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Dick Polak - Dress by Bus Stop & Shoes by Biba (Honey 1973)

[groooooovyas]

Dubonnet - 1968 

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[nemfrog]

“The Zodiacal light in tropic latitudes.” A new astronomy for beginners. 1898.

Internet Archive

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Barry Lategan - Vivienne Lynn for Boots No7 (Vogue UK 1972)

[totallyfubar]

most of us need to be shown how to be considerate

[totallyfubar]

not as a criticism or anything, I just mean that

A. being able to care for other people is a skill that’s practiced and honed

B. being considerate for each person is so wildly different, 90% of the time you will have no way of knowing how to be considerate for someone until they show you

C. you can try to get better at figuring out what people need implicitly, but all that skill really is is listening so just get better at listening

D. being good at listening and adapting on the fly is maybe the most precise definition of being considerate I can think of, so strive for that and just know you’re never gonna be a telepath

[c-ptsdrecovery]

It’s also really important to build the skill of expressing what you need to other people. You need to be able to say things like, “Here are my pronouns” or “Can we not talk about this subject? Thank you” or “Hey, can you help me with ___?” Because other people are never going to be telepaths either. Sometimes you may think that what you need from somebody is really obvious, but to them it really isn’t. Negotiating needs and boundaries often needs to be stated explicitly, in words, not implicitly, in silent expectations. 

[doebunny]

Good morning for real this time!

[lanaturnerhascollapsed]

Modern Screen, November 1942

[4444444444]

oh the dreaddddddd the dread everybody the dread? you know the dread?

[dsmsix]

clap if you know the dread

[doebunny]

He wasn’t Jack, that was my mistake...

[doebunny]

any word on lindsey? not for nothing but even if he WAS jack he was still a fuckin creep

...He's passed.

[promethes]

sitting here. unkissed. when will it end

[doebunny]

I was poisoned, by my landlord and housemate at the moment. John was also stabbed. The house we were in, the one I was staying in caught fire. We were in the hospital for a few days, but at this point we’ve both been released... Johns gone back to his place, and I’ve moved back in with my gran.

[doebunny]

Uhm....

[doebunny]

Good evening! I’ve gone home, and I’m staying with my gran. We’re considering inpatient therapy at the moment.. but we’re not sure. I guess I should...summarize what happened.