felix culpa

인연이라면 다시 만나겠죠 Semi-AU | Sentimental Mode | Gen/Lit AIM: dopeminz RP account

[dirty-minzy]

And all of a sudden I’m missing you again, even though it’s almost 5 years since we first met, and 4 years since you have disappeared for good. Wherever you are at right now, I hope the best for you. 

[fyminzy]

(160617) MRKT5 Grand Opening

[prettyboynightwing]

#GiveCaptainAmericaABoyfriend - Part Two [Part One]

[jeeno2]

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I will miss this family so much.

[taehyungmusic]

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G-Eazy – “Me, Myself & I (feat. Bebe Rexha)” 　When It’s Dark Out (2015)

[dirty-minzy]

Just wanna say that Civil War is so awesome and I'm so looking forward to the tumblr rampage about Rogers-Stark otp cuz there's so much tension between the two of them in the movie. But generally the movie is damn awesome with so many funny parts to the extent that the crowd in the theatre were clapping after the reenactment of a scene of Empire Strikes Back.

[suerotoninarchived-deactivated2]

dirty-minzy:

How long has it been since we last hung out, really? I actually lost count of time when I went on such a long hiatus from work. -sighs softly but perks up immediately after that so as not to spoil the mood- Sounds like our Sujiboo is doing really well these days! What have you been doing other than studying to be a descendant of the sun nurse? Do you happen to have a significant other whom I should be meeting soon? -wiggles an eyebrow playfully towards her friend- We will do clubbing another day, with Dara unnie and any others whom we can find. -nods to herself- Recently I have taken a liking for macchiato. How about you?

More than a year, that’s for sure. ( ; she’s quick to notice the slight change in the other’s expression, but like her friend, she opts to keep things buoyant for the same reason ) Huuhuu, when you put it like that, I feel like I’ve accomplished so much. It means a lot hearing from an old pal, I only wish to make you proud! ( ; the other’s ‘jest’ warrants them a snicker from her, quick to detect the reference they’ve made ) Definitely, studying real hard to be a DOTS nurse. And uhm…erm— significant other… he-he… ( ; a faint blush dusts her cheeks as she waves a hand out of shyness ) I’ll tell you all about them next time! But for now, I would really want to hear about you. I mean aside from work related things, have you been doing alright? And your pets too—aaah! To answer you though, I’m leaning towards the tea-lattes lately and I think I’d opt for the green tea one right now.

[dirty-minzy]

Ah... It has been really, really long isn’t it.. I’m glad that we still remember each other despite drifting apart for so long -smiles widely- I believe you have accomplished a lot, because our Sujiboo is a hardworking person! May your significant other be someone as upright and funny and handsome like Big Boss! I had enjoyed watching that drama so much. What about you? -notices her friend’s slight blushing and chuckles softly- We shall talk about that soon, eh? I want to hear all the details! It’s pretty much just me and my pets, because you know, I’ve mellowed quite a bit over the years after all that had happened. Human relationships are so hard to maintain, when I can’t decipher the signs well. I would rather stick to the small group of old friends, but so many have drifted away so you can say I’m trying to get as many as I can back? That includes you too, Sujiboo. -uses her free hand to pat her friend’s hand- Green tea lattes are my go-to drinks when I’m not in the mood for coffee. Good choice! Shall we go then?

[suerotoninarchived-deactivated2]

stay healthy @dirty-minzy

It is only right to explain, Suji-ah. -leans her head towards her friend’s and knocked against it lightly with a smile on her face- What is tiredness when I get to hang out with my Sujiboo? I can even hit the club if I want, but it’s not a suitable place to do some proper catching up. -purses her lips slightly while she thinks of a location- Hmm.. Starbucks then? It’s like the only 24-hr cafe that I can think of, other than the convenience stores.  

( ; the simple gesture causes her to smile to grow whilst her hold of the other’s arm tightens for a subtle squeeze ) You’re right though. I can’t really argue with that- plus the fact that it’s a loooooong while since the last time we hung out. Clubbing though— eep! I feel like I’ll catch the media’s attention soon, now that I’m spending a lot of time with my idol friends. Nonetheless, if it is you, I don’t see a problem at all with it… but perhaps another time… because… coffee… ( ; perks up and nods eagerly ) Mm! That would do- but do tell first, what is your favourite drink? He-he.

[dirty-minzy]

How long has it been since we last hung out, really? I actually lost count of time when I went on such a long hiatus from work. -sighs softly but perks up immediately after that so as not to spoil the mood- Sounds like our Sujiboo is doing really well these days! What have you been doing other than studying to be a descendant of the sun nurse? Do you happen to have a significant other whom I should be meeting soon? -wiggles an eyebrow playfully towards her friend- We will do clubbing another day, with Dara unnie and any others whom we can find. -nods to herself- Recently I have taken a liking for macchiato. How about you?

[dirty-dara]

@dirty-minzy

That took you REALLY long actually. Where are the drinks??

I got some soju in the fridge but I don’t think 10 bottles won’t be enough for the likes of you. Hmp. Where are the chips???

[dirty-minzy]

I wasn’t planning to drink /that/ much please. -rolls eyes- I was kinda craving for fried chicken actually but well, I do have a packet of Lays -toss it to you-

[dirty-dara]

I'm not on mobile wow congratulate me for the effort!!! -flops out-

I feel the L-O-V-E

[dirty-minzy]

That took you REALLY long actually. Where are the drinks??

[suerotoninarchived-deactivated2]

Yes I'm going to keep you company, even though this came a little bit too late.-sticks out a bit of her tongue sheepishly- I was out for the whole day for some errands and stuff, you see. We shall go to your favourite cafe for coffee then, shall we?

Aaaaaah, no need for excuses please. ( ; a playful nudge is given to her friends side before linking arms with hers in an endearing fashion ) Doing errands? You must be tired huuu. Perhaps the nearest cafe then - as I wouldn’t want to wear you out further. Besides, coffee is coffee. Any kind would do for me. 

[dirty-minzy]

It is only right to explain, Suji-ah. -leans her head towards her friend’s and knocked against it lightly with a smile on her face- What is tiredness when I get to hang out with my Sujiboo? I can even hit the club if I want, but it’s not a suitable place to do some proper catching up. -purses her lips slightly while she thinks of a location- Hmm.. Starbucks then? It’s like the only 24-hr cafe that I can think of, other than the convenience stores.  

[dirty-minzy]

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[kimmram]

Jiyongi bare face IS LOVE.

[karynchaotic-deactivated2016082]

if you see someone active on social media or something, and you message them, and they don’t reply, they don’t have to. just because they are awake and alive does not mean they have to engage with you whenever you want them to. you are not entitled to someone else’s time. 

in the past, an abuser would see me post online and then hound me on aim until i answered. i felt like i had to hide. they also lived in my building and would pound on my door if they saw me online and i wasn’t responding to them. i had to completely ditch a screenname, lie about having skype, and turn off my phone to hide. if i saw they were online i couldn’t post on facebook or interact with anyone without them demanding to interact with me. the only legitimate excuse not to talk to them was being asleep. in their eyes, if i were really their friend, i would always want to engage no matter what, even if i had a migraine or work to do or wasn’t feeling very social. it didn’t matter. 

please do not do this. if someone doesn’t write you back, don’t guilt them about where they are or what they’re doing. if you see someone posting on tumblr or facebook and they aren’t signed into aim or google or skype or whatever, that’s their business. if they are signed on but don’t write you back, it’s okay. sometimes people can’t talk to everyone all the time every time. some people can only talk to one person at a time without getting overloaded. some people are signed on in case someone needs to contact them with something important and not to be social. they’re not always hiding from you, and you shouldn’t make them feel like they HAVE to hide from you.

this is probably jumbled and i’m probably missing a lot here, but pressuring people to always be available to you every hour of the day and always answer the phone or text or chat or pm or whatever…if you require that of someone, you might need to take a step back.

[dirty-minzy]

I do know once I force myself to stop emailing you, eventually I will forget about you too. But right now, after knowing that you have went away, I'm still sad. Very sad. 

A recent friend who heard about your significance in my life had told me that I gotta cut you off because it's as though I still can't get over you. But JFC, our episodes were over 2 years ago.. Though out of so many people here whom I've known, you are like the only one whom I really want to keep in contact with (other than Dara and Lousiar).

I don't know.. I still miss you. 

[dirty-minzy]

You seem familiar, did you used to know a yixing long ago?

Yeah i do. He used to be an admin in the rp i was in?

[dirty-minzy]