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dress to impress cas challenge!!!
hi friends!!! i've been so obsessed with dress to impress lately i wanted to bring it to the sims a lil bit with a challenge 💗
the rules are:
roll a 20 sided die for the theme
roll a 10 sided die for the hair color
roll a 10 sided die 3 times for accessories! (you can use other accessories ofc, but you just have to also use whatever accessories you roll. also i know not everyone has access to cc bags, so if you roll for a bag and don't have one, ofc you can roll again for something else!)
have fun and feel free to do this challenge as many times as you like!! i did my best to make it as replay-able as possible so it could really feel like you're playing rounds of dti
i just use this dice roller, but feel free to use whatever roller you please!!
if you participate, tag me @circusjuney and use #juniechallenge so i can see it!!! 💗
Though most don't notice the change in Robins, you do. It's the subtle differences that draw your attention posthumous because that's when your attention matters.
That's when someone is needed to point out that Batman needs a Robin. It's the differences that help you know that the original Robin isn't dead—that he can take the job.
He, all teeth and a taut leash, doesn't take the job, of course, so you take it instead.
You become the third Robin, picking up a legacy that's scratched like an uncared for vinyl that you didn't listen to before buying.
Dick is everything you imagine a Robin should be—at least, most of the time. Others, you can't believe he thought it was a good idea to leave Batman, even if he was getting old (you're thirteen and can't imagine what it's like to be almost twenty yet), but you suppose it's a good thing he did or else you wouldn't be standing in the cave yourself.
Sometimes when you're standing in that cave you look at Jason's suit—displayed like it would be in a museum but for only Batman and Alfred who always spoke of the second Robin with a furrowed brow and sometimes Dick when he could stomach being there and now you to view—and wonder if he would have left if he had a choice. If he hadn't died, would he have stayed by Batman's side longer than Dick?
You don't know. You don't have to know. You swallow down the part of you that supposes it's a good thing you don't have to take that gamble, either, because you don't like that thought of yours and you know Bruce wouldn't either.
Even if Jason isn't exactly a topic that the two of you broach often, you come to understand Bruce enough to know when he's thinking of him, which is almost always the first few months. Sometimes there's tells, like when he holds a glassy glance too long as if he's observing a ghost behind you, one that he's afraid of. Sometimes you don't need a tell at all—sometimes you're just Jason. Sometimes you're not allowed to go on missions you can handle because he's afraid of losing you, even though that's unspoken, and you know that really means he's afraid of losing Jason again.
Dick doesn't see Jason in you any more than he sees himself in you, you think, but there's always been an unreadable quality to him that most people wouldn't be able to notice unless they were trained by the World's Greatest Detective. Luckily for you, you were, and that's how you know that it isn't that you don't remind Dick of Jason, but that Dick doesn't like thinking of Jason at all.
The guilt runs too deep. You don't know where it's sourced, but that's okay. You wouldn't fault Dick anyway; he's practically your older brother. Your only brother.
That only makes your wonder deepen, your imagination more vivid—more hopeful—as a kid than it will be in the future. You know that if Jason had lived, you would never have become Robin in the first place. You're too close in age and you still don't know if he would have given up Robin, but there could be a world out there where he did and you do.
In that world, you assume you would get along. Again, you're close enough in age that you'd probably like the same things, and you'd only have a few years gap in school subjects. You're smart enough that you could keep up with his homework, and if you couldn't, he could give you tips on yours. You'd roll your eyes at the same Bruce comment, which is something you already do with Dick, but it'd be different.
Dick's your role model, the kind of guy you aspire to be, but he's older than you and away from home more often than not. Even still, you're closer with him than you are with Bruce in almost every way but strategically, so you can only imagine having a former Robin around more often. You can't help but wonder if you'd be closer—Jason and you.
You think about him and the life he didn't get to live a lot because it's the life you're now living. You think about it every time you pass his memorial in the Batcave, even if it's only a brief thought that acknowledges he existed. You think about how the legacy of Robin isn't the only legacy that rests on your shoulders. You 𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘦 that if he were alive, you'd be doing him proud.
But he's not, so you mourn him. You mourn him with Bruce and Dick in silence, each in your own different ways, because it's not like any of you to express these feelings aloud. If it used to be, it isn't anymore, because that isn't the way of the bat, and God knows you need to be the bat.
Sometimes you mourn the imaginary version of him more than the one that existed, the one you could relate to and look up to. You like to think it's not that far from reality, so you mourn the real him, too.
You mourn him, and you mourn him, and you mourn him, and he tries to kill you.
𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘯 you mourn him more.
Tim Drake's Relationship To Wealth In New Earth
I’ve talked about the Drake’s wealth before, based on this slightly out of place scene in A Lonely Place of Dying where Tim zeros in on an Erte statue of Bruce’s, mentioning his father purchased a litho the year before.
To summarize, this scene is establishing the wealth gap between the rich Drake family and the rich Wayne family. Tim is impressed with Bruce’s Erte statue, which suggests the Drakes can’t really reasonably afford one. While there are Erte lithographs more expensive than some Erte statues, I’ve only seen statues price down to about $1800, while I’ve seen lithos price in the hundreds.
Basically, this implies the Drakes don’t have enough money to spend willynilly while also maintaining their prefered lifestyle. Based on other comic panels scattered around, I’d say the Drakes’ money primarily goes to real estate, travel, boarding schools, and staff. (We only see Mrs. Mac as far as I’m aware, unless you count their work assistant, but the Drakes will sometimes reference former staff, like an old driver mentioned in Robin #116.)
Strictly speaking, Tim is only refered to as “new money” once, which interestingly occurs after the Drakes drop an economic bracket. [Robin #100]
However, Jack specifically gives off the impression he’s probably new money. He prides himself on being a red blooded american man (read: “normal,” down to earth) and he’s blatantly incapable of playing politics. He’s not good at maintaining an image for reputation and status, and he doesn’t respect people that do.
He’s also shows little interest in networking, allowing his insecurities to get in the way of what would appear to be a rather beneficial opportunity for his son and his business - developing and maintaining friendships with people like Bruce Wayne opens doors.
Jack seems to view himself as seperate from what he sees as the uppity elite, but also sees himself as deserving of respect and status stemming from his wealth without the desire to actively cultivate it, all the while harboring some deep insecurities around the topic. This doesn’t garantee he was new money, but it does imply he doesn’t really fit in with the ins and outs of wealthy society the way someone like Bruce does.
To be old money, Jack would have to have come from wealth, and we’re just not given that impression. We know very little about Tim’s ancestry, except that Jack’s father, Charles, was a teenaged soldier in World War II, but in general, other characters don’t react to the Drake name the way they react to the Wayne or Luthor or Queen names. Hell, Dinah Lance’s mother’s maiden name was Drake.
We don’t really have anything to go off of if Janet was or wasn’t wealthy prior to her marriage to Jack, and if so, how much.
When Jack’s bad investments cause the Drakes to “go broke” - as Jack refers to it - Tim describes their situation as going from “upper-upper-class” to “upper-middle” class, living off of the proceeds of the sales of their assets and Dana’s middle class job. Tim isn’t too bothered by this, having worked in war zones and areas of abject poverty, and doesn’t think very charitably about his dad acting like they’re starving. Neither does Dana for that matter, who understands they still have a very good life and is bearing the brunt of the work supporting their family and liquidating Jack’s assets.
This is where Tim’s relationship to money gets interesting to me. Tim’s very comfortable with his living situation, but he becomes very AWARE of how expensive crime fighting is. He has an itemized list of how much EVERYTHING batman related costs.
With Bruce out of the picture for an unknown length of time, Tim has a lot of financial anxiety. Steph, who grew up middle class (at least she is now, her mom being a nurse, living in a two story house - unclear on their financial situation when she was a small child), has much more of a “it’ll work itself out” attitude, while Tim can’t stop thinking about the logistics.
This is honestly a very stark contrast to the fandom idea that Tim is of the “how much can a banana cost? $10?” persuation.
Once Bruce is back and the monatary situation with Robin is solved, Tim is content to live an upper middle class life style.
After Jack dies, however, Tim’s money situation becomes… fuzzy.
Tim ends up reliant on Bruce’s money. They don’t really get into it, but as a child with no living relatives and Dana in a clinic, Tim SHOULD be in the foster system right now, without access to his inheritance. He’s comfortable making promises in Bruce’s name, but Tim’s reasons for not wanting Bruce to adopt him in the upcoming arc are… quesionable. They don’t really say WHY Tim doesn’t want Bruce to adopt him, nor do they explain HOW Tim pays for his hired fake uncle. Did he actively steal Bruce’s money, or was the deal access to Tim’s inheritance? Was this whole thing a ploy for Tim to gain access to his own inheritance and not rely on Bruce for everything?
They don’t… talk about it.
They especially don’t talk about it AFTER Bruce adopts Tim. He seems to foster him for a bit after “Uncle Eddie” bites it, Tim is living on the manor grounds, but his legal and financial status isn’t really brought up. Then Bruce adopts him, but money just kind of becomes a nonissue, we all just kinda assume Tim has access to Bruce’s money and call it a day.
But I do think, when talking about Tim’s relationship to money, skipping over Tim’s temporary downward financial mobility over simplifies him. Tim is aware of the cost of things and the transience of wealth and status. There’s additional things we can speculate on, like if a young Tim had access to his parents’ money while they’re abroad, and what it would mean if he didn’t - my brain goes back to that anxiety about “re-supplying.” I can picture an 11-year-old Tim in worn out shoes counting down the days his parents pick him up from boarding school so he can ask to buy new ones - you know, things you need to shop for in person, rather than have something shipped to the school - but feeling like he can’t really complain because, well, his parents CAN afford to buy him nice things, he just has to wait.
I think that’s just overall more interesting and unique to Tim, rather than the default Rich Kids Don’t Understand Money trope.
ok sorry I just have to yell about this real quick -
Nightwing (Vol. 2) #139 - The Resurrection of Ra's al Ghul, part 6 Dick: "I let you make the choice for yourself...because I knew you'd make the right one."
Dick didn't know shit, lmao!! "Because I knew you'd make the right one" my ass lol.
Let's rewind two minutes shall we:
Dick: "Tim... Listen... There are no easy answers... But you have the right to make the choice for yourself." || Dick (internal narration): "No-win. If I stop him, I don't trust him. If he goes through with it, I shouldn't have trusted him. C'mon, Tim..."
He doesn't know what choice Tim is going to make, whether his grief will overcome him and he'll take the Lazarus water or not, and has in fact been physically fighting Tim this entire issue to stop him by force. But ultimately he knows it's Tim's right to choose for himself, and decides to hope, and have faith in his brother.
And he has that faith rewarded, and reaffirms it afterward, despite the fact that he wasn't sure.
And paralleling that moment of "yes of course I knew you had it":
Red Robin (2009) #12 Dick: "How'd you know? How did you know I'd be there to save you?" || Tim: "You're my brother, Dick. You'll always be there for me."
TIM DIDN'T KNOW SHIIIIIIIIT HGKLJDKFLSD
At least not consciously! Being caught by Dick is certainly not something he planned for, as he seems to be trying to imply.
Again, rewind:
Tim (internal narration): "I did it. I saved the people he loved. I saved everything he worked so hard to build. No compromises. He won't say anything, he never does. But I know. I know that Bruce will be proud of me. Not a bad day." || Tim: (in the midst of pASSING TF OUT) || Dick: (swoops in and catches him)
Tim may not have actually known that Dick would be there. But that catch... A falling Tim being caught by Dick is a motif that occurs over and over and over across the years of their relationship. Why do I feel like there's a part of Tim, faint as he faded out, and much stronger when he woke up, that went, "Oh, it's Dick - of course if it was anyone, I knew it would be Dick"?
After their conflicts and miscommunications in this arc, after Tim sweeping back into town and explaining not a single thing as he races to thwart Ra's, despite Dick's frustrated pleas, after cutting Dick off with a simple, "Batman...trust me," and Dick's responding, "Of course"....
Tim feeling like he knew, even if he didn't know, or plan, or expect. Because that's his brother. And choosing to express that trust, after Dick chose to trust him...
Just. Dick and Tim. Verbally reaffirming their faith in each other, even after in-the-moment doubts. BROTHERS. My emotions.
tim: i know it’s not my job to fix him but i made it mine anyway. who else is going to do it? who else will lay awake at night wondering if he finally killed himself? wondering how he did it? i can’t sit back and watch as a man prays to be buried next to his son every time he puts on the cowl. he’s sick, and i know he’s sick, and i know that he knows it too, and maybe it’s contagious, maybe i’ll get infected, maybe it’ll kill me, but i can’t let it kill him. if it does then i’m responsible because i could have prevented it. i could have talked him off the ledge. he never wanted a dog but he threw the ball anyway and i’m going to bring it back every single time.
dick: How did you find my apartment
…..So I wanna talk about Jack Drake’s potential for physical abuse.
Because every time I bring up abuse and Tim’s parents someone misunderstands me and gets pissy, I will state upfront and for the record: Jack Drake is abusive, and it doesn’t have to be physical abuse to be abuse. I’m also, like, 85% sure Jack wasn’t intended to be physically abusive in the comics. He is, regardless, incredibly emotionally abusive.
With that out of the way, I want to talk about the potential for Jack to be a physical abuser because there’s just… a few… weird scenes. And I wanna talk about them, because they live rent free in my brain.
Discussion under the cut, because some of the comic images of Jack acting violently are potentially triggering for some people. So like… trigger warning for child abuse.
Keep reading
Tim and Dick talking: A Compilation
Their dialogue is usually that of Tim getting advice from Dick, Tim venting to Dick, or Dick is making sure Tim knows he’s there to listen. There is definitely more than this but I’m only human.
[Robin (1993) #61]
[Robin (1993) #118]
[Robin (1993) #110]
[Robin (1993) #71]
[Robin (1993) #12]
[Nightwing (1996) #97]
[Nightwing (1996) #25]
(Also Dick knows about Ariana and Spoiler which means they talk a lot off-panel too)
[Young Justice (1998) #22]
[Nightwing (1996) #6]
[Robin (1993) #12]
[Robin (1993) #156]
don't care + didn't ask + i see beauty in things you wouldn't even begin to ponder
dick and tim are like this; you are a boy, and you watched your parents be killed. a man has a hand on your back, he leads you away. he raises you, he guides you. you don’t know when he makes you into his dog—you don’t sense much difference. you find it natural to be like this around him. you don’t think he meant to turn you into his dog, you don’t think he wanted a dog, you think he wanted a boy like a dog, but you could not choose what you became. you don’t think he was honest about what he wanted, even to himself, especially to himself. his hand became a guiding rope around your neck, you don’t know when it became a leash. he chains you to him, and you strain strain strain and he pulls pulls pulls. he lets you go or you break free; who’s to say? who saw but you two? god is silent. you leave, and you pretend it doesn’t kill you. he doesn’t call you back so you pretend you wouldn’t come if he did. you pretend you are not lingering by the broken chain. you were made to be a bird, not a dog, but you settle for human and pretend it is what you are.
now there’s a boy, a boy willing to be a dog, to lick the hand that strikes him. he’s eager, and he tracks you down, sniffs at your heels, drags you by the sleeve back to the man. he was there when the man put his hand in your back, he says, he watched the hand become a guiding rope around your neck [he did not see it strangle you], and he admires you [you, and the dog you become, he knows they are seperate and together but not in the way you know they are] and he knows the man must be good, because you stayed with him. he wants you to become that puppy again, you refuse, but you come back, because you have a chance to linger at the broken chain physically this time, and you hold it with both hands. the boy likes graves, or, no, maybe; he reveres the dead more than the living. he honors those left grieving, at least. you know the boy will become the man’s dog soon, will choose him because you did, and so he must be worth it. you cannot tell him the man isn’t, because he will ask, why are you still here then? and you know dogs cannot acknowledge they are dogs, so you do not tell him their master isn’t worth it, and he doesn’t ask.
dick and tim are like this; who can grow me a new brother?
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I’ve heard some people say that they hate the “caffeine addict” Tim head canon but I’d like to remind people that the head canon actually has roots to the comics:
Tim is known to have a lot of sleeplessness due to stress and his perfectionism
We don’t really see a lot of coffee cups lay around the batcave or whatever
But it’s safe to say that he definitely stays up late at night for detective work
If Tim says in a future comic that he’s a “caffeine addict” it wouldn’t be a stretch
I don’t know if fans understood Tim’s character that well that they coincidentally headcanoned him loving coffee but it definitely holds merit
Hopefully this stops unnecessary debates ✌🏼
So here's the thing (well...three things):
One, that coffee panel is one of approximately 3-4 times across the entirety of Tim's appearances that we've seen him buy and/or drink coffee on panel. This is, mind you, despite Tim having a 183-issue solo series as Robin, a 26-issue solo series as Red Robin, and co-starring in both Batman comics and two team books (Young Justice and Teen Titans) regularly for 33 years. It does not, in fact, "have its roots in the comics."
Canonically, Tim enjoys tea (which is coincidentally what he's taking from Alfred in your first panel, if I remember correctly) and loves Zesti soda, which is (more-or-less) the in-universe equivalent of Pepsi:
Tim definitely has sleep issues, but they are not the result of a coffee addiction; rather, they're the result of purposeful, forced late nights to engage in case work. Actually, frankly his chronic "falling asleep in random locations" issue wouldn't be possible if he were a coffee addict.
Canonically, Barbara is the coffee addict of the Batfam, to the point where she has canonically been teased about it. Babs' ever-present coffee cup in her hands and/or next to her computer was a running gag for quite literally years, even in the New 52 era when DC refused acknowledge Oracle existed:
So like...if you want a coffee addict, Babs is right there.
Two, the problem is not necessarily the fanon that Tim loves and is slightly addicted to coffee. The problem is that fanon warps that otherwise harmless headcanon into a personality trait, where Tim's depiction in fandom content revolves around coffee and his love of it. It's obnoxious at the best of times, and significantly worse when it (as it often is) the harbinger of several other fanon!Tim traits. Which of course, brings me to...
Three, the backlash to coffee addict!Tim isn't actually about whether or not he actually likes coffee, but because it's an effective shorthand for all of the stuff that encompasses fanon!Tim, which people in the fandom who actually read comics tend to REALLY dislike. It was a small but obviously noticable thing people could point to that signaled to comic readers that so many fans not only don't read comics but go "fuck reading comics, all my homies hate reading comics," especially when it came to a) characterizing Tim and b) depicting canon events in fan-produced content.
The point is not really "does Tim actually canonically like coffee" or "is there a basis in canon for saying so." The point is "this is a small but very visible sign that you are probably about to encounter a version of Tim Drake written by someone who genuinely has no fucking clue how Tim Drake actually canonically acts, nor do they understand the actual context behind certain canon events and interactions they are about to attempt to depict."
To put it a much simpler way: comic readers think fanon Tim sucks, and fanon!Tim's coffee addiction became a flashpoint for how we talk about our dislike for fanon Tim because it's a very simple and obvious thing people can point to and say "that's simply wrong."
winx club - age order
okay i just spent an egregious amount of time trying to figure out the age order for the winx + the specialists (+ the trix). so alfea (and i'm assuming cloud tower) are three-year academic institutions. since stella is already established to know the specialists (sky, riven, and brandon specifically), we can assume she met them in their collective first years. & since the specialists seem to graduate at the same time as the winx, that means that red fountain likely has a four year run.
since bloom is canonically 16 at the beginning of the show and stella is a year older than her at 17, that makes sky, riven, and brandon all 17 as well. the rest of the winx (flora, musa, tecna, aisha) would also be 16 (since aisha is 17 at her first appearance in s2). we can also assume timmy is 17 since he's already part of the specialist squad and has likely completed at least one year at red fountain.
now, helia is likely a year older than the specialists + stella because he spends some time dropped out of red fountain but then seamlessly joins the specialist squad in s2 -- which would be the specialists' third year at rf. so, in my mind, after completing two years at rf, helia dropped out and then returned after a year. so it should be his fourth year, but instead he's a third year. this would make helia 18 if he appeared in s1.
when nabu is introduced in s3, we aren't given any information about his schooling or anything that would indicate his age, so i'll just assume he's the same age as the og squad of specialists, which would make him 17 at the beginning of the show.
to reiterate, at the beginning of the show, we have: [stella, sky, riven, brandon, timmy, nabu - 17], [bloom, musa, tecna, flora, aisha - 16], and [helia - 18].
now, just to make it more complicated for myself, i'm going to factor in the canon birthdays. assuming everyone who is the same age is born in the same year (and for easier visualization, i'm going to say their birth years are [2004 - s1 age]), here is the age order:
helia - september 2nd, 1986 nabu - january 30, 1987 timmy - february 15, 1987 sky - march 20, 1987 stella - august 18, 1987 brandon - september 23, 1987 riven - october 15, 1987 musa - may 30, 1988 flora - march 1, 1988 aisha - june 15, 1988 bloom - december 10, 1988 tecna - december 16, 1988
this means that in the year that they all graduate from alfea & rf in s3, the ages would be something like: [stella, sky, riven, brandon, timmy, nabu - 19], [bloom, musa, tecna, flora, aisha - 18], and [helia - 20].
and i forgot if this is only in the 4kids dub or canonically mentioned anywhere else, but the trix are apparently 'seniors' (third years at cloud tower) in the winx's first year. and since they all share a birthday (may 5), this would make the trix 18 in s1 and 20 in s3. (in my rewatch of the cinélume dub, i noticed darcy calls icy "little sister," so maybe darcy is older by a couple hours than icy and stormy just seems like she'd be the youngest.)
i like to play around with school-year cut-offs and i don't think each of the characters that share the same age/grade are born in the same year, so my hcs for age order differ from this list. but yeah :) this is what i could work out based on canon information.
Tim Drake had more girlfriends in 25 years than Dick Grayson did in 70, but sure, Dick's the womanizing playboy that takes after Bruce
#and tim cheated pretty much everyone of them too#and now hes canonically bi nothing offensive or stereotypical about that 🙃
Alright no. One, that's not what this post was about; this was not a "Tim's a cheater/playboy" post, this was a "fandom, stop making Dick a womanizer" post. Two, that's false.
There is one instance in which Tim consciously cheated on a girl, and it's this one:
Tim was dating Ariana Dzerchenko at the time and kissed Stephanie after several issues of her...well, to put it bluntly, openly flirting and coming on to him while he repeatedly rebuffed her because he had a girlfriend (Ariana). This is one of two kisses Tim and Steph shared before he broke up with Ariana (or rather...she broke up with him).
Yes, it was a shitty and stupid thing to do; yes, Tim should be roundly criticized for how he handled the whole thing. However, three things should be noted: one, Ariana kind-of cheated on him first. Their relationship was pretty unstable from the beginning; she was upset that Tim was never around and went on a date with another guy to Prove a Point™ (also, don't say Steph wouldn't have started dating Tim if she knew he was dating someone else. She knew he had a girlfriend; he'd told her on multiple occasions...the first time notably after the aforementioned cheating issue and Steph 'surprise kissed' him for the first time):
Two, the situation is way more complicated than people like to make it out to be. Tim and Ari were on a break and had agreed to be "just friends" when things truly started heating up between Tim and Steph (or rather, they'd been forcibly broken up by Ariana's family when she was sent off to a girl's school).
The tl;dr convoluted chain of events is this: Tim and Ariana break up, Ariana gets sent off to another school->stuff starts heating up with Steph, but they don't actually get together-> Tim and Ari get back together for like...three weeks??? in the aftermath of Cataclysm->Tim kisses Steph->Tim immediately goes home and tries to write a break-up letter to Ari (which was a dick move), only for Ariana to promptly break up with him the next day because she's "not ready to be serious"->Tim gets together properly with Steph. It's a big, messy, complicated event that's way more nuanced than "Tim knowingly cheated on his girlfriend just because."
Three, Tim cheating on Ari was portrayed as shitty and Tim knew it, hence why he broke up with Ariana pretty much immediately afterwards. It's also never happened since.
To my knowledge, Tim has never cheated on anyone else. Every other time that "cheating" has happened, it's been "Tim is forcibly kissed or sexually assaulted by someone while the narrative either ignores what's actually happening or treats it as somewhat consensual and 'cool' because 'hey...men always want sex, right?'"
Darla? Tim didn't want that:
That kiss put Tim and Steph on the rocks until Steph's death in War Games because Steph saw it, but like...the comic is very clear that Tim didn't knowingly cheat on Steph, and he pushed Darla away pretty much immediately:
Bette Kane/Flamebird? Also a forced kiss:
Tim and Cissie's kiss when Cissie left the team? Tim didn't know it was going to happen and it was more because Cissie wanted to make a Statement™ than anything:
I can pull up more examples.
And as for the disaster that was the New 52 Teen Titans run....we ARE going to acknowledge that Tim was being controlled by Trigon, right? Like....the Tim-Cassie-Solstice drama happened when Tim was under mind control.
Yes, Tim's had several love interests (yes, more than Dick). No, he's not a womanizing playboy who cheats on his girlfriends either (would you like to talk about Nightwing Annual #2? No one really does, because it's the epitome of a shitty OOC comic, but if you want to talk about cheating, we can certainly talk about cheating). So no, he's not a "cheating bi" stereotype nor is Tim coming out as bisexual offensive. Thanks and goodnight.
that being said it is also somewhat amusing to me that businesswoman-who-is-the-true-leader-of-drake-industries janet drake is super pervasive when in canon the only time we see her do any sort of business stuff jack basically tells her "no we're gonna do what i want instead" with the business and then they do what jack wants.
actually, i do want to touch on this a bit more because i do think that janet being the true leader of drake industries is actually a very incorrect read that is actually completely contrary to and basically not possible given what we know about jack as a character.
so. in order for janet to the true leader of drake industries before her death the following has to be true
jack has to be able to respect a woman as a leader (respect women in general, actually)
jack has to be the kind of man who would be okay with consistently deferring to his wife's judgement (especially about matters regarding his company - because DI is his company, let's be clear)
you can start to see where the argument fall apart, because neither of these things are true about jack at all. because, you know, jack is a sexist. and jack being a sexist is actually a pretty core and important part of his character because it's, like, the first characteristic that we're told about him when janet makes the comment "sexism dear? and here i thought you were liberated." like. literally. she's calling out his sexist views. it's one of those things where she's supposedly 'teasing', but there's such an obvious kernel of truth based on how he's acting and what he's saying. he does hold incredibly sexist world views.
and the only time we see them interact in a business sense (when they're going to haiti in rite of passage), it's incredibly clear that jack does not do either of those things. remember, they're in haiti because jack wants them to be in haiti. it's clear in detective comics #618 that they've had an argument about where they should go and regardless of what janet wanted or what she thought was the more prudent business decision, they are going to haiti because that is what jack has decided they're going to do. it's clear from this exchange that janet actually has very little power to make decisions in the company. jack just overrides her. we also get this tidbit, which i find very telling.
uh. the man does not listen to her. he does not care to even read the files she prepares. this makes it very clear how much he disregards her with regards to company matters, how much he doesn't care about her opinion. it is very much the case they do what jack wants regardless of what janet thinks or wants. it is very clear that she is not the one in charge.
(*i am deliberately not touching on the racism of rite of passage. i know it's there, i know it's bad. i don't like it. but this is solely about how jack treats janet's contributions to the company. which is not well.)
but jack lost the company, you might say. obviously the only reason drake industries survived for so long is because janet was keeping it afloat because of how incompetent of a business leader jack is. to which i say:
he's really not as bad as you think. honestly. remember: after his coma he brought drake industries back from a very precarious position on his own. he managed the company very well in the comics from the early 90s to 2002. he kept it afloat through contagion, cataclysm, and no man's land. he was a known risk taker (even with haiti he had a penchant for wanting to do the riskier venture), for sure, and ended up losing his money and the company due to some bad investments in the end, but him being more of a risk taker doesn't necessarily mean he's objectively bad at leading a business (and he's not, considering he does quite well for a number of years after his wife's death). it just means he's more of a risk taker, and he paid the ultimate price for being more of a risk taker.
but he got scammed by those guys after cataclysm!
i don't know what to tell you. this is not mutually exclusive with him running a company/being a decent businessman. shouldn't current events prove to you that businessmen aren't infallibly intelligent men who could never possibly get scammed on a personal level or make terrible decisions?
now, i do buy the argument that janet probably did have a better head than him! they probably should have gone to jamaica, she wasn't wrong lmao. she was probably more prudent, more risk averse, and probably was able to curb some of jack's worst impulses sometimes with drake industries. jack is, after all, able to let himself be convinced by dana on certain things when he feels like letting himself be convinced of her viewpoint. but her having the better head doesn't mean she led the company. by and large jack is not the type of man who would sit back and let his wife run his company or make all the business decisions. it is his company. he's not going to let his wife run it. what he says, goes. he is the final arbiter on company decisions. janet is not the dominant one in charge, jack hapless to her whims and decisions. who jack is as a character specifically refutes this idea. jack is the dominant one. jack is the one who dismisses her thoughts and contributions. this is a huge part of their marital discord, his complete lack of respect for janet as his partner.
can i bring a small curious piece from a nearby series that adds to the idea that Jack is a pretty good businessman and really likes to make risky decisions?
in Green Arrow #87 Oliver Queen kills Simon Lamoreaux, the head of one of the New Orleans’ mafia families and in GA #88 you can see this frame.
these two issues were released in '94, due to the sliding timeline it's been maximum half year since Jack woke up from his coma and survived the 2nd kidnapping. he's still in a wheelchair. considering the ableism of the '90s, especially in big business circles fused to the criminal, Jack is, well, not the most impressive figure😬 but still, he manages to quickly organize the capture of a large company owned by the mafia. and i'm sure that Jack, who grew up in a corrupt Gotham, knows exactly who owns the company and what the consequences of a failed attempt to cross the path of the mafia can lead to.