Murder is okay, misogyny is not

18, engineering student

[diaryofatrainwreck]

I wish switching bw blogs was as easy as it is on Instagram </3

[goddessinnerglow]

Become Your Best Version Before 2025 Masterlist

Hello! This is the Become Your Best Version Before 2025 masterlist. It’s a collection of all the posts from the series, gathered in one place to make it easier for you to access and follow along.

I hope you find it inspiring and helpful as you work towards becoming the best version of yourself!

Day 1: What Does Becoming Your Best Version Mean

Day 2: Understanding Yourself / Self-assessment

Day 3: Identifying Limiting Beliefs

Day 4: Identifying Your Core Values

Day 5: Setting SMART Goals That Actually Stick

Day 6: Creating Your Personal Mission Statement

Day 7: Building Better Habits

Day 8: Mastering Time Management

Day 9: Auditing Your Relationships

Day 10: Mastering Your Emotions

Day 11: Taking Care of Your Body

Day 12: Stress Management

Day 13: Financial Planning and Budgeting

Day 14: Career and Purpose

Day 15: The Power of Self-Talk

Day 16: Digital Detox and Mindful Living

Day 17: Decluttering Your Life

Day 18: Creating Healthy Boundaries

Day 19: Self-Care Rituals That Actually Stick

Day 20: Building Confidence

Day 21: Overcoming Fear & Self-Doubt

Day 22: Developing New Skills

Day 23: Personal Style & Self-Presentation

Day 24: Setting Up Progress Tracking Systems

Day 25: Designing Your Accountability Plan

Day 26: Personal Development Tools and Resources

Day 27: Hobbies & Passion Projects

Day 28: How to Keep Yourself Motivated

Day 29: Prioritizing Yourself and Your Needs

Day 30: Creating Your Vision for 2025

Day 31: The Beginning of Your Best Year Yet

*** Divider Credit: @thecutestgrotto ***

[alwaysbeenjessica]

this summer i am WRITING and PAINTING and READING and GETTING OFF OF MY EVIL IPHONE

[thereignclub-trc]

What you do in private, shows in public. Reading shows in a conversation. Your diet shows in energy. Your discipline shows in confidence. Your focus shows in your results. You are what you cultivate when no one is watching. Prioritize your time & focus on discipline/consistency.

[stuckinapril]

I think part of getting better is complete ego death. Like you’re not above setting a timer for 5 minutes and focusing on a task. You’re not above doing a very simple 3 minute workout to start. You’re not above reading for 10 minutes a day when you first get out of your reading slump, even if you used to read for hours. You’re not above starting slow and then building up to where you want to be/where you once were. What you are above is total inertia. Doing something really is better than doing nothing. Radically accept where you are, radically accept your limits, and go from there. Don’t let your ego get in the way.

[diaryofatrainwreck]

I kinda ate yesterday night

[diaryofatrainwreck]

As part of my comeback, I apologised to my best friend from highschool and became transparent with her. We made up and made plans to hang out once she comes back home.

This is a reminder that even if something ended badly/ died out without intention, you can always own up to your mistakes and take accountability, and the two outcomes are either they don't accept and you move on with changed behaviour, or they accept and you move on, now with a rejuvenated connection, and with changed behaviour.

Sometimes distance can be an apology. Sometimes you need to apologise with words.

[sonandheirofnothinginparticular]

[diaryofatrainwreck]

Day 2 of glowing up: MORNING

1) Woke up half an hour earlier today

2) Actually drank my tea instead of letting it cool for 3 hours by accident

3) Ate some amount of food for breakfast

4) Cleared out old papers

5) Reorganized unused notebooks and new textbooks

6) Did my skincare to remove my tan and target my sudden breakout

It's nearly 12 pm now so I'll post what I did in the afternoon in the evening! I'm proud of myself because I struggled to achieve the bare minimum.

[diaryofatrainwreck]

Today's step towards glowing up: I put 12% glycolic acid cream on my dark knees and elbows, then moisturized my legs with aha/bha lotion.

[n1pp]

Who is SHE?

→ journal out who you want to be in 2025:

1. What does she look like? (Physical appearance, style)

2. How does she dress on a typical day?

3. What does she like ?

4. What doesn't she like?

5. What is her behavior like in different situations?

6. (Social interactions, demeanor)

7. How does she prefer to be treated by others? (Expectations from relationships)

8. How does she treat people around her? (Interpersonal relationships, kindness)

9. What does her daily routine entail? (Activities, schedule)

10. At what time does she usually go to bed? (Sleeping habits)

11. When does she wake up in the morning? (Morning routine)

12. What are her hobbies and interests? (Leisure activities)

13. What is her profession or occupation? (Career, job responsibilities)

14. What are her long-term goals and aspirations? (Career ambitions, personal achievements)

15. How does she handle stress or challenges? (Coping mechanisms, problem-solving approach)

16. What type of books does she enjoy? (Cultural preferences)

17. How does she maintain her physical and mental well-being? (Health and self-care routines)

18. Does she have any specific dietary preferences or restrictions? (Food choices)

19. Who are her closest friends, and what are her relationships like with them?(Friendship dynamics)

20. How does she navigate conflicts or disagreements? (Communication style, conflict resolution)

21. What values and principles guide her decision-making? (Personal ethics)

22. How does she spend her leisure time on weekends? (Weekend activities, relaxation methods)

[thezenangel]

youtube videos to help you with your glow up (pt. 2)

8 life changing journal habits by dr. izzy sealey

8 things i’m quitting in 2026 to simplify my life by nikasinnerbeauty

a self care day - ways to take better care of yourself by meli mel

confidence and delusion is all you need by thewizardliz

devotion to self - how to create alignment by deandra k

easy diys to upgrade your clothes by nicole leilani

enter your soft discipline era by lenalifts

february reset by janet ndomahina

how i study my monthly curriculum by lilhoneybear

how to become dangerously intuitive by mae alice suzuki

how to be self obsessed by tam kaur

how to glow up in 3 months by janet ndomahina

how to reinvent yourself in 2026 by natalie etched

monthly reset by meli mel

my 7am morning routine - mindful habits to reset my nervous system by nika erculj

my absolute essentials - items i can’t live without by freezia

return to your feminine core - deep mindset changes by deandra k

the cost of leveling up is outgrowing everyone by hailey gamba

the only healthy habits video you need by sophie diloreto

ultimate life reset for 2026 by gigi mw

we’re running a strict program by manifestelle

you don’t need new goals, you need new standards by jillz guerin

[bloomzone]

No one is watching you as much as you think they are. No one cares if you're biking alone, playing basketball by yourself, or sitting by a river with a blanket and a book. What actually matters is how those things make you feel. Do they bring you peace? Do they make you happy? That’s what counts. Not some random stranger’s opinion that won’t even last ten seconds. think again

[diaryofatrainwreck]

Is anyone also an ece student?

[miawasthere]

my hate for donald trump will always be stronger than my self hatred

[iamasalmon]

the thing about fiber art that nobody tells you about is that every single kind of fiber art is a gateway drug to other kinds of fiber art.

[diaryofatrainwreck]

Yesterday, I went out with my friend and bought 4 books: The Argumentative Indian, two books on electronics and a book on calculus.

Today, I hope to write a manifestation list that makes my life a little more perfect. I am so privileged to have access to education the way I do, and to have friends that love me, and whom I love back.