minho hates heteros

this blog is officially closed! thank you so much for all your support! my main blog is here

[dibidibidiscourse]

PLEASE STOP FOLLOWING THIS BLOG…

[fyjjong]

radio star ♡ 180530 dibidibidis - ten years later

[dibidibidiscourse]

yall: wow i love gender-nonconforming women!!! so hot!!! break down those gender roles babe 😍😍😍😍

a butch: (uses he/him pronouns)

yall: gender-nonconformity is Bad actually

[feministhellcat]

how does IDing as male qualify as gender nonconformity? doesn’t compute :|

[cherrywinelesbian-deactivated20]

he/him lesbians don’t identify as men

they’re lesbians

[baehraini]

they literally only use he pronouns that doesn’t make someone a man ugh

[elliotmoved]

literally i’ve had someone tell me that a lesbian who feels no need to transition but just prefers he pronouns is… a straight trans man somehow.

there are lots of reasons why someone with no actual sex dysphoria might prefer to be addressed in a certain way. for sure some of those reasons might be rooted in internalized misogyny but thats not always the case, and people bringing dysphoria or transsexuality as the only reason why someone might prefer the opposite gendered pronouns lack nuance

[baehraini]

^^^^ there are times when i feel very uncomfortable with ppl using she pronouns for me but id Never pursue transition, i don’t have actual sex dysphoria nor the desire for that ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ still a dyke

[elliotmoved]

ya, she pronouns for me are a mixture of dysphoria (feels like a shock, like “holy shit im female”) but also internalized misogyny (i dont like how “girly” it sounds and brings all these weird stereotypes to my mind). theres not a lot i can do for the former but im trying to work on the latter, ykno, if i can reduce my emotional distress in some way why not?

[dibidibidiscourse]

no offence but get off my posts you fucking freaks

[dibidibidiscourse]

yall: wow i love gender-nonconforming women!!! so hot!!! break down those gender roles babe 😍😍😍😍

a butch: (uses he/him pronouns)

yall: gender-nonconformity is Bad actually

[dibidibidiscourse]

wow! can you believe that he/him lesbians are absolutely amazing and perfect in every single way?

and can you believe that trans he/him lesbians are excellent and stunning and don’t deserve all the shit they have to put up with?

and can you believe that they don’t have to explain their gender identity to anyone if they don’t want to?

wow! can you believe that we’re here and we’re valid and we’re not going anywhere?

[dibidibidiscourse]

he/him lesbians? absolutely handsome. stunning. exquisite.

nb he/him lesbians? completely amazing. incredible. flawless.

trans he/him lesbians? utterly remarkable. fabulous. breathtaking.

[dibidibidiscourse]

I've been sobbing for half an hour about the hatred I am feeling as someone coming to terms with preferring he/him pronouns and also feeling strongly attached to being a lesbian and I just found your blog and now I'm happy crying a little and you just make a difference ok?

you are so welcome! i hope you feel safe in your identity 💖

[dibidibidiscourse]

now i wanna use he/him pronouns as well as she/her prnouns just out of spite cause it seems to make all the weirdos here super pissed like, pronouns are Not That Deep tbh. let ppl just call themselvves what they want as longa as they dont hurt others.

exactly sjkdfjkdjks

[dibidibidiscourse]

oh yeah friendly reminder that my main is @cybercommie

[dibidibidiscourse]

putting this blog on a hiatus

[dibidibidiscourse]

"take care of yourself, you mean so much to me and i care about you" send this anonymously to 5 people to show them how much you appreciate them being in your life, let's spread some love (this was supposed to be on anon ahdbdbejdjdheh u ruined it)

WELL,,, in my defence i don’t get anon hate

[dibidibidiscourse]

this post is for inclusionists only. aphobes fuck off

Keep reading

[dibidibidiscourse]

@discoursegrips do not talk to me you are a prime example

[dibidibidiscourse]

@discoursegrips i am well aware of who you are

[dibidibidiscourse]

this post is for inclusionists only. aphobes fuck off

Keep reading

[dibidibidiscourse]

@discoursegrips do not talk to me you are a prime example

[rosiemutual-deactivated20180308]

nonbinarypastels is a lesbophobic pedophile apologist stop putting them on my dash

[rosiemutual-deactivated20180308]

reblogged this extremely lesbophobic post (debunked here)

reblogs from socialjusticeichigo and other well known lesbophobes

reblogs from youareagoodperson and her allies, lesbophobic pedophile apologists

reblogged this post which puts “anti kink” and “anti shipping “ on par with transphobia and biphobia

thinks that being anti pedophilia is terf rhetoric

more receipts coming when i have more spoons

-please reblog this because i constantly see posts from them with thousands of notes and im sick of it-

[orchidvioletindigo]

That anti-shipping one is so egregious, jfc

[dibidibidiscourse]

this post is for inclusionists only. aphobes fuck off

i’m curious if any of you can tell me why almost every single inclusionist i’ve ever met has just been an absolutely terrible person. is it the ideology? is it the community? i’m curious if any of you know.

[dibidibidiscourse]

i can’t believe that shitbag lesbophobe pedo apologist is back, i literally thought she deleted

[dibidibidiscourse]

Hi okay I’m asking as a cishet who feels she needs to be educated, what do you not like about a cishet saying queer? I was under the impression that queer could be used as a term for LBGT identities (more in reference to sexual orientations I think...?). At the same time I’m aware that it was used as a slur, so is it similar to the n-word in that it should not be used by those not in the LGBT community? I hope I’m not coming off as rude I genuinely want to know so I get this right

it is a slur! so unless you (as a cishet or as an lgbt person) have someone’s explicit permission to refer to them as queer, you probably shouldn’t. in some places it’s more acceptable to refer to the lgbt community as the lgbtq or queer community, so if you live somewhere like that, most lgbt people probably won’t mind too much. i must say though, i live in such a place, but it still grates on my nerves when non-lgbt people use it

i wouldn’t compare it to the n slur but it shouldn’t be used by non-lgbt people, unless, as i said, you have explicit permission.