Don't Fall In Love With Me

Do not fall in love with people like me. I will take you to museums, and parks, and monuments, and kiss you in every beautiful place, so that you can never go back to them without tasting me like blood in your mouth. I will destroy you in the most beautiful way possible. And when I leave, you will finally understand why storms are named after people

[mitten]

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[lets-catch-some-waves]

[sleepin]

[whenlifekicksyourfuckingass]

So this one time My boyfriend and I were in bed making out. And obviously we were leading up to doing the do, if yanno what I mean 😉😉😉😎😎😎 And he whispers “talk dirty to me” And I panicked and shouted “TAXES!” And it was probably the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to me, but hey, we’re engaged now so I guess it wasn’t too bad.

[hipstered]

[dontfallinlovewithpeoplelikeme]

Rainy winter days and cigarettes.

[themagiciancard]

Please, Please Help Me Save my Service Dog

I wouldn’t do this unless I absolutely needed to, but this is an emergency.

Most of you know my service dog, Laika. She quite literally saved my life; I know for a fact that I wouldn’t be here without her. She is my everything and I need her to function.

Laika is experiencing an undiagnosed health problem that led me to taking her to an emergency veterinary clinic. Her prognosis is unsure as of right now, but I’m hoping with every part of my being that she will be okay. Because without her, I am nothing.

The problem is, I cannot afford the vet bills. I am a full time, disabled college student who makes minimum wage at a job that only gives me 7 hours a week. Even with my savings, I am nowhere close to being able to pay the amount of money they are asking for Laika’s treatment.

I know money is tight for everyone, but if you could spare anything, anything at all, to donate, it would mean the world to me. I need to save my baby, and I couldn’t bear it if I had to refuse certain treatments for her if I can’t afford them.

Any size donation helps and is appreciated, and reblogging this as well would mean so much to me.

https://www.gofundme.com/22u6yfg

[bajo-el-mar-blog]

Reading about abusive men and the way they think. Very unsettling and an incredible book so far. Here are my very professional notes.

[imnotreallyherecheckagainlater]

what book is this?

[tehbewilderness]

This is from “Why Does He DO That” by Lundy Bancroft.

[chemicalheart-deactivated202009]

I’m so glad I’m seeing more and more Lundy Bancroft quotes on my dash because this book CHANGES THE LIVES OF ABUSE VICTIMS. The programs run for rehabilitating abusive men through the courts? Bancroft DESIGNED THEM. His programs are replicated ALL OVER THE WORLD. He literally wrote THE book on abuser rehabilitation.

[queen-mayhem]

Here’s a link to a pdf copy. If you haven’t read this book yet, read this book.

[appropriately-inappropriate]

Can we talk about how it seems like the entirety of the book is online on PDF, this making it accessible to anyone with an internet connection?

That is how we stop abuse.

We enable everyone to know what it looks like, so that when it happens, they can shut it down.

[bhuttu]

Arm yrself with knowledge!

[birkenth0t]

Changed my life, would reccomend.

[fuckyeahsexpositivity]

Reblogging for the PDF link.

—BB

[egodram]

Always reblogging because this isn’t just a partner abuse thing, this is a common abuse tactic PERIOD: Parents, siblings, bosses, general assholes, etc…

[tinierspacecharm]

http://www.pdf-archive.com/2014/07/20/why-does-he-do-that/why-does-he-do-that.pdf

new link (the old one is broken)

[hansbekhart]

Pretty sure I’ve reblogged this like eight times, don’t care.

[smallrevolutionary]

Forever reblog.

[e-goddess]

http://www.pdf-archive.com/2014/08/24/why-does-he-do-that/

Reposting the link.

[septemberpoems]

I have it saved, should the links mess up

[hairstylesbeauty]

IG: lysseon

[tropicallylina]

[hairstylesbeauty]

IG: heyitsannabanana

[happy-girly-stuff]

[mitten]

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[excdus]

[breadandflowers]

You ever notice how like…. Every girl is pretty

[sickfake]

being alive is very………..Not Easy