fear of change. You don't like what you can't control. Things sometimes get out of hand, and that's normal, but don't retreat into your own world again, or you won't be able to get out so easily next time.
⸻ ⟢ scorpio: Manipulating the situation to make it better won't help if you don't admit what's really going on with you. Your mind is a mystery to others because you never let them in.
⸻ ⟢ leo: Everything will get better. You have luck on your side, but you have to want it to get better. Stop sabotaging yourself. Don't run away from the imperfections that you create.
You are transforming your life in a healthier way. It's important for you to be in a place that can provide you with tranquility and calm, and this month promises that, as long as you don't meddle where you're not wanted. You will attract a lot of attention and many opportunities to fulfill a long-held, more internal and personal desire: a peaceful place, a calm mind, a healthy body. Don't get frustrated by others; don't try to fix problems that don't directly affect you. November brings the lesson of learning to be more selfish, or to share less of your energy. You will be going through a transitional period in which you will need to focus on yourself and not on others. Not everything has to feel like a punishment if you don't want it to.
⸻ ⟢ gemini: Don't overshare. It's good to socialize, but be careful who you do it with and what your intentions are.
⸻ ⟢ pisces: It's good to trust the universe; that makes you a hopeful person, but don't leave everything to chance. If you want something to happen, you'll have to go out and make it happen.
⸻ ⟢ virgo: There will be things that will end in your life. You have to learn that people are sometimes just phases; you can't live forever by forcing things.
⸻ ⟢ sagittarius: Going through the sadness right now is the best remedy. Don't ignore the bad things; the only way you'll overcome them is by acknowledging them.
You're too caught up in your own head, idealizing situations or people, ignoring the real world, and you're doing it more and more. This month will open your eyes to a new reality, one that doesn't have to be painful or boring, and one you won't want to escape from. But to achieve that, you have to want to step out of your fantasy world more. Having expectations is fine, thinking about your future is too, but you've taken it to the extreme of fantasy, refusing to deal with the real world. It's very complicated. November brings you the lesson that if you don't take action to create the life you want, time will slip away, and when you realize it, it will be too late. Stop living in your head; transform your reality into what you dream of. Trust the process, and know that if something takes time, it's because it's worthwhile.
⸻ ⟢ libra: Don't be afraid to try something new. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for no longer feeling connected to certain relationships. These things happen. Focus on yourself again.
⸻ ⟢ capricorn: Trust the process. Time always has something good in store for you. Being impatient and rushing things has never gotten you anywhere.
⸻ ⟢ cancer: Don't do more than your body and mind need. Make peace with tiredness and the need to rest. You're not less of a person or a bad person for taking time for yourself.
⸻ ⟢ aries: You can achieve anything you want, but right now you're not taking action because you're afraid it won't work out. Be more open-minded, be bolder, and trust that it will happen simply because it's you.
1h: develop your own style. Create a pinterest board for your style that you want, how you want to do your makeup, and hairstyles you like. Go to the gym just for your overall health (not just to gain or lose weight bc who tf cares).
2h: I need you to create at least 3 business plans and execute them. Create digital products to make passive income (get Canva premium). Work for a non profit, work with the mentally ill and homeless, work to help people.
3h: work out issues with childhood friends, siblings, cousins. This is a time for community. Work on your communication skills. Speak your mind. Do your shadow work. Study. Go back to school. Read. Watch movies. Make tik toks and YouTube videos. Network!
4h: heal your inner child. Forgive yourself for your past. Journal a love letter to your inner child telling them what you love most about them. Do mirror work and just stare at yourself. Forgive your parents for your own healing.
5h: fucking enjoy life. Make art. Make music. Sing. Draw. Paint. Dance! Always dance and twerk and sing loudly in the shower. Have kids if that’s something you want. Romanticize every part of your life. Travel with your friends.
6h: get your vitamin and mineral levels checked. Get your color analysis done. Work out to release stress and tension. Get a pet. Create a routine for yourself.
7h: socialize! Make connections and network. Live luxuriously. Drink red wine or cute mocktails. Dress to impress (yourself). Learn how to do makeup or just do more looks that you haven’t tried.
8h: if someone passes away during this year just do not self destruct. They wouldn’t want to see that for you. Do shadow work on all your pain otherwise it will come out in very unhealthy ways. Get sober if that’s what you need. End the relationships that do not serve you. Wear rose quartz yoni eggs. Listen to positive and uplifting music.
9h: travel the world. Travel out of the country. Read the Bible, the Torah, and the Quran. Read about Buddhism. Read self help books. Get tarot cards. All the answers you’re looking for are within you. If you’re in school then study abroad!
10h: focus on your career. Do transmutation magick on people talking shit about you so that every word they speak about you just fuels your success.
11h: post on every social media platform but make sure you’re educating people on something important. Speak up on social issues. Call people out but also let people grow.
12h: don’t let weak ass people destroy you. You’re too important to kill yourself. Get clear minded and realize that you’re not crazy or delusional. People just don’t want you to realize your own power.
I DO NOT PLAGIARIZE, COPY OR REWORD ANY OF MY FELLOW ASTROLOGY OBSERVERS POSTS AND I DEMAND THE SAME IN RETURN.
I began my astrology journey with Vedic astrology so I can confidently share my knowledge and my observations.
THE TYPES OF CHART DRAWINGS:
THE DIAMOND STYLE (left image) AND THE BOX STYLE (right image).
The Diamond style Chart is also known as the North Indian chart style.
The Box style Chart is also known as the South Indian chart style.
IF ONE FEELS DRAWN MORE TOWARDS USING THE DIAMOND CHART TO READ CHARTS THEN THEY HAVE A STRONG VENUS.
IF ONE FEELS DRAWN MORE TOWARDS USING THE BOX CHART, THEN THEIR JUPITER IS STRONG IN THE CHART.
• First, in Vedic astrology we have charts for different areas of our life which is the D2 chart, D3 chart, and so on till the D60 chart but mainly for our life overall we consider our birth chart which is divided in two, that is:
✓Lagna chart = from birth to 28 years
✓Navama chart = 28 years to death.
>In Vedic astrology, Neptune, Pluto, and uranus are not considered.
>There are no asteroids in Vedic astrology like Eros, Fama and so on. Ketu behaves like Neptune, Rahu behaves like Uranus and Mars behaves like Pluto.
HOUSES AND THEIR RULERS:
1ST HOUSE = MARS
2ND HOUSE = VENUS
3RD HOUSE = MERCURY
4RTH HOUSE = MOON
5TH HOUSE= SUN
6TH HOUSE = MERCURY
7TH HOUSE = VENUS
8TH HOUSE = MARS
9TH HOUSE = JUPITER
10TH HOUSE = SATURN
11TH HOUSE = SATURN
12TH HOUSE = JUPITER
ASPECTS (where the planet looks) OF PLANETS ARE READ DIFFERENTLY:
SUN = 7TH from the house in which he is seated.
MOON = 7TH from the house in which she is seated.
MERCURY = 7TH from the house in which he is seated.
VENUS = 7TH from the house in which she is seated.
MARS = 4RTH,7TH,8TH from the house in which he is seated.
JUPITER = 5TH,7TH,9TH from the house in which he is seated.
SATURN = 3RD,7TH,10TH from the house in which he is seated.
>RAHU AND KETU ONLY ASPECT EACHOTHER AS THEY SIT IN OPPOSITE HOUSES.
>While counting the aspects, we include the house we are starting our count from.
The names of the planets in Vedic astrology:
Sun = Surya
Moon = Chandra
Mercury = Buddh
Venus = Shukra
Mars = Mangal
Jupiter = Guru
Saturn = Shani
The days of the week and what planet rules that day:
8H = Others Money Such As Inherited Property, Sex, Occult, Hidden Activities,Death, Life Span.
9H = Higher/secondary Education, College, Father, Teachers, The Divine, Long Distance Travel, 2nd Marriage (marriages after your first divorce with spouse or demise of spouse).
10H = Public Life, Occupation, Father, Career.
11H = Wish Fulfillment House, Social Circles, Elder Sibling.
12H = Bed, The Dustbin House, Jail, Isolated Places, Secrets, Ancestors, Dreams, Bed Ridden Diseases, Life Span.
FOR SOUTH INDIAN CHART and NORTH INDIAN CHART:
Some notes:
• Moon and Mercury are the most imbalanced planets in Vedic astrology, hence there can be a lot of imbalance wherever they are seated. Things hardly ever seem stable in that area of your life.
• Saturn and Sun are enemies because the Sun [who is shani's (Saturn) dad] burnt his mother, Chaaya, right in front of him. Saturn really really really hates the Sun.
• In Vedic astrology Venus and Jupiter are enemies because Jupiter is the god of the Devas (gods) and Venus is the god of the Asuras (demons).
• Rahu does the best when seated in the 6th house and Ketu in the 12th.
• Saturn, Mars and Rahu in the 12th house is a bad combination to have because it makes a person very negative in nature, they are always complaining, never satisfied with anything or anyone, are always lecturing others, are not patient, is a hypocrite, etc.
• Mercury in the 5th house makes one look younger than their age. They age very very very slowly.
• Venus in the 12th house natives get married at a young age (22 or 23 years old).
• Jupiter in the 12th house makes the native the 'diamond in the rough'.
• Mars in the 1st house natives will most likely become bald because this causes really serious hairfall.
• In Vedic astrology it's always either Sun who is strong in the chart or Saturn who is strong. Both cannot be strong.
• Mercury and Rahu together in the 12th house can cause serious mental health issues and lack of emotional support from others.
• Ketu and Venus when seated together becomes a very sad placement. A lot of one sided love in the persons life. This is because Ketu and Venus are complete opposites, Ketu is a very detached planet that is not at all interested in love and romance while Venus is a very sensual and romantic planet who craves connection. The person will crave love but will most of the time face heartbreaking situations with others.
• Sun in 12th house causes eyesight issues mainly with the right eye. Moon in the 12th house causes eyesight issues mostly with the left eye. [Sun is the right eye while Moon is the left eye].
• Rahu in the 12th or 4rth definitely indicates foreign settlement.
• Mars in houses 1st, 4rth, 7th,8th or 12th makes the person a Manglik and this seriously hinders their marital life and entire life in general. This placement gets nullified to some extent when a benefic planet such as Moon is aspecting Mars.
• Rahu in the 4rth house makes a natives mother cunning and selfish. This makes a persons mom know how to play their cards well.
• Mars in the 4rth indicates an abusive household and even an abusive mother, be it verbally abusive, physically abusive, etc.
• Mercury in the 1st house makes a person very chatty and talkative.
• Saturn in 5th can indicate having a love marriage and going against ones parents for it or eloping and getting married.
• Mars in the 9th house can make one an atheist. I have seen this in many atheists chart.
• Mercury in the 5th house can make one very good at learning languages and are good with miniature art. Like they can draw very detailed art.
• When any planet sits with the Sun, the Sun let's them shine and gives them more power to be prominent in the chart.
• When a planet sits with Rahu or Ketu they are overshadowed by them, like an eclipse. That's why Rahu and Ketu are known as the shadow planets.
• Rahu in the 12th house can cause sleeping issues like insomnia and mental stress.
• Moon in the 4rth house Natives are naturally very inclined towards their mother.
• Sun in the 12th house Natives never had a father figure in their life. An absent father figure but they are always looking up to their father and seeking his validation which of course they will never get.
• The planet in 11th house can show what kind of friends you have, ex: Saturn can indicate having a small friend circle and also indicates having older friends. If one has moon in the 11th house,then there will always be ups and downs in friendships.
Thankyou for reading through this!
I really hope this helped beginners in any way possible and I look forward to seeing you next time!❤️🔥🫂
Take care and have a great day!🌞🧿✨
You can calculate your Vedic birth chart in the app 'Astrotalk'. It's the best so far and I highly recommend using it.
★ the rising signs & their enemies: 6th house, 8th house, 12th house, 7th house ★
the 6th house enemy (the relentless taskmaster) forces them into exhausting routines, health struggles, and responsibilities they resist.
the 8th house enemy (the shadow) drags them through power struggles, loss, and emotional transformations they fear.
the 12th house enemy (the hidden saboteur) lurks in their subconscious, whispering fears, doubts, and self-destructive urges.
the 7th house enemy (the mirror) appears as challenging relationships, adversaries, and karmic partners who expose their weaknesses.
★ aries rising : the critic, the manipulator, the phantom, the diplomat ★
the critic (6th house, virgo) forces them to pay attention to detail, refine their skills, and practice patience—three things aries finds unbearable.
the manipulator (8th house, scorpio) drags them into power struggles, intense emotional wounds, and betrayals that shake their trust in others.
the phantom (12th house, pisces) is a hidden force whispering fears of failure and clouding their instincts with self-doubt.
the diplomat (7th house, libra) appears in relationships that demand compromise, balance, and emotional maturity—things aries struggles to embrace.
★ the critic (6th house, virgo) ★
how it attacks:
aries rising thrives on spontaneity and speed, but virgo in the 6th house forces them into a world of rules, precision, and detail-oriented work. the critic appears as demanding bosses, relentless deadlines, and never-ending to-do lists. work environments feel suffocatingly structured, full of picky supervisors and coworkers who obsess over minor details. aries wants to charge ahead, but the critic forces them to slow down and follow proper procedures.
how aries self-sabotages:
they rush through work to escape boredom, but end up making careless mistakes that cost them more time. they resist structured routines, leading to chaotic, unproductive cycles of burnout and recovery. their health suffers because they ignore their body’s warning signs, pushing themselves to exhaustion rather than pacing themselves. the more they resist patience and discipline, the more the critic tightens its grip.
how to defeat it:
aries must learn that working smarter is better than working harder. they can use their energy more effectively if they accept the power of structure and preparation. instead of seeing routine as a cage, they must learn to use it as a weapon.
★ the manipulator (8th house, scorpio) ★
how it attacks:
scorpio in the 8th house drags aries rising into power struggles, toxic relationships, and situations that demand emotional endurance. the manipulator appears as controlling lovers, financial traps, or betrayals that leave lasting wounds. aries prefers quick fights with clear winners, but the manipulator plays the long game, slowly pulling them into webs of emotional intensity and secrecy. they may find themselves deeply entangled in affairs, debts, or psychological battles they can’t easily escape from.
how aries self-sabotages:
they jump into commitments too quickly, thinking they can control the situation, only to realize they’ve given away their power. they ignore their own emotional wounds, but the manipulator forces them to face their fears of dependence and vulnerability. when they feel trapped, they lash out aggressively, only for scorpio energy to strike back ten times harder.
how to defeat it:
aries must learn that true strength includes emotional intelligence. instead of fighting against transformation, they must embrace it and become strategic rather than reactive. the manipulator cannot control aries if aries masters their own depth and intensity first.
★ the phantom (12th house, pisces) ★
how it attacks:
pisces in the 12th house makes aries rising doubt their own instincts, leading to uncertainty, procrastination, and emotional exhaustion. the phantom isn’t a direct enemy—it lurks in the background, making aries feel lost and disconnected from their usual confidence. it appears in moments of burnout, whispering, “what if you’re not as strong as you think?” aries thrives on clarity and action, but the phantom clouds their judgment, making them feel like they are fighting an invisible battle.
how aries self-sabotages:
they avoid deep emotions, fearing that slowing down means losing their edge. they distract themselves with reckless behavior, trying to escape feelings they don’t want to acknowledge. their impulsivity leads them to make quick decisions that come back to haunt them.
how to defeat it:
aries must learn that facing their emotions doesn’t make them weak. if they stop running from their subconscious fears, they can conquer self-doubt and make peace with the unknown. stillness isn’t failure—it’s a different kind of power.
★ the diplomat (7th house, libra) ★
how it attacks:
libra in the 7th house makes relationships feel like a battlefield of compromise and indecision. the diplomat appears as partners who challenge aries’ need for control, forcing them to slow down and consider others. aries prefers taking the lead, but libra energy demands fairness, patience, and balance. they may attract passive-aggressive partners, people who make them question their choices, or relationships that feel like constant negotiations.
how aries self-sabotages:
they push people away before they can get hurt, creating a cycle of short, intense relationships that never last. they see compromise as a weakness, leading to conflicts that could be avoided. they mistake calmness for boredom, gravitating toward passionate but toxic relationships.
how to defeat it:
aries must understand that true leadership includes knowing when to listen and adapt. instead of seeing compromise as losing, they need to see it as a skill that makes them stronger in the long run. the diplomat teaches them that not every fight is worth winning—sometimes, peace is the real victory.
★ taurus rising: the indecisive, the wildfire, the instigator, the seducer ★
the indecisive (6th house, libra) disrupts their routine, forcing them into social politics, unclear expectations, and frustrating indecision.
the wildfire (8th house, sagittarius) drags them into chaotic transformations, financial instability, and unpredictable emotional upheavals.
the instigator (12th house, aries) lurks in their subconscious, feeding them impulsive urges and self-sabotaging desires that conflict with their need for peace.
the seducer (7th house, scorpio) appears in intense, consuming relationships that demand vulnerability, trust, and transformation—things taurus resists at all costs.
★ the indecisive (6th house, libra) ★
how it attacks:
taurus rising thrives on consistency, structure, and predictability. but libra in the 6th house makes their daily life feel unbalanced, full of constant adjustments and unspoken expectations. the indecisive appears as fluctuating work environments, bosses who can’t make up their minds, and obligations that require constant social maneuvering. instead of a clear, stable routine, their work life is full of compromise, diplomacy, and trying to keep everyone happy. this drains taurus, who just wants things to be simple and efficient.
how taurus self-sabotages:
they overextend themselves trying to create harmony, taking on more than they should in order to keep the peace. they delay decisions out of fear of disrupting balance, leading to missed opportunities and built-up frustration. they struggle with health routines, often neglecting their needs in favor of pleasing others or maintaining external appearances.
★ the wildfire (8th house, sagittarius) ★
how to defeat it:
taurus must learn that their well-being comes first. if they stop worrying about external harmony and focus on creating stability for themselves, they will gain true control. learning to make firm decisions and set boundaries will weaken the indecisive’s grip.
how it attacks:
sagittarius in the 8th house forces taurus into chaotic, unpredictable life changes that destroy their sense of control. the wildfire appears as sudden financial upheavals, unexpected breakups, or major life shifts that happen with little warning. taurus seeks security and careful planning, but this enemy forces them into situations where nothing is guaranteed. it teaches them that the only constant in life is change, a lesson they desperately resist.
how taurus self-sabotages:
they cling to stability so tightly that when change inevitably comes, it feels like a disaster rather than a transformation. they resist new opportunities out of fear of risk, missing out on growth and expansion. they may stay in stagnant relationships or jobs long past their expiration date, choosing comfort over evolution.
★ the instigator (12th house, aries) ★
how to defeat it:
taurus must learn to see change as a gateway rather than a threat. if they embrace adaptability and allow themselves to take calculated risks, they will harness the wildfire’s power instead of being burned by it.
how it attacks:
aries in the 12th house creates a hidden, internal battle between taurus’ need for stability and a subconscious craving for reckless action. the instigator lurks deep in their mind, whispering, "burn it all down. shake things up. do something wild." they may suppress anger, frustration, and impulsive desires, only for them to explode in destructive ways when least expected. this enemy thrives on pent-up rage and frustration, creating a cycle of bottling things up, only to act out in self-destructive ways.
how taurus self-sabotages:
they suppress their emotions, pretending everything is fine until they snap and make impulsive, out-of-character decisions. they lash out at loved ones unexpectedly, then feel guilty and retreat further into denial. they may sabotage themselves by avoiding conflict until it becomes an unavoidable disaster.
★ the seducer (7th house, scorpio) ★
how to defeat it:
taurus must acknowledge their hidden anger and suppressed desires. if they express frustration in healthy ways rather than letting it fester, they will prevent the instigator from causing sudden, reckless destruction. recognizing that some risks are necessary will also help them avoid self-sabotaging stagnation.
how it attacks:
scorpio in the 7th house brings taurus into intense, consuming relationships that demand emotional depth and transformation. the seducer appears as partners who are magnetic, mysterious, and emotionally overpowering. they attract lovers who force them to let go of control, exposing their deepest fears and insecurities. relationships feel like life-or-death experiences, pulling them into passion, jealousy, and emotional power struggles they don’t know how to handle. taurus wants stability, but scorpio partners make love feel dangerous and uncontrollable.
how taurus self-sabotages:
they fear emotional vulnerability, so they may shut down or distance themselves from relationships that get too intense. they hold onto people they should release, fearing that letting go means losing control. they may attract possessive, obsessive partners, or they themselves become secretly possessive, refusing to trust fully out of fear of betrayal.
how to defeat it:
taurus must learn that true emotional security comes from trust, not control. if they allow themselves to experience deep love without fearing destruction, they will master the seducer’s power rather than being consumed by it. learning to release relationships that no longer serve them will also free them from toxic emotional cycles.
★ gemini rising: the strategist, the tyrant, the prison guard, the preacher ★
the strategist (6th house, scorpio) places them in work environments full of power struggles, secrecy, and intense expectations that drain their energy.
the tyrant (8th house, capricorn) drags them into slow, grueling financial and emotional transformations that test their patience.
the prison guard (12th house, taurus) keeps them trapped in comfort zones, making them fear commitment, security, and stillness.
the preacher (7th house, sagittarius) appears as partners who challenge their beliefs, freedom, and ability to keep relationships light and casual.
★ the strategist (6th house, scorpio) ★
how it attacks:
gemini rising thrives in fast-paced, lighthearted work environments, but scorpio in the 6th house places them in high-pressure jobs, intense coworker dynamics, and workplaces full of secrecy and manipulation. the strategist appears as bosses who micromanage, colleagues who withhold information, and work projects that demand deep focus and long-term dedication. gemini prefers multitasking and variety, but the strategist forces them to dig deep and fully commit to one thing at a time. work becomes mentally and emotionally draining, filled with hidden agendas and power plays they weren’t prepared for.
how gemini self-sabotages:
they avoid dealing with workplace tension, choosing to play along rather than confront problems head-on. they struggle with maintaining focus, leading to unfinished tasks or wasted potential. they burn out because they don’t pace themselves, overloading their mind with too much information, too fast. they may leave jobs abruptly when things get too intense, but this enemy follows them into every workplace until they learn to handle high-stakes situations with strategy rather than avoidance.
★ the tyrant (8th house, capricorn)★
how to defeat it:
gemini must develop emotional intelligence in professional settings. they need to recognize when they’re being manipulated, set boundaries with draining coworkers, and commit to mastering a skill instead of bouncing between interests. if they can channel their adaptability into resilience, the strategist will lose its power.
how it attacks:
capricorn in the 8th house forces gemini rising into slow, painstaking transformations that demand endurance and responsibility. the tyrant appears as financial debt that takes years to pay off, emotional baggage that refuses to be ignored, and long-term commitments they can’t escape from. gemini wants quick solutions, but this enemy ensures that growth comes at a painfully slow pace. they may feel trapped in difficult family obligations, controlling relationships, or legal struggles that demand structure and discipline.
how gemini self-sabotages:
they avoid long-term financial planning, leading to money struggles that haunt them for years. they enter deep emotional connections without preparing for the responsibilities that come with them. when things feel too heavy, they run, only to find themselves stuck in the same cycles later on. the tyrant wins when gemini refuses to commit to their own long-term success.
★ the prison guard (12th house, taurus) ★
how to defeat it:
gemini must learn to take control of their financial and emotional future. if they develop patience, structure, and discipline, they can turn the tyrant into an ally rather than an oppressor.
how it attacks:
taurus in the 12th house makes gemini rising fear being trapped in a life of stillness and predictability. the prison guard appears as comfort zones they can’t break out of, routines that lull them into complacency, and an inability to fully commit to something out of fear of losing their freedom. gemini craves mental stimulation and new experiences, but deep down, they fear stability. this enemy makes them feel restless, unsatisfied, and always searching for something better, even when they already have what they need.
how gemini self-sabotages:
they jump from one thing to the next, thinking the next opportunity, relationship, or project will be the one that finally makes them happy. they avoid long-term commitments, fearing they will lose their sense of self. they stay in situations that are “good enough” rather than taking action to create something truly fulfilling.
★ the preacher (7th house, sagittarius) ★
how to defeat it:
gemini must understand that true freedom comes from within, not from constant external movement. if they embrace a sense of inner security, they will stop running in circles and start creating real stability on their own terms.
how it attacks:
sagittarius in the 7th house brings gemini rising partners who are larger than life, intensely opinionated, and constantly challenging their beliefs. the preacher appears as romantic and business partners who demand that gemini commit to something bigger than themselves, even when they aren’t ready. these relationships push them toward philosophical growth, travel, and long-term visions that require full investment. gemini prefers casual, adaptable partnerships, but the preacher forces them to step up, engage in serious discussions, and face uncomfortable truths about themselves.
how gemini self-sabotages:
they attract partners who force them to commit, but they hesitate, afraid of losing their freedom. they fall into hot-and-cold relationships, bouncing between intense passion and restless boredom. they avoid deep discussions, but the preacher always brings them back, making them face difficult conversations they’d rather escape from.
how to defeat it:
gemini must learn to embrace the idea that deep relationships don’t have to limit them—they can expand their world instead. if they commit without fear, they will gain something much more valuable than surface-level connections.
★ cancer rising: the wanderer, the machine, the chameleon, the fortress ★
the wanderer (6th house, sagittarius) disrupts their sense of routine, forcing them into chaotic work environments, health struggles tied to stress, and unpredictable daily life.
the machine (8th house, aquarius) drags them into cold, impersonal emotional transformations, sudden losses, and crises they cannot emotionally process in real-time.
the chameleon (12th house, gemini) lurks in their subconscious, making them doubt their own emotions and get lost in mental spirals that detach them from their intuition.
the fortress (7th house, capricorn) appears in relationships that feel more like contracts than love, forcing cancer to prove themselves and work for emotional connection rather than receiving it naturally.
★ the wanderer (6th house, sagittarius) ★
how it attacks:
cancer rising finds comfort in stable routines and environments, but sagittarius in the 6th house brings constant change and unpredictability. the wanderer appears as unstable jobs, overwhelming responsibilities, and schedules that never seem to stay the same. cancer wants structure, but this enemy forces them into high-energy, ever-changing work environments that demand constant adaptation. they struggle with balancing personal and professional life, often feeling like their work obligations pull them away from home and emotional security. their health also suffers due to stress, irregular sleep, and emotional eating.
how cancer self-sabotages:
they try to create strict routines to regain control, but life continues to disrupt them, leading to frustration and burnout. they may stay in unfulfilling jobs out of fear of instability, but deep down, they crave freedom from overwhelming responsibilities. they avoid necessary changes because they resent unpredictability, but this only makes them feel trapped in situations they secretly want to escape from.
★ the machine (8th house, aquarius) ★
how to defeat it:
cancer must learn that flexibility does not equal instability. if they embrace change with an open heart, they can create a sense of emotional stability within themselves rather than relying on external factors. the wanderer loses its power when cancer rising accepts movement as part of life instead of resisting it.
how it attacks:
aquarius in the 8th house forces cancer rising into impersonal, unpredictable emotional transformations. the machine appears as sudden losses, betrayals that come out of nowhere, and situations that demand complete emotional detachment. cancer wants depth and connection, but this enemy forces them into cold, distant transformations where emotions are ignored or dismissed. instead of the slow, meaningful healing they need, they are thrown into sudden, shocking changes that feel like they have no control over them.
how cancer self-sabotages:
they cling to past emotional wounds, refusing to accept sudden changes. they become too emotionally attached to situations or people who have already moved on, making it harder for them to heal. they suppress their grief and emotions in an attempt to move forward logically, but this only creates a deep sense of emptiness. the machine wins when cancer rising refuses to embrace emotional change and instead becomes frozen in time, unable to move forward.
★ the chameleon (12th house, gemini) ★
how to defeat it:
cancer must learn that not all changes need to be personal. sometimes, life moves quickly, and not every loss is a betrayal. if they can separate their emotions from external situations and allow themselves to process grief without attachment, the machine loses its power.
how it attacks:
gemini in the 12th house creates a constant inner dialogue that questions cancer’s emotions and instincts. the chameleon appears as racing thoughts, self-doubt, and a subconscious fear of never truly understanding themselves. cancer is deeply intuitive, but this enemy makes them overanalyze everything, causing them to detach from their emotions and question their feelings instead of trusting them. it manifests as sleepless nights, endless mental loops, and a deep fear that they are making the wrong decisions based on emotions rather than logic.
how cancer self-sabotages:
they suppress their intuition, trying to rationalize everything instead of feeling it. they get caught in toxic thought patterns, overanalyzing relationships, decisions, and emotions to the point where they lose sight of what they actually want. they struggle with expressing their deepest fears, often talking about surface-level concerns rather than addressing the real, painful emotions underneath.
★ the fortress (7th house, capricorn) ★
how to defeat it:
cancer must learn to trust their emotions instead of overthinking them. if they allow themselves to feel without explanation, they will reconnect with their inner world. the chameleon loses its power when cancer realizes that not every thought needs to be analyzed—some things are meant to be felt, not explained.
how it attacks:
capricorn in the 7th house makes cancer rising feel like love is a responsibility rather than a source of comfort. the fortress appears as partners who are emotionally unavailable, distant, or overly focused on practical matters instead of intimacy. cancer wants nurturing relationships, but they often attract serious, work-oriented partners who struggle with emotional vulnerability. they feel like they must earn love through effort rather than simply being loved for who they are.
how cancer self-sabotages:
they overcompensate in relationships, trying to prove their worth by giving too much. they stay in emotionally distant relationships for too long, believing that if they just work harder, they’ll finally be loved the way they need. they mistake stability for love, sometimes choosing partners who provide security but lack emotional connection.
how to defeat it:
cancer must learn that love isn’t something they have to earn—it’s something they deserve unconditionally. if they stop seeking validation from emotionally unavailable partners and instead find those who nurture them in return, the fortress crumbles.
★ leo rising: the overseer, the abyss, the phantom king, the outcast ★
the overseer (6th house, capricorn) places them in structured, high-pressure work environments where their freedom and creativity feel suffocated.
the abyss (8th house, pisces) drags them into murky emotional depths, forcing them to deal with loss, betrayal, and subconscious fears they’d rather ignore.
the phantom king (12th house, cancer) lurks in their subconscious, making them fear irrelevance, abandonment, and losing the admiration they thrive on.
the outcast (7th house, aquarius) appears in relationships that challenge their need for attention and admiration, making them feel overlooked or disconnected from their partners.
★ the overseer (6th house, capricorn) ★
how it attacks:
leo rising thrives on passion and creative expression, but capricorn in the 6th house forces them into structured, demanding work environments with little room for individuality. the overseer appears as bosses who expect perfection, high-pressure job expectations, and relentless responsibilities that drain their energy. instead of being recognized for their natural leadership, they are forced to prove themselves over and over again through discipline and hard work. their daily routine becomes rigid and exhausting, making them feel like they are losing their personal freedom in the pursuit of success.
how leo self-sabotages:
they resist structured routines, leading to chaotic schedules that leave them overwhelmed. they rebel against authority, refusing to follow rules that they see as beneath them, which can lead to career instability or professional conflicts. they take on too much responsibility, feeling like they have to do everything themselves to prove their worth. this enemy wins when leo rising tries to fight structure instead of learning how to use it to their advantage.
★ the abyss (8th house, pisces) ★
how to defeat it:
leo must realize that discipline and structure do not limit their creativity—they refine it. if they learn to balance responsibility with self-expression, the overseer loses its control.
how it attacks:
pisces in the 8th house forces leo rising into deep emotional crises where nothing is clear or predictable. the abyss appears as betrayals that come out of nowhere, financial instability, and emotional wounds that refuse to heal in a straight line. leo rising prefers clarity and control, but this enemy clouds their judgment, making them feel lost in emotional confusion. they may struggle with being deceived by those they trust, feeling like the rug has been pulled out from under them without explanation. their relationships and financial security often feel uncertain and unstable, making them fearful of the unknown.
how leo self-sabotages:
they cling to illusions, refusing to see the truth in situations where they have been deceived. they distract themselves with external validation, avoiding processing their emotional pain in a healthy way. they rush into financial or emotional commitments without considering the risks, only to feel trapped when things don’t go as expected. the abyss wins when leo refuses to acknowledge their emotional wounds and instead hides behind their pride.
★ the phantom king (12th house, cancer) ★
how to defeat it:
leo must learn that true strength comes from vulnerability, not avoidance. if they face their emotional pain with honesty and allow themselves to heal, the abyss loses its hold.
how it attacks:
cancer in the 12th house creates a hidden fear of losing relevance and being abandoned by those they love. the phantom king whispers, “what if they stop caring about you? what if no one sees you anymore?” leo rising thrives on recognition and connection, but this enemy makes them fear losing their place in people’s lives. they may struggle with hidden insecurities about being replaceable, leading to subconscious self-sabotage in relationships and career moves. this enemy appears in moments of loneliness, nostalgia for the past, and fears of fading into the background when they aren’t actively in the spotlight.
how leo self-sabotages:
they overcompensate by demanding attention, fearing that if they aren’t constantly visible, they will be forgotten. they hold onto relationships that have run their course, terrified of losing emotional connections that once defined them. they hide their own emotional needs, pretending to be strong and unbothered while secretly fearing rejection. the phantom king wins when leo rising lets their fear of irrelevance control their actions.
★ the outcast (7th house, aquarius) ★
how to defeat it:
leo must realize that their worth is not tied to external validation. if they build a strong inner foundation and embrace self-love without needing constant recognition, the phantom king fades away.
how it attacks:
aquarius in the 7th house attracts partners who are independent, unpredictable, and emotionally distant. the outcast appears as lovers who resist deep emotional connection, friendships that feel distant, and business partners who prioritize logic over feelings. leo rising wants passion and devotion, but this enemy places them in relationships that feel cool, detached, and sometimes outright indifferent. they may feel like they are giving their all to people who never fully reciprocate their energy.
how leo self-sabotages:
they attract partners who challenge their need for admiration, feeling frustrated when their efforts go unnoticed. they mistake freedom for rejection, struggling with trusting that love doesn’t have to be constant validation. they push people away when they feel unappreciated, rather than allowing relationships to breathe and grow organically. the outcast wins when leo rising seeks constant affirmation instead of building secure, balanced relationships.
how to defeat it:
leo must understand that love is not about possession or constant reassurance—it’s about trust and mutual respect. if they allow themselves to experience relationships without needing control, the outcast loses its power.
★ virgo rising: the fool, the destroyer, the ghost, the trickster ★
the fool (6th house, aquarius) disrupts their carefully structured routines, throwing them into unpredictable work environments and health struggles that defy logic.
the destroyer (8th house, aries) drags them into sudden, painful transformations that strip them of control and force them into crisis mode without warning.
the ghost (12th house, leo) lurks in their subconscious, whispering fears of being invisible, unappreciated, and never truly recognized for their efforts.
the trickster (7th house, pisces) appears in relationships that deceive, confuse, and challenge virgo’s desire for certainty and clarity in love.
★ the fool (6th house, aquarius) ★
how it attacks:
virgo rising craves efficiency, order, and structured routines, but aquarius in the 6th house brings constant change, unconventional work settings, and unpredictable health patterns. the fool appears as disruptive coworkers, unstructured job environments, and sudden shifts that force them to adapt when they’d rather plan ahead. workplaces feel disorganized, full of eccentric personalities who don’t follow the rules. instead of a reliable schedule, their daily life is full of interruptions, last-minute changes, and unexpected complications. their health may also be affected by nervous energy, sudden stressors, or erratic habits they can’t control.
how virgo self-sabotages:
they cling too tightly to routine, panicking when things don’t go as planned. they try to fix chaos with logic, but the fool doesn’t play by their rules. they struggle with overthinking and micromanaging, exhausting themselves in an attempt to control what can’t be controlled. the more they resist embracing spontaneity, the more the fool tightens its grip.
★ the destroyer (8th house, aries) ★
how to defeat it:
virgo must learn that not everything needs a strict plan. if they embrace adaptability and trust themselves to handle the unknown, the fool loses its power. finding balance between logic and flexibility will allow them to navigate chaotic situations with confidence.
how it attacks:
aries in the 8th house forces virgo rising into intense, fast-moving crises that demand immediate action and emotional endurance. the destroyer appears as sudden losses, financial upheavals, and deep betrayals that happen without warning. virgo rising prefers carefully planned transformations, but this enemy rips control from their hands, forcing them into high-pressure situations where they must act fast. this enemy thrives on pushing them to their emotional and financial limits, demanding resilience without preparation.
how virgo self-sabotages:
they overanalyze rather than act, trying to delay crisis instead of adapting quickly. they suppress anger and emotional intensity, but the destroyer forces them to confront raw, unfiltered emotions head-on. they struggle with letting go, resisting transformation until it happens by force. the more they try to control the uncontrollable, the harder the destroyer strikes.
how to defeat it:
virgo must learn that not all change can be planned—some must be faced head-on. if they accept that destruction is sometimes necessary for rebirth, they can turn moments of crisis into opportunities for renewal. the destroyer loses its grip when they trust their instincts rather than fear them.
★ the ghost (12th house, leo) ★
how it attacks:
leo in the 12th house creates a hidden fear of invisibility, unrecognized effort, and being overshadowed by others. the ghost appears in moments of self-doubt, whispering that no matter how hard virgo rising works, they will never receive the recognition they deserve. they thrive on being useful and competent, but this enemy makes them feel unseen, unappreciated, or constantly second to someone else. they may struggle with feeling overlooked in their personal and professional life, believing that their worth is only as strong as their ability to serve others.
how virgo self-sabotages:
they work tirelessly to prove themselves, but never feel fully satisfied with external validation. they suppress their own creative desires, prioritizing helping others over their own self-expression. they fear taking up too much space, often downplaying their achievements instead of owning their success. the ghost wins when virgo rising lets self-doubt keep them in the background instead of stepping into their own spotlight.
★ the trickster (7th house, pisces) ★
how to defeat it:
virgo must realize that they are not just valuable because of what they do for others—they are valuable simply for who they are. if they allow themselves to take pride in their talents and step forward with confidence, the ghost fades away.
how it attacks:
pisces in the 7th house makes relationships unclear, unpredictable, and often filled with illusions. the trickster appears as partners who are hard to pin down, emotionally elusive, or dishonest in ways that are hard to detect at first. virgo rising wants practical, straightforward partnerships, but this enemy attracts romantic and business relationships where nothing is as it seems. they may fall for people who manipulate with charm, promise stability but never deliver, or disappear when things get serious. love feels like a constant puzzle, full of missing pieces that virgo rising desperately tries to solve.
how virgo self-sabotages:
they overanalyze relationships, trying to find logic in emotions that can’t be rationalized. they seek perfection in partners, only to feel disillusioned when reality doesn’t match their expectations. they ignore red flags, assuming they can fix or help the people they love, but the trickster thrives on false hope and illusions.
how to defeat it:
virgo must learn that love is not a problem to be solved—it is an experience to be felt. if they stop seeking certainty and instead embrace emotional flow, the trickster loses its ability to deceive. trusting intuition over logic in relationships will allow them to see through illusions and avoid unnecessary heartache.
★ libra rising: the workhorse, the storm, the doppelgänger, the challenger ★
the tide (6th house, pisces) pulls them into waves of emotional and professional overwhelm, blurring the line between responsibility and sacrifice.
the sandstorm (8th house, taurus) buries them in slow-moving but unavoidable emotional and financial transformations that challenge their patience and comfort zones.
the masquerade (12th house, virgo) lurks in their subconscious, whispering self-doubt and perfectionism, making them feel like they must constantly refine themselves to be worthy of love and success.
the warrior (7th house, aries) appears in relationships that demand courage, independence, and confrontation—things libra rising instinctively avoids in order to keep the peace.
★ the tide (6th house, pisces) ★
how it attacks:
libra rising craves clear responsibilities and work-life balance, but pisces in the 6th house brings fluidity, uncertainty, and obligations that drain them emotionally rather than just physically. the tide appears as jobs that expect too much, coworkers who overshare personal struggles, and unclear boundaries between professional and emotional labor. libra rising often finds themselves absorbing the stress of their environment, feeling responsible for fixing problems they didn’t cause. their work feels like an ocean of shifting expectations, where they must constantly adjust without clear guidance. their health also suffers from stress, exhaustion, and difficulty maintaining routines due to external demands.
how libra self-sabotages:
they say yes too often, believing that if they help enough people, everything will fall into place. they struggle with setting boundaries, fearing that asserting their needs will make them appear selfish or unkind. they avoid structure, thinking that rigid schedules restrict their freedom, only to become overwhelmed when they lack direction. the tide wins when libra rising lets themselves be carried away by responsibilities they never truly wanted to take on in the first place.
★ the sandstorm (8th house, taurus) ★
how to defeat it:
libra must learn that helping others does not mean drowning in their problems. if they establish firm boundaries and create routines that prioritize their well-being, the tide loses its grip. learning to say “no” without guilt will allow them to regain their own sense of flow without being swept away.
how it attacks:
taurus in the 8th house forces libra rising into slow, heavy transformations that cannot be rushed or avoided. the sandstorm appears as financial burdens that take years to resolve, emotionally draining relationships that linger, and personal evolutions that feel like walking through endless resistance. unlike the quick, adaptable change libra prefers, this enemy demands endurance and patience, refusing to let them move on until they fully face what needs to be transformed.
how libra self-sabotages:
they cling to comfort even when it no longer serves them, fearing that leaving stability behind means making an irreversible mistake. they avoid difficult emotional conversations, thinking that if they pretend everything is fine, it will eventually resolve itself. they struggle with letting go, often holding onto people, financial obligations, or emotional burdens long past their expiration date. the sandstorm wins when libra rising remains stuck in cycles of avoidance, letting change happen to them instead of actively participating in their own transformation.
★ the masquerade (12th house, virgo) ★
how to defeat it:
libra must accept that not all change can be controlled, and some things require endurance rather than avoidance. if they face their financial and emotional struggles with patience rather than trying to rush to the finish line, the sandstorm loses its grip.
how it attacks:
virgo in the 12th house creates a hidden voice of self-criticism that constantly questions libra rising’s decisions, making them feel like they must be polished and flawless to be truly accepted. the masquerade whispers, "are you sure this is the right choice? are you refined enough, successful enough, desirable enough?" libra thrives on beauty and balance, but this enemy makes them fixate on flaws, second-guess their actions, and fear being exposed as inadequate. they may struggle with an internal pressure to maintain an idealized version of themselves, constantly adjusting to meet others' expectations instead of simply existing as they are.
how libra self-sabotages:
they overanalyze every social interaction, every choice, and every commitment, paralyzing themselves with indecision. they struggle with acknowledging their own needs, often deferring to what they believe will please others rather than what truly fulfills them. they may hold themselves to impossibly high standards, believing that any mistake could damage their reputation or relationships. the masquerade wins when libra rising lets their own self-doubt keep them from embracing their true identity and desires.
★ the warrior (7th house, aries) ★
how to defeat it:
libra must realize that they do not need to be perfect—they need to be authentic. if they trust their instincts rather than constantly refining themselves for others, the masquerade loses its power.
how it attacks:
aries in the 7th house attracts partners who are direct, independent, and sometimes confrontational. the warrior appears as lovers who push libra rising to assert themselves, stand their ground, and make decisions without overthinking. libra prefers harmony and mutual understanding, but this enemy places them in relationships that demand personal strength and self-assertion rather than constant compromise. they may attract partners who challenge their desire for fairness by pushing them to be decisive, competitive, and self-reliant.
how libra self-sabotages:
they avoid conflict at all costs, often sacrificing their own needs just to maintain peace in relationships. they mistake assertiveness for aggression, struggling to stand their ground when it truly matters. they may become overly reliant on a partner’s leadership, believing that someone else should make the hard decisions for them. the warrior wins when libra rising fears confrontation so much that they lose their ability to fight for what they truly want in relationships.
how to defeat it:
libra must realize that standing up for themselves does not mean creating conflict—it means claiming their power. if they embrace self-assertion and make decisions based on their own needs rather than trying to please others, the warrior loses its grip.
★ scorpio rising: the taskmaster, the wildfire, the mirror, the tower ★
the taskmaster (6th house, aries) forces them into grueling work environments, exhausting responsibilities, and non-stop action with no room for rest or strategy.
the whirlwind (8th house, gemini) spreads rapid and unpredictable destruction through miscommunication, betrayal, and emotional upheavals they never see coming.
the mirror (12th house, libra) lurks in their subconscious, forcing them to reconcile their need for control with their hidden desire for harmony and validation.
the tower (7th house, taurus) appears in relationships that challenge their emotional intensity with stability, patience, and resistance to their usual tactics of manipulation or control.
★ the taskmaster (6th house, aries) ★
how it attacks:
scorpio rising prefers to move with strategy, taking control over their own pace, but aries in the 6th house drags them into constant action, high-pressure work environments, and physical exhaustion that leaves no time for careful planning. the taskmaster appears as demanding jobs, overwhelming routines, and responsibilities that never seem to end. scorpio rising craves depth and meaning, but this enemy forces them into mindless, repetitive labor that drains their energy. their health suffers from stress, overworking, and pushing themselves to the absolute limit.
how scorpio self-sabotages:
they refuse to rest, believing that if they stop, they will lose control over their success. they bottle up frustration, only to explode when the pressure becomes unbearable. they reject help, thinking that true strength means doing everything alone. the taskmaster wins when scorpio rising burns out completely, leaving them unable to function effectively.
★ the whirlwind (8th house, gemini) ★
how to defeat it:
scorpio must learn that working smart is more important than working hard. if they embrace efficiency, delegate responsibilities, and prioritize their well-being, the taskmaster loses its power.
how it attacks:
gemini in the 8th house forces scorpio rising into fast-moving emotional crises, unexpected betrayals, and chaotic transformations that they cannot control. the whirlwind appears as partners who spread misinformation, friendships that dissolve without warning, and secrets that surface at the worst possible moments. unlike the slow, deep emotional transformations scorpio prefers, this enemy brings sudden, jarring changes that leave them scrambling for answers.
how scorpio self-sabotages:
they obsess over hidden meanings, desperately trying to piece together fragmented truths. they hold onto grudges, unable to let go of past betrayals even when moving forward would serve them better. they overestimate their ability to control narratives, believing that if they dig deep enough, they can uncover the full truth—but the whirlwind ensures that truth always remains elusive.
★ the mirror (12th house, libra) ★
how to defeat it:
scorpio must accept that not every mystery needs to be solved, and not every battle is worth fighting. if they let go of their need to control information and embrace adaptability, the whirlwind loses its power.
how it attacks:
libra in the 12th house creates a hidden contradiction within scorpio rising—on the surface, they exude power and independence, but deep down, they secretly crave harmony, acceptance, and even love from others in ways they don’t admit to themselves. the mirror whispers, “you are not as in control as you pretend to be. you want to be loved, just like everyone else.” scorpio rising wants to believe they are above the need for external validation, but this enemy forces them to reckon with the parts of themselves that desire approval, affection, and connection.
how scorpio self-sabotages:
they push people away, fearing that letting others in will make them vulnerable. they dismiss their own need for love, pretending that they do not care about being understood. they struggle with internal contradictions, torn between their desire for power and their secret longing for peace. the mirror wins when scorpio rising denies their softer side, refusing to acknowledge their need for balance and connection.
★ the tower (7th house, taurus) ★
how to defeat it:
scorpio must accept that they can be both powerful and vulnerable, both dominant and loving. if they embrace their desire for harmony instead of suppressing it, the mirror loses its hold.
how it attacks:
taurus in the 7th house attracts partners who resist scorpio’s usual tactics of control, manipulation, and emotional intensity. the tower appears as lovers who refuse to engage in power struggles, who demand stability instead of chaos, and who hold their ground rather than bending to scorpio’s will. relationships feel slow, unmovable, and sometimes frustratingly stable, lacking the extreme emotional highs and lows scorpio is used to navigating. unlike the deeply transformative connections scorpio prefers, this enemy forces them to experience love as something steady and unshakable rather than dramatic and consuming.
how scorpio self-sabotages:
they test their partners, pushing limits to see if they will react, but taurus energy remains calm and unmoved, which frustrates them even more. they resist trust, believing that if they let go of control, they will lose their power. they mistake consistency for boredom, often sabotaging stable relationships because they crave something more intense. the tower wins when scorpio rising rejects stability, convincing themselves that love must be painful in order to be meaningful.
how to defeat it:
scorpio must realize that true strength lies in trust and patience, not just in power and intensity. if they embrace the idea that love can be stable and fulfilling without being destructive or obsessive, the tower loses its foundation and crumbles.
★ sagittarius rising: the warden, the undertow, the serpent, the ballast ★
the warden (6th house, taurus) forces them into repetitive, rigid routines that feel suffocating and slow, demanding discipline and patience rather than excitement and variety.
the undertow (8th house, cancer) drags them into overwhelming emotional depths, forcing them to confront attachment, loss, and intimacy in ways they instinctively resist.
the serpent (12th house, scorpio) lurks in their subconscious, clouding their instincts with paranoia, self-doubt, and fears of hidden betrayals that may or may not be real.
the ballast (7th house, gemini) appears in relationships that feel too logical, detached, or mentally exhausting, challenging their need for passion and spiritual depth in love.
★ the warden (6th house, taurus) ★
how it attacks:
sagittarius rising thrives on spontaneity and movement, but taurus in the 6th house drags them into slow, repetitive routines that feel like an inescapable prison. the warden appears as unwavering responsibilities, work that demands patience and endurance, and an environment that offers little stimulation or adventure. sagittarius wants quick results and flexible schedules, but this enemy demands consistency, discipline, and a long-term commitment to progress. it shows up in strict work schedules, demanding health regimens, and daily obligations that seem to drag on forever.
how sagittarius self-sabotages:
they avoid commitment, jumping between jobs and projects before they see results. they procrastinate on long-term goals, believing they will figure things out later, only to feel overwhelmed when responsibilities catch up to them. they resist slowing down, fearing that stillness means stagnation. the warden wins when sagittarius rising refuses to develop discipline, leaving them stuck in cycles of unfinished ideas and fleeting interests that never turn into something stable.
★ the undertow (8th house, cancer) ★
how to defeat it:
sagittarius must learn that structure does not equal confinement—it is the foundation that makes long-term freedom possible. if they embrace patience and steady effort without seeing it as a cage, the warden loses its power.
how it attacks:
cancer in the 8th house forces sagittarius rising into deep emotional waters they are not prepared to navigate. the undertow appears as intense, overwhelming relationships, family burdens they cannot escape, and a need to face their own emotions instead of running from them. unlike the lighthearted connections sagittarius prefers, this enemy drags them into matters of life, death, and legacy, forcing them to feel things they would rather intellectualize or joke about.
how sagittarius self-sabotages:
they avoid deep emotional bonds, keeping relationships surface-level to avoid being tied down. they shut down when people expect emotional vulnerability, preferring to keep things light rather than diving into painful discussions. they distract themselves with travel, work, or new experiences rather than sitting with their feelings and processing them fully. the undertow wins when sagittarius rising denies themselves true emotional connection and healing because they fear the weight of it.
★ the serpent (12th house, scorpio) ★
how to defeat it:
sagittarius must learn that freedom is not just physical—it is emotional too. if they allow themselves to face their feelings rather than escape them, they will find deeper meaning and connection than they ever thought possible.
how it attacks:
scorpio in the 12th house creates a lurking fear of betrayal, failure, and losing control. the serpent coils around sagittarius rising’s subconscious, whispering "what if you're wrong? what if you’ve trusted the wrong people? what if there's something lurking beneath the surface you’re too blind to see?" sagittarius prefers truth, openness, and expansion, but this enemy poisons them with paranoia, self-doubt, and subconscious sabotage that leads them into self-destructive patterns. they may laugh things off on the surface, but underneath, they are haunted by unspoken fears of what’s waiting in the shadows.
how sagittarius self-sabotages:
they become reckless to avoid confronting their inner darkness, throwing themselves into distractions instead of acknowledging their deeper wounds. they doubt their own wisdom, fearing that they will never have all the answers, leading them to overcompensate with arrogance or avoidance. they keep their pain buried, assuming that if they don’t think about it, it won’t affect them—only for it to creep into their decisions unconsciously. the serpent wins when sagittarius rising lets fear of the unknown dictate their actions rather than embracing the power of transformation.
★ the ballast (7th house, gemini) ★
how to defeat it:
sagittarius must realize that fear only has power when ignored. if they confront their hidden wounds, embrace vulnerability, and trust in their ability to overcome, the serpent loses its venom.
how it attacks:
gemini in the 7th house attracts partners who challenge sagittarius rising’s need for passion and adventure with logic, detachment, and intellectual debates that can feel cold or exhausting. the ballast appears as lovers who overanalyze everything, make love feel like a mental chess game rather than a passionate connection, or constantly test their beliefs in frustrating ways. sagittarius seeks a lover who will run wild with them, but this enemy keeps them tethered to reality, forcing them to engage in difficult conversations rather than simply escaping into passion or philosophy.
how sagittarius self-sabotages:
they get restless in relationships, craving constant novelty and excitement. they avoid serious conversations, choosing charm and humor over emotional depth. they struggle with staying present in relationships that require patience and effort, assuming that if things aren’t effortless, they aren’t meant to be. the ballast wins when sagittarius rising rejects commitment, assuming it will slow them down rather than expand their world in new ways.
how to defeat it:
sagittarius must realize that real love is not about constant movement—it is about trust, growth, and exploration together. if they stop fearing commitment and embrace meaningful intellectual and emotional connections, the ballast loses its weight.
★ capricorn rising: the conveyor belt, the pyre, the shadowcaster, the maelstrom ★
the conveyor belt (6th house, gemini) throws them into chaotic routines, constant multitasking, and shallow distractions that drain their efficiency and focus.
the pyre (8th house, leo) forces them into ego-destroying transformations, stripping away their carefully built self-image through loss, betrayal, and power struggles.
the shadowcaster (12th house, sagittarius) lurks in their subconscious, creating an inner conflict between their need for control and their hidden desire for boundless freedom and escape.
the maelstrom (7th house, cancer) appears in relationships that overwhelm them with emotional intensity, unpredictability, and demands for vulnerability they struggle to meet.
★ the conveyor belt (6th house, gemini) ★
how it attacks:
capricorn rising thrives on structure and efficiency, but gemini in the 6th house disrupts their carefully laid plans with constant interruptions, overwhelming responsibilities, and shallow tasks that waste their time. the conveyor belt appears as a fast-paced work environment that prioritizes speed over quality, an endless influx of responsibilities that prevent deep focus, and a lack of consistency that makes it difficult to establish long-term stability. capricorn rising prefers steady progress, but this enemy forces them to juggle too many tasks at once, leading to burnout and dissatisfaction.
how capricorn self-sabotages:
they micromanage everything, believing that if they control every detail, they can prevent chaos—only to exhaust themselves in the process. they overcommit to responsibilities, taking on too much out of a sense of duty, even when it drains them. they ignore their need for rest, believing that working harder will solve everything, even when their lack of efficiency is the real problem. the conveyor belt wins when capricorn rising mistakes busyness for productivity, losing sight of their long-term goals in the process.
★ the pyre (8th house, leo) ★
how to defeat it:
capricorn must learn that quality matters more than quantity. if they prioritize deep work, delegate unnecessary tasks, and allow flexibility in their routines without sacrificing structure, the conveyor belt loses its grip.
how it attacks:
leo in the 8th house forces capricorn rising into sudden and often humiliating transformations that strip away their pride, authority, or sense of control. the pyre appears as public failures, betrayals that damage their reputation, or deep emotional losses that force them to let go of their rigid self-image. unlike the gradual, structured change they prefer, this enemy burns away everything they once relied on, leaving them exposed and vulnerable before they have a chance to rebuild.
how capricorn self-sabotages:
they cling to their authority and status, refusing to admit when they need help or when their old methods are no longer working. they fear showing weakness, leading them to bottle up emotions until they explode in dramatic ways. they struggle with letting go, often trying to salvage control in situations that demand surrender. the pyre wins when capricorn rising fights against necessary transformation, only to have it forced upon them in painful, unavoidable ways.
★ the shadowcaster (12th house, sagittarius) ★
how to defeat it:
capricorn must accept that sometimes destruction is necessary for renewal. if they embrace change rather than resisting it, they can rise from the ashes stronger and wiser. the pyre loses its fire when capricorn learns to let go of outdated versions of themselves before life forces them to.
how it attacks:
sagittarius in the 12th house creates a subconscious conflict between capricorn’s need for stability and their hidden desire for escape, risk, and freedom. the shadowcaster whispers, “what if you’re missing out? what if you built this entire life only to realize you never really lived?” capricorn rising thrives on control and careful planning, but this enemy fuels impulsive desires to abandon everything and run toward the unknown—an urge they struggle to reconcile with their responsibility-driven nature.
how capricorn self-sabotages:
they deny their need for adventure, suppressing any impulse that threatens their structured world—only to find themselves secretly fantasizing about escape. they intellectualize their emotions, avoiding deep spiritual reflection in favor of tangible achievements. they fear uncertainty, preferring to stay on the path they’ve built, even if it no longer excites them. the shadowcaster wins when capricorn rising lets fear of instability keep them from evolving, leaving them feeling trapped in a life they built but no longer connect with.
★ the maelstrom (7th house, cancer) ★
how to defeat it:
capricorn must learn that they don’t have to choose between stability and adventure—they can have both. if they integrate spontaneity and self-discovery into their structured life, the shadowcaster fades away.
how it attacks:
cancer in the 7th house attracts partners who bring deep emotional intensity, unpredictable moods, and demands for vulnerability that capricorn rising struggles to meet. the maelstrom appears as relationships that require them to open up, soften, and connect on an emotional level rather than just a practical one. capricorn rising prefers partnerships built on mutual goals and stability, but this enemy forces them into love that is raw, nurturing, and sometimes overwhelming in its depth and intensity.
how capricorn self-sabotages:
they emotionally detach, keeping relationships strictly transactional or goal-oriented rather than allowing them to be deeply felt experiences. they view emotions as distractions, struggling with being present in moments of deep connection. they fear dependency, believing that needing someone too much will make them weak. the maelstrom wins when capricorn rising pushes away genuine intimacy out of fear that they will lose control in the process.
how to defeat it:
capricorn must learn that true strength lies in allowing themselves to be loved fully, not just respected or admired. if they embrace emotional connection rather than avoiding it, the maelstrom loses its storm.
★ aquarius rising: the tidebreaker, the iron veil, the hollow, the sovereign ★
the tidebreaker (6th house, cancer) disrupts their logical, structured world with unpredictable emotional demands, workplace drama, and physical stress rooted in unresolved emotional baggage.
the iron veil (8th house, virgo) forces them into slow, grueling psychological transformations that demand patience, humility, and meticulous self-analysis—things they resist deeply.
the hollow (12th house, capricorn) lurks in their subconscious, creating an inner war between their rebellious ideals and a hidden, relentless drive for control, status, and power.
the sovereign (7th house, leo) appears in relationships that challenge their detached, intellectual approach to love by demanding passion, adoration, and unwavering presence.
★ the tidebreaker (6th house, cancer) ★
how it attacks:
aquarius rising thrives on rationality and objectivity, but cancer in the 6th house forces them into work environments and daily routines that are dictated by emotion rather than logic. the tidebreaker appears as unpredictable coworkers, emotionally draining work responsibilities, and health struggles that stem from bottled-up stress. unlike the detached and calculated approach they prefer, this enemy turns every task into an emotional ordeal, making it difficult for them to separate work from personal feelings.
how aquarius self-sabotages:
they dismiss emotional needs as irrational, avoiding self-care until stress manifests as physical exhaustion. they detach in workplace drama, refusing to engage but still feeling the weight of unresolved tension around them. they overlook the importance of emotional balance in their daily life, leading to burnout and erratic productivity cycles. the tidebreaker wins when aquarius rising ignores the emotional undercurrents affecting their well-being, mistaking detachment for control.
★ the iron veil (8th house, virgo) ★
how to defeat it:
aquarius must learn that emotional intelligence is just as important as intellectual intelligence. if they acknowledge the emotional weight of their environment instead of dismissing it, they can create boundaries that protect their energy rather than pretending they don’t need them. the tidebreaker loses its force when aquarius rising embraces both logic and emotion in their daily life.
how it attacks:
virgo in the 8th house forces aquarius rising into painfully slow, detail-heavy personal transformations that feel suffocating and never-ending. the iron veil appears as a cycle of self-improvement that is never enough, deep insecurities masked as perfectionism, and crises that require careful, tedious healing instead of quick fixes or intellectual solutions. unlike the sudden breakthroughs aquarius prefers, this enemy demands meticulous self-work that cannot be skipped or avoided.
how aquarius self-sabotages:
they intellectualize their emotions, analyzing their problems instead of actually processing and feeling them. they avoid deep personal work, preferring to distract themselves with new ideas or future plans rather than dealing with old wounds that still influence them. they deny their own vulnerability, refusing to admit that they, too, need healing and emotional care. the iron veil wins when aquarius rising avoids necessary transformation, staying stuck in mental loops rather than making real progress.
★ the hollow (12th house, capricorn) ★
how to defeat it:
aquarius must realize that true transformation is not about intellectual mastery—it’s about emotional integration. if they embrace the discomfort of slow healing instead of trying to "logic" their way out of it, the iron veil loses its power.
how it attacks:
capricorn in the 12th house creates a hidden conflict between aquarius rising’s rebellious, nonconformist ideals and their subconscious desire for control, power, and recognition. the hollow whispers, “you act like you don’t care about success, but what if deep down, you do? what if everything you claim to reject is actually what you crave the most?” aquarius prides themselves on breaking societal norms, but this enemy reveals the part of them that fears being irrelevant, directionless, or incapable of building something lasting.
how aquarius self-sabotages:
they reject traditional success too aggressively, sometimes turning down opportunities just to prove they are different. they act as if they don’t care about legacy or reputation, even when deep down, they want to make a lasting impact but fear being seen as hypocritical. they hide their need for structure, believing that admitting to their ambitions would mean surrendering to the very systems they claim to resist. the hollow wins when aquarius rising lets their fear of conformity keep them from fully embracing their power and influence.
★ the sovereign (7th house, leo) ★
how to defeat it:
aquarius must realize that power is not the enemy—misuse of power is. if they accept that ambition does not have to mean selling out, and that structure does not have to mean restriction, the hollow loses its grip.
how it attacks:
leo in the 7th house attracts partners who demand loyalty, grand gestures, and unwavering presence—things aquarius rising often struggles to provide. the sovereign appears as relationships that feel larger than life, lovers who expect admiration and deep emotional engagement, and partnerships that challenge their need for independence and detachment. aquarius rising prefers companionship that allows for freedom, but this enemy demands total commitment, forcing them to confront their resistance to deep emotional investment.
how aquarius self-sabotages:
they keep relationships at arm’s length, fearing that if they give too much of themselves, they will lose their identity. they downplay their emotions, sometimes acting indifferent or unavailable even when they deeply care. they resist partners who want to be the center of their world, struggling with expressing appreciation in ways that feel genuine to them rather than performative or forced. the sovereign wins when aquarius rising rejects the vulnerability of love in favor of detached intellectualism, losing deep connections in the process.
how to defeat it:
aquarius must learn that true freedom in relationships comes from trust and mutual respect, not distance and avoidance. if they embrace devotion without feeling like it threatens their independence, the sovereign loses its power.
★ pisces rising: the inferno, the marionette, the rift, the sentinel ★
the inferno (6th house, leo) burns through their desire for quiet, intuitive work, forcing them into high-pressure environments where ego and recognition dictate success.
the marionette (8th house, libra) traps them in emotional and financial dependencies, pulling their strings so subtly that they do not realize they are losing control until it is too late.
the rift (12th house, aquarius) lurks in their subconscious, making them feel like an outsider in their own mind, torn between their dreamlike visions and the cold detachment of reality.
the sentinel (7th house, virgo) appears in relationships that demand practicality, structure, and discipline, forcing them to reconcile their ideals with the need for stability and reliability in love.
★ the inferno (6th house, leo) ★
how it attacks:
pisces rising thrives on fluidity, creative expression, and quiet inspiration, but leo in the 6th house throws them into environments where they are expected to be seen, acknowledged, and perform under pressure. the inferno appears as demanding bosses, high-stakes careers that require constant self-promotion, or daily routines that require them to maintain a dominant presence rather than flowing at their own pace. unlike the dreamlike, intuitive work environments they long for, this enemy demands authority, structure, and external validation.
how pisces self-sabotages:
they shrink from leadership roles, fearing that stepping into the spotlight will strip them of their deeper, spiritual purpose. they avoid structured routines, preferring spontaneity even when discipline could help them thrive. they downplay their own success, believing that seeking recognition is egotistical when, in reality, it’s necessary for growth. the inferno wins when pisces rising refuses to embrace their inner strength, instead letting themselves drift aimlessly in jobs or routines that do not fulfill them.
★ the marionette (8th house, libra) ★
how to defeat it:
pisces must realize that being seen does not mean losing their authenticity. if they allow themselves to take up space, lead with compassion, and accept recognition as part of their journey, the inferno loses its flames.
how it attacks:
libra in the 8th house forces pisces rising into deep, complex emotional and financial connections that feel impossible to untangle. the marionette appears as relationships where they lose themselves in others, joint financial burdens they cannot escape, and a never-ending struggle between maintaining peace and asserting their needs. unlike the free-flowing, romantic bonds they seek, this enemy ties them to obligations that grow more complicated over time, draining them of energy and autonomy.
how pisces self-sabotages:
they prioritize harmony over self-protection, staying in situations that are quietly suffocating them just to avoid confrontation. they believe love means sacrifice, sometimes giving up more than they receive in return. they become financially or emotionally dependent, making it difficult to walk away from relationships that have become entangled with their survival or sense of self. the marionette wins when pisces rising mistakes obligation for connection, binding themselves to others at the cost of their own freedom.
★ the rift (12th house, aquarius) ★
how to defeat it:
pisces must learn that true connection does not come from dependence—it comes from mutual respect and balance. if they assert their boundaries and reclaim their independence, the marionette’s strings will snap.
how it attacks:
aquarius in the 12th house creates a deep internal divide between pisces rising’s rich inner world and an underlying fear of emotional detachment or irrelevance. the rift whispers, “your dreams are beautiful, but what if they don’t mean anything? what if you are just another wandering soul, lost in illusion?” pisces rising is deeply connected to spirituality and creativity, but this enemy injects doubt, making them feel isolated even within their own mind. they may experience visions, intuition, and dreams that feel profound, only to question if they are truly connected or if they are merely lost in their own delusions.
how pisces self-sabotages:
they avoid grounding themselves, preferring to stay in the world of ideas and dreams even when reality is calling them back. they doubt their own intuition, fearing that they cannot trust their instincts or that their inner world is somehow “wrong” or meaningless. they disconnect from others, feeling too different or too misunderstood to fully belong anywhere. the rift wins when pisces rising convinces themselves that they are a ghost drifting through life rather than an active creator of their own destiny.
★ the sentinel (7th house, virgo) ★
how to defeat it:
pisces must realize that they do not have to choose between dreams and reality—they can build a bridge between them. if they anchor their creativity and intuition in the physical world through action and expression, the rift loses its power to separate them from themselves.
how it attacks:
virgo in the 7th house attracts partners who demand order, structure, and logic—things that pisces rising often struggles with in their romantic relationships. the sentinel appears as partners who need stability, who expect routines and reliability, who analyze love rather than surrendering to it. pisces rising seeks romantic, intuitive, and spiritual bonds, but this enemy challenges them to be practical, to make love something tangible rather than just a dream or a feeling.
how pisces self-sabotages:
they romanticize instability, sometimes choosing lovers who “save” them rather than ones who help them grow. they resist structure in relationships, fearing that commitments will strip away the magic and mystery they crave. they become passive, allowing partners to dictate the direction of the relationship because they fear confrontation or responsibility. the sentinel wins when pisces rising refuses to engage in the practical side of love, expecting devotion to be purely intuitive rather than a daily act of commitment and care.
how to defeat it:
pisces must learn that love does not lose its magic just because it is stable. if they embrace consistency and effort as part of devotion rather than limitations on passion, the sentinel loses its power.
This list was a part of another post but I want to make a separated one for it, to serve as a reminder, for myself, and for anyone who needs it. I will update the list if I think of anything more to add.
Green flags
When the couple is also best friends with each other
When they're genuinely curious about each other
When two people walk side by side, not one in front and one behind
They protect each other in front of other people no matter how wrong the other person is (not counting abuse or other legal crimes), but still be able to see the wrong doings clearly.
When both partners put the other's well-being at the top of their priority list
When the first person comes to your mind when you want to share something good or bad is them
When there's a spark in the eyes when they look at the other person
Listen attentively when the other is talking
Ask how you feel
When both can feel comfortable being honest (able to voice their concerns, worries, fears, hidden dreams, aspirations etc.)
Encourage and support each other towards betterment
Celebrate each other's happiness
Keeping their words
Willingness in solving problems
When both are willing to compromise and work together/to face the ugly sides of the relationship or of the self and the other person/ to communicate/ to learn
When both are proactive in the relationship, taking turn to suggest fun things to do, where to go, what to eat etc
All kinds of virtues like honesty, patience, kindness, loyalty, respect, etc. (not just towards you only, but to others in general also)
Love children
Love animal
Consistency: putting in a consistent effort, not being wishy-washy
Fun & humour
Feeling safe in each other's presence
Respect for boundaries and consent
Emotional compatibility
The feeling of being at ease with each other & trust (you can have all the above but without these two feelings, it's kind of meaningless)
and many more.
Red flags
When one is talking and the other is looking elsewhere
When one is in front while the other is behind
Being judgmental and opinionated, about all kinds of topics
Criticising the other person's taste, hobbies, habits constantly. Especially in front of other people.
Calling names (not the cute endearments)
Cruelty & Violence of any kind (obviously)
Silent treatment (refusing to communicate)
Inconsistency
Being avoidant, ghosting (at this point it's not a red flag, it's an ending)
Empty promises. NATO (No Action - Talk Only)
Condescending
Tell you what you're feeling
Unwillingness to compromise/ to understand, unequal effort, one-sided conversations
Lack of care for the well-being of the other person
Lack of appreciation for the other person's achievements and success
When you're low on their priority list ("I will have time for you after I'm done with this or that, after I met with my friends and other important people in my life")
Feeling like you have to tip toe around the other person
Feeling like you have to do something to get the other's attention
Asking the other person for permission to do something like buying something, meeting someone, going somewhere (I'm not talking about getting consent to do something with each other or getting something related to the other person, it's about decisions that normally one can make independently for oneself)
Jealousy & possessiveness (the idea can seem attractive on paper but the reality is usually not)
Demanding to know every secret, every password, getting access to every personal space of the other person
Lack of respect for boundaries and consent
Passivity (waiting for the other to initiate, never initiate anything)
"Why are you doing this to me?", victim mindset, constant blaming
Dating someone while thinking that person is not attractive or up to one's level or vice versa, thinking that person is way above one's level (the idea of "level" is damaging, both ways of thinking can bring illusions, unrealistic expectations and power imbalance)
A wandering monk once said, "The one who knows that his body is temporary and is unshaken by its fate is closest to liberation." But if that’s true, then who is truly detached—the fearless warrior who laughs in the face of death, the rogue who risks everything without a second thought, or the mystic who hides behind mantras and astrological charts, seeking protection from every possible misfortune?
Let’s take a moment to step into their worlds.
The Warrior’s Detachment
Steel in hand, battle-scarred, the warrior strides into the storm, knowing he may not return. Death is not an enemy but an old companion, whispering at the edges of his consciousness. Pain? Just another moment passing, no different from the wind cutting across his face.
Before him stretches a battlefield—a graveyard in the making, where the earth drinks steel and blood alike. Blades glint like fangs in the sun, and the air is thick with the scent of iron and blood. He moves forward, stepping over corpses yet to fall, striking, bleeding, killing, knowing that at any instant, fate may turn its gaze upon him.
His body is not his own; it is merely a vessel for war, a tool sharpened for a purpose greater than himself. If detachment means surrendering the fear of death, if liberation is the release from clinging to the fragile shell of flesh—then isn’t he already free? Or is his fearlessness not wisdom, but just the grim acceptance of a world where life has no promises, only endings?
The Rogue and the Drifter
Then there’s the rogue—the outlaw who lives on the edge, the gambler who places his life on the table with a smirk, the wanderer who owns nothing yet moves freely. He has no permanent home, no ties to wealth, no concern for the future. Society may call him reckless, but is he not more detached than the merchant hoarding gold in fear of loss? Or is his non-attachment just another escape, a refusal to commit to anything real?
The Prostitute’s Reality
And what of the woman in the shadows, the one who offers her body as if it were no more than a garment to be worn and discarded? She moves through the night like a whisper, a ghost in silks, untouched by the love or loathing of those who seek her. If detachment means not identifying with the flesh, then is she not closer to liberation than those who clutch desperately at their purity, fearing even the brush of desire?
Yet, is she truly free? Or do unseen chains still bind her—the weight of a world that scorns her even as it seeks her out? Does she give without attachment, or has she merely learned to silence the voice that once longed for something more? If she offers herself without shame, without illusion, without expectation, then is she not as unshackled as the wandering ascetic, the sage who renounces his body in search of truth?
Perhaps freedom is not in what one gives or withholds, but in the mind that holds nothing at all.
The Mystic Who Clings to Protection
Then there is the seeker, draped in robes, whispering spells at dawn, his voice trembling with devotion or is it fear? He bows before the heavens, tracing sacred symbols, clutching charms meant to ward off unseen misfortunes. He speaks of renunciation, of detachment, yet his nights are restless, spent calculating omens and pleading with the stars to soften their decree.
If the body is fleeting, why shield it with spells? If destiny is unchangeable, why beg the cosmos to rewrite its script? He prays for liberation, yet clings to the very world he claims to transcend. He fears hunger, disease, misfortune—things the rogue laughs at, the warrior faces, and the woman in the shadows endures without pretense.
Is he not more bound than those who walk their paths without illusion? He renounces gold but hoards protection. He rejects the world yet fears its touch. In his quest to master fate, has he not become its most devoted servant?
The Singer and Detachment
Then there is the singer, who cannot hide behind illusions, for to sing is to surrender. The unskilled hesitate, but the master bares his soul without fear, knowing music is not his to keep. Each note is given away, dissolving as soon as it is born—like breath, like life.
Yet, is he truly free, or does he cling to the need for an audience, for remembrance? If the afterlife is for the unburdened, then the singer who sings without fear, who vanishes into his song, may already be there.
So, Who Is Truly Free?
Perhaps detachment is not in rejecting the body, nor in offering it freely to fate or desire—it is in knowing, beyond all doubt, that you were never the body to begin with.
The warrior who fights without ego, embracing death as easily as breath. The rogue who moves without fear, unburdened by past or future. The woman who gives without shame, untouched by judgment, neither proud nor broken. The mystic who prays without desperation, seeking nothing, grasping at nothing. Each may have brushed against true freedom, or each may still be ensnared in unseen chains of their own making.
Liberation is not in how one treats the body, but in seeing through the illusion that it was ever you. To move through the world unshaken, untouched—not because you deny life, but because you know it was never yours to hold.
I honestly have so many things in mind to post that I just forget. I have wanted to actually create a post for some of the best blogs here on astrology and tarot, and I just..forget
Since this year is about to end, I would talk about my fav blogs of the year (the ones I can remember) and if I did not mention somebody I promise I forgot about it because there are SO MANY
@moonchild033 @thecoiledserpent @venusiastro @venussaidso @kiddotarot @martian-astro10 @sxorpiomooon I don't remember more :((
@just-a-ghost00 @clairdelunetarot @theoccultz @thedivinetarot @zzencat @infinitydivine @amourdivine @rainerioun @fishnapple @servantofthefates @vamptarot @tarot-by-e11e @theladybrownstarot there is one more person I cannot remember...AHH
YEAH I actually follow every single person whose posts I like so my following list is a little too big. Moreover, I don't remember many of the good blogs but I would def update as I remember.
To everyone, mentioned and the ones I forgot, thank you so much for your work, and I learn from all of you everyday:) I hope you know your efforts are appreciated by many, so much love<3
Let me know if there was anyone that I missed or your faves you'd want me to check out!
Hey thankyou so much @lilacstro astro you were my first mutual and hence this post means alot to me I never thought I would be included in this post because this post contains such exceptionally talented astrologers. I'm feeling so happy I was included in this list.
Also I've always learnt alot about astrology from your blogs especially natal astrology. Once again thank you so much @lilacstro for your my fav blog too 💝💗🥰😘
The Only Astrology Book You’ll Ever Need by Joanna Woolfolk
Goes over all the basic information for beginners and has interpretations written in as well. In the beginning of the book it focuses a lot on Sun Signs but gives more insight on other placements later in the book don’t worry
Astrology for the Soul by Jan Spiller
Another great book for beginners. I like the interpretations
The Inner Sky by Steven Forrest
Written by a very renowned astrologer. He goes over signs, aspects, etc and breaks them all down really well
You were born for this by Chani Nicholas
I love how this book goes over how to use astrology in your daily life and isn’t just cookie cutter definitions of placements like many other books. It’s also interactive and you can write in some pages which is always fun. It’s one of my favorite books for beginners
Aspects in astrology by Sue Tompkins
This is a great book for people curious about what each aspect means and how they can manifest into your life
☆ INTERMEDIATE BOOKS ☆
Predictive Astrology by Michele Adler
This book is definitely worth the price. It gives lots of information on techniques you can use to make predictions in astrology. It’s based on Western Astrology
The Art of Predictive Astrology by Carol Rushmam
Another great predictive astro book that talks about how to make predictions based on transits in your chart
Medical Astrology by Judith Hill
This is a great book with information on body part astrology and medical information. Although I do want to note when reading this do not be afraid if you share one of the transits that the public figures mentioned had during their health issues arising as astrology is a polarity. Meaning you can take on positive traits rather than the challenging ones often
☆ ADVANCED BOOKS ☆
Asteroid Goddesses by Demetra George
Goes over all the major asteroids in astrology. This can help you a lot if you’re interested in learning basic information on asteroids
Planets in Composite by Robert Hand
There are not many books out there on Composite compatibility so out of all of them this is my favorite even though it’s very basic it’s still a good read if you’re learning about Composite charts
The Psychology of Astrocartography by Jim Lewis
This is the best book about astrocartography I’ve found so far and very informative. The only bad thing I have to say about this book is that the print is really small. It’s amazing other than that though
☆ OLD AGE ASTRO BOOKS ☆
Mastering Traditional Astrology by Mychal A. Brian
If you’re more interested in old age astrology then this is an amazing read. You can purchase it on Amazon
Astrology of the Tree by David Frawley
This is great for beginners in vedic astrology and goes over all the basics. Really anything by David Frolly is great if you want to learn about vedic
The Nakshatras; the Lunar Mansions of Vedic Astrology by Dennis Harness
It’s a short read and goes over all the meanings of all the nakshatras
Light on Relationships by Hart De
A very comprehensive read that goes over synastry in Indian astrology. It gives lots of interesting techniques that can give insight on future marriages as well
Mayan Calender Astrology by Kenneth Johnson
This is extremely hard to comprehend so don’t purchase if you’re new to astrology. Even I had to read it a few times to fully get it. It discusses the astrology that the egyptians wrote in their hieroglyphics
☆ BOOKS I STUDIED FOR MY DIPLOMA ☆ [these aren’t all of them just some of my faves]
Sky and Psyche; the relationship between cosmos and consciousness by Nicholas Campion and Patrick Curry
This is an extremely underrated book and one of my favorites by far. This book goes over not just meanings of the planets, houses, synastry aspects, etc but also why the planets manifest in certain ways
The planetarization of consciousness by Dane Rudhyar
This one isn’t a basic overview like the other books I’ve mentioned it’s more psychological type astrology which I found really interesting
History of western astrology volume 1 & 2 by Nicholas Campion
This goes over how astrology has been used throughout history and why it was used in the past
☆ OTHER ASTRO BOOKS ☆
Moonology by Yasmin Boland
This is a manifestation astrology book. It gives an amazing story about the authors life before using astrology and manifestation and how it impacted them. Great for learning how to manifest using the moon cycles and astrology
The Handbook of Chinese Horoscopes by Theodora Lau and Laura Lau
My favorite Chinese astrology book. There isn’t many good ones out there
Birth Time Rectification by Paul Manley
There are some things I would’ve added to this book that weren’t mentioned but other than that it’s pretty good in helping find the right birth times using vedic astrology
