What is your opinion on radqueers? (Coming from someone who is personally anti radqueer, just curious)
honestly it depends because not all radqueer TransIDs are bad, theyre kinda just glorified Xenogenders
but Transage, Transrace, Transdisabled (and its variants) are just- odd
like transage- if ur a legal adult “transage” into minor youre a bit creepy. you can be an age regressor theres no issue with that.
and if ur a minor “trans adult” youre BEGGING to be groomed omg. “but she said she was 22!!!!!” like omg-
transrace is- no. u cant change ur race, and why would u want to? its either internalized racism or wanting to be oppressed without the real struggle
and TRANSDISABLED?????? HELLO???? honestly if u think ur transdisabled in anyway DW BESTIE!!!! i think youre “cis disabled” or wtv- cuz holy shit dawg.
with that being said, i do have a blog where i pretend to be TRANSDID for the fun of it
You don't seem to understand the actual reasons why people use those transids!!!
first of all with transage, why is it creepy if a chronoadult is transage to a child, but not if they age regress?? just because it feels off to you doesn't mean there's actually anything wrong with it, yk? I understand having a disgust reaction, but that's no reason to judge harmless people
saying that being transage to older is begging for grooming feels VERY victim blamey. It's the same type of argument as saying that women shouldn't wear revealing clothing lest someone consider that an invitation for SA. If someone treats transageness as an excuse to groom someone, that's THEIR problem, THEIR fault, not the victim's
with transrace, I'm not transrace myself, but the standard experience seems to be very very similar to transgender. (I'm assuming it's the same brain mechanism's for stereotypical transgender and stereotypical trace). Yeah sure using that reasoning you can't change your sex either, but why should that matter? (also race is far more socially constructed than sex and gender, let's be honest). Also, your arguments directly mirror TERF arguments (transmascs = internalised misogyny, transfems = wanting to gain access to female oppression)
Sorry if I'm understanding this wrong, but did you just imply that identifying as transdisabled is caused by having some sort of disability with a negative connotation? I hope I'm misunderstanding because that just sounds really ableist.
People can have a large array of different experiences that you can't understand, and that's beautiful! Even if it's not something you can understand yourself, that's no reason to not respect it!!
age regression isn’t saying “yea im technically 25 but i identify at 15” and no if a 14 yr old identifies as a 20 yr old and gets groomed, they asked for it. theyre the one lying about their age
transgender isn’t about changing sex, its changing gender, two different things so transrace is nowhere near close to transgender
and how is it ableist to say transdisabled ppl are disabled isnt that ehat yall wanted? if anything im affirming it with my statement
yes ppl can have different experiences, but these are legit children or chronically online mentally ill adults who have the maturity of a child
That's not what being transage is either. Like ok, as an example, are you ok with headmates in a system having a different intra age to the body's age?
Lying about your age is a completely different situation than being transage. If someone lied about their (chrono) age to have sexual contact with a (chrono) adult, then obviously it's not the adult's fault and isn't inherently grooming (grooming is a manipulation thing, not just a synonym for minor/adult relationship) (of course, someone could groom someone else thinking they're a chrono adult, chrono adults can get groomed too. or someone could get groomed into doing that or whatever). But identifying as a certain age is a completely separate thing from lying about your (chrono) age to get access to certain sexual contact? It's accepted within large parts of the transid community that chrono age does matter for romantic/sexual relationships.
There's some transgender/transsexual people that are talking more about it as changing sex. Genitalia are more of a sex thing than a gender thing yk, and that's a common enough transition.
But even ignoring that, would it help you to understand if you separated race (the social construct) from skin tone (observable reality)? (or ancestry or facial features or whatever else you're focusing on).
The implication I got from your comment was that being transabled is delusional or something along those lines, however I recognise that I may have read too much into that.
What's wrong with being a child? Genuinely, how is being a child an insult or an excuse to disrespect someone?
headmates in a system with different ages is involuntary
Chrono adults getting with minors is grooming, and so is a chrono minor lying to an adult to get a relationship, and also putting themselves in a situation to get groomed by giving the perpetrators plausible deniability
yes obviously some trans people transition in more Sex based rather than social based ways, doesnt disqualify the point i made
Race is a social construct around your skin tone and ancestry you cant just ignore that, plus what does that even mean in context? a transrace person is just gonna act stereotypical?
i was calling transabled delusional, there are people (myself included) who suffer with mental and physical disabilities, if u actually think you can just pretend to be disabled for whatever reason and be apart of a community ur probably actually mentally disabled. and i mean that with such sincerity.
and finally “whats wrong with being a child” Nothing unless ur an adult pretending to be one