☭Won't someone please think of the landlords?☭

20's - Trans woman - She/Her - White - Please do not follow me, I softblock new followers. If we're friends or I follow you first it's fine. (Maybe even if you just ask nicely, but no guarantee.)

[marxism-transgenderism]

Hi speaking of medical literacy for trans people, transfems pls check out the website Transfeminine Science, especially their introductory article on feminizing HRT

[marxism-transgenderism]

Non-transfems can reblog this as well btw

[soup-mother]

Actually I'm kinda curious: Non-American followers and mutuals, what are the most common flavours of potato chip where you live?

Here it's Salt, Salt and Vinegar, Chicken, Barbecue, and Sour Cream and Onion.

(I don't actually know what they have in the US either, I just don't give a shit and they should be excluded from things)

[soup-mother]

New slogan for the Australian republican movement that should hopefully get more people interested: "If the kiwis get their shit together and do it before we do then we all have to kill ourselves"

[ariane-ashen]

The stability of your dash is being held up and maintained by this sole Illya. Say thank you Illya

[valleyofthegroupies]

Rare Japanese NIN promotional image with Trent reznor in a field, wearing a big straw hat, holding a big daikon radish and smiling

[soup-mother]

Men really are just no good. No good at all.

[soup-mother]

Crazy how the family and reproduction and marriage and labour division is so political. Wonder what that could be about.

[soup-mother]

"masculine role models" lol

[soup-mother]

"masculine role models" were a scam invented by men (who themselves are also a scam invented by men, it's complicated) to cement the patriarchal family as the only possible way to raise a child and justify keeping "fathers" around. It doesn't necessarily have to be a nuclear family, but kids *obviously* need some masculine influence to teach them it's not ok to be a woman. Otherwise they'd grow up soy.

Masculinity is a social pact that reproduces itself via violent enforcement and reinforcement between men and you should not be giving them any more victim-members or treating it as the natural way of the world.

Anyone who tries to convince you of some genuine psychological need for "masculine role models" in a kids life is a wacko gender shill trying to justify the patriarchy all the unimaginable horrors that come with it, and you should probably kick them in the shins.

[soup-mother]

> "Negative impact of lacking male role models/a father in childhood development"

> look inside

> 99% just the negative impacts of childhood poverty from being raised by a single mother

[soup-mother]

To be entirely honest a great to overwhelming deal of the supposed mental/self esteem effects of growing up without a father/"male role model" or whatever mystical connective essence your biological parents supposedly have comes from the constant social messaging that these things are important and that you are a broken person without them. People will constantly reinforce the idea that a childs life is incomplete and unfulfilled without some supposedly missing (and generally immaterial) parental element in a way that conveniently justifies and reinforces whatever family structure is dominant in that specific culture.

And frankly a great deal of young men work themselves up into a misogynistic complex about having been "denied" male role models or some shit, and that's why they need to listen to some stochastic terrorist dickhead on a podcast. After all: It could never be the patriarchy. It's probably women's fault

TLDR this shit is culturally and socially defined and does not exist in a vacuum. There is no ingrained need for a "male presence", there is no ingrained need for biological parents (or even parents at all). The 1% of harm coming from something other than the socio-economic effects of being raised by a single mother comes from social pressure, stigma and misogny.

[thedorkdionysia]

i think it would do a lot of people good to remember that Mormons are white supremacists, no nuance, no debate, no arguing how they've gotten "more diverse", their whole belief system is fundamentally rooted in white supremacist ideals

[lady-of-vitreous-sight]

genuinely the most pathetic way humans attempt to naturalize their ideology is by insisting animals do it too.

[sailatina3]

Every time Hollywood does something racist everyone blames china for some reason.

[boccher]

our century of america is humiliating

[phorusrhacidae-lesbian]

you tried to hold it in but it was too much. your age of bronze collapsed and now you're a toddler again

[shrine-of-the-exoletus]

Maybe I should go to therapy

[penisdickcockpenis]

[txttletale]

sorry for [remembering a tumblr post about expressing gratitude instead of apologising to make the interaction more positive for the other person] i mean thank you for having a boyfriend who was so easy to run over withmy car and reverse over three times maybe four

[soup-mother]

Everyone's sleeping on cornmeal porridge