follow me @menalez

21 yr old afro-arab shi'i lesbian from & residing in bahrain. i'm leaving this blog. this blog will remain, mostly as an archive and receipts for the horrific things some people have said to me. tw for sensitive content.

[baehraini]

Stop equating your disgusting bigotry with lesbianism, we aren't all as vile as you

not wanting to interact with the opposite sex sexually does not make me bigoted or vile, it just makes me a lesbian ❣️

[antiterfbutch]

i keep thinking about that ovarit post of terfs/gender crits talking about Butch lesbians who are too masculine or too sexual, not because it's particularly galling but because this is just what they do. they've been saying this since the 70s.

nothing in that post is new. reactionaries often create an idealized version of the past as a method of justifying their view of the present as well as their political actions. "Butch lesbians used to be so normal and good, until [things that have always occurred within the Butch community]."

they do this for a lot of reasons, partly so that they can discard the voices of cis Butch lesbians like myself who disagree with them. if they can position us as degenerates and predators who are trying so desperately to be men, they don't need to listen to us. we are tainted by the queer agenda. we have fallen from the grace of our true divine feminine nature.

they're also just reactionaries working to protect the cisheteropatriarchy and policing gender expression.

you cannot say that you are pro-gender non-conformity in women and then act like masculine women are trying to be men. it's inherently contradictory. sorry not sorry. my masculinity has nothing to do with men, this is who i am. you can't tell transmasc people "why can't you just be a masculine woman?" and then say i am trying to be a man because i am a masculine woman.

when i fuck a woman with a strapon, men have nothing to do with it. you can't recoil from completely common expressions of lesbian sexuality and say you're supporting us, and you had better not pretend you're standing up for our sexual independence. it's fucking disgusting. it's perfectly okay to not like strap-on sex for yourself, but it is not okay to build your politics around your disgust regarding how some lesbians fuck and pretend that isn't lesbophobia.

you think you're doing something new by framing us as predators? you think you're doing something new by saying we're trying to be like men? you think you're doing something new by wrinkling your nose in disgust at my sexuality?

i've known people like you my whole life, and yet here i am, utterly defiant of your expectations. don't pretend you're doing something to protect me when you're literally the source of my problems.

[antiterfbutch]

This is from one of the most popular terfs on this site, this is how they talk about Butches behind our backs.

Dysphoria has always existed in the Butch community, trans people have always existed in the Butch community... To use the term "normal" for the Butches you find acceptable is just absolutely laughable. To invent the term "autoandrophile" - itself a co-opting of another bullshit, fake concept - is laughable.

Terfs are so out of touch with the Butch community and our history, but they love pretending they're not. We're objects to be used, nothing more. The reality of our far more nuanced existence is an inconvenience to them.

[tra-receipt-blog]

@menalez

[baehraini]

question for op, why did you intentionally leave out the 20+ anons i got where i was defending butches? and how is it that you managed to find this post less than an hour after it was posted when we have each other blocked, it was untagged, and it had 0 notes? perhaps you were the person harassing me on anon sending me gross messages calling butches rapists and men? how come u managed to read me saying most butches are not at all autoandrophiles & the few that are tend to be dysphoric, which is likely the underlying reason why they are aroused by the thought of having a penis instead of a vulva, as me even hating on butches to begin with?

anyways enjoy lying to ur followers ig

[baehraini]

after hearing your transphobic song for the first time im ecstatic to find out you live in england, will be reporting your hate crime to the police/PREVENT in the morning

i didnt make a transphobic song, this blog is inactive, and i also dont live in the UK & havent since 2019 ❤️ fail threat.

[gerardpilled]

terfs that have been active on mcr posts.

I’m not talking “engaging in Gerard gender politics” I’m talking identifying as radfems and commenting transphobic slurs, primarily for Gerard, on posts.

ereini0n

delusional-eli

opalitte

bwiththel

senorjaded

leechesandcream

staringinblue

sailorterf

r4diofem

misa-ndry

sertraline200mg

h0rribelle

menalez

libertbill

sigmafemale-grindset

female-malice

bitterbadfem-harpy

radicallyaligned

kiefbowl

kombutchabuutch

whiteboyclitty

s34b4sS

[baehraini]

I have never used transphobic slurs nor do i identify as a radfem nor have i commented on mcr posts that i can recall lol. why are u lying

[baehraini]

Why u reblogging shit from removeshawarma which has a pfp of the remove kebab guy that's song bout genociding Muslim bosniaks and Turks? Honestly lady, just don't call urself Muslim at all. U only care about calling urself a shia so u can have another thing to add ur "why I'm so oppressed" list.

ma’am this is an old abandoned blog and “removeshawarma” was racist to me in dms too idk why u think i in any way support him 💀 as for calling myself shi’i… no it’s bc shi’a regardless of whether we follow the religion or not are mistreated and killed and jailed in my country lmao

[baehraini]

Leave amegaotaku the hell alone please. She hasn’t done anything so quit proving yourself to be a nasty ugly bully every time you talk crap about her cause it only makes you look embarrassingly desperate and pathetic. Oh and she’s not a fucking Zionist btw.

stop sending me shit about yourself on a dead blog that i don’t even use jfc. 

[baehraini]

so what kind of breed/mix are you? your bio isn't clear enough.

im a human also im @menalez now 

[misshorrorotaku-deactivated2024]

Was going to address this post, but @terfslying beat me to it.

But the summary? It’s a post by menalez claiming that 41% of trans prisoners in the UK are sex offenders and she’s basically trying to guilt trip people by implying trans activists want to protect trans women at the cost of the safety of cis women while trying not to seem transphobic by claiming to care for the safety of trans women.

But of course, the BBC already debunked Fair Play For Women’s 41% claim (ya know, the radical feminist group that allies with the alt-right), so it’s all academic anyway.

[baehraini]

false. also the purpose of my post was certainly not to “guilt trip people” lol, it was to point out that people are going on & on about moving trans women to female prisons for their safety while completely failing to consider the safety of the people already in those prisons.  

[dragon-in-a-fez]

not to Discourse but I’m a cis man and my partner is an afab enby and if you call us a “straight couple” I will personally come to your house tie you to a chair and make you listen to a podcast about gender identity on endless repeat

[dragon-in-a-fez]

this is specifically @ the people who saw us at pride together and saw them wearing a “THEY/THEM” button and still referred to them as my “girlfriend” you’re all cancelled thanks

[dragon-in-a-fez]

it’s called respecting queer people juice

[dragon-in-a-fez]

y'know the really amazing thing about the notes on this post - apart from just the sheer number of people who are, like, viscerally terrified of the existence of a person who isn’t cis - is how many of them are responding to things that aren’t here. specifically, you’ll notice I said nothing about my sexuality. I didn’t say I identified as non-het, or that I considered myself part of the LGBTQIA community. on the flip side, I also didn’t give you any reason to believe I’m not bi, or that I’ve never been in a relationship with a cis man. y'all know nothing about my sexuality from this post and you don’t need to and I’m not going to tell you about it now because! this post! was not! about me!

it was about respecting my partner’s identity. and the fact that they don’t get that respect from people in the exact community that they should be able to count on getting it from.

ie, you.

they are not het or cis, and no relationship they are in will ever be a “straight relationship” because they. are not. het. or. cis.

everyone in the notes gatekeeping me because I’m “not oppressed”? I never said I was. the person you’re really attacking and invalidating by shitting on this post is them, a pansexual nonbinary person who is unerasably queer.

huh. it’s almost as if the whole “we can’t let straight men use queerness to worm their way into our community” discourse is just an excuse to hate trans people, isn’t it.

[wetwareproblem]

I mean while we’re at it let’s not overlook the fact that dating an enby is not very straight of OP, yet people are still lining the fuck up to pretend he’s some sort of invader.

[korrasera]

And people wonder why I give them shit about trying to call a relationship straight.

Orientations are for people, not relationships, and if people would just fucking learn that then maybe they’d stop throwing queer people under the bus in the way that the OP is talking about.

[new-magic-kris]

OP deserves an award

[stardust-danvers-archive-deacti]

A fucking big one

[baehraini]

yall really think ppl deserve an award for being in a heterosexual relationship that has gender neutral pronouns and that’d be almost funny if it didnt reemphasise exactly who the ‘queer’ crowd prioritise. 

[stardust-danvers-archive-deacti]

I am confused?! This relationship is not heterosexual in any way. And yes hetero people can develop feelings for someone who is NB, no it does not make the relationship straight bc one of them is queer. Same if a bisexual person has a relationship with someone of the opposite sex. The relationship is not straight.

Thanks for coming to my TED talk.

[baehraini]

a male dating a female that uses they pronouns is still a heterosexual relationship. a relationship can still be heterosexual even if the individuals are not. a heterosexual relationship is just a relationship between a male and female.

[stardust-danvers-archive-deacti]

But they’re not female???? Or male???? For that matter????

[baehraini]

its physically impossible for a human being to be neither female nor male. gender is a social construct & someone’s personal identification with gender doesn’t change their relationship dynamic nor their material reality. an opposite sex couple where one person uses neutral pronouns isnt treated as a separate class from other heterosexuals.

[stardust-danvers-archive-deacti]

Not possible huh?

Being nonbinary is biologically possible and yes it does change the relationship between people and this is also why people use they/them pronouns because they ARE neither male or female.

[baehraini]

no it isnt because non-binary is a gender and while ur picture says otherwise, human sex is dimorphic as there are two sex gametes. people with disorders of sex development, with disorders that impact hormones, or someone taking hormones aren’t somehow neither sex. 

nonbinary is not a biological phenomena. someone’s body can’t be nonbinary. someone may feel nonbinary but someone’s feelings aren’t enough to impact one’s material reality. 

its literally impossible for a person to be neither male or female. male and female are sexes, every single human being is one or the other.

[stardust-danvers-archive-deacti]

Non Binary is NOT a gender. Yes it is in gender SPECTRUM but that doesn’t make it a gender.

And being non binary IS a biological phenomena as you said it.

Look at lobsters. They are both. In biology books they are stated to be non binary. And yes being both can make one identify as non binary. And yes there are indeed people who are both male and female.

Male and Female are two extremes in the binary spectrum, so there can still be someone born who doesn’t meet either of those, which is what being non binary all about.

[baehraini]

my bad, non-binary is an umbrella term for genders that arent binary. why are u caught up in semantics rn??? that makes no difference to the argument 

“Look at lobsters” are we lobsters? i keep saying ‘human being’ because im talking about human biology, not lobsters. what do lobsters have to do with human relationship dynamics? 

there are literally no people that are “both male and female”. there isn’t a single human being with two sex organs. there isn’t a single human being that has both gametes. plus non-binary people aren’t even born as both sexes. 

[baehraini]

god im rly into this woman and i need to STOP bc my heart literally cant handle it whenever im into someone. i just get so dependent on their presence, their absence makes me depressed, conflict with them gives me anxiety, i just. i want to be able to like people without my mental illnesses making it so difficult and overwhelming 

[baehraini]

i'm so glad ur here!!! a voice of reason on this cold and desolate hellscape

honestly when are we gonna form a separate and coherent community of radfems & rad-leaning ppl away from the demons????? it needs to happen ASAP! the demons are why this side of tumblr seems so hellish tbh

[mithliya]

so. i found receipts of @radicaldumbass being a racist about a year ago. i tried confronting her with this proof and she responded with this

the last message was one i sent because… shocker.. she was lying when she pretended not to be this person. here’s the proof:

same glasses. same wrist tattoo. same name. anyways, @radicaldumbass is an unapologetic racist who insulted the appearance of a black woman on the basis of her blackness. and then tried to lie about her identity when confronted privately about it.

[mithliya]

[dashaibo]

[discyours]

Since fucking when is calling people out for racism in your community a snake eating its own tail

[dashaibo]

Because melanez is also far from a good person. Because the amount of petty infighting in your community is absolutely bananas and the amount of dirt you pull up on each other is staggering and this is far from the only time I’ve used this reaction pic in response to radfem drama.

Don’t get me wrong, the transmed community is garbage too, but it’s kind of dead now, so it’s not much of a point.

[discyours]

What has menalez done?

Blatant racism isn’t “petty infighting”. 

[dashaibo]

Being a general asshole multiple times.

Saying ONE stupid thing and then trying to hide it is not an example of widespread racism. Radfems just devolve into purity politics like the rest of the left all the time.

[bad-future-bitch-deactivated201]

the original image has the name scribbled out…you know that “sorry black boys, only white men can handle this” woman? yeah, that wasn’t her. someone stole her image and stuck her face on that post and she got harrassed for it. be really fucking careful about this shit.

[baehraini]

here you go. i censored the last name myself but this is 100% the same person. she was literally just lying to avoid getting exposed lol.

[regina-geourge]

I was friends with her on Facebook briefly and I have a screenshot of Milo literally telling me she’s radicaldumbass

Same person in the picture, same name (I censored her last name) and the first thing she told me was her tumblr url. You might not like it, but you’re going to have to accept that Milo is racist. Me and a few other tumblr users knew her identity way before she was exposed as racist (she had her social media links on her blog before) and we’re telling you the racist in the screenshots is radicaldumbass. For any of you that followed her main blog (thiccennugget) you’ll easily recognize her as the person in the pictures because she posted a lot of selfies.

[baehraini]

CAREFUL,,,, apparently this is “doxxing” now lmao

[uteri-my-duderi]

@staff Free Menalez you cowards

[dowereallyneedthis]

so wait. did she get banned for “doxxing” a racist by posting a screenshot of the person being racist on FB? I’ve only caught bits and pieces of this drama

[baehraini]

i havent doxxed anyone but i really really doubt thats what happened bc the post is STILL there & surely if this was over me ‘doxxing’ theyd delete the post in question first. i think it was some kinda fuck up on their part & i should hopefully be back soon.

[dowereallyneedthis]

Ah ok, raids said she thought it was a ban for doxxing radicaldumbass, so that’s what I assumed. I’m sorry these weirdos keep harassing you/calling you a rapist and fgm supporter etc.– I think it’s pretty clear to anyone with a brain skimming through the posts who the reasonable party is in all of this if it helps lol.

[menalez-receipts]

Come see the history of Menalez being anti-semetic, anti African-American, doxxing people and causing people to get death threats for days. At menalez-receipts

[uteri-my-duderi]

What’s it like being a cretin?

[menalez-receipts]

What’s it like supporting someone who is anti-Semitic?

[baehraini]

here’s why that dude claims im “anti-semitic”

so basically, this dude was being blatantly racist & misogynistic towards me, and then tried to cry that im anti-semitic bc i knew he was ashkenazi (and white) from his name that he made publicly available on his blog. he then started crying that he was doxxed by me when i only knew his name because it was linked to his blog. he then kept reposting these screenshots with his name (totally someone in fear of being doxxed, ey?) uncensored and claiming im anti-semitic. 

and for the other lies ur disgusting racist ass made up, heres the guy whos originally behind them. notice the inconsistencies in his stories:

these are on DIFFERENT OCCASIONS. every time he has a different story about me and now hes sending people anons with these same lies (i assume its him, at least)! i tried confronting him once by messaging him 

and the entire conversation he spent it pretending not to know who i am. 

but hey, its fine, i know yall will believe anything if it means it’ll help paint a woc u dislike a certain way. even if the ways youre painting the woc is blatantly racist & rooted in racially-charged lies.

[uteri-my-duderi]

@staff Free Menalez you cowards

[dowereallyneedthis]

so wait. did she get banned for “doxxing” a racist by posting a screenshot of the person being racist on FB? I’ve only caught bits and pieces of this drama

[baehraini]

i havent doxxed anyone but i really really doubt thats what happened bc the post is STILL there & surely if this was over me ‘doxxing’ theyd delete the post in question first. i think it was some kinda fuck up on their part & i should hopefully be back soon.

[dowereallyneedthis]

Ah ok, raids said she thought it was a ban for doxxing radicaldumbass, so that’s what I assumed. I’m sorry these weirdos keep harassing you/calling you a rapist and fgm supporter etc.– I think it’s pretty clear to anyone with a brain skimming through the posts who the reasonable party is in all of this if it helps lol.

[menalez-receipts]

Come see the history of Menalez being anti-semetic, anti African-American, doxxing people and causing people to get death threats for days. At menalez-receipts

[dowereallyneedthis]

I scrolled through for about 10 minutes and now I have to get up for work, but all I saw was you guys being fucking crazy and making up wild stories along with a couple of receipts of her being into bondage and ddlg as a way to cope with her abuse which is just concerning and sad

[baehraini]

i just want to say that i do have a history with DDLG but i dont justify it, im absolutely disgusted with the things i did and accepted as a horrible coping mechanism. i was in my teens at that time and i dont find any of it justifiable today. im kink critical in general but i have some exceptions for bondage. SORRY i know ur not like.. accusing me of anything but. im just tired of slightly-off versions of the truth being what ppl know about me so. just clarifying in case

as for the horrible receipts blog, ive addressed all those (almost completely false) claims if anyone is interested. but all i can say is that.. the new shit being claimed is 100% not true

[baehraini]

she claims she hasnt been harassing me for an entire year but here she is admitting it in response to someone’s lies. 

ps, the only urls this blog has ever had are the following: saddesthime, baehraini, delusionaldyke, back to baehraini, menalez, and then baehraini again. i have receipts of the entire background to the whole ‘menalez is anti-semitic’ lie this dude made up long ago, which shows i was nowhere near anti-semitic, was being attacked in a racist & misogynistic way, and that in the end these dudes were blatantly lying about me because of their racism. and now raids decided to be in on their racist harassment which is.. telling :~)

[uteri-my-duderi]

@staff Free Menalez you cowards

[dowereallyneedthis]

so wait. did she get banned for “doxxing” a racist by posting a screenshot of the person being racist on FB? I’ve only caught bits and pieces of this drama

[baehraini]

i havent doxxed anyone but i really really doubt thats what happened bc the post is STILL there & surely if this was over me ‘doxxing’ theyd delete the post in question first. i think it was some kinda fuck up on their part & i should hopefully be back soon.

[dowereallyneedthis]

Ah ok, raids said she thought it was a ban for doxxing radicaldumbass, so that’s what I assumed. I’m sorry these weirdos keep harassing you/calling you a rapist and fgm supporter etc.– I think it’s pretty clear to anyone with a brain skimming through the posts who the reasonable party is in all of this if it helps lol.

[menalez-receipts]

Come see the history of Menalez being anti-semetic, anti African-American, doxxing people and causing people to get death threats for days. At menalez-receipts

[uteri-my-duderi]

What’s it like being a cretin?

[menalez-receipts]

What’s it like supporting someone who is anti-Semitic?

[baehraini]

here’s why that dude claims im “anti-semitic”

so basically, this dude was being blatantly racist & misogynistic towards me, and then tried to cry that im anti-semitic bc i knew he was ashkenazi (and white) from his name that he made publicly available on his blog. he then started crying that he was doxxed by me when i only knew his name because it was linked to his blog. he then kept reposting these screenshots with his name (totally someone in fear of being doxxed, ey?) uncensored and claiming im anti-semitic. 

and for the other lies ur disgusting racist ass made up, heres the guy whos originally behind them. notice the inconsistencies in his stories:

these are on DIFFERENT OCCASIONS. every time he has a different story about me and now hes sending people anons with these same lies (i assume its him, at least)! i tried confronting him once by messaging him 

and the entire conversation he spent it pretending not to know who i am. 

but hey, its fine, i know yall will believe anything if it means it’ll help paint a woc u dislike a certain way. even if the ways youre painting the woc is blatantly racist & rooted in racially-charged lies.

[uteri-my-duderi]

@staff Free Menalez you cowards

[dowereallyneedthis]

so wait. did she get banned for “doxxing” a racist by posting a screenshot of the person being racist on FB? I’ve only caught bits and pieces of this drama

[baehraini]

i havent doxxed anyone but i really really doubt thats what happened bc the post is STILL there & surely if this was over me ‘doxxing’ theyd delete the post in question first. i think it was some kinda fuck up on their part & i should hopefully be back soon.

[dowereallyneedthis]

Ah ok, raids said she thought it was a ban for doxxing radicaldumbass, so that’s what I assumed. I’m sorry these weirdos keep harassing you/calling you a rapist and fgm supporter etc.– I think it’s pretty clear to anyone with a brain skimming through the posts who the reasonable party is in all of this if it helps lol.

[menalez-receipts]

Come see the history of Menalez being anti-semetic, anti African-American, doxxing people and causing people to get death threats for days. At menalez-receipts

[uteri-my-duderi]

What’s it like being a cretin?

[menalez-receipts]

What’s it like supporting someone who is anti-Semitic?

[uteri-my-duderi]

Reeeeeeeeee!!

[menalez-receipts]

You look forthright and mature here

[baehraini]

its actually disgusting, raids, that you would go this far just to paint me a certain way.

the dude who kept calling me anti-semitic is someone who kept calling me cunt, bitch, and being blatantly racist towards me because im afro-arab. he started calling me anti-semitic bc i said that hes a white dude. he connected his FULL NAME to his blog. i posted a pic of him that was public and used his first name, to which he responded to by claiming to be doxxed. he reported me several times for it but.. shocker, he wasnt doxxed so it didnt happen. then he and his friends started making up lies about me because they foudn it funny. this is the same guy who went as far as harassing my ex-girlfriend, whos jewish, by insisting to her that i Hate Jews when ive literally done nothing anti-semitic. 

as for the lies that i outed someone to their family? like.. what? if this is about radicaldumbass, i literally only showed the first name she was using literally everywhere, i never gave away any of her personal info, and her facebook was deleted long ago so how tf would i even know who her family is? 

raids youre a nasty liar and this is … definitely a new low for you. painting a woc as a villain for outing a racist as a racist just goes to show how right i was about you all along. :) 

[baehraini]

and like.. i shouldnt even have to say this but i havent ever doxxed anyone. i never called black people ‘mongrels’ and i know EXACTLY who that anon making up a bunch of shit about me is. theres this one weird dude on tumblr who keeps making up new lies about me every time he comes across me, i dont get it at all but. thats what hes been doing. i dont know him or why he does it. 

oh yeah and y’alls ableism “look at how many scars she has! obviously shed do these things because shes an absolute nutcase!!” is disgusting

[baehraini]

@shollymannon youre a disgusting racist for spreading lies like this about me simply bc i outed ur racist friend. i already owned up to being wrong about type 1A** of fgm not being too bad and apologised for it. i was wrong. i wasnt being intentionally malicious or trying to dismiss something that i knew was harmful, i genuinely thought it was akin to circumcision and stupidly minimised its severity as a result. i was wrong and ignorant and im sorry for that. i literally was never a ‘pro-sharia islamic lunatic’ and youre fucking disgusting for spreading blatant lies about me like that that clearly were made up because of my racial background as a middle eastern woman.