The Aches and Pains of a Distant Lover.

[cannibalchicken]

[letsblogwithmama]

let's run around mama

[overclassy]

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[perfectquote]

“But I must admit I miss you terribly. The world is too quiet without you nearby.”

— Lemony Snicket

[watchhisjawdrop]

Wherever you are, I hope you have a beary good week 🐻‍❄️🐻🐼♥️

[vintagepromotions]

Napkin featuring an illustration of a cat playing on a piano (c. 1950).

[sakeofpower]

[vexheart]

[disasterousbeautifulme]

Setting boundaries with friends is hard. I had 3 back to back to back phone conversations that were an hour long with friends complaining about their parents, their partner, their job

At what point do you just say "I don't care, I absolutely do not care."

[noahverrier]

My oil painting of Martini and Uncrustable

[remanence-of-love]

[iveadelheidenough]

Allowing myself to re-ignite my love for my old hobbies!

Hell yes I'm gonna bake things just for fun and I am going to let myself get messy and let things not be perfect because it's the joy that matters not a performance. I am going to go to ballet classes that are casual and just for fun and I am going to enjoy moving my body and meeting new people and it doesn't matter how good I am what matters is making my body, heart and soul feel good. I am going to re-open my piano and play it again and let the music express my emotions and feel proud of myself when I enjoy what I play and not beat myself up if I make a mistake because I am trying and I am enjoying myself and that is what matters.

Re-claim and re-ignite the things you feel passionate for! The things that bring you joy and reward your mind, body and soul matter! You don't need to be perfect to love the things you do and to do them!

[frachella]

[disasterousbeautifulme]

Sleeping like shit because you keep having nightmares fucking sucks.

I've had nightmares about literally my entire life lately. My partners, my family, my friends, my exes, high school, college, work; the list goes on. If it's happened in my life, I've had a nightmare about it in the last week.

It's insane that our body deals with stress in different ways. Mine manifests into nightmares, other people smoke or drink, some people just doom scroll.

Hoping everyone reading this is having good sleep and isn't having nightmares. 🖤

[emkaymlp]

please no halloween posts just yet. there’s still 2 months left

[blelbinems-deactivated20190925]

did someone say halloween

[royaleomens]

ITS JANUARY

[disasterousbeautifulme]

Taking care of yourself is literally the hardest thing we ever have to do as humans. Making sure everyone else is fine? So easy.

I've been living in my depression pit of a room in many different stages essentially my entire life at my parents'house. I decided last week that I was going to start breaking down the pit a little bit every single day. My mom is actively dying of addiction that resulted in cancer so going through the entire house and purging is healing.

Today, I hung a few things up on the wall that I took down after rearranging furniture over a year ago. Instead of staring at barren walls, I finally have a little piece of me again. I lit a candle that I hand poured last January that smells like mulled cider and now I'm just sitting here with tears in my eyes and a little bit of love for myself and knowing that healing is possible today and it can be found in the smallest moments of our lives.

Take care of yourself, friends.

[catchymemes]

[oceantoyz]