DNI: Minors, ageless blogs, men, bigots
I will block you if you do not clearly have your age in your bio or a pinned post.
🔞This is an 18+ explicit erotic lesbian kink fantasy blog.🔞
If you don't like what you see, then block and move along.
I reserve the right to block on a whim, and will block minors and ageless blogs.
Strongly prefer 23+ for asks and kink play/RPing.
Hard kinks are featured here.
This is not a space for discourse or current events.
This is a fantasy blog. I do not condone doing anything here IRL.
Current header image is My own
Info on Me, this blog, My kinks, and more below
Me
Identity
Goddess, She/Her, mid-30s Transfem Dommy Mommy, usually dominant/usually top.
If you want a "normal" name, you can call Me Delilah, Deli, or Del.
Please use She/Her and You/Your with proper capitalization for Me.
Health
I am neurodivergent (AuDHD), and sometimes have struggles with communication and overstimulus.
(If I make you uncomfortable, please let Me know! I appreciate firm boundaries!)
I am an alter in a system. (Age given is body age, and the primary fronts share memories/experiences.)
I am a disabled sleepy Goddess (uncertain diagnosis, probably some kind of EDS and/or ME/CFS), and sometimes I just don't have spoons/energy for things.
Relationship
⚢ Married, in an open poly relationship (wife: @castigated-chaser, gf: @greenfairymothgirlnsfw); I am not looking for romance here, but I am looking for fun.
Platonic relationships and acquaintances with lots of kink and play are very welcome.
Sexuality
♀ I feel My strongest sexual attraction to c!s women and femme/nonbinary AFABs, with rare exceptions.
I am a bit of a fraysexual, and I tend to feel My strongest sexual attraction to people when I've first met them and am still getting to know them. (Though I still tend to retain some sexual attraction afterward.)
Other Places
Fluxer: Mutuals can ask in DMs.
Bluesky: dormantgoddess.bsky.social
Fansly: dormantGoddess
Throne: dormantgoddess -- DM Me if you get Me something so I can let you know when I get it and maybe send you a picture with it.
Discord: Mutuals can ask in DMs. (Unsure if I will continue using Discord after age ID.)
Lovense: Mutuals can ask in DMs.
This blog
The number one rule of this blog is My pleasure. I (mostly) only reblog, ask, answer, or DM if it turns Me on.
As a Goddess, I am nourished by your horny impulsive thoughts, lustful prayers, fantasies, and adorations. Send them to Me -- in DMs, in asks, by spamming likes, by tagging Me in posts, by hidden whispers in your art and writing, by thinking about Me at night as you fall asleep.
I enjoy sexting and ERP
If you are 23+, you're welcome to open My DMs with sexts, pics, RP, etc.
I sometimes answer asks with RP or fics. Try your luck.
If you send Me an ask that isn't horny (or isn't horny enough), I may choose to make it horny, including by RPing or writing a short fic with Anon while answering.
Taken anon emoji
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My Kinks
I am into a lot of kinks. I spent many years exploring kinks and deliberately pushing My boundaries. I will never judge you for your kinks or philias, even if they are not personally for Me.
My favorites
Transfem/TGirl/Futa supremacy
freeuse and casual, shameless kink
receiving oral (mouths on My tits, fingers, or anywhere below the waist)
bottomless outfits (or at least commando)
Everything else is more mood-dependent.
These are kinks that I try to tag:
#cnc
#intox kink
#breeding kink
#incest kink
#ageplay
#piss kink
#rough play
#blood kink
#gore kink
#snuff kink
#destruction kink
I will likely not be perfect, and many of My older reblogs are mostly untagged.
I may add more tags over time.
My limits
If I don't have an established safeword with someone, I will default to the traffic light system. (Red light, yellow light, green light)
My biggest limit is hard realism, especially realistic abuse. Primarily (but not limited to): realistic [ageplay, incest, assault, bigotry, violence, death, degradation/humiliation]
I also have some turnoffs that are related to dysphoria:
facial hair
being around men or in male spaces
"sir" "daddy" "dad" "son" "boy" "man" "dude" "guy" (even when not referring to Me)
And a couple of other assorted turnoffs:
diaper play
scat
cigarettes/cigars (weed is okay, pipes can be okay sometimes)
any infectious disease more serious than the mildest of colds
My tags
#DGoddess writes -- My writing or My added text to reblogs.
#DGoddess kink -- Involves a kink I like (this is most of My posts)
#DGoddess status -- Updates on how I'm doing (sleepy, drunk, etc.)
#DGoddess drunk -- Posting while drunk
#DGoddess sleepy -- Posting while sleepy
#DGoddess relief -- Thoughts/fantasies I had while pissing
#DGoddess fiction -- Short stories (or similar writing)
#DGoddess scenario -- (Experimental) A type of fiction post where I write part of a scenario, run a poll, then finish the scenario based on the results
#DGoddess dream -- Either a literal dream I had, or a fantasy I had in bed before fully waking up
#DGoddess audio -- My audio recordings (rare)
#DGoddess art -- Art of Mine (rare)
#DGoddess Deity -- Details about My lore, portfolio, worship, etc. as a (fictional) Goddess/Deity
#DGoddess pinned -- My (previous) pinned posts.
#DGoddess answers -- My answers to asks.
#DGoddess OOC -- Me going some degree out of character or talking a little about My non-kink life
#DGoddess kink psych -- Sharing (or thinking out loud) about what might be going on in My mind with certain kinks
#DGoddess calls -- Watch this tag if you want to catch when I'm calling for followers to do something for Me.
#DGoddess seeking -- Openly looking for another blog to do something with (like a collab or contract)
#DGoddess contract -- Post is (or contains) a BDSM/kink contract for doing some kind of (online) play with Me.
If I like a pinned post of yours, that means I have read it.
(Retention of what I have read isn't guaranteed.)
You don't need to like this post if you've read it, but it certainly wouldn't hurt.
UGH why does playing with My tits get Me so worked up like I want to rip into a crowd, start fucking a girl and pull two more girls down to join us and have them both groping us while sucking My nipples and I'm screaming clawing for more bodies to join Me like
I'm just trying to order some food?? Someone come suck My nipples so I can fucking concentrate
Who should pay girls $1000/hr to jack off in bed all day?
I've written about it before but I love the fantasy of a government submitting to Trans Women. In this case, Women findomming a government.
they should send a well-dressed representative to come into a Girl's home so She can step on her and tell her, "Hey, I laid in bed and jerked off for 40 hours this week! I want $40,000, NOW! And bring Me a strawberry smoothie IN A BIG CUTE TRAVEL CUP!" While She's jerking off, of course.
Turning cuties into cum addicted cocksocks is far too fun ^.^
Just breaking them down as they are relentlessly pounded into and used like a pretty little set of holes until it's all they can think about forever and ever 💜
Gagging the pathetic things with nyanby girlcock until they can't imagine how empty they'd feel without it (✿◠ω◠)
If boobs weren't meant to be a part of who we are, why are they up front and right at the perfect height to be in our vision and in reach of our hands and mouths?
I can be Mommy and you can nurse on My tits, and you can be My fidget that I grab and play with whenever I like.
I need like... mutuals with sideblogs that they reblog only sapphic content to.
There's a lot of people I follow who post stuff I like, but also post a lot of stuff about men and how much they like men or talking about their man and I just... I get tired of seeing it in My feed.
My ideal feed is one that lets Me pretend for a little while that I'm living in an alternate reality that is magically just women.
I need like... mutuals with sideblogs that they reblog only sapphic content to.
There's a lot of people I follow who post stuff I like, but also post a lot of stuff about men and how much they like men or talking about their man and I just... I get tired of seeing it in My feed.
My ideal feed is one that lets Me pretend for a little while that I'm living in an alternate reality that is magically just women.
this is the end goal, btw. subs can't be passive. subs can't expect dominants to work on themselves and self actualise without help, and subs can't expect dommes to do that work without them.
your domme is not an island. she is not so far above you that you can't be there for her when she struggles. if you belong to her in any kind of way then you need to be there for her when she's not dominating you. you need to know that your domme has feelings and thoughts and that you both need to support each other. you can dress it up in kink if it helps, but you need to help each other.
I think there's some element of this in My fantasies about a sub giving a shy Domme instructions on how to use, abuse, or degrade her; in a friendly, helpful, and positive manner; encouraging the Domme to let go, de-empathize a bit, and enter a flow state that is both impulse driven and calculating.
Continuing to do so even when the Domme is pinning her down, going too rough on her, has her in a difficult/compromising pose, or is doing something that makes it harder for her to talk, while trying not to dissuade or discourage the Domme.
In My fantasies, this tends to get portrayed as the sub being excessively submissive, with an impression that the sub probably should have held firmer on boundaries and pushed back more than they did with the Domme even if they were trying to be gentle and guiding. The Domme getting too into it and taking things too far, but even that still being considered "okay".
I think this comes from a desire to want to feel okay being more open and vulnerable and imperfect and supported as a Domme, to get a break from thinking three steps ahead and doing intensive scene management with every action.
I haven't had a lot of contact with other dommes, but I'm getting the impression that a lot of us have had experiences with subs and communities that have pushed us into being less open or more aggressive or more "invulnerable" and to take more responsibility for the scene and everyone involved.
Maintain kayfabe, do the emotional labor for ourself and/or our partner(s).
"If I feel guilty about it, that's my problem (alone) for not having the right mindset."
"I'm the one in control of someone else (or multiple someones), so I can't afford to make mistakes."
I can maintain confidence and emotionally regulate and manage everyone's boundaries and control the scene, sure, but doing all of it all of the time is exhausting.
Even now that I keep good subs that thank Me and appreciate Me and bring scene ideas and react creatively and are very tolerant of My mistakes/flaws, it's still taxing labor to begin with.
taking what you want is already giving more than giving what you think is desired. two people could have entirely unenjoyable sex because they both think they're doing what the other person wants, hoping they'll get back what they want in exchange. on the other hand two people could act entirely selfishly and both get exactly what they want when there's compatibility between desires. good sex is found in the overlap of desire not in a turn-based game of what-do-you-want. stop giving head because you want to be given head or vice versa. what are you, a heterosexual?
