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[islamicrays]

MUST READ: A SILENT TRAGEDY!

There is a silent tragedy that is unfolding today in our homes, and concerns our most precious jewels: our children. Our children are in a devastating emotional state! In the last 15 years, researchers have given us increasingly alarming statistics on a sharp and steady increase in childhood mental illness that is now reaching epidemic proportions:

Statistics do not lie:

• 1 in 5 children have mental health problems

• A 43% increase in ADHD has been noted

• A 37% increase in adolescent depression has been noted

• There has been a 200% increase in the suicide rate in children aged 10 to 14

What is happening and what are we doing wrong?

Today's children are being over-stimulated and over-gifted with material objects, but they are deprived of the fundamentals of a healthy childhood, such as:

• Emotionally available parents

• Clearly defined limits

• Responsibilities

• Balanced nutrition and adequate sleep

• Movement in general but especially outdoors

• Creative play, social interaction, unstructured game opportunities and boredom spaces

Instead, in recent years, children have been filled with:

• Digitally distracted parents

• Indulgent and permissive parents who let children "rule the world" and whoever sets the rules

• A sense of right, of deserving everything without earning it or being responsible for obtaining it

• Inadequate sleep and unbalanced nutrition

• A sedentary lifestyle

• Endless stimulation, technological nannies, instant gratification and absence of boring moments

What to do?

If we want our children to be happy and healthy individuals, we have to wake up and get back to basics. It is still possible! Many families see immediate improvements after weeks of implementing the following recommendations:

• Set limits and remember that you are the captain of the ship. Your children will feel more confident knowing that you have control of the helm.

• Offer children a balanced lifestyle full of what children NEED, not just what they WANT. Don't be afraid to say "no" to your children if what they want is not what they need.

• Provide nutritious food and limit junk food.

• Spend at least one hour a day outdoors doing activities such as: cycling, walking, fishing, bird / insect watching

• Enjoy a daily family dinner without smartphones or distracting technology.

• Play board games as a family or if children are very small for board games, get carried away by their interests and allow them to rule in the game

• Involve your children in some homework or household chores according to their age (folding clothes, ordering toys, hanging clothes, unpacking food, setting the table, feeding the dog etc.)

• Implement a consistent sleep routine to ensure your child gets enough sleep. The schedules will be even more important for school-age children.

• Teach responsibility and independence. Do not overprotect them against all frustration or mistakes. Misunderstanding will help them build resilience and learn to overcome life's challenges,

• Do not carry your children's backpack, do not carry their backpacks, do not carry the homework they forgot, do not peel bananas or peel oranges if they can do it on their own (4-5 years). Instead of giving them the fish, teach them to fish.

• Teach them to wait and delay gratification.

• Provide opportunities for "boredom", since boredom is the moment when creativity awakens. Do not feel responsible for always keeping children entertained.

• Do not use technology as a cure for boredom, nor offer it at the first second of inactivity.

• Avoid using technology during meals, in cars, restaurants, shopping centers. Use these moments as opportunities to socialize by training the brains to know how to work when they are in mode: "boredom"

• Help them create a "bottle of boredom" with activity ideas for when they are bored.

• Be emotionally available to connect with children and teach them self-regulation and social skills:

• Turn off the phones at night when children have to go to bed to avoid digital distraction.

• Become a regulator or emotional trainer for your children. Teach them to recognize and manage their own frustrations and anger.

• Teach them to greet, to take turns, to share without running out of anything, to say thank you and please, to acknowledge the error and apologize (do not force them), be a model of all those values ​​you instill.

• Connect emotionally - smile, hug, kiss, tickle, read, dance, jump, play or crawl with them.

Article written by Dr. Luis Rojas Marcos Psychiatrist

[sugaran0n]

Letter to a jealous sugar daddy 👿

My travel SD found my SA profile and sent me an angry email asking if I was spending “his” money on clothes for other dudes. This is how I responded. He’s the passionate, lookin’ for love type so I match his tone. He came back offering to switch to monthly allowance and to pay my tuition. Watch and learn xxo

Dear —-,

I wanted to replace the blue dress with something form fitting, since that’s what you like and most of my wardrobe is loose and shapeless. As for the photos, it saddens me to think that you would doubt whether those were for you. But I don’t think explanations really do much to ease feelings of jealousy. 

I am open to the option of exclusivity. There isn’t anyone else, and I would be happy to end my search for further financial support. It didn’t occur to me as a possibility, given that you support a whole family. 

There are some things I would like to draw to your attention about my commitment to our relationship. Each time we go away, I lie to my parents about where I am. This may seem insignificant but it makes me sad, anxious, and uncomfortable for several reasons, particularly because they are not in good health. In November my shifts at work were cut back because I had been asking for too much time off. When I came back from our trip to San Fransisco I was told they had hired someone in my place because it was evident that I didn’t “need” the job. I’ve also been experiencing some degree of loneliness the past few months. You have never before made it seem like it would be an issue if I had a “normal” boyfriend, but our arrangement precludes that possibility. I take no issue with your infidelity. In fact I have a lot of compassion for your situation. But for myself, I am not comfortable pursuing even casual relationships without being honest about my dating situation. Which means I do not date at all.

I haven’t discussed these things with you up until now because, quite simply, they are not your problems. They are consequences of decisions I’ve made. I didn’t want to make them “our” problems, because I think part of what makes our time together so incredible is the amount of freedom and acceptance that we give each other. However, had I better anticipated the personal and financial risks associated with being with your travel companion, I would have asked for a more generous gift structure. Make no mistake, you have given me so many experiences that I treasure deeply. But like any kind of “secret” relationship, no matter how passionate and loving, it comes with an aspect of burden.  

I can understand the insecurity you’re feeling but I feel unappreciated when you talk like this. I like to think you see some strength of character in me, as I see in you. I care deeply about you ——-. I’m not sure if what we need is better communication, to change the structure of our arrangement, or a combination of both. Tell me what you think you need. I hope we can work this out.

Love,

– 

🐍❤️

*I asked for $3K in compensation for losing my job and he obliged 

** I might be a literal genius

*** And yes, I’m a scorpio

[magicandtea]

Emoji spell for money to make its way into your pockets 😉😉

💲💚🕯💵💰💵🕯💚💲

likes charge, reblogs cast✨

[resonance-of-libra]

This is the Lucky Ace. Reblog to recieve a wad of cash that is oddly specific to your current needs.

[jukaidream]

I reblogged this shit two days ago y’all… what kinda sorcery is this. Oddly specific too …. I’ll take it tho 🤯

[thisisasinkingship]

I think I did it wrong

[comic-girl2234-deactivated20240]

Uh I reblogged this like 3 days ago and I start my new job on Monday??? Like idk how you accidentally find a job but I did.

[caprifreak]

I need to get paid asap so pls ace help

[caprifreak]

I GOT PAID I GOT PAID!!!!!! MUCH MORE THAN I EXPECTED AAAAAAAAAAAA THANK YOU ACE

[musinvenusian]

I legit have a specific amount i want in my head rn it better come true 😭

[riyerose]

I ALSO HAVE A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF MONEY I WOULD LIKE TO ACQUIRE, PLEASE HELP

[autumn-new-moon]

This has worked before, so why not again?

[witchling-guidence]

I could really use a miracle. So why not

[acewithdnd]

im super broke let’s see some magic people.

[lampwicklives-deactivated202108]

I’ll take my chances

[xxlexaj]

Keeping Regular Escort Clients

Keeping regular clients is one of the most important things you can do as an escort. When I was making $30000 a month as an escort before I retired, $25000 of that was from regular clients and $5000 was from random clients calling and booking an hour here or there. If I never had repeat escort clients and I always depended on seeing new clients, I would have never been able to scale back from seeing 5 clients a day to only 1 a day. Having regular clients who you can depend on seeing makes your job so much easier.

One of the easiest ways to turn a client from a one timer to a a regular client is by asking when you’re going to see them again. Tell them how much you enjoyed your time with them and let them know you’re dying to see them again. You’ll be surprised by how many clients actually ended up booking you again and again from just saying that. If I didn’t tell a client that (because I forgot) it was almost 50/50 on whether they would call me or not. If I told them something like

“Wow, I really loved our time together. When can we see each other again?”

They’d reply “Ummm, I’m not sure.. I’ll have to check”

“Of course, sorry I didn’t mean to put you on the spot… I just got a little excited! Would it be okay if I emailed you?”

If they agreed, I’d shoot them an email almost immediately from my blackberry saying how amazing they are and that I can’t wait for the next time. I’d keep in touch via email and it was almost 99% of them that I’d end up seeing again, and then again and again. Sure, it was aggressive on my part, but this is a business. If you can’t be a little pushy in order to get your foot in the door then you’re in the wrong business. There’s 1000s of escorts working in every city and if you offer a good service but can’t make the effort to keep in touch with clients then they will simply move on. But if you make that extra effort to keep in touch with them on a personal level it will extend your ROI on your advertising dollars.

It’s important to say though that if you’re disinterested in the conversation, in bed you’re lazy and unenthusiastic and then you try and keep in touch afterwards it’s not going to help you out. You need to make as strong of a connection with them as you can in your time together and then follow it up.

There are a lot of other ways to turn clients into regulars, but I think it’s just a lot of common sense. If someone books for an hour, stay for an hour and 15 minutes or an hour and a half. Don’t watch the clock. Be on time, every time. Make sure you’re always fresh. Cater to fantasies, wear school girl uniforms, bring handcuffs and a blindfold, remember your clients birthdays and special dates. All of this stuff builds up a relationship between you and your clients and the strong they feel your relationship with them is, the more likely they are to give you gifts, take you on trips, book you for 5 hours instead of 1 hour, etc.

The biggest problem you’re going to run into is your clients asking to see you off the clock. I would have two different responses to this.

One response was for clients whom I felt weren’t that wealthy and were looking for financial relief from our relationship.. I would simply tell them that I’m a very busy girl and I can’t afford to take time off the clock. I will clear my schedule for them any time because I prefer to spend time with them over any of my other clients, but I just can’t afford to make time for any man that’s off the clock cause I’m losing money twice. They usually get the idea.

My other response is if I feel they’re just looking for a deeper connection but they’re very wealthy. In that case I tell them I have the same types of feelings towards them and I’d like to see them off the clock as well, but I’d need to make sure that I’m being taken care of. If they agree I would ask them to take care of my monthly bills and let them know that you have other long time clients whom you cannot stop seeing, maybe at some point in the future but not now. So essentially if they’re willing to give me 5k a month, I’ll see them off the clock one or two times a week. I find this to be very mutually beneficial and if you can get 3-4 clients in this type of arrangement you’ll end up making a lot more than if you only stayed on the clock.

As I am writing this I am feeling that what I am saying involves a lot of deceit and cold heartedness and so I just want to take a moment to say that although it may come off that way, it was never my intention to be like that with any of my clients. Take for example your local corner store, if you go in there every day and buy a cup of coffee or whatever, and then one day you walk in and tell them you’re moving to the other side of town, they’re going to say “awww, that’s too bad – we’re going to miss you” They’re actually thinking shoot, we’re losing a regular customer. I know being an escort involves intimacy and so exchanging a hello and good bye on a daily basis with the owner of your local corner store is different then someone you’re having a sexual relationship with. However a business is a business, and a service provided is a service provided. You need to be able to care about your customers in an intimate way, but ultimately be able to take a step back and make decisions that are business orientated. I didn’t start escorting to fall in love with a client. I started escorting to make money and I never took my eyes off the goal.

[asiansiren]

BBBj vs. CBJ:

In regards to practicing safe sex while escorting... which one do you all offer? What is your policy on unprotected oral sex?

Edit: BBBj = bareback BJ; CBJ = covered BJ

Let’s open up some discussion. Let’s add some clarity.

While your body is your body... the implication with the term “GFE”, is that you normally offer BBBj. Or even if you’re not advertising explicitly as PSE or a fetish worker, clientele will assume this. I will estimate that approximately 70-80% of the women advertising within this market perform this service, and this may be even higher than in certain highly competitive cities: TO, MIA, LA, NYC...

As you all know I’m primarily sponsored right now, and most of the new clients I obtain are solely from freestyling, not online ads, and it’s easier to insist upon CBJ and explicitly protected acts. It’s not a common issue for me. But I used to offer BBBj when I solely advertised online, and I have regulars who now expect that service. I am certain that most of these men are too reckless with their sexual health to be trusted. They take no accountability and get tested far too little for the amount of risks they are taking. They will say anything to manipulate women into bareback services and then get surprised when they get an infection. I had another escort that I did a duo with, contact me that she got oral chlamydia. I didn’t catch anything, but since then I’ve been very strict: CBJ for clients, or nothing.

Alternatively, it may be difficult to obtain regulars without it in a saturated market. So, what do you do?

Some questions to consider:

Is it expected or the “norm” in your market?

Do you exclusively offer BBBj or CBJ? If so, due to what factors?

Do you offer BBBj conditionally, such as requiring health report beforehand, and if so, how do you confirm it’s not fraudulent?

Do you think offering one over the other affects your ability to retain regulars or your earning potential?

If you do offer BBBj, what measures do you adopt to mitigate the risks involved, if any? (e.g. anti-bacterial wipes)

If you’re transitioned from offering BBBj to CBJ, what recommendations do you have for not letting it affect your business?

Please add any relevant information below. All perspectives welcome.

Escorts and full-service sex workers are the only ones that may contribute.

[sexpensed-deactivated20210529]

When I went into it I said I would do CBJ with clients from out of town who probably wouldn’t turn into regulars and hobbyists. Guys who are hobbyists are exposing themselves to more. But that plan didn’t really play out. I only have a few clients Ive done CBJ with.

I told myself I would only do BBBJ to married clients who may not be the wealthiest because they can’t afford to see other escorts. Or men where I’m their first escort. But then again I’ve found that I do BBBJ a large majority of the time in the heat of the moment and out of fear that he’ll be miserable with a condom on. Which is dumb reasoning. I get nervous that if I do CBJ clients won’t return, but that’s not necessarily true because my regular who books most gets CBJ. I assumed most providers did BBBJ, if not I’d definitely reevaluate how I’m doing things. Also, I’m low volume, so in my mind the risk is less for me when it comes to BBBJ. As a side note, I try to abstain from recieving oral from clients as I do not want to be exposed to HSV.

[rechbetch-deactivated20220314]

I offer both. But I try to upsell the CBJ by emphasizing my love for deepthroating! If they ask why use a condom for that I simply explain that with deepthroating comes the risk of micro-tears in the throat which leave me more exposed to sti infections and germs. Many clients understand this and appreciate the extra protection and info!

If they are adamant about no condom or if they don't care for deep throating then it's up to my discretion! No condom for me results in a less enthusiastic bj and is mainly a hand job.

Try tricks like this to upsell safer oral and sex practices 😊

[swresources]

DIRECTORY

Introduction Post

About this blog.

Getting Started

General tips for anyone interested in working in the adult/ sex industry

Glossary

Some of the common terms and phrases used by workers and clients

Free Guides and Handbooks

Free to download and read, a few guides and handbooks with tips and general information about different forms of work in the sex industry.

Consent

Consent should be clear and simple, but unfortunately it isn’t always. Here’s some advice on drawing those lines and how to communicate them effectively with your clients.

Personal Health and Safety

Health and safety is about more than STIs. Here are some other things to look out for.

Anatomy Overview

If you’re going to be getting up close and personal with clients’ genitals, it’s a good idea to know what you’re looking at.

Screening Clients and Colleagues

Whether it’s clients, co-workers or managers, it’s important to make sure that the people around you are safe to work with/ for. Here are some things to look out for.

Safer Sex – Sexual Health (STIs, BBVs and minimising risks of infection)

Fact sheets about STIs, BBVs, and other general sexual health information.

Safer Sex – Health Checks 

If you’re going to have sexual contact with a client, here is a guide on how to do a visual check of your clients for signs of STIs and other contagious health risks.

Safer Sex – Protection and Birth Control

Information about different forms of protection and birth control and the most effective way to use them. It’s important to know how to use protection effectively and what is best for you.

Safer Sex – Minimising the Risks When Offering Unprotected Services *Coming Soon* While offering unprotected sex has many risks, for some sex workers it’s not optional. If you’re offering unprotected services, here’s some of the ways that you can reduce the risks.

Full Service – Brothel Workers

Advice and tips for the brothel babes.

Full Service – Independent Workers

Advice and tips for the Indie workers.

Full Service – Street Workers 

Street workers face unique risks and challenges. Here’s some information to help you stay safe out there.

Adult Film/ Porn Actors

Information and tips for the stars of the pornography screen.

Massage/ Rub & Tug Workers *Coming Soon*

Dancers/ Strippers

Stars of pole, stage and private dance performance, here are some resources for you.

Setting Boundaries & Negotiating a Booking

It’s important to know what your boundaries and to stick to them. Here’s some information on how to do that, while successfully negotiating a booking.

Handling Some Common Issues in Bookings

Sometimes things don’t go according to plan. Here’s some advice on handling the common issues.

Dealing With/ Breaking Up with Difficult Clients

A regular client who no longer respects your boundaries, clients who can’t leave the fantasy at the door or clients who keep pressing you for personal information – they can be difficult to manage, but with a little preparation and communication you can make these situations easier for you both.

Violence & Assault

An unfortunate reality is that sex workers are at a higher risk of violence and assault. Here are some things to think of to help reduce the risks. Also some advice on who you can contact if you need support.

Sex Work and Burn Out

Burn out is an underrated risk for sex workers. Managing your own small business is a challenge and relying on your body for your income is stressful. Here’s some advice on caring for yourself and avoiding burn out.

Work/ Life Balance – How to Have it all, While Dealing with Stigma and Discrimination.

Information about balancing sex work with ‘civilian’ life.

Managing Money

Tips on managing money more effectively.

Specialist Services

Some providers specialise in specific areas or styles of service. Here are a few of those to give you an idea of what clients may be looking for when they ask for those services.

BDSM

Bondage, Domination and Sado-Masochism is a common area of kink, but there are a lot of risks involved. A little education goes a long way in keeping both you and your clients safe.

Toys and Tools

Toys and tools can be a great addition to your service. Keeping them clean and well maintained will ensure that their usage is safe and that you’ll get the most out of them.

Anal Advice

Tips for those wanting to try anal for the first time, or who want to learn how to enjoy safer anal play.

Clients with Special Needs and Disabilities

Clients with special needs can be great clients and reliable regulars, some knowledge will help you ensure it’s an enjoyable experience for providers and clients.

Trans Sex Workers 

Resources and support for trans sex workers.

Male Sex Workers

Tips and tricks for the lads

Decriminalisation, legislation and criminalisation 

Discussions, observations and recommendations about the best way for governments to manage and police the sex industry.

Information for Allies

It’s awesome that you want to support sex workers, but here’s a few things you should read first.

Local Resources, Support and the Laws Regarding Sex Work

Australia Wide

Australian Capital Territory Northern Territory Queensland South Australia Tasmania Victoria Western Australia

International Workers – Support and Resources

[fucklovepayme]

ma’am, would you spare some spells🤲🏻🥺

to attract wealth/rich men: 1, 2

to get rid of negative people/negativity: hot foot oil/powder, banishing spell, freezer spell. 

to curse someone: toilet spell

i love buying my oils from art of the root. their oils so far worked well for me

[emptyemptynow-deactivated201709]

Screening

Here’s the information I request on my contact form, and how I use it.

Required information is marked with an asterisk*

*First name

*Middle name

*Last name

*Email address

*Phone number

*Do you prefer texting or calling?

Texting 

Calling

Either

*Provider References

Please provide the name, email, website address or ad link, and contact number for AT LEAST TWO currently active companions, and the dates you last saw them. 

Age

Employment Verification (REQUIRED if you have less than two provider references, STRONGLY RECOMMENDED otherwise)

Employer’s name, your position/title, company phone number, your direct line or extension, and story for me to use when I call (or other way for me to verify employment, such as an employee photo ID badge)

*Appointment Date and Time

*Appointment Duration

P411/TER/localboard/Datecheck Info

Outift request (not guaranteed)

*What are you looking to get out of our date?

*Where did you find me?

Is there anything else you’d like to tell me?

RECOMMENDED Driver’s License Upload

OPTIONAL Face Photo Upload

How I use this information:

Google their name, both with and without quotes around their name (quotation marks tell the engine to search specifically for that exact phrase, not similar phrases)

Google their email address, both with and without quotations

Google their phone number, both with and without quotations

Plug their phone number and email address into the search feature of my local board to see if they’ve ever been blacklisted

Go to your state’s courts website, and search their court records database for his name. If your state separates their database by county, search for your county, his county, and a few surrounding counties. In my state, all superior court cases are available to view. You can see what pleading/motion was filed, and when, as well as the final judgment. You do have to pay to request the actual documents to see their contents, and you probably cannot do this anonymously (in my county, you have to call the county clerk’s office). In my state, district and municipal cases cannot be viewed, but they will still show up in the search results. Your state may be different. 

Search for them on Facebook. Often their wives or children have much more of their profiles publicly visible. 

Search for any information on their family members. 

(I will be buying a Spokeo subscription soon, so I can plug all their info into here, as well)

Google the providers (normally Googling their name and city will pop them up if they have any sort of online presence). Or just find them based on the info he gave you.

See what kind of reputation those providers have. What to they charge? Do they have any rob reports or bad reviews posted of them? Do they look like they have their shit together? Do they have their own website? Does it look nice? Are there a ton of typos? Having your own website legitimizes you. Do they have professional photos, or are they bathroom selfies?

Contact the providers. I start off by emailing them. “Hi Jessica, this is Foxxxy. Billy Joe is requesting a date with me and used you as a reference. Can you please tell me if he was safe, clean and respectful? Would you recommend him to another provider? Anything else you can tell me about him and his personality I would very much appreciate! Best, Foxxxy.” I follow up with a text. “Hi Jessica, this is Foxxxy. I just sent you an email with a reference request. If you could get back to me promptly, I would really appreciate it!” 

See what they say. Duh. 

Contact his employer. The one time I called a client’s company, it was quite well-known and Google-able. I called the main company line, and asked to be connected to the president of _____. He was already en route on the plane, but I was able to hear his voice during his voicemail recording. A simple phone call to his cell phone would match up his voice, verifying he does work there. I have had a few clients send me photos of their photo ID badge (military personnel, for example). 

Obviously check to see how many Okay’s they have, or if they’re on the whitelists for the hobby IDs they provided you. Search their usernames/IDs to see if anything negative pops up. 

If they sent you a photo of their driver’s license: search Google Maps for the address on the card. Do they live in a nice part of town? Google the address. Has it popped up on Zillow lately? Any homeowner info pop up? You might be able to search their driver’s license number, either by Googling or going to your state highway patrol site, though I haven’t tried this myself.

If they sent you a photo of their face: reverse Google image search that shit! Also reverse search for it on TinEye. Do they look friendly? 

This sounds like a lot, but doesn’t take all too long once you get the hang of it. This doesn’t guarantee your safety, but it sure does reduce the risk of an assault or an arrest. 

[birchbloom]

✨💸💎🌻⏳🌻💎💸✨

“my finances and my financial life will remain stable and steadily climb”

like = charge

reblog = cast

[magicandtea]

Emoji spell for money to make its way into your pockets 😉😉

💲💚🕯💵💰💵🕯💚💲

likes charge, reblogs cast✨

[oil-heiress-deactivated20191112]

25 Money Affirmations to Attract Wealth and Abundance 💰I am a magnet for money. Prosperity is drawn to me. 💵 Money comes to me in expected and unexpected ways. 💴 I move from poverty thinking to abundance thinking. 💶 I am worthy of making more money. 💰I am open and receptive to all the wealth life offers me. 💷 I embrace new avenues of income. 💎 I welcome an unlimited source of income and wealth in my life. 💳 I release all negative energy over money. 💵 Money comes to me easily and effortlessly. 💴 I use money to better my life and the lives of others. 💎 Wealth constantly flows into my life. 🔥 My actions create constant prosperity. 🙌🏻 I am aligned with the energy of abundance. 💶 I constantly attract opportunities that create more money. 💳 My finances improve beyond my dreams. 💰Money is the root of joy and comfort. 💷 Money and spirituality can co-exist in harmony. 💰Money and love can be friends. Money is my servant. 💴 I am the master of my wealth. 💰 I am able to handle large sums of money. 💵 I am at peace with having a lot of money. 💷 I can handle massive success with grace. 🙌🏻 Money expands my life’s opportunities and experiences. 💪🏼 Money creates positive impact in my life.

- Avalon Ash

[flexaction]

[scallywagsupreme]

Reblog the money spongebob to get coin

[passionatemango]

spongebob got that bankroll 😩 them bills 🙏🏽💵💸💰 hmu spaddy (sponge daddy)

[ohhwendypeffercorn]

My hand been itching today. I’m reblogging all the money posts I see

[for-rage-and-wonder]

‪I invite travel, paid creative opportunities, unexpected financial gifts, and aesthetically pleasing spaces into my life at this moment. ‬

[dripping-adorableness]

Thank you in advance universe

[king-joaquin]

[recklesscloudz-deactivated20230]

Reblog and you’ll find money soon!

[nudiemuse]

Yes.

Also weird I reblobbed the other money one last night and a freelance check I invoiced for a month ago came in.

[timaeustestifieds]

reblobbed

[justthefangirl]

seriously have nothing to lose

[sherlysthougths]

Did it once might as well let it stack. At least I’m not buying loto tickets

[imsuchacapricorn]

You guys, I reblogged this 2 days ago out of desperation. Today I was looking through my old wallet for coins to go to the vending machine because that’s all I can fucking afford. I haven’t touched this thing since July/ August. When I found a disappointing 15 cents in the coin pocket I went to the billfold to see if any coins were in there. That’s when I saw them. 5 crisp bills amounting to $22. I literally screamed and danced around my room out of joy before remembering that I’d reblogged this post.

Tl;dr - This post is fucking magical and actually worked for me.

[sxvsxde-blog]

I’m broke as fuck. Money gods pls send me like 100k.

[california-sugar-queen-deactiva]

SB TIp

Make a setlist of your rates!

Date: 200+ $, open space, all expenses paid (meal, shopping, transportation, ect.)

Video Date: 20$x5m, 30$x10m, 40$x15m, 50$x20m, 60$x25m.

Pay-Per-Meet: 600 $, any space, any activity, all expenses paid, no allowance need be provided – just an exact number determined for each planned periodic date no less than 600.

Fly Out Visit: 1000 $, must be met before, no more than 5 day visit, all expenses paid (first class plane ride, pre-paid meals, hotel, any and all services.)

Pay-Per-Event: 700 $, any event, all expenses paid, come as guest/date/arm-candy. 

Weekly Allowance: 1000 $, dependent on scheduling, twice a week meets, all expenses paid.

Monthly Allowance: 4000$+, arrangement discussed before becoming a reality. 

This is literally just an outline I follow, not a recommended but these are the arrangements I have encountered and been able to get. Sit down in your SB books and decide to make exact numbers about what it will take to make you get dressed up and out the door for this man. I think this helps not lower your worth when you have a ballpark! 

[melanin-enhanced-deactivated202]

Ladies I have another question for you....

What’s one thing you wish guy did while he was going down ?

[thelifeofbunches-deactivated201]

Actually suck on the clitoris instead of flicking it with his tongue like how a cat drinks water.

[melanin-enhanced-deactivated202]

I have so much to learn thelifeofbunches

[goddessevrth-deactivated2023072]

Go slow. Not everything has to be fast paced and crazy all the time

[packtheammo-deactivated20170223]

Hold my thighs. Like grip them, just firm enough…

[thetennesseehoneyy]

Yasss that clit flicking shit is not the wave.

[melanin-enhanced-deactivated202]

What about sucking on the clit ? thetennesseehoneyy

[tiffanyaliyah]

Fingering at the same time is always nice, but not in and out, find that gspot and massage it why you lick and suck the clit. I will die.

[alexundefined]

Touch/grab my thighs, my ass, slowly touch down my spine, everywhere, somewhere. Tease me good before you go down & while you’re down there.

[torreyashanti]

Deadass with the thigh thing Kiss those inner thighs too Pretend you’re passionately kissing the kitty Not a cat drinking water Also don’t even do it if you a)don’t like doing it b)you’re going to do it for 2 seconds

[uninhibitedsoul]

I couldn’t hit reblog fast enough.

[the-haitian-queen-deactivated20]

Don’t be to shy to open it up and really get the clit. Like if dudes really spread the lips and focused on the clit I would lose my mind

[jeniphyer]

slow down on the flickering thing, that rapid shit isnt pleasurable, slowly running your tongue back n forth tho? Yes. 

thigh kissing is nice, ass grabbing, thigh gripping, a little passionate teasing takes you far and honestly gets her wetter by the minute 

slow down, take your time at first, dont just dive in, enjoy your meal

that rapid flicking thing doesnt do much for me (i cant speak for every girl) but slow runs across the clit are lovely, just focus on the clit, let your fingers do some work if you get tired or something 

I dont know about every girl but that mimic-my-dick-with-my-tongue technique doesnt do shit 

[sosodebb-deactivated20190324]

Notice how they’ve all basically said the same thing? I hope you men pay attention. Every woman is different but here are the basics to pleasing us.

1. Stop the fucking flicking shit.

2. Focus on the CLIT. Suck it, circle it. Engulf it. If she moans, keep doing that.

3. But pls, do visit thighland. Inner thigh licking and kissing will set us on fire.

4. What is this fingering shit? Massage the gspot or get out. We feel nothing with that little stabbing motion. Also, stop sticking your 2 inches of tongue in there. Come back up to the clit.

5. LONG stokes with the tongue.

6. Stop humming. Most of us use vibrators so that little humming trick you learned from GQ will pale in comparison.

7. Speaking of vibes, the reason you’re in our bed is because you can do 1 thing our wands and rabbits can’t do. And that’s grab us. Grab us, squeeze us, we want to feel your hands on our body.

8. If you can reach, grab a titty.

9. Some women are self conscious about how they look/taste/smell down there. Or worry about taking too long to orgasm, so let her know you’re enjoying it. Moan, groan, sound like you’re eating a plate of ribs

10. Do it til we cum or GTFO!

[neverxxenough]

Oh damn 😳😳💕💕

[dubblah]

Why aren’t things compiled and published like this more often??

And more importantly, why aren’t we being told this stuff while down there? Esp those of us who love doing it and doing it right….. feedback, ladies, when we’re there. Please?

[xxxsexxx]

[moritzstiefeldoesntdosadness]

I don’t often post shit like this but all of this is important. Guys, you want the goods? Learn to earn it. And please enjoy yourself. If you do it right you’ll enjoy the sheer fact that SHE’S enjoying it.

[ccsadie-deactivated20220514]

Your public service announcement. You’re welcome.

[prettyandmean]

Someone said they dont like the 2 inches of tongue in there. I kinda dont either but what i DO like is when a guy actually spreads the lips to expose the hole and he forcefully (aka just uses some pressure) rims the hole. EEEEEK!! I can not take it it feels so good. Especially when u get to the bottom of the hole and transition to the ass.

Ok heres a tip: while ur eating my ass keep my pussy spread open with the hole and clit exposed. It just makes me yearn for penetration so much