totally feedism obsessed - love to chat, dms open! - 25, uk - taken x2 but free to flirt ❤️ encourage me to get fat(ter) - transfem she/they - 18+ only
hiya!! im fox, 25yo, aspiring fat chick and increasingly full time feedee!
indulging in feedism myself for the first time after years of watching from the sidelines. it's been. SO hot.
🔞 18+ only!!! if you're in my notes without your age in your bio you're getting blocked 🥀
❣️ poly and very fulfilled 💗 i have two partners, one of whom is heavily invested in making me even bigger 💖💕
💌 trying my best to still flirt in the dms 💞 i LOVE showing off and sharing my body so it'll only take a few compliments and/or insults to get me naked
⛓️ big sub, love being degraded. pathetic is one of my favourite words 🖤
🍃 probably stoned rn. weed was my first feeder ❤️
♀️ nonbinary trans woman
⚖️ around 87kg / 190lbs and slowly rapidly growing 💓 up 10lbs from june 2025 when i started getting fed irl 💖
i run feedism.neocities.org with my girlfriend & feeder @soft-sappho 💖💕 we're sooo keen to make it an archive of everything feedist, check out our intro and content submission posts for more info!
I wanna use the feedism archive, but the page looks so over stimulating and hard to navigate. 😭
hello anon! a few months ago we had a similar ask about changing the font to be more readable, and we started working on a new layout for the site. we didn't want to get rid of our current layout, so we wanted to work out a way for users to toggle between them. unfortunately, this was a bit beyond us, and fell to the wayside.
well, getting this ask prompted us to get back to it! thanks to another retro web developer (read more about that on f.a's new blog page!) we've added a stylesheet switcher!
you can now choose between the new "pro" style, and the old classic style via a little drop down menu on the left side navigation sidebar. the pro style is much cleaner (in a graphic design context, anwyay), with bigger, sans serif font.
please let us know if there's anything we can do to improve accessibility on the "pro" version!
p.s. while i'm here, you can now follow the website-update-exclusive blog @feedismarchive
I wanna use the feedism archive, but the page looks so over stimulating and hard to navigate. 😭
hello anon! a few months ago we had a similar ask about changing the font to be more readable, and we started working on a new layout for the site. we didn't want to get rid of our current layout, so we wanted to work out a way for users to toggle between them. unfortunately, this was a bit beyond us, and fell to the wayside.
well, getting this ask prompted us to get back to it! thanks to another retro web developer (read more about that on f.a's new blog page!) we've added a stylesheet switcher!
you can now choose between the new "pro" style, and the old classic style via a little drop down menu on the left side navigation sidebar. the pro style is much cleaner (in a graphic design context, anwyay), with bigger, sans serif font.
please let us know if there's anything we can do to improve accessibility on the "pro" version!
p.s. while i'm here, you can now follow the website-update-exclusive blog @feedismarchive
we're hard at work on the feedist history page for feedism.neocities.org, and a recent submission of recipes from an old feedist forum led us down a big long rabbit hole of near-forgotten web pages that have luckily been backed up by the internet archive
this index page, from feeder.co.uk in 2002, gives a really cool (if quite dated and very occasionally misguided) glimpse into just how big the feedist + fat admiration web was in the early 2000s!
check out the archived site here:
https://web.archive.org/web/20021123010322/http://www.feeder.co.uk/
feedism.net - help us expand and archive! (+ small updates)
hi wonderful folks 🥹💗. I haven’t been as active on here - life got busy and I’m autismly bad at managing multiple interests and commitments, but @doughyfatfox and I have been quietly adding and editing bits to the site. though lately I’ve been having a little dip in motivation + inspiration, and was planning on continuing to procrastinate on this;
I hate to admit that a teensy part of this was fuelled by the doomer in me, where I sometimes can only muster up the energy to exist as a fat queer in this fascist hellscape. until we got the news that @fatliberation’s blog got fucking nuked by tumblr!! (and thank fuck they reinstated it!! 😡) ohhh the rage and grief i feel for my community, enough to fuel me to get my grips back on archiving all the wonderful and important content we have!
so we wanted to put out another call-out for submissions and archive requests!
but can i also just quickly say, the submissions, love and encouragement we’ve received for this site has filled me with so much joy and purpose 😭💖. all your guestbook messages, lived experience, seeing the kink jars I’ve made on your blogs means the world to me and it does not go unseen. thank you for making me feel so connected to this community even at times when I struggle to actively engage in it 💗. anyway, back to the point of this post!!
what are we looking for?
we will always say anything you feel would fit the site (that’s community-centric, non-pornographic, archival, and even educational), email them over to [email protected], but we also have a couple of specific things we’d like to see more (and maybe even expand them into dedicated pages/projects 👀):
content to archive! stuff you don’t want to see get eternally lost into the ether ‼️🚨 - iconic tumblr posts, essays/articles about feedism that resonated with you, recipes, wg guides, fiction, anything! before the evil overlords of tumblr take our history away from us. please send us a link or even better, archived files of it. we currently have a system (and backlog 😅) of saving everything that has been submitted + stuff we personally want to archive in file and code form, and we publish it whenever we get permission and/or the content gets nuked. but there’s only two of us and a web’s worth of amazing feedist content, so any help in this effort would be massively appreciated.
personal definitions of feedism - the site currently has a “what is feedism?” page with an as-broad-as-possible definition of the kink. but we’re not looking to be an authority on the topic! we’d love to have a collection of definitions from different feedists - what this kink means to you, how you practice it, or how you might explain it to someone who has absolutely no idea what it is
feedist awakenings - on a similar note, we’d love to host submissions from all of you about how you realised you were into feedism!
memes - the queerer the better, duh
feedist history - @doughyfatfox has been hard at work building a chunky page about our community's history, hugely because there isn't a documented one yet! from the ancient venus of willendorf depths to magazines in the 80s-90s, we want to be as comprehensive as possible!
feedism and other kinks - this has been something we've always wanted to make space for on our site; the intersections of related kinks and how folks have experienced them, so we'd love to hear yours
lastly, a little update!
you might’ve noticed a domain change (well it’s a redirect!)… and we have someone special in our community we’d like to thank for that! the admin of other feedist site reached out a couple months ago offering to redirect feedism.net, which they own, to our site. not gonna lie, it feels a little daunting to have part-title to such an ✨ official ✨ domain, but if anything it has motivated us to try and live up to it by upping our archive + submission efforts.
we’re still feedism.neocities.org, just now with a fancy redirect if anyone were to wonder where feedism.net would bring them to.
that’s all from us! happy browsing, and snacking, and expanding 💓🐷
A survey to determine how feedism is viewed by those not in the feedist community.
A feedist can be defined as: a feedee, feeder, gainer, e
Who is this survey for?
Non feedists. If you are in a feedist relationship but don't identify as a feedist, feel free to answer. (Feedists please don't answer because obviously your answers would all be positive. Reblogging to encourage others to answer is encouraged. If you're in the feedist closet and you want to recommend it to friends, you could try saying "I just learned about this kink through this survey, maybe you would like to take it and learn about it?" If you have the type of relationship for it) There are options for asexuals throughout.
All questions are optional, so if something isn't applicable/you don't want to answer it, you don't have to. There is an "other" option for each question, but please try to use the preselected multiple choice unless you really don't feel like any apply. If I get a ton of responses it will be easier to look at the responses if they're preselected.
There's 35-40 questions, I expect it should take around 20 minutes to take.
When does it close/when will the results be published?
I will keep it open indefinitely. I'll publish the results when I get a big enough response. I'm aiming for 500 but I have no idea if that's realistic (that's why it would be so difficult if people use a custom answer for every question). I'm doing this by myself so I'll have results posted in a tidy manner as soon as I can. I also haven't done anything like this before so it'll be a learning curve for me to present the information in a legible way. I'm not a trained professional in the field of study and research in any way. I tried to phrase the questions in the least biased manner possible, but I'm sure it's not perfect. Your feedback/criticism is welcome, but I most likely won't edit the survey after it's posted to make data collection more accurate. Emails are not collected and the results are completely anonymous!
surely everyone who follows me here is a feedist but if you know any not-feedists who'd wanna fill this out you've GOTTA ask em because i really wanna see the results 🙏🙏🙏
feedism.net - help us expand and archive! (+ small updates)
hi wonderful folks 🥹💗. I haven’t been as active on here - life got busy and I’m autismly bad at managing multiple interests and commitments, but @doughyfatfox and I have been quietly adding and editing bits to the site. though lately I’ve been having a little dip in motivation + inspiration, and was planning on continuing to procrastinate on this;
I hate to admit that a teensy part of this was fuelled by the doomer in me, where I sometimes can only muster up the energy to exist as a fat queer in this fascist hellscape. until we got the news that @fatliberation’s blog got fucking nuked by tumblr!! (and thank fuck they reinstated it!! 😡) ohhh the rage and grief i feel for my community, enough to fuel me to get my grips back on archiving all the wonderful and important content we have!
so we wanted to put out another call-out for submissions and archive requests!
but can i also just quickly say, the submissions, love and encouragement we’ve received for this site has filled me with so much joy and purpose 😭💖. all your guestbook messages, lived experience, seeing the kink jars I’ve made on your blogs means the world to me and it does not go unseen. thank you for making me feel so connected to this community even at times when I struggle to actively engage in it 💗. anyway, back to the point of this post!!
what are we looking for?
we will always say anything you feel would fit the site (that’s community-centric, non-pornographic, archival, and even educational), email them over to [email protected], but we also have a couple of specific things we’d like to see more (and maybe even expand them into dedicated pages/projects 👀):
content to archive! stuff you don’t want to see get eternally lost into the ether ‼️🚨 - iconic tumblr posts, essays/articles about feedism that resonated with you, recipes, wg guides, fiction, anything! before the evil overlords of tumblr take our history away from us. please send us a link or even better, archived files of it. we currently have a system (and backlog 😅) of saving everything that has been submitted + stuff we personally want to archive in file and code form, and we publish it whenever we get permission and/or the content gets nuked. but there’s only two of us and a web’s worth of amazing feedist content, so any help in this effort would be massively appreciated.
personal definitions of feedism - the site currently has a “what is feedism?” page with an as-broad-as-possible definition of the kink. but we’re not looking to be an authority on the topic! we’d love to have a collection of definitions from different feedists - what this kink means to you, how you practice it, or how you might explain it to someone who has absolutely no idea what it is
feedist awakenings - on a similar note, we’d love to host submissions from all of you about how you realised you were into feedism!
memes - the queerer the better, duh
feedist history - @doughyfatfox has been hard at work building a chunky page about our community's history, hugely because there isn't a documented one yet! from the ancient venus of willendorf depths to magazines in the 80s-90s, we want to be as comprehensive as possible!
feedism and other kinks - this has been something we've always wanted to make space for on our site; the intersections of related kinks and how folks have experienced them, so we'd love to hear yours
lastly, a little update!
you might’ve noticed a domain change (well it’s a redirect!)… and we have someone special in our community we’d like to thank for that! the admin of other feedist site reached out a couple months ago offering to redirect feedism.net, which they own, to our site. not gonna lie, it feels a little daunting to have part-title to such an ✨ official ✨ domain, but if anything it has motivated us to try and live up to it by upping our archive + submission efforts.
we’re still feedism.neocities.org, just now with a fancy redirect if anyone were to wonder where feedism.net would bring them to.
that’s all from us! happy browsing, and snacking, and expanding 💓🐷
