things you do to show your benefactors affection?
Taking baths and washing hair, I think there’s nothing more relaxing than a calm hot bath with someone you love and it’s intimate. Every man I’ve ever known intimately has enjoyed having me wash his hair and it’s a simple task, shampoo, deep scrub and massage, condition, detangle, condition again, and then rinse. I usually go for the shoulder and chest massage as I let their hair deep condition and I speak softly so they end up resting against my breasts and relaxing and drifting off to sleep as I whisper little bits of nothing to them.
I plan out our day dates, I love to leave the house in the morning, go to breakfast, go to a museum, do an activity, go to lunch, do another activity, and then go to dinner. I love spending all day away and doing what I think is interesting and thrilling. Every man who I’ve ever planned dates for has loved my planning skills and the itinerary skills that I have and I’ve never felt like I’ve gone wrong with planning. I always adjust my plans when it comes to different cities and different men but I’m an organised woman and it’s easy for me to make plans and follow through with them whilst also making sure that everything goes smoothly and whoever I’m with is happy throughout our entire day out together.
I wake up early or arrive in the wee hours and make breakfast for them before they go to work. I forced most of my benefactors to invest in very quality kitchen items just so I have the opportunity to cook for them. I’ve been super into going to Whole Foods and stocking up on simple items just so I can pretend to be a domestic goddess but I’ve been having a nice time. It doesn’t take me a lot of time and it doesn’t take me much effort but it makes everyone happy and it’s sweet. I usually just use the waffle iron, fry things up on the skillet, and use the espresso machine if I decide not to make juice but I’ve never had a man tell me that he hasn’t enjoyed breakfast or ask for extra waffles.
I plan activities where we can both do new things, I can show the man of the moment something new, or the man of the moment can teach me something new. Almost all of my benefactors are in different specialisations with barely any overlap and so I have to stay on my toes and constantly find new activities that are thrilling and leave opportunities learning new things and for fun. I took one of my favourite benefactors out so that I could teach him how to ice skate, I took a benefactor out to a sushi making class, and I took another benefactor out so that he could fly me up in his passenger plane before we went to a dance class that neither of us knew anything about.
I facilitate a lot of long conversations between my benefactors and myself, I love being in a nice warm environment and being able to have a nice and long conversation over wine and by a warm fire. I do a lot of interior design and upgrades on their living spaces and so I’ve made space for comfort and taken away from some of the harshness of their homes. I love to talk to the people I choose to spend the vast majority of my time with and so having long conversations about the future and other things is relaxing to me, especially after a nice dinner. I call them Ligeia-Led conversations because I usually have to lead them but I love being the one to want to just sit and speak after a tiring day out.
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