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“When it comes to being gentle, start with yourself. Don’t get upset with your imperfections. Being disappointed by failure is understandable, but it shouldn’t turn into bitterness or spite directed at yourself.”
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1. The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold - “I Knew a Woman” by Theodore Roethke
I knew a woman, lovely in her bones, When small birds sighed, she would sigh back at them; Ah, when she moved, she moved more ways than one: The shapes a bright container can contain!
2. A Handful of Dust by Evelyn Waugh - The Waste Land by T.S. Eliot
…I will show you something different from either Your shadow at morning striding behind you Or your shadow at evening rising to meet you; I will show you fear in a handful of dust.
3. Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe - “The Second Coming” by William Butler Yeats
Turning and turning in the widening gyre The falcon cannot hear the falconer; Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold;
4. Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck - “To a Mouse, on Turning Her Up in Her Nest with the Plough” by Robert Burns
But little Mouse, you are not alone, In proving foresight may be vain: The best laid schemes of mice and men Go often askew, And leave us nothing but grief and pain, For promised joy!
5. Far from the Madding Crowd by Thomas Hardy - “Elegy Written in a Country Churchyard” by Thomas Gray
Far from the madding crowd’s ignoble strife Their sober wishes never learn’d to stray; Along the cool sequester’d vale of life They kept the noiseless tenor of their way.
6. Remembrance of Things Past by Marcel Proust - “Sonnet 30″ by William Shakespeare
When to the sessions of sweet silent thought I summon up remembrance of things past, I sigh the lack of many a thing I sought, And with old woes new wail my dear time’s waste:
7. Endless Night by Agatha Christie - “Auguries of Innocence” by William Blake
Every night and every morn, Some to misery are born, Every morn and every night, Some are born to sweet delight. Some are born to sweet delight, Some are born to endless night.
8. For Whom the Bell Tolls by Ernest Hemingway - “Meditation XVII” by John Donne
No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main; if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as if a manor of thy friend’s or of thine own were; any man’s death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.
9. The Heart is a Lonely Hunter by Carson McCullers - “The Lonely Hunter” by William Sharp
O never a green leaf whispers, where the green-gold branches swing: O never a song I hear now, where one was wont to sing. Here in the heart of Summer, sweet is life to me still, But my heart is a lonely hunter that hunts on a lonely hill.
10. I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou - “Sympathy” by Paul Laurence Dunbar
It is not a carol of joy or glee, But a prayer that he sends from his heart’s deep core, But a plea, that upward to Heaven he flings — I know why the caged bird sings!
11. Tender is the Night by F. Scott Fitzgerald - “Ode to a Nightingale” by John Keats
Already with thee! tender is the night, And haply the Queen-Moon is on her throne, Cluster’d around by all her starry Fays But here there is no light, Save what from heaven is with the breezes blown Through verdurous glooms and winding mossy ways.
12. A Passage to India by E.M. Forster - Leaves of Grass by Walt Whitman
Passage to India! Struggles of many a captain–tales of many a sailor dead! Over my mood, stealing and spreading they come, Like clouds and cloudlets in the unreach’d sky.
“There’s no therapy or medicine like sharing meaningful time with those you feel at peace and comfortable with. A little music for atmosphere and some quality conversation, and all of your wounds and sorrows heal themselves.”
— Beau Taplin • F r i e n d l y T h e r a p y
Sometimes, looking back helps us remember what is most important.
Facebook, reminding me that 2018 is indeed about to end
dont underestimate the power of kindness. strength is not being cold hearted and aloof, it’s being amicable in the face of bitterness or gentle with those who need to be loved. so please, if nothing else, be kind.
“What you are in love with, what seizes your imagination, will affect everything. It will decide what will get you out of bed in the morning, what you do with your evenings, how you spend your weekends, what you read, whom you know, what breaks your heart, and what amazes you with joy and gratitude. Fall in Love, stay in love, and it will decide everything.”
— Pedro Arrupe, SJ (1907-1991)
What does loss feel like? It’s like being stranded in the middle of an ocean. Most days the waves are calm and you float gently with your head above the water. But there will be days when huge waves would hit you from all directions. You’d drown farther and farther into an abyss.
The more you fight the waves, the more you drown and get hurt. It’s days like these when all you could do is wait for everything to quiet down before you can resurface.
I’m back at embracing this tsunami again. Please, let it be over soon. My crying is getting out of hand.
Meet The Winners Of The 2018 Nobel Peace Prize: Dr. Denis Mukwege And Nadia Murad
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The 2018 Nobel Peace Prize has been awarded to Dr. Denis Mukwege, a Congolese gynecologist, and Nadia Murad, a Yazidi survivor of rape and captivity by ISIS, for their contributions toward combating wartime sexual assault.
Nadia Murad
In 2014, Murad, a member of the Yazidi minority in northern Iraq, was taken captive by ISIS members and sexually enslaved for three months before escaping.
Murad has shared her painful story with international media outlets over and over to show the world what happened to Yazidis. She has become a voice for captive women and girls in the process. She urges women who have faced sexual violence to reclaim their lives.
She was honored for her refusal “to remain silent and ashamed of the abuses to which they have been subjected,” said the Norwegian Nobel Committee. At age 25, she is the second-youngest peace prize recipient; Malala Yousafzai was the youngest at age 17.
Read her story here
Dr. Denis Mukwege
Mukwege is known as “Dr. Miracle” because of his skill and his devotion to helping victims of gang rape during conflict in his country, the Democratic Republic of Congo.
Mukwege has treated tens of thousands of women for rape since opening Panzi Hospital in 1999. Those survivors, who range in age from toddlers to seniors, suffered complex gynecological injuries, inflicted by members of rebel groups and the Congolese military.
“What I’m doing really is not only to treat women — their body,” says Mukwege, “[but] also to fight for their own right, to bring them to be autonomous, and, of course, to support them psychologically. And all of this is a process of healing so women can regain their dignity.”
Read his story here
This line from a song became real today. I have never felt this played on hahahuhu.
So maybe saying goodbye purifies us. It directs all our misaligned perspectives. It teaches us to focus on the now as we turn our backs on the past, and look foward facing the future.
Maybe, this is how we become better. For each goodbye, we say hello and welcome our braver selves.
September 23, 2018 | 2:00 PM | Quezon City
One day at a time 😊
library date?? coffee shop date??? museum date?? art gallery date?? stargazing date?? napping date?? picnic date??? yes
–Erica Jong
forgive yourself. whether you fail a test, eat too many cookies, say the wrong thing, fail a class, or spend a whole day in bed — learn to forgive yourself. the next day will be better. the next day will be a day closer to your next success. you can do it.
And so, I’m back to second-guessing my self and not knowing what I truly deserve in life. Everything’s going downhill from here. If this is just a phase, please, please, let it be over soon.
“‘Cause you've been listening for answers. Oh, but the city screams and all your dreams go unheard.”
small gestures of self-love:
sleeping a little earlier than usual
taking a break from stress
crying your heart out until the pain is gone
eating the food you like/love/want
spending extra time in the tub
pampering yourself with spa
cooking more food for personal consumption
appreciating yourself
writing poems about you
keeping a journal and writing down ur ideas
appreciating your art!!!
taking your self to a date
contemplating about your day
meditating, doing yoga
cheering yourself up
laughing your heart out
listening to yourself
not blaming yourself in everything
writing down your thoughts
believing in you
trusting in your skills
taking cute selfies
picking flowers for yourself
forgetting about your past and focusing on the present
Ah, why is this so difficult?