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Here is my two cents….
I absolutely despise modern pop country. Always have. Country died a long time ago. I love old, legit country music like Johnny Cash, Hank, Waylon, Reba, Alabama, country musicians like that.
Do I think Beyonce’ album is country? Nope. Sure don’t. Lainey Wilson is country. Jelly Roll is Country Rock. Not sure what Post Malone was doing in that bunch either.
Do I believe that the Grammies did this as an apology for the CMAs not recognizing Beyoncé last year, I CERTAINLY DO!
Do I think Sean Carter had something to do with her winning? Yup. Sure do. I don’t care for Carter, but he did what a good partner would do, he lodged a complaint with the Grammy organization, no quite the right way, but he did. These Grammies were apologies in my opinion. Do I agree with it? A resounding no.
The Grammies as an entity are so misguided and do not understand many music genres. It boils down to a popularity contest. Because if you look at the streaming platforms, you will see that Beyoncé did not have the most streams to deserve Best Country Album or Album of the Year. The most streamed was actually Taylor Swift’s Tortured Poets, with Billie Eilish’s Hit Me Hard and Soft followed by Chappell Roan. Birds of a Feather by Billie Eilish was the most streamed song of the year. If you go by numbers, Taylor should’ve won Album of the Year and Billie should’ve won Song of the Year. Therefore, the Grammies are nothing but a popularity contest. My pick for Album of the Year is Billie Eilish or Chappell Roan.Song of the Year should’ve gone to Billie Eilish. Record of the Year definitely went to the right person! For reasons we won’t talk about here. That diss track was incredible.
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How a Music Festival on Water Handles ADA
By ~ Kristyn Edmonds, Disabled Author & Photographer
It’s been a little over a week since I went on Shiprocked Cruise 2025. Coming home and getting sick was definitely not on my bingo card, but here we are. This was my second time going on Shiprocked, and overall, it was better this year compared to last. Shiprocked has actually been around since 2011, and I had been wanting to go for years.
My dream became a reality back in 2024 and for the most part, it was a good experience. We aren’t here to talk about 2024, even though one of my absolute favorite bands in the world was on last year, Dayseeker. This year we had more lesser-known bands, but I’m good with that. How else do you expect to be exposed to new bands? Then you had staples of the metal community like Nothing More, Hollywood Undead, Parkway Drive and even The Struts!
There are two main locations on the Carnival Magic where shows are done ~ the main deck on ten and the theater down on three. There are two other smaller locations where bands do play, the Ocean Plaza and the Aft Lounge. Let’s talk about how Shiprocked handles ADA and ADA Laws, and the occurrences, both positive and negative, that happened this year.
The sail away was a nightmare, so my friend and I missed the welcome, family photo and Hollywood Undead’s sail away performance. They allowed the regular cruisers to overcrowd the ADA sections, and it was very claustrophobic. They blocked entrances and exits with no regard to ADA cruisers safety. Being previously trained in how to handle these situations and how to deescalate, I knew that if it happened again, the ADA cruisers would speak up. And that is exactly what we did.
Tuesday night at Nothing More’s theater show, there was a debacle before the show. There was confusion and we were advocating for our group as a whole. While we were trying to deescalate and get the issues handled, a female from the regular cruiser line yelled out, “I’ve been waiting for over two hours, and you all are ****ing entitled!” Trust me when I say, there is nothing entitled about being disabled. If I could remove my disability from myself and give it to you, I’d gladly do it. There are always going to be people like her in a crowd, and you just have to learn to overlook it. But, with proper education on ADA, ADA laws and disabilities as a whole, people like that female wouldn’t say stuff like that. I did speak with staff the following day and brought things to their attention along with my cabinmate, who is also disabled. We gave them a lot of suggestions on how to handle it, deal with it, etc. moving forward.
One thing I have to give Ask 4 Entertainment (the company that runs Shiprocked), is they outsource a security company that comes with them to handle security/safety issues. This company is Shield, they are based out of Texas, and this was their second time on Shiprocked as security. We honestly do believe there was some miscommunication between Carnival, Shield and the Ask 4 staff the first few days, and all it took was several ADA cruisers to bring it to their attention so they could address the issues, fix them and keep us safe. I never once blamed Ask 4 for any of the ADA issues that happened.
I specifically told them that they have to leave security at the ADA sections for our safety and protection, as I previously stated, both on the deck and in the theater, regular cruisers were impeding into our sections, and security would come run them off and walk away. After they walked away, the regular cruisers would just move back to where they were. To me, that’s just a blatant disrespect to the ADA community. Again, I think it should be a requirement for all cruisers to know and understand ADA Law.
There’s a really cool place on level five that they convert into The Music Experience. The Music Experience is super cool. TME is located out of Jacksonville, Florida and is run by a really cool guy who we call Squiggy. TME is for cruisers to go in and play instruments, as well as having some Meet and Greets in the area. They had a lot more M&G in TME experience. I do believe there was a total of 13 M&G in TME, and I did seven of those. When I get out of my shell, I can be very extroverted and doing M&G helps me come out of my shell. If I had the time, I would’ve done every single M&G they had this year, but it was virtually impossible.
After the first few M&G in TME, the bumps and bruises were fixed, and the ADA crowd knew what to do. ADA forms on the left, regular on the right. I had become friendly with the Shield security guard in TME because of my frequent visits, so he learned my name and face. I had gone later in the week, pretty sure it was for the Ghostkid M&G. Being that I cannot stand for a period of time due to my disability, I grabbed a chair and moved it to the left to sit down in it. When I did, a lady in the regular line looks at me and goes, “wow.”
I smiled at her; “I’m ADA.”
“Well, I’ve been coming for nine years.”
“Good for you.”
When I tell you these cruisers that have been going for many, many years (some would call these people lifers), they have somewhat of “entitlement” syndrome. Mind you, I’m not being negative towards this lady, but it was just her delivery of her statement that rubbed me the wrong way. Me, being the way I am, I let it go, and we were friendly with one another. My friend that was going to the M&G with me showed up and stood beside me.
When it was time for the Ghostkid M&G to begin, the security guard came and looked at me.
“You ready?”
“Yes,” I said with a smile.
“Come on in, honey.”
The lady in the regular line, from behind me says, “Really?!”
I heard the security guard respond to her, “Really.”
Again, people need to educate and learn how ADA Laws work, how they apply at concerts, land festivals and festivals on a cruise ship. We aren’t asking for privileges that are not offered to regular people, all we are asking for is respect and inclusion. We have just as much of a right to be there as you do.
One thing I do love about the bigger M&G sessions is they’re done in one of the dining rooms and you just shift around the room meeting the bands and getting your photo taken with them. The ADA for these M&G are great as we know where to go sit and wait. Loyalty members go first with ADA cruisers following.
I did notice that the ADA cruisers crowd was exponentially larger this year compared to last year. That was one of the things we asked Ask 4 and Shield to do for us in the theater. They did not have enough seating for ADA, and we had to ask for one more row, so we weren’t sitting on top of one another. I honestly think they need to move the ADA section in the theater to somewhere else or completely block out that entire section for ADA, so the regular cruisers aren’t impeding on us as a whole. Some of them would walk up and block our sight from the stage, as there are several ADA cruisers that cannot stand at all. The old adage is, put yourself in the other person’s shoes. How would you like it if someone stood in front of you and you couldn’t see?
With the exception of the bumps and bruises the first two days, and the random regular cruisers complaining that the ADA crowd was getting special treatment, and we were entitled, overall Shiprocked was much better this year for us. I have to give a huge shout out to Peggy Meyer of Ask 4 Entertainment, as she is their employee that predominantly works with the ADA crowd. She listens, never judges and helps us with our issues. It’s people like Peggy that make dealing with regular cruisers who do not understand what it’s like to be disabled bearable.
I, personally, cannot handle land festivals due to my disabilities. Shiprocked makes it possible for me to enjoy a music festival on my own terms, and for that I’m grateful.
** Kristyn is an author and you can purchase Book One of her Dirty Little Fairy Tale series from Kindle, Book a Million and Barnes & Noble.
Life Update -
I had to stop by my favorite apothecary on the way home from work to pick up some ginger, honey and my vitamins. When they print your receipt it gives you a fortune. They read it out to you. Mine said “it is not necessary to show others you have changed, the change will be obvious.”
Earlier at work, one of my accountants looked at me and said, “looks like you’ve lost more weight.” It still blows my mind when people like her, who knows me but doesn’t know me well, say things like that. But Nadia notices me. She sees the real me.
I used to deal with bullying at my old job back in Mississippi. And I know it’s because I’m different. I don’t fit the normal mold of an independent, strong, southern female. Whatever misconceptions people may have about me is ok. Because in hindsight, anyone other than my inner circle, I don’t want to know your opinion of me. It’s none of my business. If you don’t like me, that’s fine. Go kick rocks somewhere else and leave me be. But ya know what, I LOVE ME! I love myself. The past eight months I have learned so much about myself and what I’m capable of, even with my disabilities. I’ve learned to truly advocate for myself and the people I love. I’ve learned to speak up for myself. I’ve learned to stand my ground, even when we disagree or don’t see eye to eye. I’ve accomplished a dream of mine by publishing my very first book. I’ve learned that I am good enough to be in that photography pit at concerts. I’ve had to let people go out of my life, even if it hurt to do so. In the same breath, I know who loves me and who will stay in my life regardless of my ups and downs. I am unique, but I AM ME. And I’m grateful to have found myself. This weight loss journey is hard, I won’t lie. But I’ve had to do on my own because my health insurance will not pay for the proper medication. I have to take baby steps when it comes to exercise due to my bum knee and messed up left forearm, but I manage. So, as I journey down to Miami on Sunday to jump on a Music Festival Cruise, I’m walking in a better person than I was last year. So to those of you who have stuck with me and by me, I thank you for your encouragement and love.
I’ve gotten to the point where I honestly don’t share my personal life too much on socials anymore. If you notice, unless there is a special event in my life, I’m pretty quiet these days. And I want to explain why…..
You see there are people who I like to call “social media keyboard warriors,” and they are some of the nastiest people in the world. All they want to do is straight up bully you if you don’t think like they do. I am now in a good headspace for myself. It took me to move to a different state to accomplish that, but I’m there. This is the happiest I’ve been in many years. And it’s because I finally said to myself that it was time to take care of me.
I know some folks don’t like me and that’s okay. There are folks that I don’t like, as well. And well, sometimes, personalities just clash. I don’t do drama. I won’t get caught up in anyone’s drama. You have to let people do what they’re going to do. Have you read the Let Them poem? I literally have Let Them tattooed on my arm as a reminder that I can only control myself and no one else.
And I have massive control issues, due to my personal mental health issues. Mental health as a whole is such a problem, especially here in the US. And mental health assistance should be readily available and free for everyone. (You don’t have to like my opinion, but that’s how I truly feel about it.)
Recently, I have found it atrocious that some people have ganged up on someone I know all over a lie that was spread about this person. Have you ever considered going to the original source and asking? Gossip is exactly what it is, GOSSIP! Unless someone puts proof in your face and it’s not someone’s ignorant opinion, it is gossip.
Y’all, I get on here sometimes and say #dobetter, #bebetter, #bekind, and I’m being legit serious when I say that. But when you have a known online bully lying about someone because they don’t understand the validity of the issue at hand, why do you believe them? Well, I have that answer, that is called HERD MENTALITY.
That can be said about politics, religion, and just random everyday interactions with people online. Just because someone says it, it doesn’t make it the truth. That is what you call an OPINION, and opinions are not truth. It may be your truth, and you can go on believing your truth. But when your OPINION is hurting an individual, then it becomes a problem. I will straight up exit stage left when I recognize there is a HERD MENTALITY going on with just an OPINION.
My advice is to go to the source and listen without judgment and not let someone’s opinion persuade you one way or the other. That is how HERD MENTALITY begins. And I see this quite often on social media. The way random people just start attacking someone because of gossip and opinions. And we all have opinions, whether you like or agree with them.
I’ve been bullied online, and seriously in all aspects, as adults, teenagers and even small children, we have to stop bullying people. You don’t know what people go through on a daily basis in their private everyday lives. I am one of the most loving, considerate people you’ll ever meet in your life until you piss me off. Once you piss me off, you go on my list, and I won’t have anything to do with you anymore due to my anxiety and depression. I’m not perfect, but I know who I am now. I make mistakes. We all do. No one is perfect. I am in several different online communities as Head Administrators in those communities and it’s because I know how to manage people. Heck, I’m a manager at my day-to-day job. We have to learn how to advocate for people that don’t know how to speak up for themselves. And that is something I can do when it’s needed. Don’t be a douche canoe. It’s that simple.
As usual, I am putting this warning out there ~ do NOT come on my page and say anything negative about me or anyone in the comment section below if anyone chooses to make a comment. I do NOT tolerate ignorance, bullying, etc. I do hold space for different opinions, even when they’re different than mine, because it is what we are supposed to do.
If you have not seen Nosferatu, what are you doing?!
I wish I could make people understand that a lot of people with disabilities use their phones as a legit ADA Assisted Device. Per ADA law, no person or business (including concert venues and musicians/bands) cannot not allow you to use your assisted device which is a phone to make adjustments to your disability devices. I’ll use myself as an example- I wear hearing aids. At concerts, I’m constantly having to make adjustments for my personal comfort level. Bands like Tool and Ghost are trying to say they will kick you out if you use your phone (if it’s not in a designated area), someone who is a diabetic wouldn’t make it to your precious designated area before they have to use their phone to give themselves insulin (which is life saving) and if they do it at their seat, you’re gonna kick them out?! I’ll be honest, I love Tool. Ghost - never liked them. But my point is, music venues, bands, musicians, do NOT have the right to tell a person they cannot use their phone when it comes to them being medically assisted devices!! This practice is unethical and against ADA Law.
You can see that I, along with a few others are trying to make people with no disabilities understand how unethical and illegal this practice is from a post on Sirius XM’s Facebook page. And trust me, I will die on this hill. One of these days, a disabled person will have an incident at a Ghost or Tool show, and the venue and band will get their arses sued into oblivion.
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Jimmy Kimmel better not apologize for this. Just because you don’t like it, doesn’t mean you get to be offended over. Yall stop…..just stop. Our society has literally gone off the preverbal deep end in people attacking people that aren’t like them, or they are exposed to something new and different. Having Knocked Loose and Poppy on JKL is a HUGE STEP FORWARD FOR THE METAL MUSIC COMMUNITY!
If you don’t like it, just don’t listen to it. Grow up, mature up, and learn to keep your mouth shut if you don’t like something or you don’t understand it. Go find someone to talk to so you can learn about something that may just confuse your brain. Do you hear me out here fussing or being offended over Country music, just because I don’t like 95% of it? I am a 100% Metalhead! You don’t have to like it. Matter of fact, you don’t have to understand it either. Let people like/love what they want without you interjecting yourself into their business.
And get ready for a post regarding Wicked cause it’s coming cause people are acting stupid about it as well.
Have an amazing day!!! Sending you love and joy.
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