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Exclusionist - Cishet aces r not lgbt - asian bi girl just trying not to die - i'm a minor!! don't send me explicit stuff -

[homoidiotic]

lgbt pride designs! [available as stickers, shirts, bags etc on my redbubble, which funds my top surgery]

[lesbianrey]

[worm]

oh, me

[lemon-bunny]

lol, wonder why that is!

[screwcishets-deactivated2018011]

genuine question: what do asexuals believe sexual attraction is if it isn’t a desire for sexual intimacy with a specific person?

[lemon-bunny]

i’m really tired of inclusionists talking like exclusionists who are ace/aro don’t exist. like continue to claim that exclusionists main goal is to invalidate aces/aros while you’re continuously doing that yourselves!

[lemon-bunny]

i’m really tired of inclusionists talking like exclusionists who are ace/aro don’t exist. like continue to claim that exclusionists main goal is to invalidate aces/aros while you’re continuously doing that yourselves!

[fuckmogai]

i don’t understand why the ace community is so obsessed with the concept of validity, and have tried to make it synonymous with q***r, lgbt, etc.

like saying “aces are valid” in response to posts saying that cishet aces aren’t lgbt means absolutely nothing lmao!! it means nothing! you’re spouting nonsense rhetoric because you assume that because someone believes asexuality is not an inherently lgbt identity, they obviously must mean that asexuality is not a real identity at all.

“ace is a valid orientation” means nothing!! like congratulations, it is, and that’s great, but technically heterosexuality is a valid orientation too, and it’s sure as hell not lgbt.

[fuckmogai]

“actually the a is for-“

ain’t no fucking a !!

[colorisbyshe]

if you wanna fuck someone specific or are in a relationship with someone you enjoy and want to have sex with… that’s sexual attraction babe!

[dietpepsicourse-blog]

what do aces even think sexual attraction is??? like some magical need that only they don’t feel??????

[childhoodgrave]

BAD trope: girl is cold to all men, has no interest in dating, meets a sunshine boy who makes her realize she DOES want to date and falls in love GOOD trope: girl is cold to all men, has no interest in dating, turns out shes a lesbian!!! meets a sunshine girl who makes her realize she is gay and falls in love

[schuylerblue]

ANOTHER GOOD trope: girl is cold to all men, has no interest in dating, meets a sunshine boy who makes her realise after getting to know him that she is demisexual

[schuylerblue]

TO CLARIFY, I AM NOT TRYING TO ERASE THE WLW ASPECT OF THIS POST, I AM TRYING TO INCLUDE THE ACE SPECTRUM!!!

[lesbeans-on-toast]

its a personal post by a LESBIAN about their personal LESBIAN experiences so stop demanding that everything be made about you.

 its someones personal post and its shit like this that makes it hard for lesbians to find out theyre lesbians, bc anytime its suggested someone might be one 65 different ppl jump in screaming “BUT WHAT IF SHES JUST ACE!!!!!!!!” like no. make your own damn post, stop talking over lesbians. unacceptable.

[homoethotic]

Plus what the fuck are they talking about “another good trope” as if they didn’t literally just restate the bad trope

[nudne]

its so funny when lgbt people make joke posts here about hating straight and/or cis people and then a cishet reblogs it like “imagine if the roles were reversed and it was straight people who say they hate gay people!” LIKE…….??? I DONT HAVE TO IMAGINE IT BITCH THATS JUST CALLED REAL LIFE

[teacourse]

The LGBT community is not the Island of Misfit Toys, there’s an actual fucking point to our existence. It’s not just a fun club for anyone who feels like they don’t fit every social norm. We are Oppressed, Lindsay

[goobra]

me: cishet aces are straight

y'all: so you think ALL aces are straight??

me: Please I Am Begging You To Read What I Actually Wrote

[11thsense]

it’s always painfully obvious when straight people write gay things cause they always do the same tropes and clichés and u can always tell they have no idea what internalized homophobia is actually like and at this point I just want straight people to stop writing stories about being gay cause ….they can’t. It’s like reading a fan fiction off of fanfic.net in 2007. Pathetic. Sad. Predictable and corny.

[itsmypoopoopanicmode-deactivate]

i woke up this morning and looked inthe mirror And Despaired Because I Am Gay… Because I am a homosexual. the only thing that can cure me of this despaire…. is unrealistic and highly fetishistic gay sex…

[faded9]

[moved2mossminn]

I wanna be one of those people that’s like “respect people’s identities if they aren’t harming anyone!!!” but then I see cishets saying that they’re lgbt bc they’re only attracted to smart people or bc they don’t want to have sex unless they know the person and I’m like damn,,,, y'all really gotta test me don’t you

[lesbitchka]

this just in, transphobic straight woman is now queer (from cosmo’s snapchat article)