Jade&Preston's Mama

Raising my children through mindfulness and spirituality

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My Relationship with the Earth as I Have Blossomed into My New Self

It’s no secret that there is a lot of suffering right now. If we suffer, the Earth suffers. Vice versa. But there’s also a lot of love being given that has created a shift on this planet.

I was a born and raised Long Island girl, loving the beach. When I started my self love journey I didn’t realize how many fears I would start to overcome that directly affected my connection with the Earth. Some fears no one knew about, and some fears only some people close to me can justify lol. One major fear was being terrified of bugs, basically all of them. 

When I was 21 I had a convertible, that I parked under a tree in front of my house. Spiders decided to live in it, that I would find at least 5 spiders in my car a night. I found a pregnant one above my sun visor. The ANXIETY I would feel was unreal. I was nervous to drive my car distracted and multiple times had to pull over to take my shoe and kill them. 

When I was 26, with a newborn daughter my husband and I found a huge wolf spider in our bathroom sink of our bug ridden apartment. I screamed and ran out for my husband to destroy it. Which to this day I KNOW God/ the universe placed in my life to bring up all my fears, so I was able to release them.

I was so anxious in that apartment because I had no idea what bug I would be faced with next. I mean SERIOUSLY. We had wasps, huge flies, a centipede crawl across our wall in the middle of the night, cluster flies, spiders nesting in our blinds, and other creepy crawly things that made me face my worst fears. Most days alone with an infant. 

I hated walking barefoot in grass, afraid I was going to step on some insect that would bite or sting me, because when I was little I stepped on a bee that stung me and left a traumatic experience within me. 

My number 1 bug fear was bees/ wasps. Didn’t matter if it was a honey bee or a hornet. I was TERRIFIED. I would run in circles, I would dodge any buzzing sound. It was such a flight or fight reaction that I could not control myself. 

In my apartment in Stamford, CT a huge black bug, that I still to this day think was a hornet was in my bedroom. I called Thomas, who I had just started dating at the time to come kill it, but he ended up working late, so I slept in my kitchen that night. 

When I was in our bug ridden apartment we had queen wasps in our house everyday for about two weeks. I had to call Thomas’s grandma to come kill it for me. She brought me a fly swatter and some spray. Let me tell you, I needed to be in another room to even handle it that most days I would leave the house until Thomas got home to kill it. 

Thomas was my warrior because he can literally take them with his hands and kill them or throw them outside. I was always wide-eyed like WTF. 

When we moved to North Carolina I was hit with a wake up call to how many bugs I would be facing everyday. I did not want my daughter to experience the life I had lived being terrified of bugs most of my life. So I started the process of TAKING MY POWER BACK. 

I was faced with carpenter bees first. I still am not a fan of those mother f**kers. They are somewhat of a pest because they nest in your wood, but honestly they are harmless. 

When I moved here I can tell you my favorite website was the bug encyclopedia of North Carolina. I have learned so much about bugs, its fascinating. Most wasps I can identify at this point and tell you how they live, what they’re for and what they eat. I would actually now consider them one of my animal totems because they’ve taken up so much focus in my life.

In the past two years, I know respect bugs and have created a relationship with them. I’m not at the level of picking them up with my hands, but those fears of flight have mostly left. I LEAN INTO any discomfort, knowing it’s just helping me heal. I’m actually thinking at some point of getting a bee hive because honey  bees are just such beautiful creatures.

My daughter is not afraid of bees, she actually says hi to the carpenter bees when they fly in her face. I am not on that level yet, but watching her creates a peace within me to continue to move forward in any residual fears.

Because of this huge shift within me, I now purposefully walk barefoot in my yard, connecting my feet with the dirt and grass. - It’s highly beneficial for our bodies as the electromagnetic forces (energy) flows up our body.

I am gardening with ease and enjoyment, without fearing what bugs I will come across next. That mode of “security” is an illusion. We can notice how we do this in all areas of life. 

I’m able to have a higher understanding as to why an animal or insect is crossing my path in that moment. To give me a message, guidance to help me move forward. 

I’m able to love flowers and walk through gardens and enjoy their scents. When before, I was running because bees and wasps loved flowers. 

I’ve also noticed, when you relax into it, the “scary ones” are no where to be found. My property is a safe haven. I have no ant mounds, I have no big nests, I have no black widows. It’s a very peaceful and safe place for my family. 

My respect has been found within me for myself, for all animals, insects, nature, plants and the Earth. As I continue this Internal Journey I know I will create a deeper relationship as I take those steps to be more sustainable and purposeful in all of my actions. 

I know connect with the moon, sun and other planets with purpose. God is all that is, it’s everything. It was created for us because it is us. The more we understand that, the more we can live into our best self, for our highest purpose. To love. 

Self healing creates a beautiful life.

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How to stay consistent in my daily spiritual practices

I go with the flow. I’ve been through a lot these past 6 weeks and the one thing I’ve done no matter what is going on around me is stay grounded in my connection to the universe. Most of my time has been taken up with rest & healing, breastfeeding, eating, drinking, and sleeping. During those times I get a little break, usually less than 10 mins. I slowly add things back into my routine without judgement of any changes. I’ve been using my breastfeeding time to meditate when I’m not giving attention to anything else. Meditation and daydreaming are so important to stay connected to who you are and manifesting your dreams. I think women tend to get postpartum depression (sometimes not always) because they don’t stay connected to themselves and get overwhelmed with the sudden demanding changes in their life. 

Self-love and has to be a #1 priority to be able to efficiently do everything else. Trust yourself on what you can handle, don’t let others take your power. You need to be confident, and consistently work on it until you get there. Don’t be hard on yourself, or put unnecessary pressure. Everything takes time, but will get there if you keep it a priority. 

The reason I work with women is because as a mom we tend to put everyone else first in our family to make sure they’re taken care of. When your children are babies they require so much that we seem to lose ourselves thinking the child’s needs are more important, but this is not true, this is how we burn ourselves out. It becomes a habit after that point, until there’s no return and we forget those self-caring habits that make us feel so good. So I’m here to teach women how to add those little, powerful tools to stay connected, be confident, release anxiety, doubt, stress and add self-love to be able to live fully, love life and give as much love possible to those around us. Cheers to being a new mom and adding that much more responsibility without losing myself! Love, light and blessings <3

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What is Spiritual Counseling and could it benefit you?

Are you depressed?

Do you worry a lot?

Do you have anxiety often? 

Do you need help with stress management?

Would you prefer another form of healing rather than medication? Or in combination with?

Are you interested in meditation, but having trouble getting started learning how to be still, or understanding how it works?

Do you have feelings of lack-of-self, judgements, shame or insecurities?

Are you interested in leading a more natural way of life, but don’t know where to start or the next step?

Are you looking to find your purpose? Or need help figuring out your next step and following your path?

Are you curious about alternative healing practices such as Reiki, crystals, herbs, astrology, moon cycles or how nature affects us?

If you answered yes to any of these things you may want to reach out to have a conversation. My one-on-one spiritual counseling will help you with one or all of these things. I use therapy and different natural healing modalities to get you living in your true happiness with confidence and peace in your heart. Too often we put other things before our own wellbeing, not allowing us to fully live to our true potential. Life is short, being happy in the moment is the best gift we are given.

I also offer additional practices that help outside of counseling sessions, such as Reiki healing for balancing and relaxation. Group meditations are great for consistent self care. Bring along friends and family who can benefit from some relaxation and positive energy.

For in depth benefits of meditation, enjoy this link here:

http://liveanddare.com/benefits-of-meditation/

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The supermoon made me do it

I thought I should take the time to write a blog post using the super moon energy to my advantage. So many things have been happening that sometimes we need to take the time to ground ourselves. There’s always someone that needs to be reminded not to worry, everything’s going to be alright.

This super moon’s energy in Taurus is meant to bring full attention to the healing of our emotions. Our feminine energy continues to rise, bringing up buried emotions that may have caused havoc on the reality we now face.

The results of the presidential election has brought many mixed emotions throughout the whole world. It reaches far past America. We need to remember, in times like these, the Earth has it’s own journey, it’s own story. We can’t let it affect our personal lives. We need to keep putting out positive energy, not fear. This election has awaken so many people. Stay awake, but focus on sending out positivity. Fear and worry only gives low vibrational energy more power, and manifests the opposite of what you want in your life. In this moment, you are ok. Nothing has changed. There is still love surrounding you. You are protected.

Trump has won the election for a reason. You may not agree with that reason, but everything has it’s place. Don’t focus too much on what could happen. Take it day by day. Love yourself and the people around you. Keep the positive energy flowing that was already there. Trump didn’t take it away. Many times in my life, things have always turned out to be blessings in disguise. Why should this be any different? Take a deep breathe, count your blessings, and be optimistic. You have a lot to look forward to. No matter what you’re going through, it’s happening to make you stronger and helping you appreciate what’s to come. We’re all going to be more than ok.

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Indigo Angels.

Ok so, I needed to take a moment from my busy life to write a blog post today. Part of my routine everyday is pulling daily messages from my angels using an oracle deck. It helps me stay connected, and helps me communicate with my angels about what I should be focusing on at the time.

Yesterday, I went to Barnes and Noble with Jade and bought a new card deck called Indigo Angel. I know I’m an Indigo, so I was very drawn to them. If you would like to know what an Indigo is, go to my previous blog posts or search on google. 

My first reading was perfect, it blows my mind every time. But it reminded me of something that I need to put out into the world right now, to connect me with the people that are going to help me save this Earth and raise our vibrations together.

As you grow older, you’ll realize that no one on this planet truly knows what he or she is doing- we all just get by the best we can. Never have so many people come into a lifetime with shared Divine purpose of rewriting the script for daily human life. The Indigo mission is so very important, and there are literally millions of other Indigos in this world having very similar experiences. We are an integral part of one of the most significant movements in history.

Indigos are extremely passionate about their opinions. We have such a hard time holding in our feelings. We were built to never back down in the face of adversity and imbalance.

Indigos have incarnated at a crucial time in Earth’s history and humanity’s history, to help ensure the survival of both. You and I are one of these people. This is a very special role in our world, and I ask you to be aware of that.

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There’s a flip side to every coin.

In all my previous posts I’ve spoken about my spiritual awakenness and how I relate it to my life. What I haven’t spoken about is what I’ve been through that led me to see the optimistic side of things. Even though I’m becoming more spiritually aware and feeling, seeing beautiful things. I’ve had some tough times. The flip side. I’ve been through a lot these past few years. In life, there’s always ups and downs, but you have to go with the flow even if it isn’t easy. That’s the only way you will get through this lifetime.

My last couple of years have realistically been hard. I have forced myself to think of the positive things and the future. I’m still not where I want to be, but I’m on my way. Even though I’m more spiritual, I still go through hardship.

When I moved to Connecticut, I was offered this awesome job. I was in the fashion industry, in the watch business with great incentives, like traveling internationally and modeling the watches as my accessories. I had great friends, who I still miss to this day. I met my baby’s daddy who is the greatest guy I’ve ever met. Everything seemed to be going smoothly and perfectly.

Then, within the next year, I guess God had other plans for me. The universe steers you in the direction of what your ultimate dreams are, and you’re just along for the ride. All at once, within a few short months, my boyfriend’s mom got terminal brain cancer, I got pregnant, my boyfriend and I signed for an apartment together, and my job fired me after I told them I was pregnant, anddd my boyfriend had just quit his job before taking a trip to visit his mom and going to Thailand. WHAT WAS HAPPENING?!

FIRED. I didn’t even get a warning, or a 2 month notice like a valued employee would get. All I got was “you’ll be fine”, three weeks after I told them I was pregnant. Are you kidding? I’ve never been fired in my life, and I’ve never been pregnant in my life. I’m not going to be “fine”!

This was total shock for me, and it was a challenge from the universe I wasn’t expecting. My only option was take charge to get myself in a good place because at this point it was not going to be easy. We had a $1,800 rent bill, a BABY on the way, no jobs, and emotional stress. I had to deal with this all while pregnant. Any mother knows that your emotional levels are all over the place, and to add all of that on top of it. WTF. Not to mention, Thomas and I were not used to living together. It was hard. Really hard.

We spent most of our time looking for jobs, which was really difficult. Who hires a pregnant woman?! “Oh hi, I’d love to work for company, but just so you know I’m pregnant and need to take my maternity leave in a few months. Hope that’s all good.” Yeah right, they’ll hire the single woman because she will be “more invested”. They might not say it, but they’re thinking it. My unemployment benefits just got me by. If we didn’t have help from our families, we would have been screwed. We had no other place to go and we had a year lease.

I tried to find other ways to make money. I made candles, I went to craft fairs, and sold things on ebay. Anything I could to make extra cash, which definitely wasn’t a lot. Thomas decided to go to school full-time and get his CDL license, which made it difficult to be at home by myself all day until I was ready to give birth. It wasn’t until Jade was born that he was able to get a job. And we finally thought we would be able to be ok.

But then, a couple months later my unemployment benefits stopped, after already losing them for maternity when Jade was born. We could not pay rent. I wasn’t able to find a job that paid enough for daycare and rent. Now what?! Thomas had to support me and Jade on his own. It took a lot of decision making, but luckily my dad was able to kindly evict their tenant and allow us to move in. That was a tough decision, as well, because they loved their tenant and they’re losing a lot of income while we live here. We had no intention to leave Connecticut. Thomas’s family was there and now he was leaving them to be with me.

It’s a one bedroom, which makes it difficult and not the ideal situation with Jade. I am grateful we have somewhere great to live, with more help than in Connecticut. I am still struggling to find a job, as much as I apply. Thomas has the stress of supporting Jade and I for almost a year now. This was not our plan, but we are here. This is our present lives, with no other options. I decided to take classes for my real estate license, to take a different path the Universe has been urging me to do.

While I’m going through all this, the Universe has led me to more uplifting things on my journey. I’m getting a lot stronger than I was. Intuitively, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. I still experience stress on a daily basis, but I use meditation to calm my mind, and to help get me where I want to be. I decided I’m going to start offering spiritual counseling to people who are going through tough times and need some guidance on how to take the positive, more spiritual way than getting anxious and caught up in everything. I also have a holistic business on the verge, as well. I’m not quite there, but I’m so close I can almost see the light.

It’s all about gratitude, gratitude, gratitude. I send healing love and light to everyone, <3

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How to raise your children through Spirituality

You should always go with the flow when it comes to your children. You want them to be comfortable being themselves, so they grow up to be confident adults, without losing touch with the Divine and their Inner Child. If you notice your child talking to spirits, fairies and angels, don't discourage it. Children have a stronger connection with the universe than we do because we FORGOT how to communicate with where we came from. If this is the case, you should also protect your child by telling them to keep it within the family, you don’t want them getting teased by other children or discouraged by other adults who don’t understand. It will make them lose their connection and have a more difficult time completing their mission on this Earth.

Your child may show their connection in another way, with animals, crystals, spiritual totems or even their creativity. Whatever the case may be, recognize it, respect it, and welcome it. You can also learn from your child, they know a lot more than they give off. They are wise beyond their years for a reason. My daughter may not physically be able to talk, but she knows what I’m talking about. I speak to her with respect.

Use your mind’s eye when communicating with your child, your third eye. They communicate best by telepathy. It also helps you bring back your connection with your higher self and the universe. This is also how you stay connected with your child when you are not with them. You are able to keep them protected that way. Communicate with your babies, their spirit guides and the angels. Mamas do it best, use that intuition God gave you!

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Earth is transforming.

I shared an article today that made me intrigued and excited to share this information with you. If you haven't read the article, you should.. Especially if you're not spiritual. I have been aware of this information for at least a year now. Earth is going through a major transformation because man has ruined it. There is a lot of negativity in the world right now, but there are also good things happening. The universe has tried to recreate Earth time and time again. (Atlantis) but humans keep fucking up. If humans end up destroying this Earth, they will destroy the Universe. The divine is trying to find a way to keep that from happening without starting from scratch again. So they decided to send light workers to this planet to help lighten the energy and make humans aware/ enlightened, so we get to the point of positivity. I am a light worker, so is my boyfriend (he may not know it) and my daughter is as well. Light workers are here to share this information (like what I'm doing), as well as, draw people in. I have always drawn people in, not intentionally, but my light is so strong that people can't help it. There are reasons why I can't handle negative atmospheres, like my past jobs and the people I've worked with and that is because I'm so sensitive to negativity. People who aren't light workers that have crossed my path seem to be intimidated and envy me, I've learned to cut those people out because they don't do me any good. Most light workers forget why they are here and need to be reminded. My main objective right now is to teach my daughter this information so she is comfortable in her skin and doesn't hide her light. People tried to dim mine when I was younger, by essentially bullying because of jealously. They couldn't handle it and I don't want that happening to her. Please do good for this Earth if you want future generations to be around and enjoy their lives. It's so important, not only for us, but for the universe. Read the article for more information, it's well worth it: http://www.collective-evolution.com/2014/02/19/we-are-living-in-the-most-important-time-in-the-history-of-the-universe-dolores-cannon-discusses-our-current-paradigm/

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Snow White

I've come to the conclusion that my daughter is some kind of animal whisperer. Jade's favorite things are her daily walk and laying on her changing table looking out the window. She can lay there talking, kicking and playing for over an hour without my entertainment. On a daily basis I see squirrels, chipmunks and birds all either climb up the tree or just sit by the window. I even saw a groundhog one day. It just fascinates me because we live on a dead end in the middle of the suburbs, busy roads surrounding us and have a very small property. I'm writing this blog post because one morning I had a crazy incident that confirms this baby has a special connection with the animals. It was around 5 am, and Jade had just woken up to eat. I picked her up to change her first and put her on the table. I looked out the window and I swear on my life there was a DEER grazing next to her window. I have absolutely no idea how or why it was there. I was freaking out. It was by itself, an adult female doe. Of course, I had to show Jade so I picked her up and told her to look. She definitely saw it, and when the deer saw us, it literally just looked up and walked across our front lawn and went down the street. Wtf. Seriously. How amazing. Before this encounter I had a meditation class and one of my messages was Snow White, and to look into the significance of it. I figured it out. She's the nature princess, and so is my baby. I also had another message that animals have a huge significance in my life. So each time I come across an animal, I research the meaning and usually it's spot on. I highly suggest anyone that has a connection with animals to do this. Whether they come to you in a dream or stop by to say hi in real life. I bet you'll find out some fun stuff :)

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The white butterfly

I have been seeing a white butterfly every single day since Spring has begun on all my walks. If I don’t go for a walk, there’s at least one that flies past my window. 

I looked into this because clearly this was the universe giving me a sign. I already knew that the butterfly is a sign of change and powerful transformation. Last year, I always saw a yellow butterfly, and I got pregnant with Jade. What I really want to know is what the white butterfly means. 

When I looked it up this is what I found.. for the Japanese, a white butterfly symbolizes the soul of the departed ones. The reason why Japanese is so important is because of Jade.. she has many Asian influences that surround her so I pay attention to those things. She most likely has many guardian angels that look over her, as well as me, from our family. I am not surprised, because almost every day I am thinking of someone that has departed in our family. Just a slight thought of them makes me know they are with us. 

The ones that especially stand out to me are my grandpa, my great grandma and my boyfriend’s great grandpa. They all just cross my mind for one reason or another at different times. I also think that Jade communicates with them, and they play with her. I will catch her smiling at the wall for a good 5 minutes and start talking her baby talk, and I just let her be and watch in amusement. 

The last meditation class I went to, I chose the Mediumship Angel card, which explains how I am able to communicate well with departed loved ones. It just gave me confirmation that I know what I am talking about and that I have a special gift that not everyone has or is attuned to. Listen to your Guardian Angels when they cross your mind! They are trying to help!! My great grandma reminds me to drink water everyday lol, sometimes I ignore her, but recently I have been paying more attention. Sorry grandma.

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Teething baby

This post is especially for new mamas, or any mamas, that have a teething baby. Jade is now starting to teeth and as a mother you just want to soothe her and help her during this painful time. My suggestion - Baltic Amber Teething Necklace. When I first heard about this, I was like no way! This is exactly what you use crystals for, to heal. Most people don’t associate it the same way, because they have no knowledge of crystals healing properties, but it’s the same thing. 

Amber has energy to help soothe babies when they are teething. There are many companies that make this necklace. So many moms use it and it has very good reviews. My suggestion to make it work to it’s potential.. make sure you cleanse and charge it!! I did this yesterday and Jade has been feeling so much better. All you have to do is run it under water for a few seconds, however you feel necessary (use your intuition). Then, let it dry on a window in the sun, this will charge it with positive energy. I took it a step further, and put selenite next to it, which has natural positive charging qualities for other crystals. It works like a charm. I highly suggest investing in one of these!

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Kwan Yin

So I haven’t been able to write for a while because, as most mothers know, you got other things to do lol. I have experienced a lot in the past few weeks that just amazes me on a daily basis. Being a mother is a completely spiritual experience. 

I went to Oregon to visit my mother in law for the first time with a 2 month old. I was SO nervous to go on the plane.. so many people hate babies on planes, but what I experienced was the complete opposite. I prayed the whole time that everything would go smoothly, and miraculously it was perfect! I didn’t pray to God, I was praying to Kwan Yin. She is the Asian Goddess that looks over Jade. She is the Divine Mother of Buddhism, similar to that of Virgin Mary. The reason I did this is because when I got a reading done from Mary a while back, she told me that in a past life Jade was one of her students and she protects Jade like a mother and is one of her Guardian Angels. Coincidentally, in one of my meditation classes I received a message from the leader to introduce Kwan Yin into my home for Jade to become familiar with. I knew this wasn’t just a coincidence. As we were on the plane, we were ironically surrounded by Asians. I laughed to myself because I knew Kwan Yin was present. Next to us, was this little old Asian lady that LOVED Jade and entertained her the whole time. She also taught me a form of massage on her feet that relieves stomach pains. Jade was an angel on the plane, both ways. I’m not surprised I have a little traveler on my hands. 

Our last day in Oregon, we stayed at a hotel until we were ready to go to the airport. I had some packing to do, so I asked the angels to keep her entertained for a bit. When I came over to Jade she was playing alone in the bed laughing and smiling, so I leaned into her and I saw Angels right next to her! What I mean by that is flashes of light that appeared when I got close. I have never seen that before so vividly and I have learned that is how Angels make themselves known. I thought it was such an amazing experience and I know Jade is extremely protected, which makes me feel at peace.

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A Day on the Island

First of all, no one tells you how time consuming having a baby is. Second of all, I don’t understand how you’re able to cope without being balanced first. There’s so many unbalanced people and so many mothers.. how do they do it? Even I have to stop and take some time to balance myself or I get overwhelmed.

Easter was this past weekend and I got the opportunity to stop in and take Jade to meet Sophia. It was love at first sight lol. Jade could not stop staring at her, and just taking her in. Sophia’s energy must have kept her at ease.

Sophia was able to do a reading on Jade! A reading on a 6 week old baby haha how awesome. She told me that Jade has a very strong intuition, which is why I am able to communicate telepathically with her so well. She said she has a very big third eye (another sign of a crystal child) which means she’s going to be able to do readings and connect spiritually with the divine higher power (not surprised). Her aura is every color (another sign).. which means she’s very balanced. She was also telling me the reason she smiles and laughs in her sleep is because she’s playing with the angels. I witnessed a full on laugh last night, it was absolutely adorable.

Sophia also told me she’s going to love the water, which I already knew because she actually gets excited to take a bath. As well as, an Earth child.. aka why she loves nature already. These are things I already knew, but she completely confirmed it. Everyone keeps telling me there’s a reason I named her Jade.

I also had the opportunity to get my hair done this weekend. I was clearly hooked up with this hair dresser for a reason. We connected spiritually and were able to talk about things most people just aren’t knowledgeable of. I noticed all the people currently coming into my life are part of my spiritual path to make me stronger and able to tell my story.

We also talked about how it’s uncomfortable to share these things because some people think you’re crazy. I think that is so sad how judgmental people are instead of being open-minded. I hope one day the world has a different outlook and we can all peacefully come together.

Don’t judge me. Namaste.

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How I use crystals

Tonight is a full moon, which is the perfect time to cleanse and charge crystals. This moon is particularly special because it’s a lunar eclipse “blood moon”. Blood moons have a history of being a great omen of a big change or event about to happen. It’s especially key for endings. If you have to let go of something let it go. Stop holding on.

My crystals will be charging in the moonlight on the windowsill. You may not understand why someone would be intrigued by or use crystals/ gemstones, but that may be because you haven’t done any research. You haven’t been open to feeling the energy these stones have to offer.

I use crystals for different reasons. I hold them in meditation to help with a better experience, I put them under my daughter’s mattress to help her sleep, I keep them next to my bed and around my house to enhance positive energy. All gemstones have different properties, so they can be used for all purposes.

The crystals I use for my baby have a lighter, more calm energy so it doesn't overwhelm her. Rose quartz is the love stone. Amethyst is for protection and spirituality, as well as many other properties. Moonstone is the ultimate feminine stone used for pregnancy and motherhood. If you search healing properties in google for specific stones, you will find a lot of information. There’s even a stone to induce labor! (I didn't try this, I wanted the baby to come on her own time).

Crystals are being shown to help cancer patients, either to stop it or slow it down. This doesn’t mean to use it instead of chemo, but to use along side with it. Crystals have always been around because they are natural on Earth, but most people know nothing about the powers they have.

In elementary school, we used to have a program called Pumsy: In Pursuit of Excellence. But it'd be more accurate to call it In Pursuit of Hindu Philosophy. The techniques taught in Pumsy have all the elements of Hindu-style meditation, dressed up with cute fairy-tale characters. Pumsy was a magic dragon. Along with a guide simply called Friend. Friend teaches Pumsy that her mind is like a pool of water: There's a muddy mind, which tempts her to think negative thoughts, and a Clear Mind, which can solve all her problems through positive thinking. The “mind” is supposed to represent a divine power. It’s marketed as a way to teach self-esteem to children. Every child receives a “Pumsy stone”, and I just remember being so intrigued by it. Now I know why.

One day I was at the beach taking a walk and on my path there was a rose quartz sitting perfectly by itself in front of me. I knew it was for me and that I needed to take it. I brought it to Sophia’s and she told me when the Universe gives you a sign like that it’s really special. This was the summer I met Thomas, and good things have been happening ever since. I still have the crystal, it’s one of my special ones I always use in my meditations.

Take what I’m saying the way you want, but as they say “don’t knock it, until you try it.” Crystals can bring very positive experiences to your life. All you have to do is choose what you want to focus on and the crystal will bring it into your life.

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My Crystal child.

Crystal children are a new generation being born that are here to heal the Earth. In 20 years we will have an Age of Peace. If you haven’t noticed, the Earth is pretty much at its worst. That’s because everything is being brought to light right now. All the fear, hate, and negativity will soon be gone. The Crystals are here to make everyone aware of the power of positive thinking and healing with a higher vibration.

To be able to have a Crystal Child you have to be an Indigo. My boyfriend and I are both Indigos, which is also a form of an Earth Angel. The Indigos are here to bring us closer to our true essence. Both generations are highly sensitive and psychic, and have important life purposes. The main difference is their temperament. Indigos have a warrior spirit, because their collective purpose is to mash down old systems that no longer serve us. They are here to quash government, educational and legal systems that lack integrity. To accomplish this end, they need tempers and fiery determination.

In contrast, the Crystal Children are blissful and even-tempered. Sure, they may have tantrums occasionally, but these children are largely forgiving and easy-going. The Crystals are the generation who benefit from the Indigos’ trailblazing. First, the Indigo Children lead with a machete, cutting down anything that lacks integrity. Then the Crystal Children follow the cleared path, into a safer and more secure world.

When I first met Thomas, I told Sophia about him. She told me that he had an indigo aura. I didn’t know about Indigos at the time, but I knew the color represents the third eye chakra, which allows you to connect with divine love. This was comforting, because it meant he had a really good heart and was humbled. Same as me. And if anyone knows my boyfriend they know he has strong opinions about the government and he can go on and on forever.

My daughter also shows signs of Crystal traits. She is such an easy-going baby. I feel so lucky. Of course she cries, but she’s smart and doesn’t give me a hard time unless she needs something. Which doesn’t take long for me to figure out because I just know what she wants. (Crystal Children communicate telepathically). She’s my little pisces baby, which is the most spiritual, loving sign of the Zodiac. (As I sit here, holding her and she’s just content cuddling with me.) Jade is already very independent and determined. She thinks quick and just gets it. The day she was born she was able to hold her head up and look at me! Which btw she was born with jade green eyes, they are beautiful. We had already chosen her name 5 months earlier.

The first thing that most people notice about Crystal Children are their eyes—large, penetrating and wise beyond their years. The Crystal Children’s eyes lock on and hypnotize you, while you realize your soul is being laid bare for these children to see. When you look at Jade and she’s looking up at you, I promise you won’t want to look away. Her eyes are gorgeous. I have no idea what color they’re going to be, but her best features are her long eyelashes and her eyes. Lucky girl.

Jade is also already communicating with the fairies and angels. She LOVES nature. The fish tank, the window, the sun. All of it. She is so happy sitting in front of the window in the sun smiling at the trees. She also sees angels, I swear. She smiles at the ceiling and the wall ALL the time. Especially right behind my shoulder. That is a sign babies are looking at angels. I have guardian angel stones in all 4 corners of her room and she loves being in her room and smiling at the ceiling. Also, when I was alone with her in the hospital room, walking around, she was STARING at the recliner chair, so I knew someone had to have been visiting us.

These are just the things I’ve noticed in the first 5 weeks, so I’m curious how it’s going to progress. Its fun and I can’t wait to keep everyone updated. :)

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My pregnancy in Spirituality

When I found out I was pregnant I was freaking out. I had a moment of wtf this changes my entire life. I always told myself I would never get an abortion over 25 because I was mentally able to take care of a child, but was I ready?! We didn’t plan this! My boyfriend was actually the one to calm me down and, with a few signs from the Universe, I was able to bring myself down to earth. I had a very easy pregnancy and I think a lot had to do with my baby’s healing gifts.

When you are pregnant you’re naturally more intuitive. You are just more sensitive with everything and that includes being in tune with a higher power. I have come so far in the past year that I feel I have reached my true self and gained a lot of wisdom on my spiritual path.

During my pregnancy I got a few readings, went to meditation classes, got reiki, and had many experiences that were life changing events. One moment that sticks out to me is the day before I found out the sex of the baby.. I had one pink rose blooming in my backyard. It was the first time I’ve seen a rose on that bush. I didn’t think anything of it until the next day and I realized the Universe was trying to communicate that I was having a girl! (Sophia also told us it was going to be a girl).

When I went to see these healers every single one of them said my baby had a very strong energy and she was a crystal child. None of them knew that I used crystals on my belly during my meditations. My baby LOVED it. There was so much more movement when I did it. Most of you probably don’t know that you are psychically connected to your baby through the umbilical cord. It may be stronger when you’re in meditation or they may come to you in your dreams. Your thoughts could most likely be your baby communicating with you if you pay attention. I’ve had plenty of dreams, meditations, and thoughts of her telling me she loves me and hugging me. She has so much unconditional love, its an amazing feeling.

I think one of my favorite experiences was when I got a reading done with Mary. She had this amazing gift that I have never seen before and it really changed my outlook. She was able to connect with my baby as a toddler and go into detail about her past lives. She told me that Jade says thank you for listening to her when we chose her name, and she loves when I put the crystals on my belly (I did not tell her this information). She told me that she will talk to angels and fairies when she is able to talk, so the reason she chose me as a mother is because she knew I would support it. We are both higher vibrational beings, which was the only reason I could carry her and we both have healing powers. I can attest to this, because I asked her to heal my aching back and it worked.

Jade also wanted me to write a book for her about fairies and to illustrate it as her being the main character. I have never written a book before so this would be a first, but Jade was going to help me write it. I wrote the book, and Jade 100% helped me with it. I didn't realize it while I was doing it, but I read a book on crystal children and in the story I had written Jade had the same characteristics as the crystal children. It was crazy and completely unintentional. I have been reading her my book ever since.

Jade was also coming to my mom in her dreams. Crystal children are known for doing that before they are born. My mom had a dream she was dying and she felt Jade’s presence with her that was so peaceful. This was only one of the dreams she had, she still has them even after she’s been born.

These are only highlights, but I can’t wait to share my daily journey of the Universe and its powers. If I went into detail with my whole pregnancy this would be a novel. But I would love to share the meaning of my baby’s name.

Jade: It is the name of a semi-precious stone. People with this name have a deep inner desire for a stable, loving family or community. A need to work with others and to be appreciated. People with this name tend to be idealistic, highly imaginative, intuitive, and spiritual. They seek after spiritual truth and often find it. They tend to be visionary and may inspire others. If they fail to develop their potential, they may become dreamers, or misuse power.

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My morning.. and the fairies

Having a baby is all about going with the flow and using your intuition. If you don’t, you will go crazy. As if this couldn’t have come at a more perfect time. As if the universe is challenging me to master it. I just want to talk about my morning..

I wake up at 6 am to feed the baby, while my boyfriend is talking to me all cranky as he gets ready for work. “Can you take out the garbage?”.. “I can try”.. this gives me an hour to get it out there before the garbage man comes. I have no idea what will be happening between now and then, it’s up to Jade. He took it out anyway because he’s a good boyfriend, but I’m going to explain why it wouldn't have happened..

After I finished feeding her, which takes a lifetime in itself I was luckily able to put her back to bed. This was so exciting because now I’m able to eat breakfast and sneak in a 5 minute shower. 

Right when I finish, I walk into the room and hear stirring. Perfect, she’s ready to get up. Little did I know when I picked her up, she pooped ALL OVER. I mean dripping down her leg and all over great grandma’s knitted blanket. Wonderful, I’m out of shout. Jade was so upset. This called for a bath. 

Dishes in the sink.. Oh well, I guess it’s happening in the bath tub. Now Jade loves the water, but when I turned on the water she looked at me with this new face I haven’t seen before. She was scared. Bottom lip out, looking me straight in the eye, as if saying “mommy I don’t want to go in there by myself”. So I had to take my clothes off while setting her down on the rug and go in with her. This helped. She was so happy. Good now baby’s clean. 

I have to clean everything else and the blanket now, but somehow keep her entertained. I put her in her play mat and ask her angels to do me a solid and keep her happy (babies do not have long attention spans). It worked. Thank you! Off to feeding her again. As I sit down on the bed, the garbage man drives by and I just think.. knew that was gonna happen.

As I’m writing this, I had a little situation with the fairies this morning. During my pregnancy I had a reading with this very wise lady who is extremely talented named Mary. In the reading she was able to connect with Jade’s soul as a toddler (I will get into this in another post). She told me Jade would be very connected with the fairies and that I could possibly start losing things out of no where. Since Jade’s been born, it’s happened a few times. Today, I lost my phone. I looked for a good 15 mins. Everywhere. Finally, I sat on the bed and said “Fairies, I know it’s you. Please give back my phone.” I told Jade to tell them too. Of course I look silly. I’m talking to an infant that can’t talk back and spiritual beings I can’t see and just believe exist. A second later, I looked next to me and my phone was peaking out of the sheet. Sneaky fairies. I don’t make these things up.