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I have a crush but I’m too scared to go talk to him! And I see him often but he is always with friends and prob doesn’t notice me but he is so cute and I NEED to do something about it! Advice?

wait till he’s alone and talk to him, or if you’re feeling more bold, walk up to him and his friends and be like “you mind if i talk to you for a sec?” and tell him privately, or just walk up to him and his friends and be like “ hey h/n, i have a crush on you! (and run away dramatically like in a movie lol jk) and see what happens, or do the note thing if you’re too shy to tell him outright. hope this helps!

hi there’s a picture of my crush and i giving each other serious heart eyes.... it’s so aesthetically pleasing and he said it fits my feed well, is it weird if i post it?

if you have permission from him, then yeah go for it!

this might be a stupid question but how do you know if someone likes you? bc my friend got a shot of my crush giving me serious heart eyes at a photo shoot but it seems like he never wants to talk to me... do you know of any other signs?

he might just be shy love, but other signs include smiling at you a lot, his friends teasing him whenever you’re around, if his body is more turned towards you, if he smiles when he hears you speak about him, more shy crushes don’t have the touchy feely thing because they’re more nervous around you but that would be another thing, them touching you a lot. hope i could help!

Don't imagine

Kissing them under the mistletoe after they tease you mercilessly while eating a coffee-flavored candy cane. And don't imagine their wide grin or the dimple in their chin as you pull apart.

How to unlove someon?..

hmm...time? moving on to another interest? eating food instead? Do things you enjoy, that way you focus on that instead of your current situation

- don’t get me wrong casual sex is perfectly fine. (i just don’t do it.) but doing all of that just so he can have sex with me is fucking ridiculous. i don’t understand why he would waste HIS time and MINE. that is so fucking shitty and my feelings were seriously hurt. idk what i did to him to deserve that. but i really fucking didn’t.

People like him don’t care about other’s feelings, he’ll learn one day that his actions will catch up to him and that he’ll have to grow up REAL fast. None of you deserve to get hurt, so if y’all need back up, ya girls here for you guys.

hello! i ended a thing with this guy and i actually caught feelings for him. i thought everything was going well - he seemed like he cared. he opened up to me like and i opened up to him about my past and struggles growing up. turns out, he just did that because he wanted to have sex with me. he said he doesn’t have time to be a bf, but he said we could always have sex. lmao. (i didn’t say yes btw. i’m not up for something casual)

Well that’s good, you deserve better than people like him. proud of you!

so i’m in theatre and i’m playing one of the leads and (sorry for sounding cocky) i am pretty popular in the program. the guy i like is kinda shy and on crew. we hang out just us when on break or he needs help with set painting and he’s super sweet and excited but when anyone else comes (especially his friends) he gets all distant from me and i can’t figure out why this happens. how do i bring this up to him? i don’t want to scare him away ty xoxo

He might just be shy like you were saying, he might be nervous showing his emotions around people. Ask him about it, he might tell you what’s going on :) hope this helps!

this is the anon with the crush who likes my best friend- she told him I liked him, he didn’t believe her, and a few hours later he told me he wanted to ask her out. so yeah.

The important part is that you found out, so now you can begin to move on. It sucks, don’t get me wrong, that hurts. But now that you know, you can begin the healing process, through music, movies, friendship, whatever makes you happy. There’s gonna be times when you want to cry, let yourself. it’s all a part of healing. Anger may also happen but use methods like counting backwards, music, talking it out with someone, watching tv or movies. It sucks, but time will heal your wounds and eventually you’ll find someone that maybe, will ask you instead :) if you need to you can also talk to me or Sky.

There’s this guy that I added on snap (and I’ve hung out w him in a group before) and I can’t discern whether he’s trying to lead me on or if he actually likes me?? Bc he’s admitted that he’s talking to someone else and I told him that I respect that and I’m not gonna interfere, but he still talks about how I’m “so hot” and how he “wants to hit it” and he said that he’s been “ignoring how he felt about me.” It’s such a complicated thing and idk what’s going on, pls help a sister out 😂

He sounds like he’s gonna be unfaithful, you probably don’t wanna be with a guy that might cheat on you or someone else, trust me.

I’ve been friends with this one guy for a long long time and I think I’ve had a lowkey crush on him for a few years that just recently flared up. he’s one of my closest friends and we have a lot in common but the thing is he likes (or used to like?) my other best friend. I was planning on asking him out today and right before I was about to he sent me a meme about asking a girl out and I can’t tell if it’s about her or me because he has been giving me hints. I don’t know what to do.

I would just ask him, it’s better to know the answer than to wonder what might have been. hope i could help :)

explained. Does this have any significant meaning at all or am I just freaking out for no reason. It was adorable (to me anyway)

It might be possible he likes you, i would ask him if he does and where it goes :)

Its the person who asked about a guy putting his head over mine whilst I was lying down and it was weird a while ago. So i had let it go and had thought " eh no big deal, one time thing" but today when we were doing circle for theatre. He started punching me slow motion style for no absolute reason? So I thought " okay????" But then we had to go up on a a bridge thing over the stage and as I was kneeling looking over the edge he stands over me and leans on the railing and I felt his.. Continues

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Hi! Two unrelated questions! 1) so you take writing requests for "(don't) imagine your crush" type things? 2) any advice for getting over someone who rejected you, but you still can see yourself with?

I honestly would if I had the energy, i don’t want it to be half hearted though, it’s not fair to you guys.

for the second part, time and patience, also if someone else comes into your life that may or may not help. Your loved ones can also provide useful advice in situations like this. Hope i could help :)

Aaaaahhh my crush told one of my friends that he likes me!!!!!!!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA omg good for you! i’m so happy for you :D

hello there, so i’m pretty sure i like one of my best guy friends who by stereotypical standards might like me back (woo!). but here’s the thing, his little sister is one of my best friends, a couple of his buddies have crushes on me, and there’s quite literally almost a turf war going on over if he and i are the perfect match or a pair destined to fail. we’ve also been on countless “group hangouts” which were practically double dates. i don’t know how to talk to my friends about this... help!

Being that they’re your friends, wouldn’t you trust them with something this serious? Remember, I've said before that communication is key to all relationships, friendship or otherwise. Talk to one of them, talk it out with his sister, his friends, or him even. It’s a big step to make but an important one. I hope this helps :)

2) It’s been two weeks and we haven’t talked since. I’m always the one starting conversations and I’m kinda waiting it out cause if he wanted to talk to me he’d do so right? I feel like he’s waiting for me but if he’s not I don’t want to be that girl hanging on to her ex you know? I miss him even tho he’s being an asshole and idk I don’t want to give up entirely on him but I feel like I’m stuck. Should I talk to him? Or should I wait it out and hope he misses me like he claims he does?

I wouldn’t waste your time, energy, and emotions on someone who’s not texting you back. if he wanted to talk it out he would have texted you by now. it’s still up to you though on what you want to do. Just be careful if you do decide to text him, i don’t want you getting hurt by someone who’s being a jerk to you. It could also be maybe he’s trying to figure things out and needs his space, it’s important for both of you to grow as people. i hope this helps you out :)

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