Alpha Woman Unable To Love

A is for Ally !!! | I'm barely here anymore. Mostly posts ace discourse memes and occasional thoughts now, but sparingly. Mid-20s. Ex-little. Cishet aces aren't LGBT, end of story.

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I haven’t been on here but I have a genuine questions: why are aces saying they’re being threatened w/ conversion therapy solely for being ace

Is that what we’re doing now??

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It’s 2020

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This is now gonna be a fandom disc horse blog

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Pan and bi are the same thing what are y’all smoking

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Y do so many straight cis ppl on here wanna be oppressed?? Isdgi....

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One thing that was really funny about the early days of ace disk horse was when cishet asexuals chimed in on whether or not bisexual people could say ‘I’m gay’

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There was a whole shoplifting fandom and she keeps trying to spin it ass ‘some people need expensive things for certain jobs!!’ when one minute in that tag proved to you no one was doing it for that reason!! Like am I taking crazy pills or?!

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I understand and agree most shoplift to survive but as I’ve said before it’s pretty preposterous to say absolutely no one shoplifts for the thrill of it! A close relative of mine (I know this sounds so ‘I have an XYZ friend’) did that shit, it’s not like it doesn’t happen!! I think those people need therapy but they’re not all broke individuals trying to survive, that simply isn’t true!!

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Maybe I’m just taking things to literally but when people like in the Pacific Northwest I kinda have to

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there are so many funny mogai identities but “demiromantic” is severely underrated as one of the funniest

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i’m alloromantic. i don’t need any emotional attachment to be in love with someone. i once proposed to the woman standing in line behind me at the DMV

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kinda wonder how many people on who equate LGBT ace exclusionists with T/ERFs realize that the “exclusionary” part of the latter is a big understatement. If all T/ERFs were doing was trying to split off the LGBT community into LGB and T communities that would still be shitty, but orders of magnitude less awful than what they’ve been doing for over 4 decades.

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Honey

Wtf do you think ace exclusionists do?

THAT is what you are missing… that ace exclusionists ARE VIOLENT

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sorry I must have missed that part of history where ace exclusionists showed up to ace events armed with guns for an assassination attempt, spent years with right wingers to explicitly deny ace people health care, wrote a bunch of op eds in the New York Times calling aces rapists, doxxed someone to harass their doctor in attempt to deny healthcare(for calling them a fake goth on twitter) and passed laws where ace people could no longer use the bathroom without being arrested…

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Like honestly if you’re one of those people who thinks “violence” means not making an effort to include someone in a community they’ve historically never been a part of because without a sense of community they might be depressed or not have access to completely hypothetical intangible resources just shut up.

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Janice Raymond, a TERF, was singlehandedly responsible for decades of denial of health care directed at impoverished trans people in the United States. Raymond (a women’s studies professor at U/Mass Amherst) wrote a position paper in 1980 – “Technology on the Social and Ethical Aspects of Transsexual Surgery” (content warning: transmisogyny) – that strongly influenced the US federal government’s decision to exclude medically necessary care for trans people from Medicaid coverage for the next three decades.

More recently, Cathy “Bug” Brennan – an American attorney whose day job is as a partner at a law firm that primarily focuses on defending predatory lenders – has used the Internet to coordinate a campaign to doxx and harass any trans woman who expresses feminist opinions online. She has also harassed a few trans men (including outing a minor as trans to his school administrators). Brennan, despite identifying as a lesbian, has also collaborated with right-wing fundamentalist, homophobic organizations in order to prevent trans high school students from being treated fairly.

TERFs have advocated for conversion therapy (example, “The kind of counseling to “pass” successfully as masculine or feminine that now reigns in gender identity clinics only reinforces the problem of transsexualism. It does nothing to develop critical awareness, and makes transsexuals dependent upon medical-technical solutions. What I am advocating is a counseling that explores the social origins of the transsexual problem and the consequences of the medicaltechnical solution.”, Janice Raymond).

They’re frequently applauded by, share similar views as, or even colaborate with the far-right, neo-Nazi’s included (formerly mentioned Raymond colaborated with right-wing conservatives including Jesse Helms, for instance, and known alt-right speaker Milo Yiannopoulos word-for-word uses their arguments when speaking of trans women), all in the name of increasing legal and interpersonal transgender discrimination and hostility.

To compare people who think not feeling sexual attraction doesn’t make one lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender and thus not LGBT and not entitled to LGBT people’s resources (without denying them any personal freedoms), to people who have been actively lobbying and fighting for transgender extermination, and insist they’re even REMOTELY as violent, is spitting in the face of transgender people, as it actively undermines the threat TERFs are.

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My bff: Will Byers is ace!

Me, internally because I don’t wanna get Into It:

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Almost every time I joke a generally anxious character is gay she’s projects and is like ‘but not ace??’

So you’re inadvertently admitting you’re not gay, cool!!!!!

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There was a whole shoplifting fandom and she keeps trying to spin it ass ‘some people need expensive things for certain jobs!!’ when one minute in that tag proved to you no one was doing it for that reason!! Like am I taking crazy pills or?!

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I understand and agree most shoplift to survive but as I’ve said before it’s pretty preposterous to say absolutely no one shoplifts for the thrill of it! A close relative of mine (I know this sounds so ‘I have an XYZ friend’) did that shit, it’s not like it doesn’t happen!! I think those people need therapy but they’re not all broke individuals trying to survive, that simply isn’t true!!

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Maybe I’m just taking things to literally but when people like in the Pacific Northwest I kinda have to

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My bff: Will Byers is ace!

Me, internally because I don’t wanna get Into It:

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There was a whole shoplifting fandom and she keeps trying to spin it ass ‘some people need expensive things for certain jobs!!’ when one minute in that tag proved to you no one was doing it for that reason!! Like am I taking crazy pills or?!

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I understand and agree most shoplift to survive but as I’ve said before it’s pretty preposterous to say absolutely no one shoplifts for the thrill of it! A close relative of mine (I know this sounds so ‘I have an XYZ friend’) did that shit, it’s not like it doesn’t happen!! I think those people need therapy but they’re not all broke individuals trying to survive, that simply isn’t true!!

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There was a whole shoplifting fandom and she keeps trying to spin it ass ‘some people need expensive things for certain jobs!!’ when one minute in that tag proved to you no one was doing it for that reason!! Like am I taking crazy pills or?!

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And again, seemingly going out of your way to keep defending what is most definitely needless shoplifting is a little 👀

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There was a whole shoplifting fandom and she keeps trying to spin it ass ‘some people need expensive things for certain jobs!!’ when one minute in that tag proved to you no one was doing it for that reason!! Like am I taking crazy pills or?!

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Isn’t any surprise the person writing all this is a blonde white woman who live in the Pacific Northwest

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Now people are rbing the post (and because of the conveniently vague wording) thinking she means people stealing as a mean to survive…….hm weird 🙄…………………

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Now she’s saying doing any crime for the sake of rebellion is foolish (at least, that’s what I read it as)…but we’re the bootlickers, hoooookay

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Having to keep reiterating ‘no one shoplifts just because’ with the same three points seems like a way of you admitting there is a small portion of people who do it for some kind of lack of thrill in their life and etc.

It you keep repeating the same three points and covering your ears when presented with information that’s not denying what you’re saying is true, simply that you’re not telling the whole story, you’re not a good debater.

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It’s 2019 start realizing if you’re actually LGBT+ you’d already be included in most design sets and also that no one is required to comply with what cishets and their supporters want