reminder that this is an nsfw feedism blog that prioritises consent + communication ⚠️
(what I share here and who I interact with only apply to those who share + consent to the same k!nks)
messages + asks are open 💬
(be nice and respectful if you'd actually like a response)
DNI: MINORS, CISHET MEN, TERFS, SWERFS, RACISTS, ZIONISTS, ETC. ❌
(cishet men - you're welcome in my messages, only for non-sexual chat)
I will not respond to ageless and blank blogs 🫥
(I implore you to work on that internalised fatphobia of yours)
usually slow with responding to messages, but I love talking to y'all ⏳
(and maybe don’t just say hello if you want a response)
DO NOT steal/repost my photos (rbs only) 📷
if you’re ever feeling generous and would like to help me stay (or get) fatter, here’s my kofi 💕
TAGS 🏷️: #asks, #spicy-sappho for horny posting, #thoughts for everything else (usually fat lib, social justice or life stuff)
open up below for - about me, feedism specifics, and fat liberation resources
🙋🏻♀️ (you'll get to know my name once we’re more well-acquainted)
🫦 fa + feeder + feedee (more details below)
🏳️🌈 lesbian + demisexual
🧠 autistic (still trying to figure this one out)
💫 liberation and decolonisation for ALL (fats, queers, trans+, poc, indigenous, etc.)
🍔 cw: ~110kg (242lbs) 📏 5”1
❌ NOT ACTIVELY GAINING, just fat!
📍 currently in the UK
🌍 poc (asian)
combine that w foodie and you get a fattie who’ll talk to you all day about food, from my culture to plenty others’… I’ve been told I give the best reccs, and I also love to cook for others when I have the spoons 🤤
🇵🇸 free palestine, or fuck off
✨ my relationship with fatness and sexuality can be best described as fat-forward (interesting paper here) - as a lifelong fat, fatness is not just a kink, but is also central to how I navigate (non-kinky) sex, physical attraction, romance. to me... fatness is inherently desirable
💡ethical kink and fat liberation are essential in my practice of feedism
ok onto the horny part you pervs
switch - currently bottom+sub-leaning
I am a land of contrasts - I love the care and sensuality of soft feedism, but i also want you to tease, degrade, and humiliate me 😳
I go feral for soft, jiggly, hanging and heavy bellies full of subcutaneous fat 😵💫
big supporter of gaining for a belly that hangs lower and becomes harder to lift, and a fůpa that gets chubbier and chubbier
🎀 as long as you identify as sapphic/wlw, I might be into you 💕
here are my feedism jars - let's get to know each other if we share the same k!nks 💞 I will not engage with ❌s
(credits to fattyjanet, justachunker, and build-a-bhm for this master jar graphic i created)
🙇🏻♀️ queen of intellectualising just about everything, including my own k!nks - I firmly believe that everything we do is political and that it's necessary to balance and equally prioritise introspection, discourse and pleasure
I'm acutely aware of the stigma and inclusion/exclusion of this fetish in fat lib spaces; I believe we need mutual solidarity and respect, which starts with discourse!
🎓 predictably, I love academia - research, meta-social science, statistics, psychology, anthropology, sociology, etc.; I'm currently hauling my burnt out ass into (hopefully) a research career
✊🏾 social justice ↔️ academia for me - knowledge has been the single most powerful tool in expanding my passion for social justice, but epistemics itself also needs to rehauled, decolonised, made more accessible
🔮 agnostic and casually spiritual, not (yet) into the new age-y stuff but trust me, nothing's too woo-woo for me atp
👻 which means I love paranormal content! ghouls, aliens, internet oddities and liminal spaces... TELL ME MORE
🎨 a creative person - a crafty hobby-hopper, journaller, stationery and fountain pen enthusiast, I also like to make my data analysis code look pretty
🎶 lady gaga (the loml), lorde, magdalena bay, the marias, MARINA, and many more within pop, indie, electronica/synth; I also know a bit too much about pop culture for my own good
📺 wlw media, documentaries, psychological horror - endorser of the l word being a seminal piece of sapphic media, will enter periods of rewatching carol
💓 outside of this k!nk I am merely a victim of limerance and mommy issues - older women... I'm looking at you bette porter and cate blanchett
THANK YOU for making it to the end of this long ass post. I’m crap at keeping things short and brief. If anything I’ve shared resonates with you, please slide into my DMs/asks 🥰
feedism.net - help us expand and archive! (+ small updates)
hi wonderful folks 🥹💗. I haven’t been as active on here - life got busy and I’m autismly bad at managing multiple interests and commitments, but @doughyfatfox and I have been quietly adding and editing bits to the site. though lately I’ve been having a little dip in motivation + inspiration, and was planning on continuing to procrastinate on this;
I hate to admit that a teensy part of this was fuelled by the doomer in me, where I sometimes can only muster up the energy to exist as a fat queer in this fascist hellscape. until we got the news that @fatliberation’s blog got fucking nuked by tumblr!! (and thank fuck they reinstated it!! 😡) ohhh the rage and grief i feel for my community, enough to fuel me to get my grips back on archiving all the wonderful and important content we have!
so we wanted to put out another call-out for submissions and archive requests!
but can i also just quickly say, the submissions, love and encouragement we’ve received for this site has filled me with so much joy and purpose 😭💖. all your guestbook messages, lived experience, seeing the kink jars I’ve made on your blogs means the world to me and it does not go unseen. thank you for making me feel so connected to this community even at times when I struggle to actively engage in it 💗. anyway, back to the point of this post!!
what are we looking for?
we will always say anything you feel would fit the site (that’s community-centric, non-pornographic, archival, and even educational), email them over to [email protected], but we also have a couple of specific things we’d like to see more (and maybe even expand them into dedicated pages/projects 👀):
content to archive! stuff you don’t want to see get eternally lost into the ether ‼️🚨 - iconic tumblr posts, essays/articles about feedism that resonated with you, recipes, wg guides, fiction, anything! before the evil overlords of tumblr take our history away from us. please send us a link or even better, archived files of it. we currently have a system (and backlog 😅) of saving everything that has been submitted + stuff we personally want to archive in file and code form, and we publish it whenever we get permission and/or the content gets nuked. but there’s only two of us and a web’s worth of amazing feedist content, so any help in this effort would be massively appreciated.
personal definitions of feedism - the site currently has a “what is feedism?” page with an as-broad-as-possible definition of the kink. but we’re not looking to be an authority on the topic! we’d love to have a collection of definitions from different feedists - what this kink means to you, how you practice it, or how you might explain it to someone who has absolutely no idea what it is
feedist awakenings - on a similar note, we’d love to host submissions from all of you about how you realised you were into feedism!
memes - the queerer the better, duh
feedist history - @doughyfatfox has been hard at work building a chunky page about our community's history, hugely because there isn't a documented one yet! from the ancient venus of willendorf depths to magazines in the 80s-90s, we want to be as comprehensive as possible!
feedism and other kinks - this has been something we've always wanted to make space for on our site; the intersections of related kinks and how folks have experienced them, so we'd love to hear yours
lastly, a little update!
you might’ve noticed a domain change (well it’s a redirect!)… and we have someone special in our community we’d like to thank for that! the admin of another feedist site reached out a couple months ago offering to redirect feedism.net, which they own, to our site. not gonna lie, it feels a little daunting to have part-title to such an ✨ official ✨ domain, but if anything it has motivated us to try and live up to it by upping our archive + submission efforts.
we’re still feedism.neocities.org, just now with a fancy redirect if anyone were to wonder where feedism.net would bring them to.
that’s all from us! happy browsing, and snacking, and expanding 💓🐷
@fatliberation, who I often reblog here, has been censored by staff. This blog has been a respite from fatphobic culture, and we are all worse for having lost it. Please support their other blog, @thaenad, if you’re interested in continuing to support this creator.
I haven’t spoken about this directly, but I believe the institutionalized anti-feedist sentiment on tumblr is puritanical and inherently fatphobic. This policy has been used to justify silencing and harassing fat people, both who are and aren’t feedists.
I understand that there are range of opinions and histories with the feedist community, and I respect not wanting to engage with the kink. Everyone has the right to curate their own sexual experience. There are shitty people in every community, and I’m not here to dismiss people’s pain associated with mistreatment by feedists.
However, most feedists are fat people. Or they’re the partners and friends and allies of fat people. Tumblr especially tends to attract feedists who engage in the kink with less shame, and less reason to mistreat other fat people. Demonization of them on the basis of a sexual preference people find distasteful is bullshit. Limits on self expression and alternative perspectives harm all of us.
And to people who say feedists fundamentally objectify fat bodies, the majority of people in my likes and reblogs are feedists. They’re fighting the good fight. They’re expanding the Overton window on fat liberation. I think it’s bad politics to reject allies because they give you the ick.
If you’re in a position to engage with fat liberation from the perspective of a feedist, I recommend following @thaenad on their blog and other places. They’ve been committed to providing an alternative view point against fatphobia for years. I’m personally very grateful for what they put out into the world.
@fatliberation has been terminated by tumblr staff.
I did not hit the self-destruct button! I was silenced! I’m officially an INTERNET FUGITIVE! this is my initial post just getting the word out, sorry if it’s a bit rushed and panicky - I’m trying not to get too worked up over it and just get this out there as efficiently as possible, but I’m the user behind @fatliberation. I am posting this from my feed1sm community blog, which was initially a safe haven for me to reach directly to the feed1st community without the scrutiny of non-feed1sts. luckily, it was not attached to the account that got terminated. go figure! I’ve sent an appeal request to tumblr, but I am doubtful that my blog will be reinstated because feed1sm is officially against tumblr’s community guidelines. yes, this is discrimination. here’s why feed1sm is not a fucking eating disorder.
obviously, I’m in extreme distress over this, because I did not have any of my work backed up. I’m devastated to have lost the hundreds of asks sitting in my inbox, the lists of resources I’ve compiled, and the six years worth of work in the form of replies and essays.
I know that much of my work is still out there on each of your individual blogs as reblogs. I might eventually try to organize a combing operation for specific posts so that some of it can be saved.
I don’t know where I’m going from here, but I will send updates from this blog. I will most likely make my own website with a domain that I own, but it will take me awhile. as many of you know, I’ve worked through a brick wall of deep-rooted shame to get to this point, so my blog being terminated on the account of promoting a culture of harm has caused my brain to backslide into shame-land. I’m experiencing anxiety and doubts about my character that haven’t come up in years. this termination happened during a time where I was taking a break from posting because my mental health was already on unstable ground. so it all kind of came crashing in on me. I’m okay. my friends are here for me. I know that it will take me a minute to get back up from this, but I am not going anywhere.
THEY CAN’T KEEP THIS BAD FATTY DOWN!
🐋✊⛓️💥
If you’re reading this, please spread this post around so my people can find me. my ko-fi account still lives.
I hope that even though much of it has been lost, the footprint it left will live on. running that blog has changed my life in immeasurable ways. getting to interact and learn from you all brought me community, acceptance, and love. I cannot express my gratitude to everyone who has supported me, and who stood behind me when I became vocal about feed1sm. you mean the world to me. I refuse to be silenced. my only ask is that you please keep spreading and circulating the fat liberation flag.
so. I’m wiping my tears and trying to think of this as rebirth. wherever I go from here, I won’t have to worry about censorship. when I got the news that it was all gone, the first thing that came to mind was this scene from pixar’s up.
coming back from the depths of inactivity to express how fucking full of rage i am over this.
this wasn't just a blog! this was such an important and valuable corner of the internet that introduced and educated so many people (me being one of them) on the intersections between fat liberation and feed1sm. the fact that it was primarily a fat lib blog and not a k1nk one makes it all the more infuriating 🤬. haaa fuck this platform.
okokokok my fat thighs have finally ripped my favourite pair of jeans beyond repair, my vinted algorithm has been working so well in my favour, and the weather's getting warmer...
Not to continually harp on this point but the feedist community was the place I was introduced to fat lib, years before “body positivity” would even enter the mainstream. This community has been talking about the autonomy of fat people literally forever, because it’s a community of fat people. It’s so bizarre to act like feedists are universally a group of thin oppressors “fetishizing” the fat against their will.
Hey white people. Fat is not an ethnicity. You are an oppressed group who deserves so much better but fat is a body type anyone can have or develop. White fat people have no right to speak over black people and the trend has been common for decades even tho fat is not the new black, nor disability, nor transness when there are black peoples, native peoples, brown and asian peoples you're straight up the fuck ignoring.
This is a blanket post because I am talking about fat white people, a beautiful group irregardless who taught me alot about self love and autonomy but that is why I am reminding you what I reminded my dear friends growing up.
You are a real minority but you are white first. And it shows in your values from how you came up. It shows in critical lack of class solidarity. It shows in the privilege to not have to unlearn baseline insecurity, harassment behaviors, racism and misogyny.
This is no chastisement, just a reminder. If people like you taught me things, its my turn. The hillbillies I grew up with taught me that they were white first and fought for and with me because of that truth of privilege.
This is the class expectation I expect from black people and white people who follow me. One side is handling these expectations better and it hurts all of our growth.
