I'm A Hot Mess

Ash. They/them. Agenderflux. Panromantic, Demisexual. Poly af. Pisces Sun (Aquarius cusp)/Gemini Rising/Cancer Moon

[babymccallandalsome]

R a v e n o u s

I know pregnant women say they’re always hungry but I never thought it would be like this. It’s like one minute I’m fine, and the next minute I’m on the hunt. I don’t even have time to decide what I want to eat (which is the real struggle when half the foods in my fridge make me nauseous, and the other half sound gross). It hits, hard and sudden, and I start…. crying? Yeah. Crying. Because of hunger. But not just any hunger. No. I’m s t a r v i n g. My stomach is not growling, but screaming. And if I don’t have food, and fast, I will puke. I heard about the hunger. I heard about the morning sickness. I never thought it would be like this.

[whenlifekicksyourfuckingass]

If you're really depressed for no reason and can't figure yourself out or get your shit together clap your hands.

[whenlifekicksyourfuckingass]

OKAY SO

When I was in high school someone was playing the bass line from Seven Nation Army on his tuba and the band director was like "!!!wow that's so cool did you write that!!???" And he was too much of a pussy to explain that it was a pop song that he was just fucking around with so the band director took it and made a part for each instrument of JUST THE BASS LINE OF THAT SONG and they played it and football games and they called it Damians March or some stupid thing like that and that's the most interesting plagerism story I have.

[whenlifekicksyourfuckingass]

So this one time My boyfriend and I were in bed making out. And obviously we were leading up to doing the do, if yanno what I mean 😉😉😉😎😎😎 And he whispers "talk dirty to me" And I panicked and shouted "TAXES!" And it was probably the most embarrassing thing that's ever happened to me, but hey, we're engaged now so I guess it wasn't too bad.

[redsatinsheets]

feminism never taught me to hate men but it did help me realize that i shouldn’t prioritize them over women & it turns out that alot of men consider that to be hatred lmao.

[memewhore]

[dxactivatxdusxr]

A group of rough looking boys walked past me today and all I heard of their conversation was “he’s got that anxiety disorder bro so I went with him so he’d be more comfortable” and it made me realise the world isn’t all that bad

[the-healing-nest]

Instead of saying “I don’t have time” try saying “it’s not a priority,” and see how that feels. Often, that’s a perfectly adequate explanation. I have time to iron my sheets, I just don’t want to. But other things are harder. Try it: “I’m not going to edit your résumé, sweetie, because it’s not a priority.” “I don’t go to the doctor because my health is not a priority.” If these phrases don’t sit well, that’s the point. Changing our language reminds us that time is a choice. If we don’t like how we’re spending an hour, we can choose differently.

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[dontfallinlovewithpeoplelikeme]

Rainy winter days and cigarettes.

[teambisexual]

reblog this and put the age you realised you were not straight in the tags

[sepia-steel]

teambisexual:

[whenlifekicksyourfuckingass]

#13

[ohshitmusthavebeenaghost]

Things I didnt realize until I made friends who'd never experienced poverty. PART 1

1. We eat ALL of our leftovers. Or someone else does. I realized this when I didnt like a burrito I bought and I offered it to my friend, who said, “Just throw it out.” I stared at him kind of dumbfounded for a moment and then said “That’s a waste of food.” “Well it’s just food,” was his reply. Growing up, if we didn’t like something, we offered it to everyone else. And if no one wanted it, we gave it to dad when he got home because he’d eat anything. Because wasting food was NOT an option.

2. I’ve only been on two vacations. Ever. I have a friend who’s been on like 4 REAL vacations since I met him. A year ago. He went boating all the time this past summer. His parents went “camping” every week. In a camper. My family spent three months “camping” once. That was just my parents way of not letting us get discouraged because we were homeless.

3. We dont buy brand name anything. I’m always surprised when I go to someones house and they have like… quilted northern toilet paper. Or Florida orange juice. We had brand name toilet paper. The brand name was Wal-Mart.

4. C l o t h i n g Okay. So heres the thing. I have this friend (bless his heart) who goes thrift shopping because he thinks it’s fun. And you know I can totally agree to that. But maybe I just enjoy shopping. We bought clothes from thrift stores bc it was all we could afford. And sometimes not even that. Hand me downs were everything and if you were the oldest… well that sucks. New shoes once a year, at most. Sometimes every other year. Backpacks? You use that shit til it wears out.

5. We love our parents. Through thick and thin. These kids who get mad at their parents until they buy them a new (insert item here). Dont even get me started. Mama kept a roof over our head and food in our cupboards. For the most part. And I love her for that. I will always fucking respect my mother. No matter what our relationship goes through.

[scftgho-deactivated20170216]

your abuse isn’t any less real if your abuser is mentally ill

your abuse isn’t any less real if they don’t realise they’re abusive

your abuse isn’t any less real if they tell you they love you and/or can be kind

your abuse isn’t any less real if it’s not every single minute of every single day

your abuse isn’t any less real if it doesn’t leave any physical evidence

[postitforward]

World Suicide Prevention Day 2016

Today is World Suicide Prevention Day.

No matter what you are going through, you don’t have to go through it alone. There are resources available to help.

Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you need it, Tumblr.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Available 24/7 at 1-800-273-TALK (8255).

Crisis Text Line: Free, 24/7 support for anyone in need. Text START to 741741.

IMALIVE: Chat confidentially with a volunteer trained in crisis intervention.

7 Cups of Tea: Speak anonymously with a trained active listener.

American Psychological Association: A resource for finding mental health care in your area.

NEDA: Help and support for people struggling with eating disorders. You can call 1-800-931-2237 or chat with them online.

To Write Love On Her Arms (@twloha): Dedicated to helping people struggling with depression, addiction, self-injury, and suicide.

You Matter (@youmatterlifeline): You Matter was created to let people know that suicide is preventable.

NAMI (@namiorg): Dedicated to improving the lives of anyone living with mental illness. Free to chat at 1-800-950-6264.

The Trevor Project (@thetrevorproject): Confidential suicide hotline for LGBTQ+ young people. Available 24/7 at 1-866-488-7386.

It Gets Better Project (@itgetsbetterproject): Communicating to LGBTQ+ youth around the world that it gets better.

[gregamiah]

I feel like we need to talk more bout America Chavez.

She’s a teenage latino gay superhero from another dimension. Like, how could you not just love her? Oh, and she’s a member of the Young Avengers.

Yes. As in THOSE Young Avengers. Did I mention she’s incredibly bad-ass?

You wanna talk powers? This lady has powers up the wazoo. We’re talking super strength and durability, flight,

as well as bullet-proof skin.

Is Loki checking out her ass? goddamn it Loki she will kick you so hard in the face. Oh yeah, there’s another thing.

She can literally kick holes between dimensions to allow for instant travel across worlds. So, basically…

America Chavez is essentially the ultimate superhero and someone we DEFINITELY need to be talking about more often.

[marstheworld]

Her parents ar a pair of lesbians too so there’s that.

[captainamericaisbisexual]

we need at least 4 movies about her right now

[homelanders]

she’s … a bulletproof lesbian, the one whe’ve been waiting for

[yars]

[supersexyawesomeness]

[sizvideos]

Video

[originalbrainsofwolves]

fuck man

[lotrlocked]

In case you weren’t convinced that hating yourself is a learned behavior

[blamemarktjan-deactivated201711]

Physical shame comes from parents, teachers, media, and peers. It’s not something you’re born with. You were born naked, wonderful, and gorgeous, and no one should make another being feel as if that wasn’t, and isn’t true.

[someday-i-will-be-skinny-blog]

This made me cry

[dvilsnvrmnd]