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20s f <3

[ahotknife]

maybe i’m a joyless bitch but i actually do NOT think it’s funny to see women being like “the house is just in my husbands name” or “my husband makes all the money” or “i don’t even know who our mortgage is with” or “the only bank account/credit card is his and i get an allowance” like i do NOT find that cute or romantic and i am begging these women to Stand Up. you should at least be named on the deed to your house and the title to your car and the bank accounts even if you don’t pay for them/earn all the money. you can’t stop existing in the eyes of the law and the credit unions simply because you have a husband. if you’re raising his children and washing his socks half of everything he’s got is yours and it needs to be yours LEGALLY BY NAME. "he takes such good care of me :)" girl you are a PRISONER!! that’s all

[lovelylau]

[dreamgirlvibes]

[2productive]

I am my own #1, my favorite girl, my biggest inspiration, and my only competition

[scorpionlafemme]

[dearlymei]

[theambitiouswoman]

[persianmom-deactivated20250117]

[toiich]

Hayao Miyazaki

[zerounwantedvibrations]

[nenelonomh-deactivated20250906]

weekend plans: studying

a peaceful weekend spent studying from the comfort of your home: fresh laundry and scattered books, soft linen and natural light, frank ocean and frequent naps, fresh cut flowers and mind maps, long walks to the local library

[free-my-mindd]

Someone said, “The reason you isolate when you’re struggling is because you were left alone as a child to deal with your emotions” and I felt that.

[wunnagf]

[adiola]

I’ve started viewing my goals and daily habits as promises to myself. Whenever I consider not doing something (working out, doing my skincare, etc) I view it through the lens of someone making a promise to me and not keeping it. I think about how pissed I would be if my boyfriend or friend would constantly make promises to me and break them. Why do I give myself grace to be inconsistent that I do not give others? Eventually, if someone keeps breaking promises to you, you learn not to trust their word and not rely on them for anything. Is that the kind of relationship you want to foster with yourself? Who can you count on, if not you?

[adiola]

Start small! You have to rebuild trust with yourself, that you’re actually going to do what you say this time. Take your word as your bond. Instead of making a lofty promise of waking up at 5am everyday and completing a 3 hour morning routine, try waking up a little earlier than you usually do and stretching for 15 minutes. Build from there once you prove to yourself that you can handle it. Highly recommend the book Atomic Habits in helping with this. Whenever you do break a promise, apologize to yourself. Journal about what you failed to follow through on, why you couldn’t follow through, and what you will do differently next time. Don’t beat yourself up about it. Apologize, reassess, forgive yourself, and try again!

[fyblackwomenart]

MathiasJudias

[aidashakur]

[444her]

MONEY FLOWS TO ME IN EXPECTED AND UNEXPECTED WAYS