The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said.
Peter Drucker
When we connect with others, we are constantly sending and receiving nonverbal signals. All of our nonverbal behaviors—the gestures we make, our posture, our voice tone, and the eye contact we make—send powerful messages. And I for instance, change my behavior in a way where I can show my comfort and fondness when I am with the people I love. My gestures and posture are more casual and affectionate when I'm with them. And even though I frequently shower my siblings with sweet compliments and conversations, these messages don’t cease when I stop speaking. I can show my care and affection to my siblings through nonverbal gestures, even if I am silent. These gestures and body language are of utmost importance. The way we pay any attention, move, look, and respond tells the person with whom we're interacting whether or not we care, how genuine we are, and how well we're listening. These nonverbal cues play a vital role in developing relationships, which is why they are important. Saying something and doing something are two entirely different things. And although I think that the secret to prosperity in personal relationships is our ability to converse effectively, I also genuinely think that it is our nonverbal cues and actions that speak the loudest. Ultimately, actions give meaning to our words, they are what achieves results, and essentially strengthens bonds between people than words.













