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one day I'll be living peacefully in a nice cozy apartment and nothing's gonna bother me

What did I do wrong? I'm tired of you getting hurt over every little thing. When have I ever— You think you're hiding it, but it's obvious. You make me feel guilty, like I've done something terrible. I end up getting hurt because you're always getting hurt. Why do we make movies? It's because we want to see people with power. Why do you think we want to see that? Because we don't have power!

How do people gain power? Like a hyena searching for prey at the foot of the mountain, I went searching for power. But I failed, so I'm heading home, right now. After eating a ton of meat, that is. Do you happen to know where they sell power? I'd like to buy some. Maybe if you love someone... What if the protagonist... was driven by love for his niece or nephew who wants to see the weather? Or maybe for his beloved older brother? Then his heart would race, because he'd do anything to make it happen. I realized something as I read your screenplay: "Ah... This director has nothing... that he loves."

WE ARE ALL TRYING HERE 모두가 자신의 무가치함과 싸우고 있다 (2026)

#we are all trying here

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the bravest thing she ever did was run btw

#😭😭🥹🥹

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Mine music video behind the scenes

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Apple zine! With a little poem I wrote

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Me and my wild boy, and all this wild joy!

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A gifset for each song on Florescence → [4/15] ‘Houses’ + La La Land

I paint it out in pastels and I put me in the frame, but I'm too big for the easel so I ruin it again

stuckinapril

Best brain hack is taking “this too shall pass” and applying it in the micro. The panic you feel from an argument with a friend, wanting to get on your phone when you should be studying, the absolute obsession with someone you’re crushing on, pain from rejection, utter hopelessness at a situation that is not entirely hopeless. Heavy on situations that induce panic and incentivize you to act out of turn, maybe to send a text you shouldn’t be sending or to blow up at someone or whatever it is. The antidote to knee jerk reactions is literally just “this too shall pass” and allowing yourself to feel the physical manifestation of your extreme emotion. Literally just ride it out. Even for things that can’t immediately be resolved, it makes such a big difference and prevents you from reacting in ways that you would undoubtedly regret down the line.

stuckinapril

I feel like this goes so hand in hand with “I won’t act in panic” like I truly think this should be a boundary everyone has with themself. Panic isn’t necessarily just synonymous with fear either. I do feel like outbursts of anger can be an indirect manifestation of panic. Anger really is just the easiest emotion to access. Teaching my brain to tap into the “this too shall pass” of it all and just riding out the desire to immediately respond really has done so much for me. This is not to say that you should force yourself not to think about something — that actually makes the craving to act on it worse. It’s more just allowing yourself to think about it, identifying the physical manifestation of it (be it chest pain or whatever else), letting it palpitate through you, but also recognizing, in the moment, that this is ephemeral and the urgency of it all will pass. My principle lately has been to surrender fully to the belief that a feeling is not forever and will subside no matter how painful.

stuckinapril

No exaggeration but theeeee most critical lesson I learned in my 20s was letting go when it was time. It’s so cliche but it’s so true. I used to hold on so venomously to people, put on a tap dance for their approval, force relationships to last past their expiration date, carry the heavy lifting for reaching out because I didn’t want to feel “passive.” But when someone doesn’t want your effort it’s not about passivity. It’s literally about self respect, not wasting your time, and gravitating only to people who have your best interest in mind and celebrate you. I’ve met so many older people who don’t know how to let go and it truly scares me that this could easily be me. It’s better to develop this skill early than it is to spend an entire lifetime begging for love and belonging.

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DRESS HIVE RISE!!!! 🙂‍↕️ Mamdani knows ball https://www.nytimes.com/2026/07/02/nyregion/mamdani-taylor-swift-songs.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare

REAL JOURNALISM!!!!!

#a lover boy?? makes so much sense for him

stuckinthistaydream

and you know what? if i say that the idea of having her wedding at a place that is famous in sports and music history AND is a place she dreamed of playing as a kid AND is a place nobody else will have their wedding at because they’re not her (aka instantly giving her an iconic and unrepeatable wedding) was a part of it too, y’all would be mad at me.

it’s not just the privacy and security. that’s a big part of it!! but that’s what so many fans are clinging to because they resent the implication that taylor likes being famous, and likes her position in the world. it’s also about what it represents in terms of what she and travis have been chasing all their lives in their respective fields, and her hard-earned legacy as one of the biggest artists of all time.