alaska (x, x, x)
cherry valley forever

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Three Goblin Art

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I'd rather be in outer space 🛸
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@differentunleashes
alaska (x, x, x)
hey guys im making french toast sticks in the oven. I’m gonna take a quick nap wake me up in 5 minutes so i can flip them over
Randy its been five minutes flip your sticks
snnnnzzzzz
Daily tip: if someone can fall asleep knowing you’re crying, knowing you’re hurting or didn’t get home safe, they don’t care about you.
or they have their own lives and can’t base their whole life around you.
amazingly, some people don’t consider you the main character in their “book”. it doesn’t mean they don’t care. it doesn’t mean they don’t love you. it doesn’t mean anything except that SOMETIMES you have to take care of yourself. because no one will be able to be there for you ALL the time. it’s just not going to happen.
the only thing that thinking who isn’t doting on your day and night will do is make you feel so isolated, uncared for, unloved. it will do nothing positive.
i used to feel this way, all black and white. but nothing is.
like truly think - could you drop EVERYTHING at ANY given second? no. you can’t. and it’s really selfish to think anyone else should be able to for you.
sometimes u just gotta sleep.
Put your own oxygen mask on first.
^^^^ all this ^^^^
Seriously, there are sooo many people I’d love to be able to drop everything for. And do, when I can. But I can’t always do that.
For example, my wonderful sister in law needed a ride to the ER last week. I would have happily taken her, but I missed her 6:45 am text. Now this seems like just “oh she was asleep”, but it’s not.
A long time ago, I had a friend who constantly needed me.
I am the mom of a special needs kid, and at the time was doing respite care for other special needs families. This was a very, very medically based job including seizure response, gtube feelings, and even patient transfers. This doesn’t even include my flight risks, self injuries behavior kids, or in general the over the top parents (omg). My boss was also fairly difficult.
On top of that, there was a massive forest fire displacing my mother in law, and her horses. We had to care for the horses at a place 30 minutes away. She had to move in with us.
I also had to evacuate families that were in my care.
I had to be “on” constantly, and had to be sure I was able to safely care for my clients.
So, back to this friend. She would text me at all hours of the day, mostly about her absolutely shit boyfriend. And I was there for her. I was constantly putting myself out for her. Replying to her texts at 3am when I had to be up at 6am. Because her boyfriend went and got high instead of visiting her.
So I one night told her that my phone was going on “do not disturb” at night and I’d catch up with her when I was able, because I was exhausted and had to take care of myself some.
Three years ago, my phone went on do not disturb during a certain period of time each night, and it hasn’t been taken off since. That friendship did not last. Shortly after I quit being at her beck and call, she replaced me. And then the next person, and the next. I have no idea who she’s texts at 3am anymore.
Because of her, she ruined it for everyone else.
However, I learned to never, ever be the person who expects one person to always cater to me. I’ve learned when I should silently cry because the battle is my own, and when I should reach out to someone.
my boyfriend said i can marry you is that cool
i have to ask my mom first
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female lions are the predominant caregivers to their young, and will nurse not only their own cubs but those of relatives in the pride if the litters are born close together. weaned between seven and ten months, cubs depend on the moms until they are at least sixteen months old.
but lions are vanishing from the wild. africa’s lion population has declined by 90 percent in the last 75 years, with their numbers plummeting from 450,000 only fifty years ago to less than 20,000 today.
photos by (clicK pic) mitsuaki iwago in tanzania’s ngorongoro national park, and manoj shah, mark dumbleton and margo traggett in kenya’s masai mara.
when someone at my 4th of july barbeque tries to stop me from fitting another firecracker into my ass
it’s that time of year again
Happy 4th of July!