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In my mid 20s but been in the lifestyle since I was 14. daniel548109 - Backup. Read This In Its Entirety : Male. Dom with a sadistic streak. A believer of dominance only when submission is earned. Kindly read the posts under the '#truth' and '#important' tags to understand how I think and who and what I am better. Looking for a sub to own and cherish. Note : I am my normal self most of the time, but there are times when I'm my sadistic self and not all can handle it. I'm tired of hiding my dark side from others and it's time I stop doing that. Also note that being sadistic doesn't mean that you don't care for your sub. A caring Dom can also be a sadist. It's just two sides to him that he has to learn to switch between for the welfare of his own self and his sub. Not all can handle everything in the same way. If in case I do find someone who can handle them both, it'd be truly amazing, but keep in mind that it's not a need and I can do just fine with a sweet lil sub who's dedicated to her role. This NSFW blog mainly consists of posts displaying Dom/sub relationships but may also have some posts displaying my sadistic side. (It may also sometimes contain objectification of women, and maybe rape play {posts requested by followers}. If that's not your cup of tea, then leave). Strictly for 18+. I'm always open to questions, chats and requests. Feel free to ask me anything. A little bit on me - a troubled past was the reason behind me entering this lifestyle at a very young age of 14. At 16, a sub who's been in the lifestyle for over 10 years said that I have the making and qualities of a true Dom, and I take pride in it, and yes, in case you're wondering, I'm of legal age now. If you think that a young guy can't be a Dom, then please, you're more than welcome to come and talk and test me, but kindly refrain from making any kinda stupid and baseless comments before that.

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Having recently gotten out of unfruitful relationship, she wasn't really looking for anything, and yet, here she was, on her knees, unaware of what was going to happen to her, and that uncertainty had her mesmerized and extremely aroused.

Going from a boy who didn't know the first thing about how to truly claim a submissive such as herself, to a man who made her go weak in the knees with just one look, she hadn't expected such a quick and drastic change, and yet, she was loving every minute of it.

"I'll do anything to give you pleasure," she mumbled as she looked up at him, wanting to be his good lil submissive, and yet, another question kept running through her mind, 'But what is he going to do to me?'

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With a sly grin on his face, he just gently caressed her cheek with his thumb before delivering a soft smack to it.

He then softly bit down on her earlobe, growled, and then whispered, "I'm sure you're wondering what's gonna happen to you. I will have you look at me as I have you stick your tongue out, your eyes begging me to have my way with you. I'll smile, spit in that pretty lil mouth of your, give your neck a squeeze as I kiss you, hard, my tongue invading your mouth as I taste you, whilst my other hand snakes down your body, softly smacking your sweet lil core before sinking a couple fingers in you, hooking them onto your wet walls and then dragging them along as I pull them out before forcing them back into once again, your mouth captured by mine as you try to let out a moan at the intrusion. I'll make sure you keep looking at me, slapping your cheek anytime you try to look away or close your eyes and once I feel you're on the edge, just about to tumble over, I'll pull my finger out, grin as I notice just how they're coated with your sweet nectar, bring them to my mouth and make you watch me suck and lick em clean, then place them on your lips as I leave you needy for more."

Just as he finished saying that, he felt her shiver against him, the warmth of her pussy clear on his leg from the way she'd already started humping it, probably without even realizing it herself and to that, he just gave her neck a tight squeeze and growled once again, "And that's just the beginning."

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One thing was assured, that the both of them were in for the time of their lives. Never had they encountered another who made them feel as strongly grounded to their current roles as they did in that very moment, and they both knew that it would only get better from there. He was determined to completely own her and she, to completely give herself over to him.

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"Aww, has the fight finally left you?" he asked as he rested his foot atop her head. All she could do was stare up at him with a blank expression as the rest of her body quivered, regretting having challenged him.

He'd promised her that she wouldn't be able to handle his most sadistic self, but being the brat that she was, she kept trying him, testing his patience over and over again, until one day, he finally lost it.

That was a 3 days ago, and in these 3 days, he'd made sure that she didn't know rest or sleep at all. He still kept her hydrated and well fed but apart from that, he'd also kept her wrecked, tormented and used every minute, this, finally breaking her cute lil mind. He would eventually care for her, adore her and fix her back up once again but for now, he just stood there, admiring his work and he knew all too well that she wouldn't dare challenge him ever again, or maybe she would, and he'd enjoy every second of it.

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Could she have imagined this is what'd be the result of her trying to test his patience over and over again? Probably not, and yet here she was, het orifices, even the ones on her face being held open with hooks, painful and challenging, and yet, the thought that he was just getting started just making her dread her choices, and yet, that same exact fear was also the reason why her cunt was extremely wet, knowing that she'd finally pushed him over and now, he was going to put her in her place, exactly the sadist she desired to belong to.

A patient man, he'd warned her numerous times to not push him past his tolerance, and yet, here he was, showing her what it meant to be his toy, quite surprised at how well she was taking in all that he was subjecting her to and how her cunt just kept leaking, getting wetter the rougher he got, a devilish grin slowly creeping into his smile, knowing that he'd probably found the slut he could actually let loose with, not hold back and she'd still come back crawling for more. His dick painfully erect, he started preparing the flogger and alligator clamps to add to her torture as he got ready to further train the masochist he desired to truly own.

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Complicating and/or oversimplifying the true essence of BDSM is something many fall victim to. Not understanding that 'kink' is just one aspect of the lifestyle and not the entire lifestyle, or going so deep that you tend to forget the basics, af focus only on the parts that interest you most, both of those factors can and will lead to a very underappreciated and unlikely to work for a long time relationship based on this lifestyle.

Bdsm is deep, but it is also very simple. The terms 'Domination' and 'Submission', they aren't meant to be overcomplicated. A Dom proves himself to be trustworthy, patient, capable and powerful enough to have the sub give herself to him, not just physically, but mentally too. Mental submission goes a long way and the only way to achieve that is by properly balancing both the dark/rough and the caring/soft aspects of the lifestyle. A sub proves herself worthy by giving herself to the right Dom, by showing him that she's the one he's meant to claim, that she can give all that he desires, both physically and mentally, whilst also being his rock during tough times.

Both a sub's submission and a dom's dominance, they're earned, never forced. Both of them prove themselves worthy of each other and only then does a coherent and cohesive relationship within this dynamic can be established.

Yes, it takes time and a lot of work to build such a relationship, but when done the right way, it's absolutely beautiful. So, once again, do not overcomplicate or oversimplify this lifestyle.

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'I am my master's pet and I belong only to him. I live for his pleasure and to bask in his care. I am his to taunt, spank, kiss, taste, fuck, inspect, bite, inflict pain on, take pleasure from, protect, cherish and to be trained and spread wide open till all of me has been touched, and explored by him. I live to be broken by him, but I know he will fix me back up. He can make me wait and I know he'll never forget me. I am his to brutalise, break, wreck, train, cherish, care for, adore and shape in any way he desires. I am his to own and keep. Only his.'

That was a mantra he'd set for her to recite twice everyday, one that she'd once found odd, but with time had come to love and adore, for it provided her with a sense of relief and comfort. How long had it been since he'd staked his claim, neither of them remembered that, but what they did know that there was nothing else that could ever feel so complete and wholesome than what they were now. He loved her ability to completely place her trust in him, to let him have his way with her, and exercise absolute control over her very existence, it was a rarity to find that, and in the same way, she adored the way he managed to just claim her very essence, but never abuse the power he had over her, she was sure that nothing else could ever compare to this. Lost in each other, this beautiful entanglement is one they knew would last, and cherish for the rest of their lives.

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To find someone who brings about a certain change in you, that's truly a wonderful thing to experience.

For so long he'd always thought that there was nothing more to him than his sadistic ways. Yes, he cared, but that had never seemed sufficient, for his sadistic ways had been far too brutal. He liked the thought of being able to both break and then fix his sub back up, to both wreck and cherish her, but the brutality of his nature always seemed to overpower the care, which usually ended up in him having to release or lose the submissive in his servitude and care.

All that changed the day she came into his life. Feisty yet adorable, nasty yet sweet, bratty yet obedient. He was the type who desired complete control over every aspect of his sub's life, and though she let him have that, he soon also came to love how she loved to challenge him at times. He knew all too well that she just loved being put in her place, and that she'd melt as soon as he grabbed her, and yet, he enjoyed how she tried to act as if she was trying to put up a fight.

Up until then, he'd not really been fond of overly clingy people, but something about her just made him fall in love with her ways. He absolutely adored how she'd always wanna be close to him and just to tease her, he'd just move away from her but she'd just pout, crawl back to him and nestle herself into his lap. If he were being honest with himself, it made him feel important, made him feel that someone cherished and needed him just as much as he cherished the other person.

Something about the way that she treated him caused a certain shift in his nature. He became more caring and softer than he could've ever imagined. Sure, he still possessed his sadistic and brutal side, and the best part was that she absolutely loved that side of him as well and craved that he brutalise her, as long as he was able to make her feel loved afterwards and to his surprise, the longer that she remained his, the easier it became for him to find that balance between the brutality and the care.

She'd changed him and it was a change that was just as surprising as it was pleasant. It was something that he'd slowly begun to love, and he loved how she helped perfect the balance between his sadistic and caring sides. He loved how he'd absolutely wreck her one minute and then be able to cherish her the next. She was the perfect sub that he'd been looking for, and now that she was his, he'd make sure that it'd stay that way for an extremely long time.

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‘Wherever, whenever, however’

These were the three words he was sure she’d never forget. Ever since she’d given herself to him, had accepted her role as his sub, he always made it evident to her that she was his. Every part, every inch, even her very essence now belonged to him, and he’d take her as and when he wanted to, without worrying if anyone was around. If anybody did find them by chance, he wanted them to enjoy the show, but also wanted them to know that this girl was his, and would never belong to anyone else.

This time, while they were out, and acting like a normal couple and enjoying a nice walk in the woods, it began to pour, heavily. Normally, they’d look for some kinda place to shelter them from the rain, but not today. Her top had become see through because of the water, and it made her look absolutely enticing. As she tried to run to find some kind of shelter, he pulled her back to him and crushed his lips to her, and made it evident to her that he was going to take her right there on the bridge.

The next few minutes went in a haste and soon they were buck naked, and fucking like animals on the bridge. They were still in the shallow parts of the woods, and it was totally normal for someone to come across them, but they didn’t care. All that mattered was that they knew what they were, a controlling Dom and his beautiful sub, and knew that no matter what happened, they’d stay that way, and compared to that relationship, everything else seemed pale. They knew they belonged to each other, and nothing else would ever matter to them.

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Disobedience is not tolerated

She should’ve known better than to disobey him. Now, as she sat there, restrained, with her soaking wet pussy in full view, she couldn’t help but wonder what he’d do to punish her, and every time she pictured a scenario, her body shuddered in pleasure. There were a number of things that he could do to her, and thinking about them just made her wetter, but she was also aware of the fact that in a few minutes, she’ll be screaming her heart out, begging him to stop. He knew exactly how to punish her, and though painful, they never failed to arouse her as well, which was worse as he never let her orgasm during the sessions. He’d always take her to the very edge, but would never push her over, driving her crazy.

As she saw him approaching, she prepared herself for the best and the worst. She knew that he wasn’t going to go easy on her, but she also knew that he’d never permanently harm or scar her, and that just excited her further. As her eyes met his, she just hoped that he’d at least let her orgasm at the end of this, but if he decided not to do that, she couldn’t do much about it. After all, he was her Dom, the man who had absolute power over her mind and body, and knew exactly what to do to her, and when to do it.

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Only his to shape, for life

She’d never tire of this. He knew just how to touch her. She never could resist him and would just melt into his arms. There was a hardly a moment when she wasn’t wet thinking about him. He ruled her world. Her body, mind and soul had all become his. She was never gonna be a normal person ever again, and she didn’t want that. She wanted to stay his sub, his cute fuck toy for life. That’s all that she craved for. He’d changed her, for good or worse, she didn’t know, but she was sure that she would do anything to be perfect for him. He could shape her in any way he wanted and she’d gladly accept it. If there was a word above ‘love’, then that’s what she’d used to describe her feelings for him. She was his. He had complete control over her, and she didn’t want that to change, ever.

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You're gonna be my bitch!

Feel that bitch? If you’d have given in when I asked you nicely then this would’ve been a lot easier. Now I’m not only gonna fuck you, but I’m gonna fucking rape your pussy open. I’m gonna destroy it. Thrust after thrust, I’m gonna open it up wide, and pound you until you turn into nothing but my personal sex doll. I wanna see you drool and beg to be abused and treated for the slut you are. I regret that I’d ever asked if you’d be mine. I should’ve just taken you cause you bitches are nothing more than a set of holes for men to use and drain their balls in. I remember you’d once said that you’d rather burn in hell than be with me. Well, I’ll grant of wish. Now you won’t just belong me. You’ll be a public cumdump. Nothing you say or do will change my mind now. I’m the one the using you now but in half an hour there will be another 20 guys present here to dump their cum into your holes. From today you’re nothing but a dirty whore, a bucket meant to collect cum. Your true life starts from today

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"I'm gonna fucking wreck you."

"I'll just reach for you, grab you by the hair, and first, ravage your lips before anything else. Then I'll nibble on your earlobe and whisper, 'from this moment on, you belong to me. You're mine. Only fucking mine.' I'll slap your ass and have you stick it out for me. I'll then pull your hands over your head and tie them there. I'll grab your hair, and pull you back. I'll bite down, hard on the nape of your neck, and drag my tongue all the way down your spine, occasionally nibbling on your skin. Once my mouth is on your ass, I'll kiss it, suck on the skin, and then bite it, leaving a mark. Then I'll let go off your hair, and curl my fingers around your neck, and pull you up. I'd suck on your neck, and whisper again, 'you're mine. I own you, completely. Nothing is yours anymore. Every inch of you belongs to me now.' I'll fondle your breasts and pinch and tug on your nipples with my other hand, and I'm sure you can guess what'll happen after that lil pet."

He whispered that in a devilish tone, telling her what'd happen to her every time he returned home from work, whilst he fingered her roughly, his other hand holding her by the throat, choking her, hard, and he watched as she shuddered and came again and again, knowing that very soon, he was gonna claim and fucking wreck her and he loved seeing her lose herself that way. He made sure she knew that she belonged to him every waking second and he loved how she couldn't help but lose herself and give in to him.

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I enjoy the journey of building a relationship based on faith, discipline and trust with someone and see them offer more of their selves to me, submitting to me, and it is easily one of the most beautiful, intimate and meaningful things anyone can ever experience. Feeling someone give themselves to me, slowly handing over the reigns and letting me take control, trusting me enough to slowly entrust me with her body, her mind, and in short, her life, knowing that I'll always do what's best for her and never let her go astray, that's the most precious possession anyone can ever hope to have.

Many guys claim to be Doms but they only care about the sexual aspect of the lifestyle. They are just normal guys looking for some kinky sex, that's it. They don't care or more precisely, know nothing about aftercare, limits, the safety, the comfort and the well being of the sub, both physical and emotional and it's safe to say that they see the submissive as nothing but a sex toy instead of the precious lil girl that she truly is. Being a sadistic Dom, I can be quite brutal at times, but no matter what, I understand just how important aftercare is for a sub, and for a Dom as well, especially after an extremely rough session cause it helps them recover, both mentally and physically, and helps them return to their human selves after having freed their inner beasts during the session.

When a sub gives herself to me, I worry about everything for her and try my best to ensure that there's no burden that she has to carry alone. I take care that she sleeps enough, eats well, drinks adequate water, doesn't forget her appointments with her doctor/doctors, is able to have a stable life in her career if she chooses to have one, and is able to get along with her family too, and in case they make it seem like they don't want her around, that she always has someone to come home to and feel safe with at all times. I take care of her in her times of weakness and help her tackle any mental illness that she might be undergoing, whether it be anxiety, depression, or anything else caused by any kinda trauma that she's endured in the past and that she can open up to me about it. I take care that I register, cherish and care for every detail that she shares with me, and that she knows that I will never ever use it against her, and because of that effort that I put into knowing and caring for her, she's able to slowly let go and and is able to become a wonderful sub for me and not worry about having to hide anything at all.

I'm confident in what I do as a Dom, but some might think that I'm being cocky, but l know all too well that my duty as a Dom isn't to control or abuse/beat someone. My first and foremost duty is to care for and protect my sub. My duty is to ensure that my sub knows that I can be trusted with all that she wishes to give, that I don't push limits without her consent, that I never overlook the usage of safewords, etc. Most don't understand this but the BDSM lifestyle goes way beyond than just it's sexual aspects.

I enjoy being a Dom because I enjoy seeing her be a wonderful sub, knowing that I will always have her back, take care of her, and protect her. Doing that and ensuring that she trusts me enough then earns us both all the naughty and filthy things that we both desire. Yes I'm in control in the relationship, but that doesn't mean that she's insignificant. In fact, she's just as important as me. Earning her trust also helps me ensure that I can open up to her just like she's opened up to me, and that I can attain a certain level of vulnerability with her that I may hardly have with anyone else, maybe a few of my closest friends, but none with whom I share the intimacy that I share with her and I know that just like I'm there for her, she will always be there for me and lift me up when I'm at my worst cause she knows all too well that to submit doesn't mean to always just follow. That's what it means to be in a true Dom/sub relationship.

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Some of my latest posts might seem familiar. That's cause they're the old ones posted with a title and their GIFs no longer available anymore. Since Tumblr decided to ban almost all sexual gifs, most of my posts had become invisible to many of my followers and they didn't like that. So, I decided to repost them without the gifs. I know that the gifs played a very important part in giving an individual the feel for the writing, but can't do anything about it. And yes, I know I suck when it comes to titles, and if any of you think you can help me with them, I'm always open to suggestions. Hope you continue to enjoy my writing.

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Well, I'm finally back.

My blog got deactivated for awhile. Had to send in a report to finally get it back. Will start posting again soon.

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Two years, he'd been waiting for two fucking years, waiting, hoping that this day would come, and now that it really was here, he'd make sure it always stayed, that she always stayed.

He'd often been misunderstood cause of the lifestyle that he lived, often considered that he was just a taker and would just take whatever he desired, no matter the consequences. People had a weird notion about the lifestyle, but honestly, he couldn't really blame them, for many had portrayed it to be something dark and unacceptable by just seeing what lay on the outside, but none had tried to explore it's depths, something that he'd immersed himself into since a young age. He'd always felt out of place with the people that surrounded him. Sure, he had wonderful friends, but none who understood or even tried to understand what it meant to see things through his eyes, and so, it was safe to say that he was the odd one out amongst them, and always felt that he didn't belong.

It all changed when he first met her. So strong, beautiful, filled with liveliness, and yet so submissive, calm and tame, and just as immersed into the lifestyle as he was. Ever since he'd first struck up a conversation with her, he'd known that she was special, special in ways that he'd never quite be able to totally comprehend, but that didn't matter. At first, he was intrigued, and slowly, that changed into a burning desire to have her, but alas, there lay many a hurdles in his path, the biggest ones being uncertainty and time. He'd always been the type to care about others more than himself, and if it was someone he really cared about, he'd gladly light his emotions on fire just to put a smile on their face, and that's exactly what he did this time around as well.

She was the calm to his storm, the Yin to his Yang, the only demon as beautiful as an angel who could sate the devil in him, but she was already taken, and though a couple of his friends asked him to just ruin her relationship and then have her for himself, and if he were being honest with himself, the thought did cross his mind a few times, but he knew that he'd never be able to even try that, cause her happiness is what mattered most to him.

So, it just went on like that. Days turned to weeks, weeks turned to months, but he could never get her out of his head, and yet there was nothing he could do about it for she seemed so happy, so filled with joy in what she had that it almost made him want to give up, but no matter how hard he tried, he just never could, and figured that he might as well as just stop trying to give up cause that was never gonna happen, and just be there for her if she ever needed him.

Maybe people are right at times. If you really do desire something, and you hold on, one day, it will be yours, and when it did happen, it took him a few seconds to process the fact that it had actually happened. Here she was, in his arms, sighing, shaking a bit as she poured her heart out to him, telling him why she'd not let him in earlier, even though she'd always liked him and wasn't truly happy with the relationship she'd just gotten out of. It wasn't long before he'd pushed her up against the wall and began pouring his heart out to her, telling her how he didn't care about any of her flaws and wanted to take her all for himself.

Yet, he wasn't going to let her have him that easily. Oh how she'd teased him and made him wait for two long years, and he just had to get back at her for that. No matter what, she'd stay his and he'd stay hers, but he planned to tease her a whole lot before actually taking her, and he intended to take her hard and rough, and yet be passionate about it and make sure she knew just how much she meant to him, but he'd take his time doing that.

It wasn't long before his fingers were curled around her throat, gently choking her and holding her in place whilst his lips hovered against hers, teasing her as he whispered all that he planned to do to her to claim her for himself, and he loved hearing her whimper and feel her squirm as he continued, but even he couldn't hold out for long and just gave in, lifting her up at the hips and mashing his lips to hers, claiming her, holding her to him, his hands roaming her body, letting her feel them as they memorized every inch before finally carrying her to the bedroom and claiming her very essence.

Come next morning, he lay in bed, with her on his chest, and he couldn't help but smile as he remembered the events from the previous night. He was still having a hard time believing that he actually had her now, but the warmth that he felt on top of him gave him all the reassurance he needed. She stirred and smiled softly at him, and he knew that after all the struggles he'd faced in his life, he finally had what he truly desired and needed, and no sadness could compare to the happiness he felt now. Yes, they were still gonna play around cause they both indulged into the Dom and sub dynamics, and he'd someday collar her too, but he'd take it slow, but knowing her, she'd probably want it right away, and the thought was beautifully exhilarating. He just pitied the people who thought that this was just some dark thing and that the two involved couldn't truly fall for each other. If only they could see and understand how wrong they are, but none of that really mattered to him anymore cause all that did matter was right there, laying in his arms, and he knew that he'd have this forever, and would do anything to ensure that nothing came between them. She was his, and he was hers, for life.

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This was not the woman that he was used to. Trying to establish her control in a wonderful yet sexy way, but this was her nonetheless and he couldn't help but want more of her, knowing all too well that he needed her just as much as she needed him, something that they'd always displayed by their actions rather than their words.

Growling softly, he slowly led one of his hands up to her hair and gently combed his fingers through her luscious locks, stroking her beautiful hair before he finally grabbed a fistful and gently pulled her head backwards, reaching up to place soft, yet teasing kisses on her beautiful skin. "Damn right I am yours, but don't you dare forget that you belong to me just as much as I do to you," he mumbled into her skin before biting down softly, leaving a faint mark, then moved back to her lips, kissing and tasting them.

His other hand that had just been resting on her ass, now began kneading the beautiful flesh, occasionally digging his fingers into her skin softly, grabbing hold of her and just smashing her down onto his member as he thrust upwards, reaching her depths, her walls slick and pulsing as he bottomed out with every thrust. "You're my woman, my beautiful sub. No matter what you do or have done, it ain't gonna change the fact that you're only mine now, and you can damn well be sure that I'm gonna keep it that way."